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Girls talk with My Cousin, Turns to Answering her 3 Questions that she never asked me
Actually, this article was supposed to be published before but I refused to published a very serious topic. So right now I'm gonna answer the 3 Questions that my Cousin never asked me before. But before that I have a Story time if how she ask me those question that I will mention to this article *We are talking about some random things. I remember that it was my free time or vacation time in writing articles here so that I can make my brain to rest a little and I write a article about that you can click to read about that here. It supposed to ask in personal but I refused because I'm not the type of person that is very cheesy, or dramatic in personal because I am a cry baby. I can easily to cry in a sentimental situation because it's been how many years since we last talk to each other and now, we are in our 20s and we are now adult. I asked her, "Ano ang mga tanong na gusto mong itanong sakin ngayon na matanda na tayo?" (What questions do you want to ask me now that we are older?" And of course I don't like to ask me in personal so i told her to send me a Dm.* So yeah, Here are the questions that she want to ask and my Answers Let's start!
1.Would you rather date someone with good looks or with pleasing personality? After reading this question from her I was like,
Because I know what these question means it is because of my past and I did not expect this question from her but I will answer it. **My answer:** *Now that I am now at the serious years of my life. I will make a right and good decision because I am at the stage of when it comes to date someone i like to choose a man not only a boy. A man that I can be with in the rest of my life. I want a long -term relationship and not just a date. So, When i choose a man of course I would rather choose a man with a good pleasing personality because before, my ideal type was always based on their looks and bad boy type. I have a high standards you know and maybe because of that, that is the reason why I am unlucky to have a serious relationship. My relationship was always ends because of cheating lol. So now, I learned my lesson. But why choosing if maybe I can date someone with a Good pleasing personality and he is also a good looking too. Right?* *But when we talk about married life, I just want a simple but a happy life with my own family. I want to have a 1 boy and 1 Girl.*
2.How would you raise your Children (future children)? This question makes me in a deep thoughts you know. Because, right now I don't have plans or I am not sure if I will really like to get married and plans of having my own family. Because I am scared of entering a relationship again. But this questions makes me think the word 'What if?', what if I will get married and when I will be blessed of baby? How can I take care of my own children? And then here is **my answer:** *I will take care of my children in the future by doing all of my best. As of now that I am still young, I will do everything to find a decent job so that I can save a lot of money for our house because my house that I will build will not only for my mother but also for us because my plan when I will really get married is to be with my Mom in one house. If for other child, they will abandon their own mother for me, I don't like to be separated to my own mother and I hope that my Husband will understand and respect my decision in the future.* *Anyways, while I am still young I want to save a money for their future. Because I want them to study in the course and dreams that they wanted them to be. I don't like them to experience what I experience in the past like being not able to have a decent house to live because my Family is just poor. I want to give the things that they want, because I didn't experience to have the things that they want just like other kids and I will also want to raised them with a good manner. Sure, Being bad cannot be avoid because of some things that influenced them to do it but I will do my best to teach them what is good and bad, and I will bring them near to the lord.* *As for now, I can't promised that I will be a good and perfect Mother to my children in the future but I will do all my best just so I can raise them properly.*
3.What are the traits you want your children to have or What life lessons would you teach your children before at the age of 18? Well, as what I always mentioned to my Article before about me, I have a dark pasts. I am not a good daughter and I am not a good child so i want my children *To not become like me. I don't like them to be like me as a bad daughter and child. I want them to be my opposite and stay kind, have a manner and respect to elders, They will never disobey us as their parents. I want them to be a good Children.* *And as of for the life lessons before they will become 18 years old, I want to teach them* ***How to enjoy their life while they are still young but I don't like them to abused it.*** *I don't like them to walk in a wrong path I don't like them to be like me that I experience of regretting-regret that I experience being a rebel daughter, I experience drinking alcoholic drinks in a young age and that is not my plan in my life.* ***Don't hesitate to Choose and Speak what they want and like to become.*** *I want them to speak what they think and what they like, I want them to follow what they wanted to be because to me, I did not have a confidence before. I don't have a courage to speak and i always have a chain to my neck and I always follow what others want so I don't like them to experience that. If what they like and wants, I want them to speak to us and I will support them as their mother and parent.* **I also want them to learn how to saved their own money for their own future and make them realize how their future important is.** *I want them to learn how to be a independent when it comes to their future because we don't know when we will gone and died accidentally, what if we will leave them in a young age and unexpected time right? So I will teach them to focus to their goal, dreams, and future because I remember when my mom said that, "Wala kaming ibang maipapamana sainyo ng papa niyo kundi ang pag-aaral niyo lamang ng ate mo. Kaya mag aral kayo ng mabuti."* Talking about future is hard and I am still young to think and plan about it because I don't know if marrying someone is really in my lists in the future because I am scared of entering in a married life lol. But anyways, all of the answers that I said is true and honest and I don't know if I really answered it in good way or I am so very messy because my head is hurt like I drunk alot of alcohol and wake up with a hangover reason why I can't think a better topic for today lol. So anyways, I will just end my article here. Thamk you for spending your precious time reading my article! `Can you also answer those questions and share with me in the comment and or Tag me to your Article! Share your thoughts! 💚` **My Previous Articles:** **It's really like that when you get older** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/its-really-like-that-when-you-get-older-ededa27f ****Can I achieve the 2 Bch Goal at the end of the Month**** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/can-i-achieve-the-2-bch-goal-at-the-end-of-the-month-eb6ffef8 ****Random Psychological Facts about love and my Thoughts about them**** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/random-psychological-facts-about-love-and-my-thoughts-about-them-8b8eb703 ****The 2012-2016 year applications that Completed my High School Life**** https://read.cash/@ExpertWritter/the-2012-2016-year-applications-that-compeleted-my-high-school-life-09781015
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Another idea of a topic. Sure I would love too on my future post
Sure. You can sis. I hope you can share yours too id you really read my article 🥺💚
Andto b friend mo sa read? Magiging magaling ka na ina.. Sana nga ay magka jowa kna 🤣
Pinsan ate Jane. 😂 Pero nasagot ko na yan sakanya via pm. HAHAHA short cut ngalang sagot ko sakanya dito e may explanations pa. Tsaka sana nga maging mabuting ina dahil mahirap yan😂 aba'y grabe ka saken ate dapat nga kayo muna nj ate @Ruffa 😂
Nadamay oapa ako ee nananahimik ang kagandahan ko dito 🙉
🤣🤣 mauna muna si Ruffa 🤣
Luhhh, ikaw munaaaa wahaha. Ako'y di mag aasawa naku. Tama na ung fling fling lang 😎👻👻
Haha.. Fling fling tlga. Wala dn ako balak 🤣
Oi naku tama na iyan, masasaktan lamg tayo pag nagmahal tayo
Naol may Fling fling 😭 Pano yon ate ropa
Hahanap palang nga, si kwash sana kaso mo bokya mandin ☹️
Hanap ulit tayo ng bagoooo basta loyal parin si levi sayo
Ahahaha, wala na si Levi mo tinalikdan kana nga ahahaha
Sana all maganda ate ropa 😭💚 Opo ganda ganda mo ate enge na garud ng mapapanuod na anime 😂 ahaha
Wahahaha, High Rise Invasion pinapanood ko ngayom, ayaw ko sanang tigilan kasonang dami kong basahin taeng yan.
Anong rise invasion Ate? Anong genre nya
Ipapaubaya ko nlng yan kay Ruffa 🤣
Oo nga siya muna 😂 HAHAHAH
Syempre kailangan natin pagplanuhan future natin mahirap na baka mapunta tayo sa maling tao iiyak lang sa huli huhu. 1) Mas prefer ko simple lang pero maangas magdala.I would date a woman who has self- respect and to all the people around her. A Woman with a matured mind that can handle stress coz I'm sure raising a child is not that easy..(date palang pero may anak na haha)...someone who is honest not to break my trust again..and many more.. 2) I will raise them with the fear of God ofcourse..Teach them the basics of interacting to stangers and friends. and family.to treat them with respect no matter what. 3) Ofcourse I want them to have a begter life and not to rush up thinga just like the way I did ...To make their decisions consulting their guts ..of it is right or wrong ..I want them to do what is always right.. To enjoy life just like the way I'm doing now despite the ups and downs.
Maayos na maayos. Pwede kana mag asawa kuyang 😂 Hahaha charot and same talaga dito sa > I want them to have a better life and not to rush up things just like the way I did Ayoko din nilang madiliin lahat gusto ko muna nilang maranasan maghirap at magsumikap or pagsumikapan nila gusto nila. Yung di sila always aasa samin ba? Yung matuto din silang maging independent.
Tama tama..yun ung gusto ko sabihin pero ang haba na.haha.😅
Hmmm. Parang nagbabalak ka na maka jowa ah ayyiee. magiging mabuti Kang Ina pag dating ng araw. Yang mga nagpaoaramdam sayo kilatiain mo na. Haha
Hindi pa wala pako time jan sa jowa jowa na yan HAHAHAH
We are all for good looks but you are right, why not have both :D In regard to children, I would raise God-fearing kids and have a God-like characteristics.
We are all for good looks but you are right, why not have both :D > Yeah right, Why we should just choose only one if we can have date the person who have them both 😂
Mareee nakakapressure yung mga tanungan. 🤣 Pero yun nga, need talaga pagplanuhan yung future kasi dadating at dadating din yan. One good thing I like in your article is the second answer for the second question. About how you will raise your children. Ofcourse we would never know how unless we are already on the situation. And with the answer you have, it is really good that you chose to have and build house first so that they'll have a shelter to live on. I can say that being financially stable is one of the important thing we need to consider in building a family. 💗
Kaya nga eh buti nakayanan kong sagutin mga tanong nya jusko HAhahaha Eh basa may 20s pa naman ako pero mas maganda din kasi talaga mag plano ng maaga diba kesa late. Thankful din naman ako sa tanong nya kasi at least nalaman ko ulit gusto kong hawin in the future . > I can say that being financially stable is one of the important thing we need to consider in building a family. Tama ka dyan mare! Kesa yung asawa agad kahit wala pang kapera pera ayoko mahirapan mga anak ko 🤦🏻♀️
True. Kasi kung puro lang tayo go with the flow and do nothing for the future. Nakuuuuu, kakain tayong lahat ng kuko. Hahahahaha 🤣 Mas mabuti ng handa talaga. Para sigurado. Mahirap magsettle down talaga ng walang enough na savings at spare money. Tutal hindi din naman karera din. Kaya take your time, saving for something for the future. Tayo lang din makaka benefit don eh.
Mahirap magsettle down talaga ng walang enough na savings at spare money. > True mare gatas pa ngalang namamahalan na ako eh alam mo yung tig 100 pesos na nakapack? 🤦🏻♀️ Tapos anliit ng laman hays
"Wala kaming ibang maipapamana sainyo ng papa niyo kundi ang pag-aaral niyo lamang ng ate mo. Kaya mag aral kayo ng mabuti." Lagi sinasabi sakin ni nanay to, kaya kahit minsan dama kong huminto diko magawa para rin sakanila, para rin sa future ko.
Tama tama. ☺️ walang hihinto hanggat kaya pang lumaban. Maraming rason para tumigil abutin ang pangarap pero mas maraming rason para maging matatag.
Mars hindi ko alam ano isasagot ko sa mga questions but I think I choose with a pleasing personality, you're right mars we need a man not only a boy... 🥰 God bless you mars...🙏❤️
Ayan Mars. Mas maganda nga yung ganyan ang pipiliin natin pero bunos na din yung Ano mukha 😂 HAHAHAHA Thanks sa pagbisita mars god bless you too 🥲💚
Para sa'kin mars, (naki-mars na din😅) I'll go with the one with pleasing personality. Hindi naman importante yung good looks sa'kin basta ba't mapapasyal ko pa hahaha.. Charoot lang.. 😂 Hmm.Well, importante pa rin yung personality over the looks, hindi naman nakakain ang good looks eh, (Ba't ganito mga sinasabi ko?😅) Pero seryoso, dun ako sa may pleasing peronality. And tama ka, "we need a man, not only a boy". Ingat ka mars.. God bless you..😇❤️
Para sa'kin mars, (naki-mars na din😅) I'll go with the one with pleasing personality. Hindi naman importante yung good looks sa'kin basta ba't mapapasyal ko pa hahaha.. Charoot lang.. > bakit naman ganito ka mareng 😂😭 Hahahah natawa ako sa last 😂 Oo nga basta napapasyal paden natin diba. HAHAHAHA hindi naman nakakain ang good looks eh, (Ba't ganito mga sinasabi ko?😅) > HAHAHAHA 😂 Grabe tawang tawa ako dito nadumihan utak ko dahil sayo mareng 😂 pero sana nga nakakain 😂😭
Parang handang handa na magka jowa ah, or mister HAHAHAH Pero ako, I date to marry lol. So far wala pa naman akong nagustuhan as in gusto na (jowain) though I admit na na aatract talaga ako sa mga good-looking guy lalo na yung neat manamit, kahit hindi good looking basta malinis tignan HAHAHA I want my first to be my last charot 😭😭😭
Parang handang handa na magka jowa ah, or mister HAHAHAH > Hindi pa ako handa! 😂 *Kurot kita sa singit* ayoko muna parang awa mo na oh stop! 😂 charot Same tayo ghourl mas gusto ko yung lalaki na malinis din talaga tignan hindi yung kung ano anong kemerot sinusuog sa may neck na parang handang ikawal 😂
>Would you rather date someone with good looks or with pleasing personality? Hmmm it's an idea for a article indeed 😂 published ko bukas sagot ko 😂
Sige. bahala ka 😂 patag ako HAHAHA
Hayss, same here Sis. I got always been cheated and now I've totally closed myself for relationships. Pahinga muna ang Ate. Hahahaha
Oo pahinga muna dapat mahalin muna natin sarili natin 💚
hellow po, grabe ang matured niyo na pong mag isip at your age..parang handang-handa na po kayong magkajowa hehe pero ang nakakabilib po sa lahat ay yung sinabi mo na "ayaw mong madanasan sa iyong pamilya ang naranasan mo dati kaya you're saving and striving harder for your future children or family, although sabi mo nga wala pa din kayong boyfie hehe diyan palang ramdam ko na you will be a good mother and a wife hehe
hellow po, grabe ang matured niyo na pong mag isip at your age..parang handang-handa na po kayong magkajowa hehe > First of all, hello! Thank you for passing by 😍 are you new here? Well hindi naman ako as in matured talaga.. minsan lang pag seryoso talaga ang usapan. HAHA tsaka yes, ayoko talaga na maranasan nila yung mga bagay na naranasan ko kasi sobrang hirap talaga eh ayokong maranasan nila yung pag depression ko, yung hirap na hirap ako ganon pero di ko din maipapangako na i will be a good mother and wife to my husband and children.
Ang ituturo ko sa anak ko, yung sundin kung ano ang passion nila. Ayokong matulad siya sa akin na maraming what if's dahil hindi ko nalinang ang passion ko. Ituturo ko din sa kanya ang importansya ng pag-iipon.
Thank you for the comment. Same lang tayo sis. Ganyan din gusto kong ituro sa mga anak ko in the future.
"Wala kaming ibang maipapamana sainyo ng papa niyo kundi ang pag-aaral niyo. Laging sinasabi ng mga magulang ko and that is true 😍
Right ganyan talaga mga magulang natin eh lalo na talaga at mahirap ang buhay.
Gagawa nalang akong article for this, mukhang mejo seryos ito ah 🤔. Pero dun pa rin ako sa good looks. Sakin nalang ung good traits. Charot! Wahahaha.
HAHAHAHA gawa ka ate ropa tsaka naol pwede namang 2in1 nalang 😂
Hindi naman maiiwasang bumase sa looks. That's a fact. Para sakin, we should be inlove by the soul of the person and not by his physical attributes. Since what all matters is the personality, bonus na lang ang looks.
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