When I heard their problems...
I actually don't publish by this time of the day, but what can one do when one's phone battery is low and there's just no means to charge it?
Special apologies:
This goes to the lovely writers who commented on my previous article, I'm very sorry I haven't replied yet, I'll definitely do justice to them, once my phone is fully charged.
Also to those writers who publishes their articles at night and whose articles i constantly read, like, upvote and leave a comment, I'm really sorry, my battery was totally low.
Today's blog.
Feeding.
I once complained of having to eat two meals a day, but when I saw a family begging on the street just to have a meal, I retraced my steps and humbled myself.
Clothing.
I remember the moment I thought that my life is just so bad because I could count the clothes I had, but when I saw a family that wore rags, I retraced my steps and humbled myself.
Transportation.
Those days when I envied those who had cars, I rebuked my parents for not working enough; so hard that it might have earned them a car, but when I saw the feet of a little boy all soiled and almost peeling off due to the hours of walk he had under the sun, I retraced my steps and humbled myself.
Marriage.
I was still single at the age of 35, I felt God wasn't doing enough, my mates were already married and here I was; fighting for a man to look my way, but when I saw a bride who lost her husband few weeks into their marriage, I retraced my steps and humbled myself.
Childlessness.
When I finally got married at the age of 37, it was hard to conceive, two years into the marriage, yet no issue, I was clouded with worries and anxiety, I questioned my faith, but when I saw a married woman whose faith was unwavering after 18years of marriage without children, I retraced my steps and humbled myself.
Joblessness.
I complained so much, when I had no job to fend for myself, the one I had wasn't paying enough, yet my mates were all abroad, but when I saw a lady of my age bracket, hawking under the scorching sun, with so much smiles on her face, I retraced myself and humbled myself.
Child birth and child death.
I gave birth but lost my child when my child was just 2weeks old, I cried and stopped believing, but when I heard of a woman who lost her child and lost her life during the process of giving birth, I retraced my steps and I humbled myself.
Shelter.
I complained of living in a house that's not big enough, I was ashamed of where I stayed, I felt so bad because I stayed in a room and shared the toilet and bathroom with other tenants, but when I saw a family sleeping under the bridge, I retraced my steps and humbled myself.
Accident.
There was a fire outbreak in the house where I lived, I lost all my properties but still had my life and that of my family, I couldn't get myself, I cried and lamented, I felt like it was all over for me, but when I saw a newly wedded couple who were also victims of the fire outbreak; dead and burnt beyond recognition, I retraced my steps and humbled myself.
And those days I'll cry to sleep, telling God; I was tired of life, the suffering was too much, but when I saw the dead; one who was way younger than I was, decayed and smelling, I realized: "I have my life to be thankful for."
I didn't have food to eat for the whole day, I got lost and habored hatred towards everyone who came by, but when I saw a person struggling to feed and poo, eating through a pipe, I retraced my steps and humbled myself.
This made me remember, the song we sang when I was smaller:
Some have food, but cannot eat.
Some can eat, but have no food.
We have food and we can eat.
Glory be to thee oh Lord.
Truly they say:
One would think one's problem is actually big until one hears the kind of problems other people are facing.
When I heard their problems, I realized mine was as tiny as a mustard seed; compared to theirs.
When I heard their problems, I realized my life was enough to be thankful for.
When I heard their problems, I cried and wept cause I realized I've always been an ingrate.
When I heard their problems, in my sober heart and with my weeping eyes, I knelt down and remembered all the good things that exceeded the bad things in my life.
When I heard their problems....oh when I heard it all...I raised my hands to the sky, begging God to forgive my unbelief, I became grateful for all I had.
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The problem of late age of marriage is we attempt 30 years old for example and we have 3 years then after then 3 years so from 19 to 21 then from 22 to 25 years. After these years there is after master diploma getting doctorate then from 26 to 27 years and after at 28 years you have to search for work and work 2 years to prepare some money. That's 30 years old then after this, you have some cash you start digging for a husband means you will get married at 29 years or 30 years or 31 years old.