After a long time..
greetings to all of you! I hope all of you are doing well must be hale and hearty.
I have been absent from read. cash for a long time. I had missed its writers, I missed my writings as well. hahahaha I hope you also missed me hhahahaha
let me say thanks to my sponsors before proceeding. @Ellawrites and @Auroravioletthese are precious gems for me. their presence in my sponsor block encourages me to write more. thank you soo much both of you.
why I was absent?
I had already mentioned in one article that my phone is not good. you can say that it was on ventilator hahahaah. Sometimes it would not charge, sometimes its battery would be damaged and sometimes its jeck would be damaged.
every month i had to spend a lot of money on that mobile phone. almost 2 weeks ago. i was using readcash and my mobile phone suddenly switched off. i tried my best to make it functional but all in vain.
i gave it to my younger brother to give it to an engineer who can fix it. my phone was in the shop for 4 days. i was eagerly waiting for my phone but in the end, my brother came up with this news your phone is no more. hehehehehe i was quite upset coz i was attached to it. anyway, i request my brother to bring a new cell phone for me.
2 days ago he brought a new and good one for me. its HUAWEI and its camera is far better than my previous phone.
he ask me to have ice cream in return from my side as i was happy so i promised and eat them ice cream.
it is the month of June and here in my country June and July are the peak months of the summer season. it was too hot a few days ago so it was predicted soon we will run out of water in our Dams but Allah is always merciful and now it has been raining for 3 days. the weather becomes quite pleasant.
i was too happy when i was opening my read cash again after many days. but i became sad after watching it that today's 1BCH is 122USD ahhhhhh it was a time when i started 1BCH was about 350+ USD and today's decline.... can't say any more just can hope for the best.
sorry for my absence. i have missed a lot of articles from my favorite writers. as i have fixed my problem with my phone from now I will be here with punctuality.
take care of yourself.
all pictures are taken and edited by myself.
They Employed a Ghost....
**hello, my dear readers! I hope all of you are doing well. But after reading my today's article you will not be good anymore hahaha hahaha. Just kidding! May God protect us and bless us with a healthy life.**
Let's start today's blog!
We used to sit with our mom and dad daily for 3 or 4 hours coz I and my younger brother are students so we are not at home at day time and my elder brother goes on the job he is also not at home for the whole day.so when we all come back home we used to sit together and share many things.
Today my brother shared a haunted thing with us. I was just laughing at him that he is trying to make us fool with a story. But he scolded me are you taking it as a joke I am not telling a story it's truly happening you can check it on YouTube or Google.
Immediately I went to youtube then I went to google I was amazed he was telling us true. So I decided to share it with you. So! Let's start that story.
There is a village in India named Gurgaon. I am aware of its name just because most Indian standup comedians use the name of this village.
In Gurgaon, there is a call center ( firstly I was not revealing its name but when I saw it is not confidential Every one knows about it I have decided to write it) named saffron BPO. It is a famous call center due to unusual happenings in it.
A girl named Rossy was employed at this call center for almost one and half years. She was too intelligent. She was punctual in her work. She was delegated and sincere in her work. Everyone always praised her for her work and capabilities and everyone wants to talk to her and wanted to become her friend. As she was also jovial nature so she had many friends. She always got an employee of the month award. In short, she was a full package in herself.
As many companies offer transport to their employees. The saffron call center also does. Rossy and her four colleagues went in the same cab. The driver dropped all of them at their stops.
Once they were about to leave the office an inbound call came to Rossy's phone set. She picked it. Usually, this call takes 15 minutes but Rossy had been dealing with that call for more than one hour. They were getting late for home so the one colleague transferred that call to herself so that she can end it. But guess what happened? When her colleague talk to the caller there was no one on call. The call was declined an hour ago. All colleagues were surprised if the call was declined than with whom Rossy was taking.
Anyway! They didn't ask anything from Rossy but they were feeling the change in rossy she didn't talk to them on the way. She silently stepped out of the cab at her stop and went away.
The next day she didn't come. Days were turned into weeks and weeks into months. When the company felt she is punctual to her work and now she had been absent for a month company asked her colleagues to go to her home.
And colleagues were also missing their friend so they decided to go her home. When they went to her stop and searched for her. None knew about Rossy. Everyone was saying we have not seen this girl here ever. There is no girl named Rossy.
Rossy's friends were depressed about where she had gone. They were searching for her permanent address finally they found it. They were too happy that they would meet their friend after a long time.
They were so excited and were expecting when they will ring the bell of Rossy's house. She will open the door and they will immediately hug her.
When they ring the bell of Rossy's house. The door was opened by her father and mother. Roosy's friends told them that they are Roosy's friends and colleagues as well.
Her parents seated them and asked them for 4 years no one came to ask about Rossy you are the first one. How had you come up here? They said uncle Roosy is our good friend and she is an employee of our company but she is not coming for a month. Where is she why is she not coming to work. Rossy's parents were looking at each other mysteriously. And then said to Roosy's friends what are you saying and then pointed to the wall. Where Rossy's picture was hanging on the wall with flowers.
All their friends suddenly become sad and ask how she died and when. Her parents replied she died 4 years ago. How can she work with you for one and a half years?
All my friends got scared. But Rossy's parents told them whole about her death.
You will be amazed to know that after some days. Rossy's all friends died one by one for unknown reasons.
This case became a mysterious case. I don't know what is behind the scene. But this story is talked about everyone.
These BPO is famous for its paranormal happenings. When people searched for a reason for this. They had come to know that the place where this BPO is built was a graveyard. And this call canter is built over it.
**Closing thought**:
We can not jump to any conclusion on this incident coz we have seen many times that one company uses these tactics to defame its opponent. After Rossy, her four friends or cab mates also died. No one can tell the reason. But this issue became so popular that an Indian artist Vivek obroy is making a film on this incident. With the name Rosie the saffron chapter. You may check it on Google.
**Disclaimer:** you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you.i have listed this story but narrated it in my own words. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.
Lead image is from Google.
My question to all of you. Guys if you find someday that your colleague or your class mate or friend was ghost what will be your reaction or situation. Do lemme know it.
Different cities are famous for....
As we all know it is the start of the new month.happy June to all of you. I have been reading articles since morning all were about last month's achievements. I want to write hehe but I have nothing to write. I don’t know what is wrong with my account. It has been the 6th article @TheRandomRewarder is not visiting me. I have read again and again his directions and instructions about articles than did catharsis of my articles I haven’t found anything wrong in my articles. I am publishing my articles with continuity. I wish I could have any way to ask Rusty what is wrong with my articles so I can avoid that mistake again.
Anyway! Despite being not visited by Rusty I am continually writing coz I love to write.
As in different countries, different cities are famous for different places. Similarly, different cities of Pakistan are famous for different things. If you would visit Pakistan in the future it will be helpful for you.
**Karachi is famous for** the **tomb of QUAID – E – AZAM:**
It is the final resting place of Muhammad Ali Jinnah. He is our founder. He was the person who struggle for Pakistan. Today if we are breathing in a separate country just because of him. He had a lot of sacrifices for our country. the tomb was designed by Indian architect Yahya marchent and was completed in 1970 and was inaugurated on 18 January 1971. everyone who visits Karachi must go to Quaid-e-Azam's tomb.
**Lahore is famous for** the **Badshahi mosque and Minar-e-Pakistan:**
Badshahi Mosque is well known for **the carved marble and elaborate plasterwork that is carved throughout the mosque's interior**.it was constructed by the sixth Mughal emperor Aurangzeb Alam girl. And it was the largest mosque in the world from 1673 to 1986. Mughals are known for their love for architecture and this mosque is evidence of this.
Minar-e-Pakistan has a historical background in the independence moment of Pakistan.it is the place where on the 23rdarch 1940 Pakistan resolution was made and after 7 years Pakistan became an independent state.
**Islamabad is famous for** the **Faisal mosque:**
Islamabad the capital city of Pakistan has many attractions in it. It has a Pakistan monument. It has the Lok Virsa museum. Jasmine Garden, and many government buildings. But whenever anyone comes to Islamabad firstly go to visit Faisal Mosque. One interesting thing is that the main branch of our university (in which I study is the International Islamic University) is located in the basement of the Faisalmosque.it is the national mosque of Pakistan. it was designed by Turkish architect Vedat Dalokay. and named after the late King Faisal bin Abdul-Aziz of Saudi Arabia, who supported and financed the project. http://mosque.it/
****Multan is famous for tombs or shrines:****
Multan is called the land of saints because there are many shrines. the shrine of shah Yusuf Gardezi, shah shams sabzwari Tabriz,tomb shah rukn-e-Alam,bibi pak daman, and many more. Lemme tell you who are saints. When someone realizes that this world is mortal we have to leave it one day and that will be the day of judgment and we will be asked by our creator how had we spent life on earth. Either we remembered the creator or we forgot. If we forget that we are created for the worship of God we will be punished in eternal life ( life hereafter). This would cause Goosebumps. Those who realize that this world is fake and only for short time. they started just praying to God and they go in-depth about themselves. They become free from the greed of any worldly possession. they are called saints.
**Disclaimer:** you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.
All images are from google.
Wedding Ceremony....
Hey readers, as you know I have started the Pakistan series and I mentioned yesterday that I am going to tell you about marriage ceremonies in Pakistan in my next article. so here it is.
If we follow completely our religion e have only two events in marriage NIKKAH and WLIMA. But as time has passed we develop some new things or adopted some new rituals in our country.
Now we have the following events in our marriage ceremonies.
NIKAH
MEHNDI
BARAT
WALIMA
**Nikkah:** This is the most important event of our marriage. It would not be wrong to say that this is the most sacred event of our marriages. as There are different religious leaders in different religions In Christianity there are Fathers, in Hinduism there are Pandits, and in our religion, there are Maulana Sahabs who perform Nikkah rites. The beauty of this is that in it, the consent of the girl and the boy is known in front of everyone. The marriage is consummated only when the boy and the girl say three times that it is accepted. lemme write it what these words are called in our language “Qabool hai, Qabool hai, Qabool hai” heheheheeh. I think this is the most beautiful time in one’s life. After Nikkah, a boy and a girl become mahrams of each other, and fulfilling one's desires becomes a legitimate relationship.
Mostly boys and girls both wear white dresses on their nikkah. It was 30th May 2021 when we went to our village for my brothers Nikkah.
Mehndi: The dholak (drum) is placed several nights before the mehndi and the wedding house slowly begins to gather guests. Every night the women gather and play the dholak (drum). Sing different songs.
Finally on the day of mehndi home is decorated with lights and yellow flowers. The function of henna is for pure women. More women enjoy this day. dressed beautifully, do make-up, make henna platters, make ready boy and girl. The groom's friends make him ready and the bride's friends make her ready for the event. Then the two are seated together and the ritual of henna is performed. there must be a bowl of oil, a bowl of henna, and a box of sweets in front of the bride and groom. Everyone came to them. They put some oil on their heads, put henna in their hands, feed them sweets and give them money.
4 June 2021 was my brother’s mehndi night. Then all enjoy by playing dhol singing songs, dancing, and great firework. mostly everyone at this event wears green and yellow color. I wore green lehnga at my brother’s mehndi.
Barat: on the day of the Barat groom’s family and friends go to the bride's home to get the bride to their home.
This is a very difficult day for the bride and her family. The bride's family welcomes the groom's family and guests give them good food. Different rituals are performed. The bride's sisters receive money from the groom for each ritual, such as doodh puli( glass of milk given to the groom by the bride's sisters), shoe hiding, etc.
After all this, the bride is bid farewell by her family with moist eyes and prayers. The bride and groom's room is beautifully decorated in the groom's house. I think there is no need to write after it hahahahaha.
Walima (reception): The next morning the last event of the wedding is the event of Walima. Just as the Mehndi event is for women, so is the Walima event for men. On this day, men have a lot of responsibility. This is the Sunnah of our Prophet(PBUH). On this day all the guests are fed good food. And with that, the marriage ends. 6 June 2021 was my brother's reception Day.
Hahahaha, lemme share a funny thing that happened with me at my brother’s walima. I and my fiancé decided to wear the same color at walima and we chose the grey color. When I was getting ready for the parlor I came out of the room and my cousin was holding a cup of tea in his hand he hit me and a cup of tea overturned on me and my dress ahhh. I can’t tell you. But my mom immediately washes it and give it to me to wear. When I reached the parlor the makeup artist asked me girl look at your trouser.it is torn ahhh when I look down I started crying what is this. my uncle offered me to buy a new dress but I didn’t find a grey dress at the moment it was only two hours left for the event and I made a commitment with my fiancé to wear grey. Anyway, my uncle and aunt arranged a new pant for me it was not looking good but I am stubborn once I said I have to wear this dress I will. Hehehehe lemme share our picture. http://trouser.it/
Pakistan series...
few days ago I have commented under Filipino writer @Aiah_05 . He had published his article in Filipino language but as I like his writing so I always read his articles I complain him please try to write in English coz I can’t read it. He said ohh sorry I was in a hurry that’s why I have published it in my native language. And he asked are you not Filipino? I said no . he asked: may I ask where are you from? I said sure! I am from Pakistan he said: Pakistan means you speak Pakissssss…….. I added we speak Urdu in our country. Today he commented on my article and we had again discussion related to knowledge of my country.
Then I become curious to know about his country I ask him about education in the philippine. At the comment, a think clicked my mind that I should write a series on my country so that people could know more about Pakistan.
So, I have decided to write short series on Pakistan. I will write about Pakistan’s provinces, weather, culture, historical places, and northern areas of Pakistan which are famous for their beauty.
In today's blog let’s have a look at Pakistan's history. Pakistan was part of India. This means that present-day India and Pakistan together made the subcontinent. but in 1947 Pakistan and India became separate sovereign states. the subcontinent had been also under English rule for a long time.
That’s why today when we look at Pakistan's government system it is more or less like the USA. Parliamentary system and a bicameral parliament.
**Provinces:** Pakistan has four provinces.Balochistan, Punjab, Khyber pakhtun khua, Sindh plus the federal city of Islamabad. And states like Azad Kashmir and Gilgit Baltistan.
**Languages:** Pakistan has a national language Urdu. And its official language is English although our founder has passed a law to enforce Urdu as an official language as well it is not implemented. moreover different provinces have different languages. Like Sindhi, Punjabi, Balochi, Pashto, Siraiki, Hindko, etc.
**education system:** Pakistan's education system is divided into six levels. preschool( from age 3 to 5), primary school( from grade one to grade 5), middle( grade 6 to grade 8), high school( grade 9 and 10), intermediate in college( grade 11 and 12), after this universities offers undergraduate and graduate degrees. like BS, MS or MPhil, and Ph.D.
**Political system:** I don’t like it hahaha. Anyway, different parties in our country fight for chair hahaha means for government. if I speak the truth there is no political stability that’s why our country is surviving through the low economical condition. if one party is corrupt do everything for money so the other one does it for power. No one thinks or takes care of the public and the country. I don’t like it.
I will write more over it but I will choose only entertaining topics don’t worry you will never get bored haha haha. I will publish the next Inshallah about the marriage ceremony in Pakistan with my brother's marriage pictures. Today they have completed one year of their happy marriage. May ALLAH bless them with cute babies hehe hehe.
**Disclaimer:** you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.
All images are from google. except my brother’s.
Drop Drop life...
Hello, my dear readers. How are you doing?
Yesterday I have read two articles about children's day. I haven’t any idea before that there is an international day for children. Hahahahha looks how informative and beneficial this platform is. After reading about that I went to Mr. Google and ask him about children's day but he told me it’s 20 November allocated to celebrate as a universal day for children.
I got surprised I searched it four or five times. I questioned myself if it is 20 November then why read cash writers published their article on 27 May. Then after some research, I came up with the reason. 27 May is celebrated as children's day in Nigeria. I think aaa these were Nigerian writers who wrote about their national children's day.
I was really happy to read it that since 1964 they are celebrating this day. They give their children a day off. The day draws attention and makes children and everyone aware of the problems they face. I don’t think so in my country we celebrate children's day. While I think our country is in dire need of it. We have many problems related to children in our country. No doubt our government, as well as social workers, work hard for awareness of children's problems.
Cyberbullying
Child labor
Child abuse
Negligence
**Cyberbullying:** is related to social media majorly. Today we have witnessed a large number of children using social media abruptly. We don’t keep checks and balances over them. Few black sheep of social media start talking to them taking their secrets and start blackmailing and bullying children. But I appreciate my country taking a step over it. Digital Rights Foundation’s Cyber Harassment Helpline is Pakistan’s first dedicated, toll-free Helpline for victims of online harassment and violence. It is a great initiative.
**Child labor:**
This is the thing that brings tears to my eyes. My heart breaks when I see innocent children working hard in a workshop. I have seen many brutal women who appoint a girl to take care of their child. The girls are taking care of their mistress's children at the age when they should play with dolls. I have seen innocent kids on signals aaaahhh it's hurting. here in my country we have a child protection bureau but not working well.
**Child abuse:** This is a growing problem in our society.it can be physical violence or sexual harassment. most of the cases reported in the last few years are about sexual abuse. I had seen that girls were assaulted sexually but now boy kids are also not safe they are also assaulted. We have a famous case of a village of Qasoor. In this village, almost every kid was assaulted sexually but no one spoke about it. I am not saying that it only happens in my country, not at all we have witnessed it internationally. http://society.it/
**Negligence**: as we know this is a busy era, everyone is busy earning bread and butter for their children but In this race, we forget our children. While our child needs our attention more than money. our child develops many social diseases while facing negligence. We should give our children proper time.
**Closing thoughts:**
Except for international child day, we should have national children's day like Nigeria. On which we can spread awareness about problems children have been facing. These children are our next generation if they will grow up with these kinds of problems how can our world grow. One thing I forgot to mention is children surviving through thalassemia it is too painful. I have a kid in my family who is suffering from it. We should donate blood for them coz their breathing is dependent upon blood and many poor families lost their children coz they have no money to buy blood for their children. Do good for others God will do good for you.
**Disclaimer:** you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.
All images are from google.
My First Withdrawl.
Hey dear readers, subscribers, commentators, sponsors, and upvoters. I hope all of you are safe and sound, hale and hearty. It has been almost the third day I was not posting an article to read.cash. I have not visited many articles sorry for it my incredible gems.
My final exams are just to start on the 31st of May but I have not prepared for my final exams this time. During the last two weeks, all teachers covered the whole syllabus and now threw the ball in our court. Now it's our duty and responsibility how we do prepare for our exams. But it's too tough I swear I am just sick of all this. All this is getting into my nerves.
Yesterday I got up at 9:00 for university and after getting up I firstly check my WhatsApp hehehe. But I had bad news after checking WhatsApp it was that my friend was not coming to university coz she has to travel for 3 to 4 hours. So, she texted Khanum I am not coming today coz of the hot weather. I texted her a lot you have to come but she was offline it was her message of last light.
Anyway, I got up and got ready for university. It was the last presentation of this semester I had already given this presentation so I had nothing to do in class except to listen to girls who were presenting but it was difficult for me hahahaha. I started to use read.cash. then I clicked a photo heheheh lemme share it here.
I was looking out of the window there was a passing-out batch who was wearing a convocation costume. I started thinking that when this day will come in my life. When I will be dressed up in his costume. I noticed a change in weather at the moment it was becoming pleasant. I called my friend and complaint to her that looking at the weather why didn’t you come. Well, after our class we have decided to stay at university till evening. We were wandering in university to enjoy the weather.i have clicked some snaps of university lemme share it with you. I hope you will like it.
But the real happiness of the day as I have withdrawn my first earning of read.cash . it was $20 and Pakistani 4000 rupees.I was too happy to have an amount in my hand. I know it was not much amount but it was happiness for me. I have decided to give it to my father coz I was observing it that my father lost his glasses and he was concerned more for our fee but not considering his glasses. So, I have decided to buy glasses for him.
After coming back home I go to my father and asked for a number of her glasses but he didn’t tell me I insisted too much but he didn’t tell me.
Anyway, let me tell you about my 4 weeks journey at read.cash . I started in mid of April. I have made an account with the name of @Khanum.... . my father calls me Khanum that’s why I have chosen this name Khanum. I had started my journey on the same day my three friends also introduced themselves on read.cash. In short, we have created it all together. One of them got $23 at one article other got $5 at the first article but @TheRandomRewarer did not visit me for the day I got upset. That is why he is not visiting me but I was happy for my friends after publishing 5 or 6 articles I came to know that my account got spammed without any warning. I cried too much but I gathered up courage and started again with a new account @Tanain143. Now I am here in front of you. But still a problem of no visit of rusty. Anyway hope for the best.
As my father denied buying glasses. So, I and my elder brother decided to have a family party today. So we decided to make a BBQ.
I have enjoyed a lot today with my family a special dinner from my side for the first time in my life just coz of read.cash. I really appreciate this platform. So, I ended up my day with ice cream.
I will try my best to maintain consistency in publishing articles. But due to my papers If I unable to publish paradon me.
**All pictures are taken by myself.**
Regards : @Tanain143
Fifth Generation War.....Part 2
As I have written yesterday first part of the fifth-generation war. now I am going to publish its second and final part.
but I am used coz it's my third article but @TheRandomRewarder is not visiting my articles. I had an account that was spammed so whenever @TheRandomRewarder does not visit my article I become afraid that maybe I got spammed again. @TheRandomRewarder 's visit motivates me to right on daily basis. but i am feeling low.
let's start today's article with a heavy heart.
**Fourth-generation war: (Guerilla war)**
The word fourth-generation war was also used by William in his article. It is the name given to the tactics and tactics used for war in the last few decades. The most dangerous war changes in the world are also in this era.
All the dangerous war changes in the world have taken place in this era. This was the era when it became difficult to differentiate between peace and war.
In this generation, any country, instead of fighting its soldiers, starts providing political and economic aid to the rebels of that country and uses them against their own country. The situation in the enemy country is aggravated by propaganda and guerrilla warfare.
Non-state actors are introduced during this generation of warfare. sham, Libia, Afghanistan, and Iraq wars can be said as the wars of the fourth generation.
**Fifth-generation war :**
The term was first used by Robert Steele in 2003. It is the most modern form of war and is called the war of ideas. This is a dangerous time of war in which the victim of war does not even know that he is in a state of war. And also does not know whether he is losing or winning. For whom and why he is fighting.
In this generation of warfare, mainly through misinformation, people are brainwashed and anarchy is created in society. This task has become easier with the help of social media. The cyber attacks that take place in today's world fall into this category.
This is the most dangerous form of war that has been made more dangerous by emerging technologies such as artificial intelligence. It is also called cyberwar.
Some time ago, the cyberwar between China and India was a war of the fifth generation.
**Closing thoughts:**
We all want peace in the world but where there are people with different ideologies living altogether it's impossible to maintain peace. Even though when we look at the system of one home there also be differences among even siblings' points of view and ideologies. so, in the world, there must be ideological differences. But we should sort out every problem on table talk and negotiation. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words. If anyone gets hurt by my words I apologize for it. We are the new generation we should maintain peace in the world by respecting everyone’s point of view. Don’t quarrel with anyone on social media. Respect everyone’s point of view and analysis.
i hope you have taken useful information from this article. ned your support to write more. thank you soo much.
regards:
Tanain143
Fifth-generation warfare...( Part 1)
helo read.cash! how are you?
last Wednesday was our last day of the week at university and it was presentation day we had two classes on Wednesday for 6 hours and we have to give presentations on both subjects. I gave a presentation on Islamiat but I was free in mass communication class coz we all friends were done with it. so we were enjoying all the time in class we were sitting at the back of our teacher he couldn't see us. hahahaha we were doing mischiefs. suddenly my friend hurt me and I left that place and went to the front row. coz I had nothing to do at that moment so I started listening to the girl's presentation. heheheheh it was about fifth-generation warfare.
Every day we hear the word fifth generation war on social media. And there is always debate about that. Wars are divided into different generations based on the way they are fought and the weapons used in them.
Human history is full of wars, in the beginning, these wars were fought with swords. then weapons upgraded and now it's nuclear time. the concept of generations of war was given by William Lind in 1980. The credit for classifying wars is given to him. He divided warfares into 4 generations after the treaty of Westphalia.
The Treaty of Westphalia was a treaty between Catholics and protestants in 1648. It was signed after 30 years of war.
**First-generation war: (War of Line and Column)**
Rank was used to divide the soldiers into units during this period. Classification rules and rules of organized fighting were made. Fighting in lines and columns was one of the characteristics of this generation. These battles were fought face to face on the battlefield. Horses, swords, and arrows were used as weapons. In these wars, the commander himself was present on the battlefield. Success in these wars depended on manpower. napoleon's war falls under the first-generation warfare. the American war of independence was fought against the British empire. Mexico's war of independence fought against Spain is included in the first-generation war.
**Second generation war: ( trench war)**
With the advancement of technology swords, were replaced by early modern weapons. such as rifles, machine guns, and canons. In second-generation warfare, the area of the battlefield was increased. Now the war was not fought face to face.
The main difference between the first-generation war and the second-generation war was technology because, in the Second World War, radio communication made the war more organized. the factor of manpower was replaced by new weapons.
At the end of the 19th century, wars of this type began to be fought. World War I is considered part of the Second Generation War. The American Civil War ( 1861 – 1865) was fought at the same time.
**Third generation war: (Maneuver Warfare)**
During this period, technology improved further and so did enemy attacks. There was also the element of surprise. Fighter jets, submarines, and tanks began to be used. This era is used to describe the aggression of the war. In the wars of this era, a fast-moving group of invaders, aided by armored straws, suddenly attacks the enemy. These tactics were introduced by the Germans in the First World War.
When they took the control of Belgium, France, and many more in just six weeks. Pak- Indian war also falls under this generation.
**Disclaimer: you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you.it was all my thoughts based on long research.it was a lengthy article so I split it into two parts. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.**
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Effective Communication.....
Hey my reader.....how are you?
**Let's learn how to communicate effectively!**
I hope you will enjoy it.
**Try to learn not to remember:**
We used to cram words from our childhood. We have learned to memorize that 2+2 is equal to four. Nobody asks us to find why 2+2 is not 5. do cramming from our childhood weakens our communication skills coz if any person asks us about things which we haven’t memorized we become dumb. we become confused that what should we answer. On the other hand, if we start only learning by books from our daily experiences we will get more confidence while talking to others. We will have more analyzing power. It will make your communication more strong and more effective.
**Speak logically and avoid** dominating**:**
Speaking logically means when you are in a serious conversation with a person don’t talk odd things. For example, your friend is saying that once we start our education we must try to complete it with distinctions. And at the moment you rely on oh my goodness look there is a sale on a famous brand. It illogical response. It means you have bad communication skills you have to polish them by listening more attentively. One of the important things is to void dominating any conversation. It is to be said that a good communicator or good learner speaks less and listens more. but some people have the nature to talk all the time no matter whether he is speaking logically or not he used to speak only. Don’t try to dominate during conversation sometimes listen to the other person give your opinion on it rather than when your partner sayss I want to buy some dresses you stop him and start telling your stories. If you do this you have to improve your communication skills.
**Good communication means not to convince but share:**
We have often seen that everyone is trying to convince others but if we talk about effective communication we have the guts to share out thoughts in such a nice way that others will automatically be convinced not by forcing our opinion on them. For example, salesmen should have enough communication skills so that they can deal with customers. Sometimes when we go to buy any shoes or dress we have noted that they don’t ask us please buy this. You have to buy it. I have to answer my matter about today's sale. no! not at all. They always share their ideas .they pass compliments to us they share their thoughts they use their communication skill we automatically got tangled and convinced to them. I went to a shoe shop. My mother was saying girl buy this shoe I was not considering it in this way. The salesman came to me and said please mam try this I wear that shoe he said gorgeous mam it seems like it is made for you. I think you are the university-going girl I said yes he said ohh! It means a perfect casual but elegant shoe for daily use. he share his amazing point of view that convinced me. so it means he had effective communication skills.
**Feel other's feelings or silence is more powerful than speaking:**
Often best communication means understanding others. Sometimes you don’t need plenty of words you just need a shoulder to cry. You just need a strong hand to hold. When you feel others by heart your shoulder and your hand will speak instead of your mouth. Sometimes we do not need a person that can tell us whether we were wrong or right we need someone to hold our hand and say babes everything will be all right and let us cry coz you always feel better after it.
**People don’t know how to listen:**
the most important point. Hahahaha during this time we know very well that everyone has a lot of problems to share .everyone is ready to tell but none is ready to listen. But the person with effective communication only listens to others and take inspiration and courage from them and solve his problems. This is how effective communication works.
**Disclaimer:** you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.
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A hectic but happy day......
Hey, my readers! I hope all of you are doing well. God bless all of you. it has been 3rd week of my journey at read cash. I have learned a lot here. It's such an amazing platform to explore. I hope all of you are also enjoying this platform.
I would like to thank my diamonds my inspirations and my mentors on this platform. Who gave me the motivation to write more. @Ellawrites , @Telecharm , @Bibijani01 . thank you soo much guys for your appreciation. Dear readers all of you must visit these incredible gems.
I am not feeling good to see that @TheRandomRewarder is not visiting my articles. his visit appreciates my writing more. I thought he got angry with me. Hehehehehe
Yesterday was a burdensome day. a hectic day somehow. I had many things to do. My elder brother had one dish party at his office and he had to take biryani to his office. He asked me to make biryani for his party so I got up at 5 in the morning. I made biryani for till it had taken almost 2 hours to complete. At 7’O clock biryani was ready. I packed it for the office. My bus arrives at my stop at 7’O clock as I was got late. So my brother asked me to drop me to university. After making biryani I make up myself for university and we both left the home at 8’O clock. About 9 ‘O clock I reached university.
2 hours were left for my class and I had to prepare my presentation but when we three girls sat together we started to talk about different things. And end our conversation at about 11’O clock. Hahahahaa I forgot I had to prepare my presentation.
my friend @Gully text me that she will reach in 10 to 15 minutes and she ordered me that when she would leave the vehicle I must be at the university gate to receive her. Hahahahaha I can’t deny her so I asked other girls to go to class and reserve seats for us and went to welcome her at the main gate. When she entered it brought a smile to my face. I warmly welcome her. Then we started gap shap. Heheheheeh
And finally, the time came when we had to give a presentation I was not prepared for it. We were 5 members in a group. I had to go at first so I went to the rostrum and discuss the system of government. It was not good enough from my side coz I could do better but it was my fault. I haven’t put in my effort so I had no regret. After me @Gully had to present. She presents her portion very well. It was just amazing she involved the whole class in her presentation. Tell us more than enough about the topic we understand everything she presented.
Our third member was a very thin and weak girl. hehehehe so cute, so nice friend of us. But yesterday was too hot here in Pakistan. Everyone was just screaming due to the scorching sun. when she came back from the rostrum she just said I think my BP level is going down and she fell. Her face got pale her body was cold like ice. We all got worried about her. Our teacher came to that girl she ask us to take her to the dispensary. Three girls picked her up and take her down to ground flour and called the ambulance. After getting first aid she got better. But she has a horrifying condition I became tense to see her condition. You can imagine from this incident how much hot is here. But today GOD blessed us with rain. So it is better now.i always make gif to add here but i don't know why I always failed to insert gif.
After our class @Gully ask me that can I leave now to go back? I said no today you have to spend time with me. It has been a very long time since we haven’t spent time together. She said ok baba but I will leave at 4’O clock I said NO!. Mmmmm you may leave at 4:30. She agreed. Then we go to the gym coz it was the only show cool place. We went gym.. washed our faces and rest for a few minutes but unfortunately, they ask us to leave the gym coz it was time to close the gym. We came out to eat something but the café was crowded with girls we decided to order something from outside .so we ordered chicken chaomin + macronies. And pulao rice with chicken finger fries. These were not too tasty but ok.
We had lunch together. Then take mango shake together. I wanted to spend more with her but her sister was calling her to leave on time. So she said I have to go now. I came out with her to see off her.
Then I came back but I also was not feeling good. Coz of the burning sun. at 5:30 I came to the bus for home. I watched drama on the bus. But near my stop, I felt like I am not well. I called my brother he was not picking up my call I called my father his number was busy. I was like I am going to faint I text @Gully that I am about to faint. I take an auto from the stop to reach home. When I just stepped in. I start vomiting. I was just losing my senses. My sister-in-law ( brother’s wife). Hold me gave me water. After 15 or 20 minutes. I felt ok.
It was all bout yesterday.it was a hectic as well as a happy day. http://yesterday.it/
****Disclaimer :**** **you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers**.
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Head Transplant 😲......is it possible?
***Hey***, ***my readers! Greetings to all of you. Sorry for my absence from read.*** ***cash. I was tangled in my projects and presentations. My exams are going to be held on*** *the* ***6 of*** *June****. So I have to complete my projects. But I was still responding to those I*** have subscribed I was ***reading them.***
When man began his life on earth, he lived in a cave of stone. He used to make clothes by tying leaves on his body. Used herbs to treat diseases. As time went on man advanced so much in science that today everything can be cured.
There was a time when people lost their lives due to various diseases. But today man has reached the stage where there is no disease for which there is no cure. Even in this day and age, every organ of the body can be transplanted.
When it comes to the liver, there was a time when people used to die from liver damage. Today, liver transplantation is possible. A piece of healthy liver is transplanted into a damaged liver which makes a complete and healthy liver.
One hundred, two hundred years ago from today, could it have been thought that there would be a time when transplantation of different parts of the body would be possible. Today that time is in front of us though we are living in that time.
Kidney transplantation is possible. Bad kidneys are replaced with healthy kidneys. Even in this fast-paced era, heart transplants have become possible. In which the heart of the recipient is removed and the heart of the donor is transplanted in its place. Your surgeon removes the diseased heart and sews the donor heart into place. He or she then attaches the major blood vessels to the donor's heart.
But in the last few days, I've been reading about unique experiments in the world, so I noticed that head transplant experiments are also being done. I was shocked to read this.
**In 1908 Charles** Guthrie performed **the** first**head transplant experiment on dogs. He removed the head of one dog and placed it on the neck of another dog.** But he failed miserably. But this experiment was enough to awaken scientists around the world. After the failure of his experiments, the scientist started working on it. A lot of research has been done.
**Again in 1970**, **a scientist named Robert Brown experimented with a head transplant. This time he chose the monkey for the experiment**. He took off the head of one monkey and put it in the place of the other. After that, when the monkeys were brought to consciousness, they were fine and all their senses were working properly. The whole world was amazed at this experience. But unfortunately, after a few days, both monkeys died.it was bad news for scientists as well as the public. http://died.it/
**Then** in **2018 an American scientist Sergio Canavero claimed that I would soon be experimenting with human head transplants.** A neurosurgeon of Washington said, "We can't even experiment with so many risks, and because this experiment has already two dogs and two monkeys are died, it's completely wrong." That's why the US did not allow doctors to experiment. For that, he went to China.
This is a very expensive and dangerous experiment. It requires many specialist surgeons. This requires expensive tools. The blades used will be diamond.
For this experiment, the doctor planned that the recipient would be a person whose body is fully functioning and whose brain is paralyzed. And the donor will be a person whose brain is fully functioning and whose body is paralyzed.
**And the spinal cord will be carefully cut with a diamond blade because this person can be paralyzed. They were searching for**donors**. After** some time **they found a boy Werdnig Hoffmann who was paralyzed by birth but his brain was fully functional. He said: I want to donate my brain** to **a**physically **healthy man so that he can complete his life.**
**But at that time doctors didn’t have** all equipment **so for performing experiments they** need **to complete all** the**necessary things. Meanwhile**, **Hoffmann got married.** When **the** doctor ask **him**about **an** experiment **he denied he wanted to enjoy his married life. So** till now experiment **is** postponed they **are just looking for a donor. Whenever they will find a donor they will perform their experiment. Let’s see what will happen.**
**~~Disclaimer: you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.~~**
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Schizophrenia
Hello! Dear readers i hope you are doing well.
There are some disorders when we learn or hear about disorders we can’t believe exists in reality. especially when we look at psychological disorders these are just unbelievable.
As I love to watch mysterious movies. Someone suggested me to watch the movie “A beautiful mind”. It was such a nice movie. It was based on hallucination and delusions. There was a man who had a happy married life. He had a sweet baby girlfriend. He used to talk to her and spend time with her. And also a male friend. He also spends most of his time with his friend one day he came to know that his friend is a spy or working as an agent. His friend offered to join him as an agent. He joined his friend and start working as an agent . that company fit a tracker on his wrist.
On the other hand, he spent a happy time with that girl. Sometimes when he have been talking to that baby girl his wife usually got surprised with whom her husband is talking. one day she ask her husband whom you are talking he pointed toward the baby girl and told his wife I am talking to this girl she is dear to me just like my own daughter. Her wife was surprised to see that there was no girl.
After a few days, he found that the spy company was not working for good purposes . he decided to leave them but they were not allowing him to leave. They were chasing him. He got to fear about his life he thought that they would kill him. Once he saw his spy friend chasing him. He finally told his wife all things when his wife saw there were no spy people. she becomes curious about that baby girl and a spy friend.
She told this to her psychologist friend .psychologist told her, that her husband is mentally ill. She treated her husband and the movie ended. It was more interesting to watch but I tough this was only a story created by the writer.
But after some days I watched a drama series on a television channel it was named **“sarab”.**
In this, there was a young girl who loved her aunt’s son. And her aunt’s son also loved her. But her mother was not good to her. She was a deprived child of her family. She has only her fiancé who loves her so she sees him everywhere she talks to him every time. He had been with her in her room even for the whole night but whenever she talk about all these happenings to her actual fiancé he would be surprised to listen because he had not been actually with her but he understands her and go-to a psychologist for her treatment. From that point, I started to think about it whether it was just a story or seriously a disorder when I read its script I had come to know it is actually a mental disorder named **Schizophrenia.**
**Schizophrenia:**
It is a serious mental disorder in which a person has hallucinations or delusions. They usually see the thing or talk to the person that does not actually exist. often they see the persons who are not even alive. Sometimes they saw their crushes and do everything that they ask them to do. A person with schizophrenia actually hears people saying things that are critical when the conversation is not really happening.
**Causes:**
The exact causes of these disorders are unknown. But still, some researchers say that it is due to environmental and behavioral factors. Sometimes its cause is that people love the person they cannot approach so they create their loved personality in front of them.
**Symptoms:**
Hallucination
Delusions
Memory lost for a short time
Talking alone
Emotional instability
Depression
Loneliness
**Treatment:**
Its patient is usually treated with the combination of talking therapy and medicine. talking therapy effect more. This patient needs special care. If you find a person with this disease never contradict him always feel that you are saying true. Your behavior can help him to survive that disorder.
**Disclaimer:** you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.
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I was bird but he caged me......
Hello, my dear readers. I hope all of you are well.
Today when I opened my account on mobile I received a notification for sponsorship I approved that but I made a mistake that was on mobile you can not see the full screen so I can’t see the name of my new sponsor. I request that if he or she read this please mention yourself in a comment. By the way, thank you soo much for your concern. I want to see you soon on my sponsor's block.GOD bless you.
When she was born her father was too happy because she was the first baby to her parents. She was very beautiful when she was born. Her father was very happy to see his daughter. Her name was Jenny. Jenny's parents had been married for eight years and they had no children. Jenny was born eight years later. Jenny's father was holding Jenny in his arms. Even after Jenny had no children at home, she was the only one.
Jenny's parents loved her dearly. They carried out her every request. Time passed and Jenny turned twenty. When Jenny finished her studies, her father told her, "Jenny, we are too old. We want you to marry a good boy before we die." Jeanne obeyed her parents, so she agreed with her father.
So Jenny's parents celebrated Jenny's wedding with great fanfare. It was a beautiful day for Jenny. But she did not know that she was about to embark on a difficult journey in life.
After a few good days, Jenny noticed that her husband did not go to work. One day she asked her husband why he didn't go to work and he started beating her. It was very painful for Jenny because no one had ever hit her. even though she was never scolded by her parents.
But this was not the last time. Every day after that day, her husband started beating her for some reason. She couldn't even tell her parents because she didn't want to upset her parents. In fact, Jenny's husband did nothing. At the time of the wedding, the boy's family lied to Jenny's parents that the boy had his own business.
There was a time when there was nothing to cook in Jenny's house and she was starving and crying because she was a proud girl, a free bird that was brought here and imprisoned in a hungry cage.
Her husband slept at home all day and stayed up all night with friends. He was addicted to drugs. He didn't do any work. Jenny was well-educated and wanted to work so that things would get better at home, but her husband was very skeptical and would not let Jenny go out of the house. He would not even let Jenny see her parents. If Jenny's parents called, he wouldn't let Jenny talk alone.
One day he brings his friend to his house. And at night his friend stayed at his house. Jenny wondered why her husband did not go out today and why he brought his friend home. At night Anne Jenny's health suddenly deteriorated, so she went to her husband to see if he could take her to the doctor, but as soon as she opened the door to another room where her husband and friends were, she was shocked.
Jenny didn't know that her husband had this evil. She couldn't think of anything about her husband that she could see with her own eyes. Her husband was in a physical relationship with his friend.
After that night, Jenny was in shock. And her husband was afraid that she would not tell anyone. He started torturing Jenny more. At one point he even tried to kill Jenny.
That's how Jenny spent three years. Beautiful, always laughing innocent Jenny was lost somewhere. One night, when Jenny's husband returned home, he was drunk and there were two other people with him. Jenny seated everyone in the guest room and was taken to her own room. Shortly after, the door of Jenny's room opened and a man entered. Jenny got scared and started calling her husband. The man said tonight. For your husband has handed you over to me. Jenny was trembling with fear and anger. Jenny didn't understand anything at that moment and Jenny put the vase on her head and ran away.
When jenny reached her parents’ home they were wondering to see their daughter. It was not their daughter. their daughter was jovial, jaunty, and had a cheerful disposition at the time of marriage. but now the girl standing in front of them was a strange girl.
Closing thoughts:
It was a real story of my close cousin. She is suffering till now she is not ok mentally. As she is mentally tortured by her husband. She was my friend I know her she used to fly like a bird here and there she was the reason to live for her parents. I ask her one day jenny forget all that shit and start your life again. I said to my sis you were the bird of your house. She replied yes I was the bird of my house but he caged me I forget to fly I can never be fly in my life again he caged my spirit these were heart-wrenching words.
**Disclaimer:** you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response, my dear readers.
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My friends threw me into Odd situation...
It was very hot today and the maximum temperature rose to 55 degrees. And I had to go to university today so it was very hot all day. On the way back from university, I was in a very bad condition. Everyone was exhausted from the heat. But I always say that God does not hurt man more than he can bear. After such intense heat, strong winds suddenly started blowing in the evening. . And the storm came, and the rain came down, and, the winds blew. Unfortunately, after the rain, our power went out, which led to the delay in uploading the article. Whatever it is, the weather has become much more pleasant than in the morning.
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As I mentioned in my post yesterday that I am very tired from traveling home so I could not write today's article. So today I am going to share my last day with you all because tomorrow was a good day during Eid days.
The first day of Eid was spent as I said. The next day we all went to our uncle's house. It was Tuesday. We stayed there for five days and yesterday we went to my mother's sister's house. They invited us. Yesterday was a very good day. I enjoyed it.
We woke up at ten o'clock in the morning. My aunt made breakfast. We all ate breakfast together and got ready to go to my aunt's house. And my preparation for going there is even more special because it is my aunt's house and also my in-law's.
Yesterday was the last holiday so everyone was going back to their homes from picnic points so there was a lot of traffic on the road. There was too much heat and too much rush.
After 15 minutes drive, we reached our aunt's house. She was waiting for us. She greeted us and then started cooking. She makes delicious food. I like her food very much.
**At about two o'clock we ate and everyone sat down and gossiped. I like this kind of family gathering very much.** **Then around five o'clock, Khaloo dropped us off at the bus stop.**
**I always enjoy traveling so I enjoyed my trip a lot. On the bus track comes a university. Seeing it reminded me of some old memories. Because when I had to take admitted to the university, it was also a choice and I visited it with my friends.**
**Where there are friends, there would be no fun it is impossible. This is a CO university. When we were coming back from university, my friends sent me to the canteen. When I went in, there was no girl, there were only boys sitting inside. And everyone was watching me. I wondered why all these people were looking at me. One of them got up and said to me, "Ma'am, you have come to the wrong place. This is a boy's place. Girls are not allowed to come here." I turned around and saw my friends all laughing at me. I was very embarrassed. hahaha hahaha, I missed those friends a lot.**
**About seven o'clock we arrived home and I was very tired. As soon as I reached home, I went to bed.** **And started reading the article on Read.** **cash.it** **was all about yesterday.** http://cash.it/
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Disclaimer: all these are purely my thoughts. Images are taken by myself except lead image.
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she paralyzed due to her husband and her husband divorced her....
***She was a beautiful and talented girl 18 years old. She wanted to move forward in her life.When she was eighteen years old, she got married. She belonged to a conservative family where girls were married off at a very young age. She belonged to a family where good daughters do not deny their parents. That is why when her father asked her about marriage, she said yes to marriage and said:***
***If that makes you happy so, it is yes from my side.***
But as it turns out, early marriages didn't last long, so their married life wasn't much better. Almost two years after the marriage, they were going somewhere in their car. Her husband fell asleep and their car faced an accident. The car plunged into a deep ravine. Her husband jumped out of the car and saved his life, but she fell into a ravine.
she had severe and deep injuries. Her right shoulder, arm, and spinal cord were broken. People were trying to get her out of the car. Because a spinal cord injury breaks the whole body. Because a spinal cord injury breaks the whole body, people dragging it out was causing death-like pain. Well! She was taken to the hospital and her husband suffered minor injuries.
She was in the hospital. fainted, unconscious, she did not understand what was happening. She was worried about her husband. As soon as she regained consciousness, she first asked about her husband. Even though she was screaming with pain. She was told by doctors that her husband had returned immediately after having a bandage and first aid. She felt something really broken in her chest.
The person for whom she risked her future. The person who caused the accident. The man she was worried about was in trouble. The man had left her at the time he should have been with her. At that moment, a senior doctor came and told her that she could never walk again. The other bad news is that you can't give birth to a baby because your spinal cord is affected. Meanwhile, the worst news came that her husband had divorced her.
That was the hardest time of his life. At that time she asked himself why I am alive when everything has been taken away from her and every happiness has been taken away from her.
She was half-dead in the hospital. She wanted to live properly while breathing. He said to his brother, "I am tired of seeing the white roof of the hospital. Bring me some paint and canvas."
Then she started painting. She was feeling very light. She used to paint every day because she used to paint her heart without saying a word to anyone. She intended to move on in her life when she found out that her husband had remarried and she became even stronger.
She first got rid of her inner fear that she could never become a mother. She thought there were so many children in the world who didn't have parents. Maybe I could be their mother. At that moment, she adopted a baby boy who was only two days old, now six or seven years old.
People think that other people will not accept them because they are incomplete in the world of perfect people. He overcame this fear and intended to spend more time among the people. She did painting, she did modeling campaign. She joined National Television as an anchor.
*****She became the ambassador of the Pakistan Women's Organization and now speaks out for the rights of women and children in Pakistan. She is the iron lady of Pakistan.*****
****Let me now reveal the name whom I was talking about. She is the great muniba mizari.****
**Conclusion:**
The world does not accept you unless you accept yourself. First of all, you should applaud yourself and don’t get for granted yourself. this is what that is about determination, not opportunity. Difficulties are a part of life we should fight with these problems not run from these problems or just sit and cry about what had happened.
**disclaimer:**
**no part of this article is copy pasted from any site .these are my words, my thoughts, and no intention to hurt anyone.if my words hurt anyone i should say sorry to him.**
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She inside he killed his girlfriend.....
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Well! He was handsome, talented, cool, powerful and, successful guy. He lived in beautiful and expensive area of his city. He had a grand, and beautiful house. But in that big house he was living alone with only one servant of almost 70 years old. he had busy day to day schedule. He had no friend but mostly he spends time out of the house because he felt suffocation in house as he was alone at his house. But there was a strange thing with him he never spends night outside his home. He must be at home before 11PM and never allowed anyone to visit him after 11PM not even his servant was allowed to come to his room after 11PM whatever the situation would be.
Before going ahead let me tell you why he was living alone in such a big house. His father died soon before his birth. When he born he only saw her mother with her she used to take extra care of him. She pampered him like mother as well as father. And his only servant was also with them from that time. When he was 5 years old her mother died in accident after that he became alone. And after his mother’s death their servant took the responsibility to take care him. Time passed and he became 30 years old.
One day he met a girl she knocked at his heart. He liked her so much soon after this he proposed that girl. She was happy to find a handsome person is interested in her. They got affection for each other. They love to spend time with each other. She was the only one with which that guy was frank and get attached but even she was not allowed by him to be with him after 11PM. It was curiosity for her that why he not allowed her to visit him after 11PM.
They both used to go to beach every weekend. They spend time with each other but strictly at 11 PM he returns back to his room. They spend almost a year with each other after that that girl started saying him to get married he was also ready for it.
One morning he was trying to call her girlfriend but she was not responding. He try to remind last night because they were together last night at beach. He was continuously trying to contact her. But after 2 or 3 hours he received a call when he looks at phone it was her number blinking at screen. A sweet smiled creeped at his face. He picked call a boy was speaking on the other side he told him that a dead body is found at sea shore. When he went it was his girlfriend’s dead body.
He called police for investigation. They were searching for witness or any ally by who can tell about the murder. They found a lady’s heel it was not the victim’s heel so it means that it was killer’s heal. At the moment a man came to police and said he had listened few voices at last night as he was walking there. He told that I saw shadow of two women one was holding knife in her hand other was just saying to stop her. But killer killed that guy’s girlfriend.
On the other side he was shocked. Police was continuously searching for his girl friend’s murderer. For any investigation once police came to him after 11PM. And ask his servant to call him. His servant said to police that his man not allowed any one to visit him after 11PM. Police forcefully go to his room but after reaching at door they listened some voices coming from inside one was that guy’s voice the other one was ladies voice. He was shouting at her that why she killed his girlfriend. And she was arguing with him that he promised him to never leave her then why he was going to marry that girl that’s why she killed his girlfriend. Police got clear that here is killer inside. They unlock the door and what?
What is this? There was no one except that guy. Standing in front of mirror. When police go near to him they saw strange scene . that guy make over his on side as women. And was talking to himself. They catch him and bring him to psychiatrist. Then psychiatrist told that that guy was mentally ill.
Then they ask him to tell the real story he told that when her mother died i was feeling alone i became afraid every night he missed her mother . one day I was standing in front of mirror I started talking to mirror. After that one day I wear my mothers cloth and her makeup I was just felling that she was with me I started to do it every night. So I developed a female inside me she never allow me to go to any other girl. When I decided to marry my girl friend my shadowlike inside me.
*****My dear readers it is a psychological disorder called dissociative identitiy disorder ( multiple personality disorder)*****
*****Dissociative identity disorder***** :
A mental health disorder that a person having two different personalities in him.These identities control a person’s behavior at different times. These identities control a person’s behavior at different times.
It can cause memory gaps, short term memory lose and many other problems.
Other common signs and symptoms of DID can include:
Anxiety,Delusions,Depression,Disorientation,Drug or alcohol abuse,Memory loss,Suicidal thoughts or self-harm.
My dear readers ! I think it’s enough for today. I want to write more details about this disorder but this article become too long for you to read. I will write it some day till then take care of your self. Once again thanks to @Ellawrites for sponsorship.
*****Disclaimer: you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response my dear readers.*****
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Have a look on surrounding what nature advices us.......
**Greetings from my side to all of you. I hope all of you are good.**
**Today was EID’s 2nd day. Usually we visit our uncle, auntie home. Today I am writing this from their house I am enjoying a lot.Having pineapple yet. its yummy.**
today weather was awesome. let me share picture.
**Allah says in our holy book that I have not created anything in this universe aimlessly. In everything in this universe there are signs for people of intellect. There are lessons for those who consider universe. We should look at Everything in the universe should look at its working, its purpose carefully and learn some lessons from it.**
**Be like rain:**
Just be like rain to your surroundings because when it's too hot and people have no hope for coolness. Then the rain brings us a message of happiness.
**Be like tree:**
If we look at the tree, we will see that the tree burns itself in the sun, but always provides cool shade to others. So we should also provide peace to the people in every situation.
**Be like moon:**
guide and hostage. These are two different words. And the moon is like a guide. It is a source of light in the darkness of night. The moon is a guide in the dark path of the night. We should bring them on right path Those who go astray in the darkness of life. We also have to shine like the moon in the dark life of the people.
**Don't be like vine:**
Have you ever considered a vines. Vines can not grownup without taking support of tree. It needs to lean against a wall or a tree to move forward. Sometimes it is harming the thing it is leaning on to grow up.do you compare this with your life my dear readers? We should never go to our destination like this bull, leaning on someone else or harming anyone. Because as soon as the vine grows by taking the support on the tree, it dries up and withers. So this teaches us a lesson that success achieved by hurting someone is not lasting.
**Be like flower:**
Flower the most beautiful thing like human being. Flowers always give the viewer a sense of peace, happiness and fragrance. We should also bring peace, happiness and ease to other people. Don't fill the lives of others of thorns. If you put thorns in the path of others, remember that in return luck will only give you thorns. And if you become a flower for others, it will make things easier for them, but luck will also make things easier for you. Because it is said that man reaps what he sows.
**Be like sun:**
The rising of the sun after a dark night is a testimony to the ease that comes after every difficulty. There is a bright morning after every dark night. There is ease after difficulty. There is relief after every inconvenience. So shine like a bright sun of hope rising after dark night, in your society.
**Be like honey:**
Get rid of anger, jealousy, malice and hatred from your life and become sweet like honey. Because the example of anger is given that just as the matchstick burns itself before burning the other, so that anger also hurts himself before hurting others. Bring in yourself the sweetness and humility like honey, just as honey takes the form of any vessel, so you bring humility, and sincerity into your personality.
**Disclaimer:** you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. These are purely my own thoughts, observations, and experiences that I have shared with you. I don’t want to hurt anyone with my words or actions. My intentions are pure towards all of you. Thank you I will wait for your response my dear readers.
**All images are taken by myself except lead image. that one is taken from google but edited by myself**.
Question to ask.....
**Greetings from my side. First of all Happy EID to all my Muslim community.**
**May ALLAH bless you with thousands of happy EIDS. I hope all of are doing good. Let me tell you about my day. Ahhhh! It was not good. although it was a great day we are blessed with usually first day of EID is always not good for me. I feel too tired. I have a lot of household chores to do. I have to fulfill my sleep needs hehe heh because I became deprived of sleep during Ramazan.**
I usually don’t sleep for whole night in Ramazan because I have to make sehri (breakfast) at 2:30’O clock. after sehri I used to do household chores like dusting, sweeping, washing utensils, moping floor after all these things I got free at 7’O clock at morning and after it, I hardly sleep for 2 or 3 hours. that’s why it was tough rotien in Ramazan . as I eagerly wait for eid but on the day of eid I do nothing except sleep.
Today I didn't sleep for the whole night I was online on read.cash till 5:30 in the morning coz I was inactive for 3 days so I have a lot of notifications so I checked all of those notifications. I offered fajr prayer and then again became online hehe hehe it's like an addiction for new users hahaha.
At 5:30 I knocked at my father’s room door to get up and take bath for EID prayer my father, and two brothers got ready for EID prayer and I made breakfast for my whole family. You know my readers it is a beautiful day for me just because on this day my complete family present for breakfast for the whole year my father doesn’t get any holiday we can’t do breakfast altogether. So, my whole family enjoyed breakfast.
After breakfast, my both brothers and my father went to offer prayer. I wash utensils till they come back. When they came back after prayer it was my favorite time. Hahaha, it is eidi time. I take eidi from my mother my father and my brother.
Then for the whole day, I sleep. Hahahaaha nothing else my friends, fellows get ready and sent me their pictures they all were looking gorgeous. but I did not prepare myself because I was tired. At 5’O clock my uncle, aunt and her cute daughter visit us. It was quite happy for me. Still, I am getting bored so I decided to again go on read.cash and decided to write something.
I have read a lot of question articles on read.cash. I just love it coz you can read about others' personalities but I want to write my own questionnaire so I am going to write it today.
**If you have a rewind button what moment of your life you will rewind?**
Ahhh I used to recall my childhood. So, I would like to rewind my childhood. It was a time When the financial situation was not good, we were still very happy and enjoying our life. We did not worry about how Baba would fulfill all our desires. We got everything on time. When our desires were very small. And there were small joys. Today is money. Everything is there but in life, it is not fun and comfortable. There were small mischiefs. I would like to rewind my moments.
**If you have add button which thing or person will you add?**
If there was a button to add something to my life, I would like to add a lot of things like good friends, money, good business, peaceful life.
**If you have a delete button which thing or person will you want to delete?**
Well! I have never hated anyone which I would like to delete but nowadays as I have come up with some such frustrating situations. So based on it I would like to delete the toxicity of some people from my life. I want to delete people who don't value me, to whom I have no status. I want to delete the people who are my own in front of me but in reality, they are no one.
**If you have a search button which thing or person will you search for?**
I once heard somewhere that GOD has made a perfect match for every human being. Every human being in the world has a pure love for a Special one. Loves without any greed or pretense. So I would like to find a person who really loves me. Who is sincere to me because in this day and age no human being is sincere to anyone.
**Share any mischief of your childhood:**
Well! There are many more mischiefs hahaahahah to write here but I have to write one. Let me share one. When I and my elder brother were in childhood. we used to do a large number of mischief daily. But during summer day time when my mother goes to sleep .me and my elder goes out and My brother and I both used to go to the garden to pick mangoes. The garden was very hard, so we used to secretly pluck mangoes from it. We both used to ride bicycles. My brother used to climb the tree and I used to guard it so that no money would come.
One day I realized mischief. Every time my brother climbed the tree, I was standing under the tree. Suddenly I saw Gardner coming. I called my brother and Gardner came and ran away without waiting for my brother. Now, the brother is on top of the tree and Gardner is under the tree. When Gardner took my brother down, he beat him up. And then when my mother brought my brother from the garden, she also scold and beat him. Hahahaha he was just looking at me and I had a naughty smile on my face. Heheheheh I did wrong I admit I shouldn't do this but I was a child at that time.
**So, dear readers, this was from my side. I would like to invite @Gully, @Sumaiyyakainat, and @Bibijani01 to answer these questions. And my all reader if you like it write an article to answer these questions but don’t forget to mention me in your article.i will wait for your prompt response.**
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What will you choose? Determination OR Opportunity....
Hello dear readers: I hope all of you are doing well. I have told you that I was not free for three days to upload my article. But seriously let me say that my readers I missed you a lot. I missed my read cash account. I missed my writing. You have noticed I upload articles daily at the same time so when the time came when I usually write, I felt like I had lost something.
So let's start.....
My uncle is my mentor, he guides me in everything, and he supports me everywhere. He always tells me one thing, daughter! Just getting a degree is not enough. Along with the degree, you must also have skills.
Every human being works hard all his life. If we ask ourselves why he works hard then the only answer that comes to mind is to get the comforts of life. And the luxuries of life come from money. Indirectly, it means that we work hard to earn money.
To achieve all this, we set our own goals. There are two ways to achieve this goal.
**Opportunity or Determination.**
Yes! Today I am going to discuss these two. actually a few days ago my uncle asked me about my studies. I replied these are just ok. Then he asked what about your civil services (CSS) preparation. Let me tell you guys! It is a competitive exam in Pakistan. So I replied mamu it’s not good enough he asked why my daughter. I said the university is not a good one. I am not getting the proper platform to explore. I have no opportunity to prove myself here. and many more reasons I gave to him.
**He said so sadly to listen to these words from you my girl. This is not the behavior of successful person**s.
He asked me if I have ever seen people who do not have the opportunity to go to university and study. And they study at home by themselves and then not only pass the CSS exam but also top.
I just started to think about it and replied yes uncle I have seen those people then he said they have no opportunity So what is the thing that leads them to success? I have just looked at my uncle. He said it is determination. A passion to achieve their goal. then he told me a story. Let me share it with you.
There was a man who lived in a village named Barnes. He wanted to be the business partner of the famous businessman Edison. But Barens' access to Edison was probably impossible. Because Burns was passionate about his dream, he didn't wait for the opportunity, he knew how to make his way.
Two obstacles stood in his way. One was that Edison was a big man. It was very difficult to meet him. The other was that he had no money to pay the fare of the train. but he did not give up and started traveling on a freight train. And transported to Edison’s city by a freight train.
When he approached Edison for an interview, Edison hired him as his salesman. Remember that Burns wanted to be Edison's business partner, not a salesman. although it was not his destination he has to create opportunities for himself rather than sit with idols and look for them. so, he started to work under Edison as a salesman.
Edison once built a machine, but his salesmen weren't interested in selling it. but as Barnes was passionate to become Edison’s partner so he started marketing Edison’s machine. And soon that machine was installed in every office. Then came the day that Burns had been waiting for. Edison saw Burns' ability and made him his partner. And one slogan was made for this machine. **MADE BY EDISON AND INSTALLED BY BARNES**.
**This is how determination creates his own opportunity ad get success.**
****Determination****:
It is a powerful and positive tool for our journey to our destination. I teach us to fight against obstacles and troubles that came in our way to success. It enables us to fulfill our dreams.
It teaches us to dream big and also encourages us to fulfill them.
We fuel our determination and stay inspired to create new goals.
Determination is what is in our hands but opportunity is not in our hands so go to your destination with what you in in your hands.
Closing thoughts:
It is not enough to dream and sit idol to wait for opportunity .who have determination for something they create opportunities for themselves. So, stop looking for opportunities and be passionate to achieve your goals. To blame opportunity is just a lame excuse for those who have no ability to do anything.
****I hope after reading it you will also start to work hard for your destination and will stop looking for opportunities like I was.****
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Have a nice day!
Today has been a happy day for me. Although it was very hot here today but for me today started a good day when I saw on my red.cash that I had sponsored by two very nice people .these were @Bibijani01 and @Ezelazra3.
Although @Ezelazra3 profile is not showing in my sponsor block, I do not know why. But she has sponsored me. For this I am grateful to both my diamonds that they considered my writing worthy of it.
I still want to write an article and upload it today but today I have to sit for atikaf. and let me tell you a little bit about it. It happens on the last days of Ramadan. In this, man only worships to ALLAH apart from everything else.In this Man finds himself sitting alone.you can say that it is like meditation. But we worship to ALLAH as well which is not in meditation. So, I will meet you again INSAHLLAH after 3 days. Stay blessed and keep supporting me.
Thank you
Regards: TANAIN143
Sensibility VS Sensitivity...
When I was in my first year, an English teacher, while taking a class, asked me a question, do you think that human beings need to be sensible or sensitive.
At that moment, I had nothing to answer. But after that, I thought a lot about this subject and got rid of all my doubts. I have read a novel.
**SENSE AND SENSIBILITY by JANE AUSTEN**
**he uses both words and describes them well in his novel. he wrote the story of two sisters one is sensible and the other is sensitive. The first one always took her decisions by the brain the other one always took the help of her heart. this is quite a good novel you must read it. he describes the term "sensitivity" as a person who reacted almost entirely based on emotions. this was considered romantic at that time but, of course, often led to making poor decisions.**
But because a lot of time has passed. So I forgot that but I had just published an article in which it was written that don't make yourself a slave of the mind.
https://read.cash/@Tanain143/you-have-two-choices-control-your-brain-or-let-your-brain-to-control-you-pualo-coelho-701fa3bf
then a friend of mine @sumaiyyakainat commented that I am a slave of my heart. What do you say about this? It reminds me of the discussion with our teacher. I told him that one day I will write in detail on this topic and that is why I am going to write on this topic today.
****Sensibility:****
it refers to the practical, reasonable, and having a good sense of selection. These are the people who use their brains. For them, the heart is no more important than it carries blood to the body. it is the sense of being mature and practical. we can also call them business-minded or diplomatic people. They do everything for their own advantages and disadvantages.
****Advantages of sensibility:****
Sensible people never get deceived by anyone. Rather, they are so clever and sharp-witted that people are afraid of them lest they deceive us.
These people are considered mature. They never go into arguments because they don't care about anything except their selves.
They are in high demand in the market because such people focus more on profit than anything else.
They do not give up very quickly and it is not in their nature to cry in front of anyone.
They do not take their defeat for granted but work harder to win.
They have high self-confidence and self-esteem.
*****Disadvantages of sensibility:*****
Their losses are not great for themselves because they do not allow anyone to harm them. But they have the disadvantage that they never think about anyone and easily can damage others for their benefit.
They are so materialistic that they see the advantages and disadvantages in their relationships.
That is why there is money and luxury in their life but they cannot be happy.
****Sensitivity:****
These are the people who work from the heart instead of the mind. they can easily get hurt, easily offended. Take everything to emotions.
These people are the best for the relationship. They never deceive you. They believe in anything very quickly. They get upset at the slightest thing. Always double-minded.
These people are very wonderful people, they only get a little stumbling block. When they recover, they become even stronger than sensible people.
****Advantages:****
They are perfect for relationships and love. They always want peace and tranquility in the world. They themselves love others and expect others to love and be sincere too.
If they are given a team, they lead them very well because they take it all with them.
They are very persuasive. They have strong convincing power.
They take great care of themselves as well as others. Do their best to please people wherever they go.
****Disadvantages:****
They have higher rates of depression and anxiety. They also occasionally become social anxiety victims.
They are very shy. They do not talk much. They observe everything quietly.
They are afraid of everything because they are before thinkers.
****Closing thoughts:****
So we can say that sensible are those who just listen to their mind and sensitive and those who just listen to their heart. I think a person should combo this because extremely sensible to make a human robot. And this is not the time for being sensitive if you are sensitive people would exploit you. these are all my thoughts my perspective my point of view about this topic you can have your own. I have shared my thoughts with you and waiting for your response.
I hope I have answered to @sumaiyyakainat
*****The lead image is from google. no plagiarism you will find in this article these are completely my own words and thoughts about topic.*****
A Quarter-Life Crisis...
*****As you all know, after the end of the mids in the university, the final presentations start.***** *****And for me, it's a difficult time. I fall asleep especially if the topic is not interesting or the style of the presenter is not interesting.*****
*****Well, our presentation this week was very interesting, it woke me up. A very good foreign friend of mine gave me that Presentation whose name is Flora. I listened intently to Flora's presentation as I went through the situations she was referring to. At that moment I felt strongly that I should write about it.*****
*****Note: Because the idea to write it came from Flora's presentation, I thought it necessary to get her permission before writing. But you will not find plagiarism anywhere in this whole article. All these thoughts, feelings, and words are my own. it’s purely based on my personal experience.*****
*****According to me:*****
as I went through this crisis so I can define it according to my situation. I think it is a period of increasing doubts, hopelessness, and disappointments about your career, relationship, and financial situation.
It usually happens during the time period of 18 to 30. I think mostly between 18 to 25 and rarely after 25. The age between twenty and thirty years is the age at which man makes his life. Makes your future bright or dark. At this age a person is young, he has the passion and passion to do everything. So at this age, some things are very much needed, such as calm, good mental health in order to make this time productive.
But we cannot deny the fact that today our youth of this age is in deep despair and darkness. At that time, instead of fighting the battle of his future, he is fighting his own battle with himself.
*****Causes:*****
· If you have any financial issues. you started to think about it that how can I solve this issue but if you didn’t find any solution you may come up with this issue.
· If you compare yourself with others .as this is the time of immaturity so we usually compare ourselves with others in every aspect like relationships, clothing, financially. When we found ourselves less than others we come up with this issue.
· If you set up any target and you have worked hard for it but you didn’t achieve it. You may fall into this crisis but remember patience can reward you more. It's necessary to fall to become strong so take it easy. it's your learning period. Learn something from all your failures.
*****Effects:*****
· We start sitting alone.
· We become anxious about minor things.
· We just start to ruin our future by leaving all things behind and just thinking about failure.
· We got a fear of being judged. So we stop Talking to others.
· We become extremely negative so we take everyone’s advice in a negative meaning. We think that he or she may be teasing or taunting me.
· Start using drugs. or sometimes in extreme conditions, they commit suicide. that’s why if we have a look at suicide statistics we will find the majority of them lie between the 18 to 30 age group.
*****Thoughts that come to mind;*****
I am a loser. I can’t do anything. Who I am? Why I am here in this world.
I feel very lazy. I know I can do it. But it is not happening to me. The result of what I am doing is negative.
*****How to overcome this situation:*****
· First of all think about it if your life is full of embellishments and you have no worries about anything don’t you think you will get bored? It is the complexity of this life that makes it really beautiful.
· Tell yourself I will do whatever my heart desires regardless of people’s judgment or perceptions.
· I will spend most of my time encouraging people. You know what will happen. People will tell you their stories which may be more horrible than your situation. It gives you patience. You remember the bliss associated with your caste. This is the therapy that I have been doing with myself.
· Your growth, your healing, and self-discovery do not happen in isolation. Stop sitting alone. When you sit alone terrible thoughts surround you. Always try to sit with more people.
· Over time we realize that all these feelings are temporary and time is the best ointment.
· Understand that you are not the first person to deal with this condition. Almost every human being goes through this period.
I always pray for those who are in a quarter-life crisis because I know it is the most difficult time of your life when no one can understand you.
it seems like I have not shared my complete thoughts and experience with you because if I share whole. it will become too long to read. so I am leaving it here. I hope it will help all of you to successfully go through this time period.
**REGARDS: TANAIN...**
**The lead image is from google.**
“You have two choices, control your brain or let your brain to control you” PUALO COELHO
The human mind is like a mad horse that is always ready to run wildly in the open field of thought. If you do not control it, it will run rampant. And it will begin to rule over your thinking and your personality. Learn to control this horse because when we do not control the mind, the mind seems to control us. And when the mind begins to control us, the results are what we dislike.
**For example** we have often seen during interview or investigation that when someone is investigated, psychologists are also sitting there. And they observe on which question body language was slightly changed. The body language was out of routine. At that point, consciously, the guy was not controlling his mind. Rather, his mind was controlling his body language. If a person can control his brain he or she can hide what he want to hide from others like in the above example if he can control his mind he can control his unconscious body language.
**Control you mind**: The best way to control your mind is to decide first what to do with it. Decide what assignment to give him. The human brain works better when it is goal-oriented.it works more productively when a target or a task is given to it. Your dream should be clear and purpose full.
**For example**, if you hire a new employee, you call him or her for tea and biscuits. Maybe he didn't bring the tea you wanted or the biscuit you like. But if you train him, he will do exactly what you commanded him to do at your command. Same as if you train your mind to a specific goal it will work to achieve that goal.
**Think of your mind as your servant. If your mind is not your servant, then you are the servant of your mind.** Then it makes you do things that you never want, for example, you hate someone but you don't want to express it .if you are servant of your mind your mind Does it through body language.
Do your accountability for everything. If you have done something wrong, punish yourself for it. For example you intend to get up early in the morning but when your eyes open your brain tries to control you and says go to sleep and never get up early again. But if you tell someone that if I don't get up, pour cold water on me, you will punish yourself once, then your mind will not give such a command next time.
**Conclusion:** we should control our mind not to let our mind to control us. Try hard to achieve your goals. Don’t listen to those thoughts that say you to take shortcuts. Make your life full of good habits and discipline. Try to communicate with brain give it commands not take commands from brain
*****In Million Dollar Habits by Brian Tracy, he says, “The fact is that good habits are hard to form but easy to live with. Bad habits, on the other hand, are easy to form but hard to live with. In either case, you develop either good or bad habits as the result of your repeated choices, decisions, and behaviors.”*****
So develop good habits it will lead to healthy mind that never controls you rather help you to reach your destination.
**Disclaimer: you will not find any kind of plagiarism in my article. these are completely my own thoughts and views about topic. only quotation is taken from book. images are from google.**
**Regards: Tanain**
It's always difficult to say Goodbye...
Greetings to all! I believe all of you are good...
I was much happier last night because some special people were coming to our house. And when they came I was overjoyed. That's why I had a very good and happy day today.
This evening the weather was very good and good weather is my weakness. In good weather, I forget every sorrow, every grief, and every anger and just enjoy the weather.
But because there were special guests, I had to make special food for them. I made them all the food of their choice. I made biryani, chana chaat, cream dessert, steak, spaghetti, and french fries for him.
They like steak the most, so I worked hard to make it.
These were just some of the things that happened to him. There are some people in every human life who have a very special place for you. They are the constants K of your life without which the equation of your life is always incomplete. When you have them, your life seems complete to you.
But you know how hard it is to get far from these people after the meeting.
In fact, saying goodbye to my loved ones is the hardest thing in the world for me. I don't know why. Maybe the feeling of being away from them bothers me or maybe I think if this person gets away from me then I will never meet again.
Sometimes in this case I get very crazy. I have a friend whenever she starts to go. So I don't look at her and if she ever says goodbye to me I forbid it. This goodbye creates a strange fear in my heart.
And that's what I did today. When they left, I didn't see them because I was afraid to say goodbye.
Sometimes I wonder how nonsensical this is. I have never been afraid of anything. This is the only thing I am afraid of. I don't know if it is right or wrong but I can't see my loved ones saying goodbye and walking away from me.
*****A famous Urdu writer BANO QUDSIYA says: The person you like is the most important person in the whole universe because your whole universe is revolving around him. There is no substitute for the person you like.*****
Let me think why this fear arose in me .... maybe my great uncles said goodbye then they never came. Maybe when my friends at school said goodbye and never came back I still remember that scene. Or in college, everyone said goodbye on the condition that we will meet every month but we never meet again. So I skip the word good bye from my life. I always avoid listening to goodbye and also avoid saying it. But let me tell you whenever I am in anger I always say goodbye especially when I am talking in anger with someone on phone.
So, it’s not an easy task to say goodbye to those whom you care about. So I have chosen the word for farewell as “will meet again” (phir milain gy). I think it’s a quite better word.
So, my read.cash friends will meet again…
****images in the article are taken by myself. actually, these are screenshots hehe I was trying to insert GIf but I could'nt.so, i take screenshots from gif. lead image is from google****
She was burnt to death...
There are two portions of our house, one of which we always give for rent. It is a matter of time before a family comes to rent one of our portions. There were only three people, a husband, a wife, and a three-year-old daughter. It was an ideal family to rent a house so my parents rented them a house.
That aunt was very good. She was very nice. She was very cute looking. And her little daughter was even sweeter and cute than her. But in a short time, we found out that aunt is addicted. But because she was very nice to us, we never said anything. But sometimes my mother would advise her.
One day it happened that very loud voices started coming from their portion. This aunty was arguing with her husband about something. In the morning we found out that she was asking her husband for drugs. it was late at night that’s why he couldn't provide her drugs at that time that’s why she was arguing with her husband.
Her husband loved her so much that he did not reject her. Her marriage was also a love marriage.
Well, in the morning he went to work. but aunt was not well because she was not getting what she wanted for several days. It was about four or five o'clock in the evening when the aunt knocked at the gate of our portion. She said, "I am going to my parents' house in anger. If my husband comes, tell him."
Less than five minutes after she left, her husband came and asked about his wife. My mother said that she had left the house barely five minutes ago. He ran after Aunty and brought his wife back from the bus stop, but Aunty kept saying you can't give me what I want, I will not come with you.
because her husband had brought drugs for her . he did not want to tell her along the way. He thought he would take her home and tell her easily When he got home, he told his wife to go in and picked up his three-year-old daughter, and went to the neighborhood to get a bottle of cold water.
***I remember it was a summer evening and we were all sitting on the roof. Suddenly smoke started rising from the lower portion of our house. And at the same time, the noise started. We didn't understand what was going on.***
When we all ran downstairs, there was a puff of smoke coming out of the house. They all broke down the door and saw that Aunty had set herself on fire. Her husband ran and put a blanket on her and blows out a fire. Some women of the neighborhood ran inside.
Her husband started calling for an ambulance. she was not fainting despite being so burnt. She was constantly calling her husband. Her husband was called in. Her husband smelled her something and she fainted.
I only saw her arm and could not see any more. She was taken to the hospital. 70% of his body was burnt. She was hospitalized for two weeks with bandages all over her body. But still, whenever she wanted drugs, she would get up and go to the washroom so she could get drugs. Doctors said her body was so badly burned that it was difficult to survive. He died two weeks later. It was a painful scene for us.
One of the person we ignored in the story of a three-year-old girl who suffered the most. She stayed with us for two weeks and then moved in with her grandmother after her mother's death. This girl had seen her mother burning in front of her eyes and when we lit the stove in front of her, she would start screaming in fear.
****The only purpose to tell you is this we should avoid these things because it not only destroys your personal life but also harms those around you. keep; yourself away from these things. this can ruin your whole life.****
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Mirror image theory: A Strange Theory
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**Sometimes in our lives, we feel things that we may not be able to describe in words. This has happened to me many times. For example, there is often an incident with me or there is a moment when I feel like this has happened before. But in fact, it is happening for the first time.**
If I ever went somewhere I think I have been here before but in reality, I would never have been there before.it’s too strange and difficult to explain. It bothered me a lot about why this happens but when I started studying psychology. Although I have read very little, because my personal tendency was more in this article, I have read everything in depth. Well, after reading this, I realized that this is a feeling that happens to many people. this is called **de JA UV.**
Then I was convinced that this is what happens also to other people. I am not a unique creature. (hahaha)
De Ja UV is a French word that means already seen. It makes a person realize that what he is seeing, what he is thinking, or what he is doing has already happened to him. It was a very strange thing that was very difficult to explain. But still, there are many theories to explain it.
**Let me tell you some of these theories.**
****Reincarnation:****
The theory of reincarnation was used to explain this feeling. It states that after death, the human soul returns to another form. That is, when a person is reborn, the memories of the old birth are preserved in some corner of his brain, and then when something like this happens to him. If it has happened in the previous life, it feels like it has happened before with him. but this theory was not much accepted so it was denied by psychologists.
****Dream based theory:****
It states that when a person falls asleep thinking of something, he sees the same thing in his dream. When he wakes up in the morning, he has forgotten about 90% of the dream, and the remaining 10% is stored in some corner of his brain. Goes. For example, if a person thinks at night that he is going on a trip with his family and he falls asleep thinking that he is on a trip with his family, this thing is in some corner of his mind. She will be safe when she actually goes on a trip, and because of this dream, she will feel that all this has happened before. this theory also doesn’t provide much valid information so it was also rejected.
****Parallel universe or mirror image theory:****
Today I was reading an Urdu novel named ABDULLAH by Hashim Nadeem he mentioned this theory in his novel. It was written over there that a character of this novel got de JA uv feeling. so he asked many people what is happening to him and how is this possible so Hashim Nadeem stated this thing as
*****“According to Greek philosophy, our world is actually a reflection of a world that is right in front of us but we do not see it. That is, what is happening there is happening here as well. Meaning there is a duplicate of each of us in this world. When our world and a few frames of the mirror of this world go back and forth, then we peek into the future for a moment. to illustrate this, he said that foreign scientists have recently recorded some voices whose language is Hebrew and which are claimed to be the voices of the time of Hazrat Musa. They will even go so far as to say that there is talk of a donkey dying.”*****
It means we are living in two worlds real and imaginary world which is a mirror image of the real world that is a few frames ahead of us. It’s all about frequency when the frequency of both world match with each other at that moment we live in that imaginary world. It causes de ja uv in future for us.
It was totally strange for me .so, I thought I should share it with you. I hope you will also get shocked just like me after reading it.
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