@DeolaD

@DeolaD 31 August 2022

A journey my hobby;prompt writing No need to ask how our day was, I believe we all had a productive day, I know some people day must have been stressful just like mine. I was told to complete a task to get a reward (Money) which I did successfully unknowingly to me that I have to complete another task. Finally I found out it wasn't real, I felt so bad. My thought was to get the reward. Everyone is s out there trying to earn an honest living. Well, I'm here to talk or write about a prompt I saw from my wonderful sponsor @fashtioluwa Write about the hobbies you have. Let's start(Talking to guys) I like talking, moving around with guys, not that I'm a bad girl or something, I enjoy their company than that to my female friends. You might think I started doing this when I became an adult but I've been moving around with guys right from my teenage day. Although I went to girls only school (A school without any male student) maybe that's were the interest came from, the first set of male friends I had was in church, ever since then if I don't have male friends, I don't feel alright. My female friend we don't last long together or sometimes we don't have a good strong bound. Then I decided to make it a hobby which has been part of me. Another one is (Been a foodie) I'm a foodie and at the same time, I love to cook good food. I don't find cooking difficult and I also bake. I could remember when I started cooking I was still little and that was before I gain admission into my secondary school. Then my mummy will call our neighbor to tell me to prepare jollof rice, my Jollof is (mixed Rice with spice) before she comes back. Cooking makes me forget my worries The next hobby that follows Sleep, I believe sleep is important to everyone, in my case, sleep is extraordinary. I don't joke with it. When I'm ready to sleep, you dare not disturb me and I hate noise. The sleep comes faster immediately after dinner. I get headaches if I don't sleep or sleep well. Another one is (Baking) One of the things that give me joy is baking, I mentioned it earlier. I joke don't joke with it as while I make pastries in different forms, I'm known to making baking very funny. Sometimes if I should visit my friend, this my friend she is a fashion designer, she will say "madam be careful with customer dress this is not cake" 🤗🤗 I also I sing, I may not be a good singer but I still enjoy it when sing. Lastly, I enjoy talking, I guess it has been part of me since birth, if I should meet someone for the first time, I will act gently to the person, trust me the next time the person sees me, such person will be so surprised. Although I don't talk unnecessarily. Talking to me keep me away from worries, and depression. Sometimes when I'm alone I get depressed, and negative thoughts set in, so by so doing I get to free myself from any negative thoughts. Tomorrow is a new month, i wish everyone happy new in advance.

@DeolaD 25 August 2022

A fulfilled week Good evening wonderful people. how has your day been so far, I believe the weather has been favorable. I Have been so busy these few weeks and that is the reason why couldn't write for days, although it was a fulfilled week. In most polytechnic before you can go for service (NYSC) we need to do some registration which is the jamb regularization and others before we can go for NYSC( National youth service corps). For the jamb regularization, we need to be congratulated before we can go to the next stage, the jamb portal of each participants needs to show an approval that jamb gave me admission which it hasn't. My school gave admission but not jamb. That is the reason for the jamb regularization. This is how the whole thing started. We have a jamb center or office very close by but the crowd there is so massive since it's very close to my school, imagine the number of students that would be there. A lot of people didn't get to do theirs in weeks, @fashtioluwa can relate. Then I decided to travel to another state where I know in under 30 minutes I will be through with the jamb regularization. Yes, I know it will cost money but I don't mind just to save me all the stress, which I did, I travel to OYO state, capital of Ibadan the largest city in Africa. During the registration, I made a mistake and I got home before I realized I made mistakes, I started calling people. Thank God for a friend who gave me the number of a man at the same jamb office where I did my registration. Thank God the man was able to solve the problem, not knowing my friend was also having the same issue. Some of them doesn't know how to accept the admission, the registrar taught us how to go about that aspect. I beg the man to help my friends, thank God the man was willing to help he also saw the seriousness in me, I sent their jamb registration number to him and he worked on it, the funniest thing is that I couldn't sleep at night. I was busy with my phone working on how to get things done meanwhile, my so-called friends were sleeping but still, I didn't let that bother me, finally, it was successful except for one person, the reason for this is because jamb gave her admission to another school since the year 2017 in her case she needs to wait patiently before she could get her to congratulate massage. I felt so happy being able to solve people's problems, my friend made the statement she said and cost "you are the savior " I was happy and blushing, you know is good to make an impact, there is this joy that comes from making impact or be a problem not only friends or family but to everyone you are opportune to meet or help, try to put a smile on people face. Thank you so much for all of your support I do appreciate it, please don't stop ✋ supporting your girl, I love ❤️ you all.

@DeolaD 16 August 2022

Happiness It is a wonderful and cool evening today, it has been raining here for days, it with this have been having a cool sleep, how is everyone doing, I hope we had a wonderful day. Today I want to talk about happiness, Happiness? I believe everyone deserves to be happy. so what is happiness? Happiness is an emotional state characterized by feelings of joy, satisfaction, contentment, and fulfillment. While happiness has many different definitions, it is often described as involving positive emotions and life satisfaction.  Most people find their happiness in various things in life some find it in their work, some in their family, and some derive happiness in what dey love doing. *****Two key components of happiness***** The balance of emotions: Everyone experiences both positive and negative emotions, feelings, and moods. Happiness is generally linked to experiencing more positive feelings than negative ones. *****Life satisfaction*****: This relates to how satisfied you feel with different areas of your life including your relationships, work, achievements, and other things that you consider important. According to Abraham Maslow's hierarchy of needs physiological, safety, love, esteem, and self-actualization I will talk about *****self-actualization*****: it refers to feeling fulfilled, it means feeling that we are doing what we believe we are meant to do. Failure to achieve this meant curse sadness. *****Signs of happiness***** Feeling that the conditions of your life are good Enjoying positive, healthy relationships with other people Feeling positive more than negative Being open to new ideas and experiences We have a type of happiness *****Joy*****: A feeling of great happiness (according to the dictionary) *****Excitement*****: A happy feeling that involves looking forward to something with positive anticipation *****Gratitude:*****it means being thankful for something positive that happened *****Pride*****:feeling of satisfaction in something that you have accomplished *****Optimism:*****This is a way of looking at life with a positive, upbeat outlook. We all deserve to be happy no matter the circumstances, most people find it hard to happy when things doesn't work out for them,learn to value yourself,never look down on your,do things that make you happy, don't think about what people with say about you.As long we are alive people we definitely talk about us. in fact If you have a standing mirror stand in front of the tell your self you are beautiful, handsome,kind etc. Say good things to yourself. Remember to always put smile on people face ,with that you are are helping them to be happy, we should try not think about our yourself alone. Wish you all a wonderful restful night. Remember choose happiness . ***please don't stop caring for me like you have always done.. till we meet again I'm still for sponsorship***

@DeolaD 13 August 2022

Longtime no see readcash Hello guys, it has been two months plus, since I vanished from the planet of @readcash, I can't believe am back again💃💃 and this time around I'm back for good. I'm so happy to hear from you guys @FashTioluwa @Olasquare @Kacy01 @Princessbusayo @Fexonice1 I believe everyone is fine, I missed you all. While I though have a lot to talk about, so I will tell you what has happened so far, for the past two months plus. A lot happened, I had to battle with my school project in other for me to defend myself, also I was preparing for the final examination. thanks to God the examination went well. Let me tell you about few of them in detials. *****My illness***** I got illed and the sickness almost took my life, I woke that morning and I noticed I was feeling a very sharp pain at my side very close to my heart ,I used pain killer drugs to relief my of the pain, instead of me getting reliefed the pain it got more intensive then I asked my friend for a massage. Still I was in pain to the extend I could hardly do things I normally do easily. Then I visited the medical center at my work place and the nurse told me it **ulcer**. She give me drugs and prescribe some drugs for me to buy which I did. At night time I could hardly breathe, I thought I was going to die, I called a friend of mine who prayed for me. I was positive and I asked God for his healing upon my life, then I received my healing from God because I treated my illness medically I also used herbals but none of this worked for me that was the reason I said "i received my healing from God" I thank God the illness didn't claim my life. *****Financial crisis***** I was financial down because I have to use all my money to take care of my illness (I believe where there is life there is hope) to the extend I couldn't subscribe for data on my phone. I had to wait till the ending of that month before I got paid from the job I do. We had our amazing sign-out day, I had to participate in it because during my ND (national diploma)program I couldn't participate in any but this time time around in my Higer diploma, I made sure I partook of it. I was able to see my friends from my ND days and we took a lot of pictures together . After all that had happened, I'm using this avenue to appreciate God my maker for giving me grace and strength to complete this HND (higher diploma)program, it has been God all the way five years wasn't joke also my big appreciation goes to my wonderful friend @FashTioluwa (**The author of welcome to readcash academy I hope he add me to the story soon.**) for his support so far, also to the wonderful family on readcash for there support as well. Thank you for your love and patience God bless you all. I love you. Now I am back for good and I still need your support.

@DeolaD 21 June 2022

Hello readcash family, how are you doing, it been a while that I have been active on this platform, though it is due to the fact that I have been facing some real life challenges, it hasn't been easy, but I can assure you I will be back soon, I will do my best to be active again. Though I have a lot to say but with few time given. Have a lovely night as you sleep

@DeolaD 1 June 2022

Please smile Please smile! I repeat, please smile!. No man can survive in this world without Happiness. If you've got no reason to be happy you have find a means to make yourself happy. At times we get lost in thought and by the time you realized it you will notice that you have been frowning for a long time. Life is sweet if you smile everyday. Your smile can change another person's world entirely. Your happiness can soften a string heart. It can transform anyone including you!. Smile when you are among people. When you're worried find a way to make merry. Why will you look unhappy? Please smile. Let go of anyone or anything that makes you sad. Be always happy about where you stand. Don't dwell on the past too much. Brace up!. Think positively, think progress, ignore haters, abandon mockers, forget about the betrayals, deal with all oppressor, unfriend fake companions, go ahead with full focus to achieve your goals and dreams and please always smile. *****Have you done that today?,***** Smile?, laugh? Think of all the good memories that makes you joyful. Play games. Discuss with people that can make you smile not those who will kill the joy. If for the past 72hrs you have not done anything, that's too bad, depression is at its peak. You can still will it by letting go of that situation and enjoy the fun and warmth of each day. I want to challenge you today, please, appear differently and surprise the world with a change of countenance..I believe you are doing that already? Smiling is nice. So keep it up. Luck is yours! I want to appreciate my wonderful family on readcash,who have been reading my article,also for the tips, I'm so grateful. I love you,I warmly welcome more sponsor,please I need your support.

@DeolaD 28 May 2022

Romance With Stress What is stress? Stress is **a feeling of emotional or physical tension**. It can come from any event or thought that makes you feel frustrated, angry, or nervous. Stress is your body's reaction to a challenge or demand. In short bursts, stress can be positive, such as when it helps you avoid danger or meet a deadline. ***Source*** https://medlineplus.gov/ency/article/003211.htm I have been having this feeling of stress lately, I know some of the things that might have cause it, I'm not taking care of myself well lately. The only day I'm truly free is only on Saturday and sunday, another day, I'm at work doing one thing in the office or on the computer, my work doesn't give time to be online like many people, that's why if you check my page, there are always big gaps in the writing days.. you can see 5days ago then 1week ago then a day ago, that's how bad it is for me currently. What actually made me choose this topic of romancing with stress? Well the truth is that I feel like I have been engage to a person called stress and he is not ready to leave me anytime soon, from monday, I would wake up by 6am to start preparing for work, I would get to work at 7.30 am and my day would start, oh did I forget to tell you I'm still studying, I have lectures on Monday and Wednesday, my lecture ends at 2 pm, then I'm off to work, at that time, I would be so tired and I would still meet load of work on my desk, my boss is a nice lady so it's easy to cope. Readcash. I know I'm a member of readcash but can I call myself a faithful member, I don't think so, thanks to @FashTioluwa for always pushing me and advising me, I wanted to give up a long time ago, but he was always there, he asked me to write at least an article a day, I tried to keep up to his expectations but I couldn't, I feel disappointed in myself but he kept on encouraging me, I know I have to be very active if i want to earn like him or make a name for myself like him but my friend (stress) will not allow me. I notice my subscriber haven't left the place I left it, but I'm not giving up, I doubt I would get any sponsor with this attitude of mine, I did my best and I was able to be online yesterday, I replied to many people article and I was glad to be a subscriber to @Giddyboy he surprised me yesterday, I won't say what he did, but he knows, I'm here to say thank you, it was the first time I got that kind of gift. I don't know how to get raid of this stress, I don't think I can get any break any time soon, please just let your prayers be with me, I don't want to end before my time. I wish my family can be here for me, it would really help me, I'm in this state on my own, I can't wait to go back home, to the arms of my mom for comfort, I'm not looking for sympathy, but this is what I'm just going through. I guess I will end it all here. Thanks for everything you all have been doing, I'm just do my best to write, I'm not a good writer but I promise to improve on myself. Thanks for all the encouragement. I love you all.

@DeolaD 27 May 2022

Time Varies Hi, everyone, I haven't been online for a while, it sad I didn't have anyone to ask or check on me 😔, it makes me sad that I came online and my earn was cut into half, I don't know why, was it because I was away for too long 😟, can someone explain for me. Anyways to the main topic the day. Time is something that is said that wait for no man, in recent time, you would see parent talking to their kid(s) and trying to explain somethings to them, you would hear the kid say, mom or dad, that's in the olden days, things have changed now. And yes, they are right, one thing that remains constant is change and change is something that happens with time, each generation that has ever lived has their own time, yes everyone has their time, this topic "TIME" can never be overemphasized. IN THE PURSUIT OF SUCCESS Many young ones have gotten things wrong in many ways because they are trying to run behold their time, some are influenced by the success of their friends, and they start making wrong decisions when they become desperate. There is nothing bad in trying to pursue your friend on the ladder of success but when you start and things aren't working out well, you need to know when to stop and restrategize, you need to know when to put a stop to your hustle, the time for you to be successful might not be at hand, but the more you struggle, you would get there one day. Let's take the story of McDonald's as an exam, he was an old man who had nothing, at his old age, an idea popped in his head to start selling fried chicken, he started by going from house to house selling, then he opened a small shop and from that one shop, it went all over the world. If he had that idea at his young age, he might have been a billionaire of his time, also if he had been so desperate for riches without waiting for his own time, he might have made a wrong decision that would have landed him in prison and we wouldn't have the McDonald's that we have now. So we should all be conscious of time because it is one thing that a man can never stop or determine. A MOVIE I once watched a movie that has to do with people that has the amount of time they are going to spend on earth on their hands, everything you do in that movie, you do it in time, you for everything you want with the time of your life, people buy food with minutes, to buy a house, you can buy it with years, probably with 3 or 4years, so everyone uses their time well and live their life to the fullest, yes some people can steal other people time, and also you get paid in time, and transport is paid in time. One of the saddest parts of the movie was when the main actor's mother was having just a few hours left to live, she was still young, like in her 20s, her son got lucky and he was given 120years on his time, he was happy he would give his mom more time to live, on her way to meet him, she didn't have enough time to pay for the transport fare, it was 3min and she had just 2min left for a 1min journey, she pleaded with the bus driver that her son would pay at the bus stop he refuses and no one was ready to give some minute of their life away, so she started running to the next bus stop where her son was when the bus arrived at the next bus stop, her son didn't see her come down from the bus, so he also started running towards the next bus stop, he saw his mother running towards him but before he could reach her, her time was up, 00:00, she died immediately. I would like to tell us all to use the time of our life very well, we shouldn't use it for evil but to help others and make the world a better place, "**heal the world and make it a better place, for you and for me and for everyone"** that is how we should use our time, but as time change, people change and no one wants to be good. ***Thanks for reading, I do appreciate all the love you have been showing to me, please don't stop caring for me like you have always done.. till we meet again***

@DeolaD 24 May 2022

It been a long time here I missed been here.how is everyone doing and how has been our day?

@DeolaD 22 May 2022

Be vigilant Hello my wonderful people on readcash, it been while and I believe everyone is good and doing okay. I'm writing this to remind everyone about something very important we should all remember, yes, we all hear and know about rapture. We are all familiar with the year calendar which starts from January to December. God also has his own calendar for the earth too. The most important event in God calendar for the world is the coming of the lord jesus to take his followers to heaven, this is called rapture, in his word, he says "John 14:1-4 KJV Let not your heart be troubled: ye believe in God, believe also in me. [2] In my Father's house are many mansions: if it were not so , I would have told you. I go to prepare a place for you. [3] And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again, and receive you unto myself; that where I am, there ye may be also. [4] And whither I go ye know, and the way ye know" You can look into the scripture for more, Nobody knows the date and time when jesus will come for his people, however he gave the sign that would precede his coming such as femine, earthquakes, epidemics, persecution and killings of the followers, appearances of false prophets and false christ.He also gave the final signs which is although manifesting. And this gospel of the kingdom will be preached in all the world as a witness to all nations, and then the end will come matt24:1-4. Jesus christ warns every believer to be ready for the son of man, he is coming at an hour you do not expect Matt 24:44. Immediately after rapture, the world ruler who is called antichrist, beasts, lawless one, a man of force full of deception, who hates and blasphemes God will appears. His economy policy will force people to receive his number 666 which bible call the number of destruction (hell) whoever's receive the number is doomed, and whoever refuse the number cannot buy or sell, coupled with the challenges of the coming of the evil one is the wrath of God that will be realised on the earth as judgment of evil and wickedness for the period of three and half years, for there will be great tribulations, my brother and my sister, heaven real. The great hope of Christians who are is still alive is to go with christ at rapture, those who miss the rapture will partake in the great tribulations. Repent of your sins and give you life to Jesus Christ and be ready on daily basis for the rapture, so christ was offered once to bear the sins of many, to those who eagerly wait for him he will appear a second time, depart from sin for salvation, Heb 9:28, rapture of great tribulations, the choice is yours. My dear family, this is to remind us of that glorious day, I know it will be nice, for some on the other hand it will be a sorrowful day, my prayer is this, "that day will be glorious day for us" We should not get carried away by the things of the world, may God help us to work according to his will in jesus name, may his word dwell richly in us and we shall not miss the glorious home in Jesus name.

@DeolaD 15 May 2022

My sleep version (This or That) *****Light on or light off***** It depends, I so much like it when the light is off, I find easy and comfortable to sleep when the light off, the only time I leave my power switch on is when there is no power supply, immediately there is power, the bulb indicates there is light, so I would get up so I can do everything I want to do with the electricity. The electricity in my side of the country is so bad so any chance it comes up, we all use it to the fullest before it goes off again.. *****Fan or no fan***** Well, for me fan, we all know the level and current situation, when there Is power supply, I so much enjoy the fan, especially when I'm when sleeping, so much enjoy, to the extent I don't need to care about the mosquito because the fan will keep the mosquito from biting me. *****One or several pillows***** Although I have more then two pillows in my small room 😁but you see I don't really care if I use pillows or not, sometimes while sleeping, I would just throw my towards another direction and have a peaceful sleep, but when you enter my room you would always 3pillow on my bed cause only that way, I can stay comfortable on the bed. *****Early to bed or late to sleep***** Since I joined readcash, I have never been able sleep early, not because I don't want to, it like I'm addicted to readcash, it better than wasting my data on other things that won't profit me, but fear my sleeping spirit, once it possess me, either late or early, I'm of to bed, I believe most people also do the same, me has a person I do sleep talk of I stress too much and I sleep late. *****Thin or thick blanket***** While it depends on the weather conditions, I believe no one will prefer using a thick blanket in an hot period, but during the cold season I enjoy using my thick blanket, or is there anyone that always use thick blanket in all weather, you can teach me the ways of the body regulating temperature, master! Except for those that stay in the cold region, they will always use thick blanket *****PJ or comfy clothes***** I know what pyjama is but I doubt I ever wore it once, in a country where there is always hate, most time the electricity is bad, so how do you expect me to sleep with PJ again, some time I sleep in comfortable clothes, just short and singlet, no bra, very flexible and light short and singlet, and most time, I sleep without any cloth on if the heat is too much, that way I feel more comfortable. Though when it is the cold season, most people know it as the winter season, I just put on comfortable clothes with my cover cloth or blanket all over my body, my slim dark body. *****Drink water or milk***** I had never for once thought of drinking milk at any hour of the night, water has always been the drink of the night for me, even if I should drink milk, i will definitely step it down with water. If I was gonna drink milk, I will take it with coco while I'm eating my dinner, but if I forget to do that after eating, dear, pass the water so I can have a good night sleep, that's how it is for me, but I wanna ask, is it good to drink milk at night before sleeping ?. I'm using this 1medium to appreciate my sponsor There is space for sponsorship, thanks for reading and your support.

@DeolaD 15 May 2022

Happy Sunday to my wonderful people on readcash, to the Christian how was service today, mine was amazing.

@DeolaD 14 May 2022

What you sow is what you reap A lady got on a plane, in a first-class suite, beside her was a pregnant woman, while in the plane the pregnant woman's water broke and she went into labor, the lady beside her noticed her she said, The lady: why is this woman disturbing my rest, I have an interview to catch, when you, knew you would give birth anytime soon why did you get on a plane Pregnant woman: is not yet time for me to give birth, I don't know what is wrong (She said, as she was scared) The lady who claim to have an interview called the hostess and told her the pregnant woman is in labor and she needs to rest because she had an interview so the pregnant Lady has to be moved. The hostess moved the pregnant lady to the economy suit but there was no space, and no one was willing to leave her seat for her, some people even said: I pay for this site and I must enjoy it, while others looked away. The hostess brought her back to her previous seat, and the lady said The lady: I paid good money for the sit and I'm not ready to leave for any reason. Pregnant woman: please take this token of money, this is what I have left with me. The lady: why I will take the money, for disturbing my rest, do you think I'm poor. Never mind, I won't leave my seat for her. The hostess begged her several time but she refused to give the pregnant woman peace, eventually, she got space for her in the hostel and she found out there was a first aid box, the hostess was brave and knowledgeable, so she helped the woman with her birth. Thank God the woman was able to give birth successfully, everyone knew she had given birth, and they all could hear the cry of the baby, the woman who had just given birth struggled back to her seat and continued the journey. They landed after some hours, everyone was told to wait for the woman to get into the ambulance, but the lady sitting beside her refused, she needed to get to the company for the interview, so she didn't wait any minute for the woman to get into the ambulance, she was able to meet for the interview. She saw the attendant, and she was told the interview has been postponed because her boss got had a delay while coming from vacation, the attendant told her not to worry, all her hotel bills will be taken care of, and finally the day of the interview. She saw a baby in the baby carrier, wow this baby is cute, I love baby, a woman spoke behind her, "I guess I must be mistaking you for the lady on the plane" the lady got shocked 😳😳 I had to end my vacation to meet up for your Interview when I got into labor, Next time.. The women advised her to always be kind to people,she regretted her action and how she had spoke to the pregnant women not knowing she own the company she wanted to do her interview, she lost the job and went back to her city without any letter of appointment, on her way back, she said to herself, if I had known, I would have been a better person. This is just a fictional story, I guess we all learn one or two things from it.

@DeolaD 13 May 2022

The impact of a good friend Good afternoon my wonderful people on readcash, how has been our day, it rained this morning and the weather as been cool. It all started in year 2019, when I was on my way home from class after my school lecture, while I was still reminiscing about what I would eat, I found a secondary school boy who had a serious injury on his leg, I don't know what must have happened to him, it was so serious that blood was gushing out from the injured leg, I saw the boy and had compassion on him, I needed to something about it, the woman hawking things told me to apply salt on the leg which I did, i cant even remember where i got the salt from cause i was in school, unfortunately the bleeding reduce but the wound still look bad,🤔🤔 Then, I remember the red cross office which is a bit far from where I found the boy, I took the boy there, even after all the lecture and the stress i was feeling, all my mind was that, i need to get help for the little boy before i head home, when I got to the Red cross office in my school, I met a very tall handsome guy, he asked what happened and how did it happen, I really don't know what happened so I explained everything to him the way it happened, how I met the little boy on my way home He said its was wrong to apply salt on the wound, the is dangerous for the boy leg, I would I know that, I'm no expect in treating people or do I have the knowledge about it, I only did was the elderly woman asked me to, I said that to myself. He treated the wound, when I was about leaving, he called me back to write down my name, I told I don't know the boy, I'm only trying to help him, that all, I see no reason why my name should be documented, the next thing he said was that, "there is no problem, just to put down my name" which I did and it all ended there, that was the last time I saw him that year. It was early 2020 when I found out that we were both in the the same department, I mean the tall handsome guy, and the surprising thing again was, he was my class representative (class Rep), we had nothing to say to each other, although he has forgotten about me and that little experience we had, he his a good representative and I like his Administration, then in our second year first semester, one day like that, we were walking together and heading towards the same direction, I was on my way home and his was going to Red cross base, we spoke for a little while and discuss about the ongoing examination, I ended up collecting his contact, he told me to chat him up and I walked away smiling, after that day, I didn't call or chat him up until after some weeks, it was already holiday period after he exams, I chatted him up on Facebook and we had a nice conversations, it all started there and we became good friends, he introduced me to readcash, though I'm still in a the learning phrase of readcash and I'm doing my best to meet up with my daily article, though most time, I can't meet up, I write sometime 4times in a week, lesser sometimes and more sometimes. He has been a very good person to me, even with his busy schedule, I wonder how he is able to meet up with writing everyday, writing isn't easy for me, picking topic can but putting it into words can be difficult, I'm sure @Princessbusayo can understand, but I'm glad I'm here, writing and earning. This awesome person I have been talking about, is my first sponsor,it no one but @FashTioluwa his has been so supportive,encouraging thank you so much. I will like to say,when you have a good friend try to keep and cherish them because when you loose them,you may not find a good friend again.

@DeolaD 12 May 2022

Today wasn't bad until this evening, when I got home, I entered my kitchen only to find my plate rag on floor, all my, unbreakable plates and breakable plates ,cups were all broken, i feel like crying right now,knowing that I have no plate to eat. I feel weak and down right now 😢😢

@DeolaD 12 May 2022

How food shows the kind of celebration going on It is not new that in most celebration, there must be food to be share among the people that came for the celebration, either wedding, naming ceremony, burial or remembrance. In my country, food plays a very important role in any celebration, a celebration that were food is not share, such celebration isn't mostly honoured. I will be taking my country as a case study for this write up. In my country (Nigeria), almost all achievement is celebrated, from house warming, to naming ceremony of a new baby, wedding, burial, graduation and so on, mention it and I will tell you it can be celebrated. *****1.Wedding ceremony***** Wedding is a great celebration in my country, when celebrating a wedding, there are three stages to pass through, firstly the traditional stage, the Christian or islamic wedding stage and the court stage. In all this stage, there must be food to be prepare. When you see this kind of food in a celebration, swallow and rice, you would know it must be a wedding, but the kind of swallow food is there, it either semo, pounded yam, or amala. All this swallow food is what is mostly prepared in wedding. Swallow food: This is a kind of food that is mostly eaten with the bare hands in my culture with soup, different kinds of soup, you mold this swallow food substance with your hand, touch the soup and swallow it. *****2.Burial or remembrance celebration***** For burial celebration, especially if its an elderly person burial, the food prepared is like that of a wedding, but when it is remembrance, the food prepare is "Akara". When you see Akara being shared, you would know the remembrance of a person that has passed away is being done. You can use the Akara with bread, garri, or pap. 3*****. Naming ceremony of a baby.***** Like I said, we celebrate almost every thing, for a child naming ceremony, if the child is the first child, the ceremony is done in a enormous way, there would be a lot of food, just like that of the wedding and burial. When you attend a naming ceremony and beans is shared as food, then you would know that the person celebrating his or her child naming day, the person has given birth to twin. It is composary in my culture to prepare beans as food to celebrate the birth of a twins child. In my culture(yoruba) after the birth of a child, you name the child after seven days of the child on earth, it is the tradition of the people to name their child after 7days of his or her birth. With this, you would understand that, food actually determine the kind of celebration that is going on, and also when you want to celebrate a thing, you should know there are some things to consider before you chose the kind of food to be prepared for that celebration I want to appreciate my number one sponsor @FashTioluwa for the full support and encouragement,thank you so much, I don't mind other sponsors too.

@DeolaD 8 May 2022

Welcome To My Gallery. Happy Sunday readcash family, how it is going today, I would like to put some of my pictures here and I will the story behind those pictures to you, here we go, I hope you find it fun to read. This picture was taken after my senior secondary school, I was very happy when I started making my hair, throughout my secondary school I was on low cut, then, moment after I graduated from secondary school, I was very happy to start making my hair, this was my first making hair as a secondary school graduate. Someone saw me that very day and he said wow, indeed the beauty of a woman lays in her hair, although I was shy and happy at the same time. This is me 2016, I just finished my neco exam, then I traveled to lagos to stay with one of my sisters who gave birth to twins at that period, I was able to relax a little bit hoping that my results will come out well, while in lagos, I enjoy my stay, I got to meet new people, go to place I haven't been to, the very day I took this picture, my phone got spoilt and my sister I had to give me her own phone to use, I decided to make myself happy by taking some pictures.😊 Yes this is me in 2019 around October 4 or 5, I followed my boyfriend to the studio to take some pictures, he was actually the one that took the picture and that year was when the relationship started, October was his birthday month, so we had fun that very day. A good fun, not what some other people would think cause I don't want to get question about that😁😁 This day was a very funny day and also a happy day. we took this picture in Ibadan, we left ilorin for Ibadan, I base in Ibadan and my friend boyfriend also base in Ibadan so I decided to follow her, so I can use the opportunity to visit my family, unknown to my friend that her boyfriend would be proposing to her that same day. 18th of October 2020 was such a great day, this is when the ENDSAR protests was on going, after the celebration we decided to travel back to ilorin that very day. we got to government house and the protesters stopped our bike from passing unless we join the protest, we pleaded with them but they refuse to listen to us, we then had no option then to come down and walk pass them since my friend is having an exam the following day and I had to report to work the following day. We got to ilorin around 12pm midnight that day, glory to God my friend got married this year January 😊 This very day was a monday, I bought the dress newly and I went to work, my colleagues and boss at work were like wow the dress looks nice on you, you know the kind of feelings you get when you buy a new dress and you decide to flaunt around with your new dress and you want everyone to see it, that was the spirit I had that day and I got a lot of praise for it, 😁😊 And here is 2022, my present look, I just got another new phone, I decided to take some pictures with my new phone, I took several pictures and I was happy doing that, I actually took this picture at work. So that's some of my pictures, I hope I look beautiful, thanks to @FashTioluwa for the sponsorship, I do appreciate it, he was my first sponsor and supporter, I would continue to do my best, I don't mind others supporting me too.. Thanks for reading, image used are mine, see you next time either in your article or mine.. happy mothers day to all the mothers out there and to the unmarried sisters like I'm, happy mothers day in advance to you.

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@DeolaD 4 May 2022

A sad teenager story Hello wonderful people of readcash, its another raining day in my city, it been so cold here, though i havent been active recently on readcash and I hope to change also to seek your forgiveness, I hope we had a wonderful night rest? Mine was cool and presently it still raining which made the weather so cool, wishing you all the best day ever. Now back to my topic My experience has a teenager wasn't really a good one especially right from my junior secondary school 2, I'm not much of a social person, I find it difficult to make friends, or start a conversation, it got worst that even if I make friends it either I get bullied or we fight, reason for fight is that I decided not to bend to their will, I attended a girls only school, so we all equal except for difference in class It got to a point I regretted having some friends because it affected my academic, I'm a lonely girl that want friends right, I seek for attention but that doesn't mean I would go around talking to everyone, I had a reputation of keeping to myself in junior class. At a point, I couldn't focus and my parent were not helping, all I do is cry and keep calm, I never allowed anyone see my weakness because I know I would be exploited, to God be the glory I got promoted into senior secondary school 1, while I was in senior class, I thought that I was the end of rejection, little did I know I was just beginning. 😢😢 When I talk, no one wants to listen, I began to ask myself question like, when you talk, do say rubbish that make people not want to listen to me, I then decided to stop talking, all I do is to listen so what people say and mind my business. During break time, I go the library to sit and read some books, talk to my librarian, I told him the issue I was facing because I had no one to talk to, I have no one at home I can talk to also and since I needed someone to talk to, he became my friend and then I started smiling again, I can say I was a sadist because I don't laugh, it got to time I was so depressed I asked a girl in my church "am I not beautiful" "don't I look good" and the reason for asking such questions was because teenagers my age then already having boyfriends, all the girls I know had boyfriends they talk about, and the Male teenagers I decided to be friends with never for once asked me out probably because I have no shape nor boobs, laughable right? with all this, I believe I will never be loved by anyone, not even my parents so I had to become secretive with them. After my senior secondary school exam, I was unable to make all my papers at once, the fire in me increased, all I could do was cry, my mom wasn't helping, although she believes she is doing the right thing, everywhere I go, all I do is to cry, I felt God had forsaken me, to the point that I almost committed Suicide, (Suicide is never a way out and it isn't the right way) then I had to talk to myself. Then I decided to focus more on my studies, while doing that I moved closer to God, I got registered into a (NGO) Non governmental organizations, I was among the fifty second secondary schools graduate that was chosen for the program, we were thought a lot of things, after that, things started changing for me, I met different people, then I saw life in different way, I was opportune to learn a trade for a year while waiting for my examination results, my mummy was still harsh on me, she will say things like "**see you brother, he is doing better then you, why can't you turn a new leave, do you want to waste my money or do you want me to spend in vain.....etc"** she says these things because I was not doing well in my academic, and it not like I choose to behave that way or be like that, but I guess she didn't understand me or know to well . To cut the long story short, I'm in my final year in kwara state polytechnic, a public polytechnic, I'm living my best life with good friends left and right, I would finish my higher institutions soon. I'm so grateful for life and I'm glad I didn't take my life then, so I would like to thank @FashTioluwa for introducing to this platform.

@DeolaD 2 May 2022

Article of the day Today 2/05/2022 Everyone has something they would choose over another no matter the time the case is brought to them, their answer will always be the same. Today article is a prompt article I saw on @Tife page, it was an article that she was answering some question and I thought to answer the same question in my own words, here we go. Money or first class Its money for me, what is first class? I don't understand, is it like first class in a plane or first class in my university, or first class in class, I will always choose money, even if I get first class in everything and I don't get a good paying job, what good is the first class, beside people don't base their thinking on first class again, what they do now is ask what can you offer us not what class do you have in your certificate. So brother and sisters, it is money for me, what is it for you. Money or love The both 😜😜, I know you would say I can't choose the two, but why can't I. Even davido my favorite singer said "love sweet o, when money enter love is sweeter" though if I'm to pick, I would pick love, when the love is there, everything your partner has is also yours, so if I would choose it would be love, yet I want both. Science or art It is art, I was in art class when I was in secondary school, many people back then taught I choose art over science because they believe science was harder but that's not true. Art actually gave birth to science, some might doubt but it the truth, take it the way it is. Leader or follower I'm with @Tife on this, she said in her article, you can't be a leader if you haven't followed, the truth is that all of us are not born a leader, the fact that everyone want to be a boss is what is destroying the world, if we all allow someone to lead and back the person up, then we are all leader, if I'm called to lead, I would lead, but if someone offer to take the position, I will gladly let go and be a support to that person. Salary or Hourly Getting paid monthly or hourly, this one is hard in a way, for salary, I can plan a side hustle like readcash or other things, hourly, I would have time to plan a long time plans, all my plan would be short and my long term plan might be affected. The both are great and have their own disadvantage. If I'm to pick, it would be salary. Bad company or no company Even if you're a good person, bad company will corrupt your pure heart and we don't need more bad people in the society, I would prefer no company. I love my space and I don't want intruder in my private space, though where I live, there are bad boys that smoke there, I would just stay in my room, though I'm use to them, and I they won't hurt me cause i do most of the cooking for them in my hostel, but when I'm in my room, they know that's my space and would never cross or let anyone cross, it like walking in the valley of the shadow of death and I fear no evil. Travel to the future or go back in time to correct a mistake. I really do want to know the future, but going to the future to see what's up, it like spoiling a movie I'm going to make, instead I would go back to the past and correct some motherf##ker mistake I made, anytime I think about it, it do make me angry and I do feel like I want to vomit. But now I'm a big girl and I can't go back in time, which I wish I could. In conclusion You can join this prompt by answering the question in your own word, tag me if you want to, I would be glad if you do, till we meet again, have a lovely new month, and a wonderful evening.

@DeolaD 29 April 2022

An unwanted guest: For the ladies Hello guys, today whether is feels so cold, currently I have been in my sweat shirt all day, also since morning I have been having headache 😨😨 and I haven't been myself, in fact, it making me have writer block. I have been having the thought of writing about this so I decided to write about it today, I will like to talk about that thing that comes visiting unvited, most time you would plan for this visitor but it wouldn't show up, it acts like the random rewarded, without asking for my permission it would come, guess who this visitor is, it is the monthly ritual every lady pass through, that is madam menstruation. You see this madam, she come without my permission and when she comes, she make sure she comes with pains and for the whole day that I would have to stay sick and gentle. I believe ladies will understand what I'm actually saying, it might be strange to the guys but not to the ladies. How ladies deal with menstrual pain Different lady deal with menstrual differently, there are some ladies that would be very harsh when they are on their period, while others don't feel anything at all, others would have a lot of pimples on their face, others purge like like water machine, but in all this, we ladies deal with our pain differently. Taking myself for an example, when I go through my menstrual pain, I become more gentle and calm like I said, when the pain get severe, I have a trick to it, unlike other ladies that uses drug for their pains, I don't, I become workaholic and it helps me forget about the pain, I wouldn't even know I'm going through my menstrual period, but immediately I stop working, the pains come back, I would become so unease, roll on my bed and change my sleeping position several times. The reason I don't use medication (drugs) for my pain is because I believe I would get too use to it, and it can be addictive. What if I'm going through the pain and I can't find the drug, what would I do, so I have to train my body to adapt to it and use my tricks to reduce the pain. Another trick I use when I get tired of working is make sure I take in hot water. I'm the kind of person that love taking sugary things, I had to reduce the intake of sugar in order to reduce the pain which actually works, getting some sleep also helps. Things to avoid before or during menstruation. The one and only thing I know you should avoid is the intake of sugar. Thanks for listening. To the ladies out there, taking care of your body is very important, the use of pad during this period is paramount. Also after the use of a pad, you open the use pad, bring out the blooded tissue , then you flush it, with that, it would block the water closet, you then wash the outer part of the used pad, dry it, you don't need to dispose it immediately, you can pile it up and burn it after it's much, but if you can't do that, you can burn immediately. Article type: Health Talk Date: 29:02:2022 Author: DeolaD

@DeolaD 27 April 2022

Something unique about me (Prompt) Hello good people, I have something to tell you all, I hope you enjoy this read. Believe me, I'm so sure everyone is special and unique in there own way so that I will like to tell special and unique things about me,I might look like someone but I'm very sure and far different from the person ,I'm wonderfully and fairly made,God gave me eyes ,ears ,nose he hasn't given any one thank God for that WHAT MAKE ME SO SPECIAL I'm from the lingen of the king family and in my culture, females can't become king. I'm a loveable person, I'm loved by people around me and being cared for. There is something amazing about me, most time when a person praise me in my presence, especially in my local dialect, some thing good usually happen to that person, even the littlest things count too, it is something I didn't notice at first, because anything can happen to anyone at anytime, but it becomes frequent, why is that when I'm being praised and I'm pleased, something good will happen to that individual. Though I love being praised but it not something that happens often, you know we are in the 21st century and you don't expect praise praising you if you haven't done anything remarkable. That was the first Another unique thing about me is that, I'm a good cook, I know I know, we have many spectacular cook out there, their food are so good one would do anything to have a taste, but for me, I never had any lesson on cooking or work tutorial video to cook, it just come naturally, when I'm set to cook, the right ingredients and the right thing to do will just come to me naturally, I wonder if it happens to other people like that too, but mine, it just make me feel so unique. Everyone would like to do things that make themselves happy, one thing I do that makes me happy is baking of cakes, I'm the only one that bakes cake in my family, all sort of cake, this really makes me feel special, I'm very special in my family. This is the end of my write up, you can join the prompt, it was started by @Theblackdoll and I saw it first at @FashTioluwa page, you can read theirs and learn from it too.

@DeolaD 26 April 2022

Awareness For Malaria. Good evening my wonderful friends on read cash is still your baby on reading cash and how was his day, I believe we had a wonderful day, so the day I will be talking about malaria since yesterday was world malaria day. This article you're about to read isn't most completely my work but I would love you all to read and learn from it. World Malaria Day is an annual observance held on April 25 to raise awareness of the global effort to control and ultimately eradicate malaria. World Malaria Day, which was first held in 2008, developed from Africa Malaria Day, an event that had been observed since 2001 by African governments. The observance served as a time to assess progress toward goals aimed at controlling malaria and reducing its mortality in African countries. In 2007, at the 60th session of the World Health Assembly (a meeting sponsored by the World Health Organization [WHO]), it was proposed that Africa Malaria Day be changed to World Malaria Day to recognize the existence of malaria in countries worldwide and to bring greater awareness to the global fight against the disease. Malaria exists in more than 100 countries worldwide, and some 900,000 people die from the disease each year. However, malaria is preventable with the use of medicines and other precautionary measures, such as insecticide-treated bed nets and indoor insecticide spraying. On the first World Malaria Day the secretary-general of the United Nations, Ban Ki-moon, emphasized the need to increase the availability of bed nets, medicines, public health facilities, and trained health workers to people in areas of the world affected by malaria. Ban challenged global initiative programs, such as the Bill & Melinda Gates Foundation, the Roll Back Malaria Partnership, and the Global Fund for AIDS, Tuberculosis, and Malaria, by stating that he expected such universal access to be in place by the end of 2010. Ban’s call for action prompted the formation of the Global Malaria Action Plan (GMAP), an aggressive unified strategy designed to reduce the incidence of malaria worldwide. The three components of this strategy are control, elimination, and research. Research to develop new drugs and new approaches to prevention is fundamental to efforts aimed at first controlling and then eliminating malaria from areas severely affected by the disease. The long-term goal of the plan was the global eradication of the disease by 2015. However, progress toward this goal slowed significantly because of inadequate funding and health care, particularly in difficult-to-reach areas, which had the highest proportion of cases. By 2019, infection rates in places with the greatest malaria burden remain largely unchanged, and an analysis of global trends in malaria incidence suggested that eradication could be achieved by 2050. The article source is gotten here you can click to learn more. https://www.britannica.com/topic/World-Malaria-Day Africa is one of the breeding grounds for mosquitoes, I don't know of other countries but my country (Nigeria) especially Lagos state, due to the still water in most of the drainage, is has served as a breeding place for mosquitoes, research has it that 80% population living in lagos are malaria positive. When a patient is taken to the hospital for check up, the first test to be conducted is malaria test and some others, before the invention of drugs to battle the malaria disease, many people have lost their lives to this easily cure disease, with inventions and evolution of the human race, scientist has been able to come out with a good and reliable solution to the treatment of malaria. Chloroquine is one of the best drugs that were developed for malaria, Every person, every race age group, and nationality can use it. The only side effect is hitched which we can control with other antidotes, but is the best drug we can use, but because of it side effects, many people have negative comments on the use of the medicine. A tablet of chloroquine should be 200mg, but because of corruption, wickedness, and greed, people produce ordinary chalk of the tablet at 50mg but they will write 200mg, so these things make the parasite to be resistance, when you use the medicine, it no longer have any positive effects. With more evolution, new drugs have been produce to combat malaria, like lumtem, amtem, and other "tem" that there are. How to prevent malaria We have external and internal For the internal: Use of mosquito net Windows nets Using insecticide *****For the external ;***** Eradication of the Bush area Clearing drainage Please this is to remind us to take good care of our families and also create more awareness to let people know that malaria kills. Thanks, and have a lovely day.

@DeolaD 23 April 2022

Nigeria dishes and how to prepare them (part 1) Hello wonderful family of readcash, the new girl brings good news to readcash, I hope you all had a wonderful day? While my day wasn't bad thank God. Today I will be your teacher and I will teach you how to cook two kinds of dishes, I hope you can learn and practice it at home. *****Jollof Rice***** You see the jollof is one thing you should never miss when you come to my country, especially the aroma 😋, it will make hunger disappear, trust me😜. This tips will teach you how to cook a very good delicious jollof rice *****Ingredients*****: Two or morecups of Rice (depend on how much you want to cook) Pepper, tomato, rodo,tataus 1/2tablespoons of Salt Cut your Onions into sizes of your choice Five tablespoons of Oil 3maggi Curry, thyme Season (Salt) Stock (chicken or meat stock) Water Tomato puree Beef (optional) Green pea, carrot, sweet corn, etc. *****Direction:***** 1. wash your rice 4 to 5 times and make sure the water in the rice is clean then stuff it into a clean bowl. Pour your groundnut oil into the pot, when it heat for like 10sec, pour in your sliced onions while you reduce the light in your gas, this will make it not get brownish. 2. Pour in your grounded pepper into the fried onions and stir just a little, a tablespoon of tomato into the pot and add your Maggi, salt curry, thyme, and seasoning to the amount of rice you want to cook then stir gently. 3. After stirring cover for like 3minutes 4. Add a little water into the pot and make it boil for 4 or 5min 5. Add your washed rice into it, stir gently, taste it to your satisfaction and cover it for 10min while the light in your gas /stove will not be too high. 6. Add your washed carrot and pour it on it don't stir leave it for 3min and stir gently with your turning stick and taste if the rice is getting soft or it will need little water and cover it for like 5min 7. if your rice is already soft and dry then add ur dice beef(optional), your wash green pea, sweet corn on it and stir for like 10sec and turn off your gas/stove. 8. serve your meal😋. 2 *****Amala with ewedu and Gbegiri***** Let’s talk a little about this amazing nutritious indigenous delicacy of Western Nigeria (Yorubas). Commonly called “Abula”, this cuisine is a sight to sore eyes in burkas and food joints where many love to go have their fill of this mouth-watering meal. Let’s take a look at some of the nutritional benefits to be enjoyed from it. Gbegiri which is the main attraction is a tasty soup made out of - beans. Naturally low in fat, highly packed with antioxidants and fiber, and brimming with cholesterol-free protein, beans are a must have in our everyday diets. Adding not just to the tastiness of this meal but giving it a further nutritional punch, is ewedu soup. Made from Jute/Saluyotleaves, ewedu is an amazing leafy vegetable condiment that complements Amala and other swallow foods nicely.  Health benefits of eating ewedu include protection from heart diseases, high blood pressure, diabetes, and cancer due to the high percentage of micronutrients and Vitamin A, C, and E it packs. Very low in calories and known to be an effective fat-burner, more rewards from ewedu are - good eyesight, healthy teeth and bones, strong immunity, and firm young-looking skin. *****Ingredients*****: Yam Flour (Elubo) 1 Cup Ewedu leaves 2 cups of BeansLocust beans 8 Scotch bonnets (ata rodo) 2 Bell Peppers (optional) Onions 8-10 Chilli Peppers 1 Cooking spoon Palm oil Ground Crayfish Seasoning cubes Salt to taste *****Step 1:Gbegiri preparation***** Peel beans using any technique you find convenient then wash thoroughly to remove skin residue. Next, pour peeled beans into a cooking pot with enough water to cook them soft. When beans are very soft, mash with a jute broom while still in the pot or pour into a blender and puree into a smooth consistency. Pour pured cooked beans into the pot; add blended peppers/onion, palm oil, seasoning cubes, ground crayfish and leave to cook. Taste for salt and add some more water if too thick. *****Step 2:Ewedu preparation***** Pour thoroughly washed ewedu leaves into blender and blend. Pour back into a small pot; add locust beans, ground crayfish, and a pinch of salt to taste. Allow cooking on low heat. Yea😋😋smile your Gbegiri and ewedu is ready! *****Step 3 (Amala preparation):***** Bring water to a boil in a pot. Still on the stove, sprinkle in yam flour and turn with a wooden ladle till you’ve it smooth and solid. To ensure it’s well cooked, add a bit of water, then cover to steam on low heat for about 3-5 minutes. Stir properly and your soft amala is ready!

@DeolaD 21 April 2022

Should parent be involve when a guy is proposing? Many proposal of marriage have been flying around the world lately, well I'm not here to talk about if its right to turn down a guy or a girl, i want to talk about, before we get to that stage. Many people in relationship this days fail to consider the opinion of their parent before going fully into the relationship. Sometimes you will wonder, a guy and a girl that have been together for 4 years, a day would come and the girl or the guy parent won't be in support of the relationship. Most time when this happens, the guy or the girl mostly feel depressed and things end in heartbreak, suicide, hatred and many more. This is why it is good to carry ones parent along in a relationship. The kinds of parent There are two kinds of parent which I would like to classify as the Relatable parent and unrelatable parent. *****The Relatable parent:***** these are the parent that comes friends with their kids when growing up, they ask question, help their kids grow in the best possible way, when the notice a likeness in the opposite sex of their kids, they dont Castile's too much, but correct with love, joke with them, ask question and advise them, even when the kid grows up and he or she is ready for a relationship, such kid won't be able to hide such relationship from their parent which is good. *****Unrelatable parent:***** These kind of parents are most strict with their kids, they are the kind of parent that would advise their kid like this "if a boy touches you, you would get pregnant" or they would beat up their kids when they see them with an opposite sex friend. These kind of kids do turn out to keep this from their parent, especially their personal life, if they have a partner, the only time the parent would know is when they already talk about marriage because they fear the rejection of their parent when things goes south. Now the topic for the day Should parent be involve in marriage proposal. ( YES OR NO) Before someone will say he wants to propose to a girl, that means, he is ready to let everything go for that lady, so I believe such decision shouldn't be taken lightly, this decision wouldn't affect just you, it would affect your parent and siblings too, but before we jump to conclusion, this kind of decision can be affected by the both kind of parent we have. For the relatable parent, it is necessary to tell them, in fact, they need to know, and most time, since they already know the girl you want to marry, you can just let them know the range date you might be proposing and when you do, you can just get home and let them know she said Yes or No, also to be in good terms with your parent, one need to let them know. For the other kind of parent, most time, the kids dont like to get their parent involve, they can just come home and let their parent know they have seen the person they want to marry and they are ready to talk about the marriage plans. Things happen like this too.. Personally, even with the both kind of parent, I believe it is right to let ones parent know before proposing to a lady, or letting them know before hand that your guy might be proposing soon, and when he does, you would be saying a yes. ***Thanks for reading, I'm still new to the platform, I'm still learning how to use all the amazing features it provides, I'm sure with time, I would get use to it, I can't meet up with writing everyday but I will do the best I can. Thanks for having me again.*** All image used are from unsplash.com

@DeolaD 18 April 2022

Patience is a virtue Good morning or evening my people, it's your baby again @DeolaD hope we had a wonderful day or night depending on the location, Happy Easter to you all I will like to share with you something that happened yesterday that got me thinking. I got the to the junction of my house and I was there standing with the intention to take a bike to the place i was going to, while standing a bike man passed carrying a passenger, I asked him if he come back to carry me and he said yes, before he came back I waited for about 40 minutes, by the time I saw the bike man coming back, to my surprise he was carrying another passenger and the next he said was that I should please wait for him that he just need to drop the new passenger at Aso-rock junction and I said no problem. All my thoughts was that were he was going to a near by junction, I had to wait for another 10 minutes again, its not like there was no other bike, where as, empty bike were passing but I refuse to take the bike, my mind was saying I don't want to disappoint this bike man. After i got tired of standing and wait I decided to start tricking after a short while, I saw another bike which I took, immediately I took the bike the previous bike man which I have been waiting for the past 30 to 40 minutes showed up and this time around he was still carrying another passenger, like seriously, how can people be this heartless and disappointing, probably I was gullible or I trusted him too much I can't really tell, he said he was in a rush to carry the passenger which will be dropping at the junction of my house ,then he said I should go with the bike man that no need to come down again, like I would come down before. Though I felt bad within me, I should have waited a little bit long. So tell me, was I wrong to have taken another bike or should I have waited a little bit longer?. THE COMING OF THE KING I then relate this story to the coming of our king, this is how it will happen, or how many of us have been leaving, we can't wait for God, God has placed a lot of things in our hands but the things of the world have taken them away from us. Think about it and do the right things, Jesus is the way the truth and the life, no one come to the father except through him,may God help us. Amen.

@DeolaD 16 April 2022

This or That:DeolaD versions Hello wonderful people of readcash, I hope we all had a wonderful night rest, I'm still your new baby on this platform so accept me the way I'm. Thank you so much. As of today I would like to talk about this or that, I saw this prompt writing on a user page and I felt, why not do something like this. This will be based on relationship taste. 1.TALLER OR SHORTER If you ask me I will go for a tall guy, this is because it is known that short people are kind of wicked, sorry for the stereotyping, and they believe people will cheat on them but the tall guys, I love tall guys because I'm average in height and I always love to look up when talking to them. 2.TALKATIVE OR QUIET For me I love talkative people, when you're with them you laugh, get some information, I enjoy their company, I'm kind of quiet and for me to talk or interact with people I need someone who talkative, they bring out the talking spirit within me, I love a talking and lively partner. 3. SHORT OR LONG HAIR Yes, long hair it is, this is something I wish to have, If I have long hair, I don't need to attach anything, it would just be my natural hair, all I need is to style it, I believe some ladies will understand what I'm saying, and besides most guys like ladies with long hair. 4.LOOKS OR PERSONALITY I would rather go for personality, I wouldn't want a handsome partner that will end up beating me, though I love handsome guys, but I would never go for the look. As long his soul and personality is handsome, he is handsome to me. I doubt any Lady would go for looks over personality but I don't know for the guys 5.TEXT OR CALL Calling is what I enjoy the most, although am a bad caller, but I enjoy talking on the phone for long hours, for text, I don't reply people text messages that fast, but I'm always ready for call. 6.HUG OR KISS Smile, while I don't really know what to go for either, is it kiss or hug, I think its hug for me, I don't really like kissing, you know we have different types of kiss, we kiss on the forehead, kiss on cheek, kiss on the lips, and we have the real kiss, I'm always shy when it time for kissing, anyways I'm a big hugger 7. COLD OR ROMANTIC For me, I love someone who is romantic, who will understand body language, someone who will pamper me as for someone who is cold, it will always look boring, I would want to play with him or tickle him and he would give me a cold shoulder, nah, I don't want a guy like that. Well, this would be all my entry for THIS or THAT, I hope you all can get to know me a bit through this article, there is more to me than this, I would like you all to still welcome me as a newbie, pardon all my mistake, I would try to be consistent too.. Thanks for reading and having me.

@DeolaD 13 April 2022

This or That: My food edition Hello everyone, my name is Deola, and I just joined this platform newly, though many people must have seen me comment on their article, I did that to get to know more people before I first write up, I came across this article by @meitanteikudo about this or that, and I felt it would be the perfect way for me to introduce myself. I have a teacher that put me through, his name @FashTioluwa so if I make any mistake, the blame should be on him. Pizza or pasta Though if I was asked to pick one, it would be pasta because I don't get to eat pizza that much, if it was something I was open to every day, it might have been my favorite, but currently, pasta is my favorite, though if the both were placed before me, since I eat pasta so often I would go for pizza because I believe I can eat pasta any other days, unlike pizza. Ice cream or Cake I wonder who would choose ice cream over the cake, the buttery feeling in the mouth when you eat cake can never be compared to anything else in the world, and besides cake has a lot of flavor and ingredients which makes one excited and more nutritious to the body. Waffles or pancake I have eaten waffles once and I can't remember how they taste again, I doubt I would be able to choose here, a pancake is pretty easy for me to make and fast, but I can't make waffles, I don't even know the ingredients for it. So it's a pancake for me. Rice or noodles Noodle for me, any day and any time, why, because it is easy to make but my favorite is Rice, you can use rice to make different delicacies like jollof rice, fried rice, white rice, and stew, or rice and beans, they are countless. But if I were to pick the one to prepare, it would be noodles, rice is so stressful to make. Vanilla or chocolate I don't need to talk much on this one, it's chocolate anytime any day. Vegetable or fruits It is both, vegetables in my side of the country might be different from that of your country, we use our vegetables to make soup, different kinds of soup, you can search for efo, egusi, and many more vegetable soup, fruit is just for appetizers. Burger or Tacos I have never heard of tacos in my life so I browse on it and I saw the image, it was what hulk and Antman were eating in the movie, anyways it is a burger for me anyday Spicy or Sweet Spicy, as a Yoruba in my country, we are known for eating spicy food, in fact, we are known for eating spicy food in my tribe so it's spicy food always. This is the end of my article, like I said, I'm new on this platform and I hope you all welcome me with an open arm, I would like to meet and know more people. Thanks for reading and all the love you have shown me so far.