Don't Judge A Book By It's Cover..

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Today's article is going to be like a dialogue . I just want to change my style of writing a bit.

Mom: Have you ever heard this saying before,"Don't Judge A Book By It's Cover " ??

Me: Of course yes , I have heard it before , even several times.

Mom: What do you understand by that??

Me : Let me give an announcement and a shout-out first.

Mom : Okay.

Me :

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The adage or saying is a well structured phrase or sentence that simply means that don't just assume or say something about someone based on his/her outward appearance or behavior.

Mom : Outward behaviour? Where does this one too come from??

Me : Yes , this adage was made to correct the assumption people have about others whenever they see a person for the first time or stay with them for sometime based on their outward appearance and behavior..

Mostly, such situations happen where people consider others based on their first experience thereby causing a whole lot of suprise as well as pain in the long run ..

Mom : Preach on!πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

Me : This behaviour is really dangerous and causing a whole lot of loss to people, let me give you some scenarios and what it ended in.

Mom : Okay.

Me : We see it happen mostly in movies where the son's of Kings (The Princes) go out in search for a wife even though there are other girls in their locality. They mostly do this by saying they are looking for someone who will show them true love . In the movies you see that, they intentionally dress like broke guys . They act like such and tarnish their outward appearance thereby causing some girls to reject their proposals . What then happens ? These girls then find it hard to live when they later realise the background of them. Don't judge a book by it's cover

Mom : Wow, what do you have to say about the outward behavior then as you made mention of ..

Me :For the outward behavior let's look at this ..

Once there lived a man, he strived hard with her wife for a child . They did several tests and prayed for a long time for a child. Luckily enough, one day their prayer was answered and the wife conceived. They were so happy and gave thanks God for that. The woman reached the time of giving and she did so without any difficulty but to their surprise she gave birth to twins .

As the children grew , the younger one was very noisy while the older one was calm . All attempts to control her proved futile . Although she was noisy , she was also good academically thereby it came to a time where the both of them reached high school therefore they left their home to stay in school.

At school they both exhibited same attitude at school giving the perception about them but unknowingly, the calm ome used to sneak out of school at night with friends and go to a pub to smoke and drink while the noisy one never thought of that even once in her stay in the school.

One day, they were unfortunate and were caught by a fellow teacher of the school at the pub that night . He then took them pictures and wrote their names since he knew them.

The next day , after morning assembly he announced this and when he made mention that one of the girls was the daughter of the man , everyone started mentioning the name of the noisy one . But to their surprise it wasn't her but rather her sister who was known by everyone to be calm. Many as well as the Senior House Master didn't believe but after the teacher proved his complain with the pictures they "half-believed" him.

Many were still surprised by her attitude and there and then the teacher went forward and said, " I saw them personally and decided to take the pictures of them because you won't believe if I make the allege but one thing you have to put at the back of your minds is that,Don't Judge A Book By It's Cover. "

With the shock of what happened, the people could not say anything about this and all students went back quitely to their classrooms after the incident that happened.

Mom : Wow, that was great..

End of conversation.

Thank you all for your time reading the dialogue now let's take a keen look at something here .

Per the dialogue you can see clearly that in both situations the people were shocked after noticing that what they were thinking or what they thought should be the case wasn't so ..

Therefore there is the need to know how to deal with people but don't base on their just their outward appearance or behavior to judge them since this might go a long way to affect you..

Thank you .

πŸ““βœ” Let' s Be Motivated πŸ““βœ”

When you judge someone before knowing them, you do not define them but you define yourself.

By Emmamens.

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15/07/20

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I loveeee it. Especially about the twins. So cool! Anyway, your articles feels more relaxed to read. So chill might be because of the new style. Keep writing more quality contents!!

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3 years ago

Was the new style good? Thank you though for the feedback

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3 years ago

Yeah! It's more easy to understand and it's chill.

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3 years ago

Thank you

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3 years ago

"When you judge someone before knowing them, you do not define them but you define yourself" This quote is really true. 😊

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3 years ago

...As a fool . Thank you for your time.

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3 years ago

I love the story. It is hard to judge someone that you really know him/ her. We should know it first before judging it.

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3 years ago

Exactly

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3 years ago

Don't judge the book by it's cover. What you always see in the outside is not always real. Don't always make conclusions if you do not really know the person. You cannot really define a person by just looking. Judging them is like defining yourself since what you have said is the one that reflect to yourself.

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3 years ago

You see a physics book with simple drawings on the cover thinking it is that cheap but the worst is yet to come πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜₯

Thank you for the comment

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3 years ago

Yes. but physics is one of my favourite subject. It's simple from start but it's getting complicated as you go deeper from the book. Haha. πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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3 years ago

That is how it is for people you don't know but judge them . In the long run you become a fool yourself

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3 years ago

Yup. That's right. Just be careful on things we want to say to someone. Judging a person without any evidence makes you a fool

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3 years ago

Wonderful! I love how you presented the idea in a conversational way. And it's true that we should not judge a book by it's cover, sometimes the outward appearance and or behavior of a person is actually the opposite of the real person he is.

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3 years ago

Thank you

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3 years ago

I love the conversation..nice story,thank u for sharing.

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3 years ago

I appreciate

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3 years ago

I love this article. The timing too is so perfect thanks. Someone really needed this

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3 years ago

Thank you bro. I appreciate

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3 years ago

We should remind ourselves that we know someone by face or by name but we don't know them as a whole so better not judge a person that easily. Great article!❀

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3 years ago

Exactly , that doesn't guarantee us that we know who he/she is.

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3 years ago

A saying "Don't judge a book by its cover" is a well-known and common saying. Its message is very deep and it focuses on how we should see and understand a person. If we don't know anything about that person and only knows about his appearance or gestures then we don't have the right to judge that person.

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3 years ago

Of course yes, judging a person based on his or her outward appearance might be of great loss or pain to you as an individual in the long run... Don't judge a book by it's cover

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3 years ago

Thanks for sharing 😊

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3 years ago

wow 😯 this is the best article for me.... people nowadays is so easy to judge others...sad bad true...that's the reality..

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3 years ago

Congrats dear. I hope you'll be better soon. This masterpiece was great. Criticism must done properly but some people misused it. I know some of your articles and they are great. Keep it up. Do not be blinded by those criticism. Youre better than that😊

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3 years ago

Yes don't judge a book by it's cover

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3 years ago

We should not judge a book by its cover. When people try judg only by the cover they most of the time misunderstand the real thing. Fro judging anyone it is wise to go through the man, know him correctly and then judge. Nice article.

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3 years ago

Your points are really appreciated

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3 years ago

You change your writing style 😁. But you are a genius πŸ’—. You have beautifully presented a lesson here. Thanks for share it. I am eagerly waiting for your next article sir.πŸ’ž

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3 years ago

Thank you

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3 years ago

You are most welcome sir.

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3 years ago

Indeed! We shouldn't judge easily to people. Thanks for the lesson I've learned about your articles. Thank you sir ❣

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3 years ago

Thank you also

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3 years ago

Don't judge so u won't get judge, again, a nice n helpful article from u, keep it up, God bless n u deserve the upvotes, tips, subscribers because of your article, u wrote good n helpful/informative one so i am looking forward to your next article.

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3 years ago

Great Article! People tends to judge someone base on the things they see. The worst is the one who judge based only on what they hear.

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3 years ago

Exactly, thereby causing failure and shame

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3 years ago

Right! It is a bad habit that we must try to correct.

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3 years ago

Another Helpful article. Truth slaps, we should place not judge the person easily

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3 years ago

You are right. Don’t judge a book by its cover. ❀

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3 years ago

verywell said. I liked the "outward behavior" aspect

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3 years ago

Thank you

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3 years ago

Agree, truth slaps real hard indeed. Keep writing!

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3 years ago

"When you judge someone before knowing them, you do not define them but you define yourself", hit the spot. May all the people in this universe gave importance to this matter

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3 years ago

It should be given much attention

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3 years ago

It is as if the inside cannot be recognized by looking at the above characteristics of human beings. Similarly, looking at the top page of a book, it is not possible to understand what the book is really about

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3 years ago

Looking at the top of a book that only guarantee you failure because looking at the nice pictures on a biology or physics book doesn't appear to you that it may be difficult until you open it to give it a shot

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3 years ago

True we should not judge the book by it's cover

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3 years ago

Yes of course since it can be an error if you do that

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3 years ago

We should judge the plastic cover nor the written on the front page

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3 years ago

Nor the color or nature of the cover whether torn or seeing but let's look keenly at the knowledge in the book and that is the good things it has

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3 years ago

Just keep it up

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3 years ago

Thank you, I will do it like that but please always add value to your comments to get more points

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3 years ago

I am always being misjudged before of how I look or how I act. It was quite hard but then I've learned not to entertain it. Just so funny those people who misjudged me are worst and I am far better than them. People who judge other people should get a life lol.

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3 years ago

HahahaπŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ Most people who judge easily got a lot to take care of but they would rather stop it and be talking about people

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3 years ago

" God doesn't look at things like humans do. Humans see only what is visible to the eyes, but the Lord sees into the heart . 1Samuel 16:7

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3 years ago

Wow! nice motivated articles. Really we clearly understand the meaning of " don't judge a book by it's covor."Your talent stay inside your mind, your outlook can not define it.

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3 years ago

No one knows about your talents as well as you don't also know that of others so please stay calm and don't just judge

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3 years ago

Yeah, stay calm is the best way to understand a person.

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3 years ago

You're an idol! I admire your passion in writing @Dangerous_Fly you are one of the reasons that the platform is alive. With your huge contribution in sharing your amazing articles, many people seems to be inspired and motivated, and I am one of them.

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3 years ago

Thank you so much

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3 years ago

When you judge someone before knowing them, you do not define them but you define yourself.

I love that! Dont be so quick to judge. Try to put yourself in thier shoe. If youre not going to say good to others just keep your mouth shut. All of us has many problems and dont add the pressure to one another just by judging them.

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3 years ago

Try to put yourself in thier shoe. If youre not going to say good to others just keep your mouth shut

I really love this part , well said. Don't just judge because you feel that is the right thing to do but consider the rest

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3 years ago

Never judge anybody or anything quickly. You never know what situation they are in or what are they dealing with

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3 years ago

And as such don't conclude what they are with just their appearance because their appearance can be deceitful

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3 years ago

True. Honestly I personally have been in this situation very often an learned to not judge quickly by experience

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3 years ago

That is the best way to go about things

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3 years ago

True indeed

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3 years ago

I am always being misjudged before of how I look or how I act. It was quite hard but then I've learned not to entertain it. Just so funny those people who misjudged me are worst and I am far better than them. People who judge other people should get a life lol.

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3 years ago

Those who always judge quickly are indeed the worst but they don't look at that but rather be talking about others

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3 years ago

You are right sir . I agree about your article.

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3 years ago

Yes of course you have to agree with me because it really happens and causes problems later

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3 years ago

Yes . Sir you are right.

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3 years ago

But, I am not getting the points by writing an article. I cannot see my points . Do you have a same problem or not?

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3 years ago

Please post content related stuff as comment. Do the right thing at the right time and right place

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3 years ago

May I ask how do you insert those pictures? I'am a bit new here and I really dont know how to insert those pictures. I can only add pictures when I need to publish the article I wrote. I hope you can help me. Will appreciate it much. Thanks

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3 years ago

Ok thanks

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3 years ago

You are welcomed

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3 years ago

Sir your article gives a lot of idea. Thank you so much

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3 years ago

Please adding a suggestion or your point of view makes it far better than the commendation please let's do that to help us all accumulate points .. thank you

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3 years ago

Please always comment with an addition or question I think that will be better

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3 years ago

Wow... Really nice piece.

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3 years ago

I think adding some information related to the topic will be better as it will go along way to fetch you points Thank you for the comment though I appreciate

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3 years ago

I am 100% agree with you and your article sir, it is aesy judge someone but it is hard to know the main reason and they dont even know what is the cause. Anyway i am new here and i was ramdomly reading articles for now and as of the moment you are have the most interesting articles.

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3 years ago

Thank you for viewing my content.. And with your comment I actually agree with your point of not judging someone because we don't know why they look like how we see them

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