"Men like Convenience: Is it True?"

|#216 |11th Article of the Month

|03.11.2022 @8:10 PM|

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(Disclaimer: This article is only base on what I have seen in TikTok. No offense my dear men friends in here. I know in myself that it does not apply in all situations.)

Them:

"How long have you been together?"

"You are engaged but why he still not marry you?"

Common questions that I have heard since the day that I've got engaged with MGD. Even my mama kept on asking me the same question. To the point that I kept on bragging it to him, which leads us to a serious argument. Honestly, its been almost three weeks since the last time we talk and have conversations in messenger. The last time I chatted him, he just seen (seen zone -_-) my messages so I decided not to disturb him for a while, but I just can't believe that he didn't make the initiative to call or chat me. Like, "what's his problem?"

Tiktok is part of my daily routine. To cut the story short, I bumped into a Tiktok video about a girl that has been engaged with her partner for more than three years. They live together but the her partner still doesn't marry her. Then she speaks about three reasons why he's partner still not do the thing of marrying her. She also said that these are just her unpopular opinion;

He is still saving.

- He is still saving to give you a nice ring and a beautiful wedding.

He is not ready.

- Maybe he is not ready for a lifelong commitment. Even if you are living together, doing the things as husband and wife, but you are not bounded for life. You didn't vow in front of the Lord and you are not legally bounded together. So maybe, he is still enjoying the fact that he still has the choice to get out of the relationship. And with that, he is not entirely sure about you. Or he is not sure about himself, that he is ready to accept that huge responsibility.

You are giving him wife duties and girlfriend prices.

- Because why would he choose to be committed if there's no difference on what you have today. Maybe they will think, "Why we need to have a wedding, its just costly?" And there's a point in it. Men is not the same of us women, value weddings. Most of us girl, it is a dream. But its not always the same for men. That's why, we should always practice boundaries, especially in the start of the relationship.

Again, this maybe different with everyone. But if you are this type of person that really want to have a wedding at the end, you have to preserve the things that you can offer into the next level. You have to both have a restrictions so that you can look forward into something in your relationship. We might heard someone says, "This is just how I love someone, I give it all, so that I don't have any regrets." Come on! You can still love someone but not to the point that you have to consume all of you. I know this is painful but "Men like convenience!" And if you have given all what you have, he will not have something to look forward to, anymore. You can be the best but he still won't marry you. And its not because of you. The point is, "let's guard ourselves as women." You don't have to laundry his brief for him to marry you. No! Don't do the things that he can do for himself. As what Beyonce says, "If you like it, then you should have put a ring on it!"

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