Husband's Duty! A day as a WIFE.
It's Saturday Again. A day to relax and unwind. A day for relieving the body pain for the weekday's long duties. You can jump out of bed and get started on a day of total freedom. It is a day where you get to choose what to do. Saturdays are better than Sundays for me because it is also a family day for us.
But today is unusual. My Saturday for me is so backbreaking. I feel like I was crucified. A day that I would like to refrain from coming back. A day that I want to get a massage all day until I was ameliorated.
**Here's why**
I am the luckiest man in this world. I found the most glamorous girl on earth, She is my wife. All the characteristics of a wife to be had with her. Yesterday, I found out that she has a high fever. I cant refuse to be absent yesterday so I request to have a leave. Luckily, I was granted so I can supervise my wife today.
At first, I thought that I would only look after my wife. I must only prepare her medicine kits, provide her with enough food but then I realize something that I must do. What she usually does every day, must be obtained also.
So at 5 am today, I already get up to cook for our meal this morning. I bought canned goods because it is my easiest food to cook. 😂. Then I cook garlic rice also. I also cook 3 cups of rice using the rice cooker for extra. But 3 cups of rice is too much. I didn't know how many cups we consume every meal. 😁
My wife insists to eat her breakfast because of a loss of appetite. So I cooked "lugaw" for her.
After eating breakfast, I already wash the dishes so that I can relax a little bit. A fish vendor was passing by so I bought 1/2 kilo of him. I don't know how to clean exactly the fish and then I stored it in the refrigerator.
At 8:30 in the morning, I tried to relax a little bit. But then I saw a depository of used clothes in our laundry area. I forgot that it is Saturday. Saturday is "Labada day". So I immediately wash those clothing, especially my uniform. We don't have enough clothes to wear so I have no choice.
My wife always reminds me, especially in brushing clothes. " ilain ang puti ug de-color". Meaning I must separate the white clothes and the colored ones. Then she added this to me. " ayaw tawon pag magic negs laba" meaning don't wash it instantly. I must carefully brush the dirt off each clothes. Whoah! This would be a tough one for me.😁😅
After washing the clothes, I immediately hang the washed clothes to dry up. Woah! I can feel the hit of the sun. It's already summertime.
As I finished the other clothing to dry up, I never noticed that it is lunchtime. I forgot to cook the fish for our lunch. So I quickly stare at our clock and It's already 11:30 am. I quickly cook the fish for our lunch today. I don't understand the taste of our fish paksiw. I'm not an expert in cooking. My wife always does the cooking. I only do the eating. 😆.
To end up the story, I did my duty as a wife today. As a result, all the parts of my body ache. It is an unusual duty I do but I learned something today.
I truly believe that women are more powerful than men. And I am proud that my wife is stronger than me in any aspect. I acknowledge her time management skills, her flexibility, her motivation, and her dedication. I cant do the same way she does. I can see how strong she is. My wife is so precious. And every day I love her more.
****My realization about this:****
**1. You should involve and help her with the household.**
sometimes, if I come home after my work, I say that “I am being tired and I have no mood to work anything” this is not good because she is also tired of doing a full day's work. Help each other and make things easier.
**2.Boost her because she fed you, every day.**
My realization garners respect for the woman today who made sure there was food on the table. I salute all mothers, wives, and women who always feed their loved ones with planned or unplanned meals.
**3. Love your wife Unconditionally.**
Assure her, let her know that you honor her, love her, value her, believe her and all these things show her in your activity. All these things are a sign of an honest comrade.
**4. Always take decisions together.**
Nowadays every married couple takes their decisions together and this is the proper indication of respect her opinions. Never underestimate her opinion and don’t feel her like ‘I don’t care.
**5. Don’t hide Monetary Information from her.**
Your wife is your life partner and you honestly share your financial crisis.
Your wife is a stakeholder in the housetrain you share your efforts to enhance it and retain it. You both are discussed any financial information and make a positive decision towards your future.
**6. Show your Appreciation and spend some time together.**
Always try to create some us time so both are spending quality time together. Talk with her, share your feelings and your dreams. And the most important thing is you share what you want from her.
**7. Protect Your wife.**
This is your primary duty to protect your wife. You must save her from every difficulty. You always stay with her like a shield.
That's it for today. It was a tiring but special day. My wife makes my day special. From now on, I will make her day magical.
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I am **WaEl_Hei**. An anonymous user.
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Blogging as a new hobby? A new Challenge.
*Anything worth doing well is worth doing poorly at first."*
*— Ray Congdon*
*“Always walk through life as if you have something new to learn and you will.”*
*— Vernon Howard*
These are the quotations that make me want to be inspired every day. Whenever I feel miserable, these quotes remind me to incite what I crave to do.
As a newbie here, I hardly think about what I may post today. I'm nervous to post my next article because all I read on this platform are so experts in delivering their content. I feel so different from them. So I read some motivational articles for the novice. I look for tips and guides in making articles. Until I suddenly click the rules in this platform on the bottom part one.
When I read about the rules and regulations here on this platform, I was brought to the post of @Read.Cash I eagerly read their post and I learned more about blogging. I learned also tips on how to make articles more captivating to everyone. Thank you read. cash for your informative articles. So guys, if you want to know more about blogging, just visit the @read.cash account. It boosts me a lot as a newbie here.
Blogging is not specified to passionate writers and professional writers only. Blogging is for everyone. We can share whatever we want. For your information, I don't know how to compose articles. I don't even have experience in writing diaries, scrapbooks, and biographies. But I love reading. (reading manga) 😂. Today, I feel motivated on learning new ones. I want to learn more about blogging. I want to prove to myself that I can do it. There's no harm in trying.
As I go reading deeper on articles, I found a post 2 years ago from @sjbuendia His post is about encouraging neophytes to pursue writing articles on this platform. He even invites his Filipino colleague to blog on this site. But his friend insists. They think that blogging is not their art. They should focus on their profession. How can you dare to insist on this platform? I am so lucky I found this site. You can learn how to write, share your thoughts and experiences, and at the same time, you can earn while doing it. But, how can I deliver it? That is the big question. 😂
Blogging is my new challenge now. I don't know how to deliver my content coz I'm not an expert on it. I want to develop my communication and writing skills. Maybe, It will lead a way for composing lyrics. I would also invite my friends and relatives about this platform. I also persuade my son to this platform. Even if he is just 9 years old. Who knows, he would be the greatest blogger someday🤣. Also, I would invite people who like to discover blogging as a hobby. Make it a hobby not just for the sake of earning cash.
Closing opinions
Blogging is for everyone. We can share whatever we want. To those who want to enhance their skills in compositions, blogging is the 🔑. I never see unwholesome comments here. There are many blog post sites but read cash is my best preference. To those who want to blog as a new hobby, just read my first post above. It is a powerful one. But I know you are tired of scrolling it. Let me share with you these beautiful quotes again.
*Anything worth doing well is worth doing poorly at first."*
*— Ray Congdon*
*“Always walk through life as if you have something new to learn and you will.”*
*— Vernon Howard*
Who am I: Introduction
Hello, read. cash community. I just created an account here. I am so excited to share my thoughts about my experiences. First of all, please forgive me for my grammar. I have a little knowledge of English. So let me share with you my short introduction of myself.
The hardest thing if we introduce ourselves is when do we have to start. I had a positive and negative experiences in my life. I don't know where I should begin this article. Yet I will begin this article with "Who I Am".
Who I am Yesterday?
"I am an innocent kid who lives in this cruel world. Life is so hard. Every corner of the street is my home. I even can't get enough food to eat. No shelter, Not enough food, and water. I thought people are kind and generous. They always support and guide me through my path. I almost thought that they are the ones to mold me for who I am. My point of view was changed when All my thoughts to them seems differently. I need them to understand that I only need love and affection. I need their assistance. I only need care. I always took closer around them to get help but instead, they are afraid of me. They always keep their distance. And every day, they ignored me. From that, I did not trust somebody. I only trust by myself. Nobody can lean on me. I can do it on my own"
Who I am Today?
"I had a circle of friends now. we're both have the same perspective. Drugs are our healer. We love taking it so that It will heal our hungry stomachs. Problems are bypassed and feel like we're in paradise. It gives us happiness and joy permanently. It gives us hope and sees our future".
Hmmmmp! But these are all the advice I always heard from my parents. They frequently mention it to me when I was a kid. They serve it as an example if I will not follow their rules or advice. I am lucky that I had parents like them. They never want to experience that situation. They love me so much. Luckily I did not experience that situation above. Even though we are poor but we strive hard so we can sustain our daily needs.
Poverty has been a problem for many years. It affects a large percentage of today’s world population. And it will continue to expand. No matter how many incomes people get, there will be people who can’t afford enough food, water, and shelter.
Poverty is like a disease, it is always spreading. We always see poor people in the streets, we feel bad and guilty, poor people will try to survive the day without eating anything. We are very focused in our daily lives that we forget about poor people. We have everything we need, from education to health care. But what do homeless people have?
Their advice led to what I am today. They teach me a lot through their own experience. They are the one who molds me as I am. They are my motivation. They are always part of my success.
Here are some of the information about me:
Name:
Anonymous.
Age:
I am in my mid-20s
Hobby:
I almost played games like Outdoor and Indoors Activities. But I like playing basketball most.
Favorite pet:
Dogs and cats are my favorites
Favorite food:
I love eating veggies. It is so nutritious.
Favorite quote:
Time is gold.
Profession:
I am a successful one now.
I prefer to be anonymous. I am uncertain that the information I shared would be used for misconduct activities.
This is my short introduction to myself. See you in my next article.
@WaEL_Hei
