Being an adopted child.

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Greetings friends of reading, today I come to comment on a story I have heard, I do not know if it is true, lie or just fiction, I can only say that people comment on it as if it really existed.

But I also want to tell you that from so much reading I have learned that reality itself surpasses fiction in many cases so I am not surprised that some fictional stories can happen somewhere in the world.

As simple as that, I have not read anywhere or heard anywhere a similar case to say that it could be real, but why not? You’ll tell me if you know of similar cases and from there we’ll draw the final conclusion if it could or could not be true.

I have been told a story about a boy who got lost in a park, in the park there was a lady who always went there to sit and watch the people and everything that happened in the environment.

This woman, speaking a little about herself, was excited about the idea of having a child, even though she was not married but had the resources to have a child, she was about to reach the difficult age to conceive a child and was hoping that at some point the man who would make her a mother would come along.

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One fine day while she was in the park she noticed a boy of about 4 years old walking around alone. She approached the boy and spent some time with him, then she took him by the hand and walked around the park with him hoping that in the groups of people there someone would point him out as her son, but no one did.

She went to the police to report the case and they took action. The strange thing about this is that they left the child in her care while they searched for the parents. They passed the information by radio, on the streets, with notices on the walls and other ways. None of them worked.

In the meantime the surrogate mother, to give her a name let’s just call her Martha, had become attached to the child and since she had not been able to have her own child after 2 years she was legally adopting the child whose parents never appeared.

The boy, although he was already 6 years old, knew that Martha was not his biological mother, but he did know of the immense love she gave him. Martha being an educator by profession led him to achieve little by little in his studies.

The boy grew up, graduated, loved his adoptive mother but still had in his heart the doubt of his biological parents.

The young man decided to look for a job and introduced his papers in a company where he was immediately accepted for his wide repertoire of good ideas.

There he met the manager who urged him on, then he met the owner and finally he met the owner's wife. She was amazed to see the boy because of the resemblance she noticed with her husband when he was still very young.

And she began to make inquiries about him, she introduced herself to the young man, asked him about his parents and then visited Martha as a need to know more about him.

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 Martha immediately asked her to come to her house, since the lady introduced herself as the wife of the owner of the company and wanted to know about the life of the young member of her company.

She told Martha that when they were very young they had an accident when some criminals stole the car in which her son was riding in the back seat. Despite their search, they were never able to find their son, he was the only son they could have.

As Martha listened to their story, she told them about her story with this boy who had become a blessing in her life. Trying to get to the bottom of the matter, Martha gave some of her son's hair to the lady for a DNA test.

She paid a private investigator to find out more about the young man's case.

She then sweated it out that the paternity test was positive and the young man was the missing son of the millionaire couple who owned the company where her son was now an employee.

The investigator, joining the parts from the accident of the real parents, managed to find out that the criminals, after stealing the car, took the child and then left him in a park to then continue their retreat and that was the day when Martha was in the park and found him wandering around.

Now the young man found his real parents who had searched for many years for proof of the existence of their son, the father who had become a grumpy being because of sadness, had now become the gentlest being after finding his son again.

He was given the opportunity to take a position as heir to the company and all of the couple's assets as they thanked the young man's surrogate mother for raising him so lovingly and making him the young man he was now.

Martha went on to have everything she needed to live the rest of her life comfortably thanks to the couple's gratitude and the young man went on to have a surrogate mother whom he loved above all else and to be very happy to find his birth parents and know that they loved him too.

It’s a story with a happy end after having been one of tragedy for those parents. Love cannot bear fruit contrary to love, although I have known of cases of adopted children who never stop feeling bad for not knowing their biological parents and begin to have psychological problems with that as they grow, up to the point of treating their adoptive parents badly out of frustration for not knowing their roots.

So much for my story today, although I have heard of other stories I have room left to tell, maybe later I can return to the subject.

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A lot could've have happened throughout the Martha and the boy especially bad things turning out for them but glad to know that it didn't. Sometimes we cannot see the love that was and is shown to us. We don't acknowledge it for we want to play the victim when in fact we are not.

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2 years ago

When love is given wisely nothing bad can happen. If this story is true the adoptive mother needed to give love and she did it well.

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2 years ago

Very good story with a great ending, although the life of an adopted child is unpredictable. I have known the loving side of adopted children who adore their parents and the other part also the one that hates adoptive parents

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2 years ago

Yes, I too have known both sides of the story.

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2 years ago

I don't know if it is real, but I really liked the story and it happens just as you say, there are adopted children who grow up with some hatred or resentment for not knowing their biological parents, and they can grow up with hatred towards their adoptive parent. It is really complex to adopt a child who does not know who their parents were, I can say it is even more complex than having a child of your own.

I have two cousins from an aunt, one adopted and one from my aunt. The first son she rescued because he was abandoned as soon as he was born, my aunt filled him with love, but the child grew up hating her and everyone, after a long time my aunt had her own son and he is a person full of love.

The adopted son is really rebellious and abusive, many times he has hit him and the own son is really sweet and defensive, he has never hit his older brother, he considers him his brother and his family, but the adopted son does not consider any of them as family.

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2 years ago

It's a commitment to adopt but families who adopt should be aware that their children must be constantly monitored by psychologists. The fact that they don't know their parents and having that conflict in their minds makes them rebellious and they can't relate well with people. It's very sad the story of your aunt with the eldest son.

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2 years ago

From what I understand, the birth mother didn't want the baby and that's why she abandoned it, it's really sad to hear something like that. Yes, my aunt is still fighting for her son to be a better person, but it is very complex now.

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2 years ago

Such cases are always complex. I have seen both cases of the children.

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2 years ago

The twist of fate was just unbelievably awesome for the boy and for everyone. Wow! I bet Martha did a really great job in upbringing the child, good people deserves great opportunities in life.

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2 years ago

Yes, it is true. Love has a good harvest.

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2 years ago

I expected him to reject his biological parents since he already grew up with someone else and barely even knew his parents since it's been decades.

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But he wanted to know his parents, to know his roots. And he was raised with love and was able to study and have enough intelligence to act well and for the benefit of all.

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2 years ago

This is only means that we shouldn't only look on one side, usually we feel bad and get angry to the biological parents, without knowing that they also experience those burdens. But at least this story ends in a happy ending :)

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2 years ago

The education given to him by his adoptive mother made him not to hold grudges and so he wanted to know his roots. She gave him love and he studied and found wisdom. He knew how to find the good side of life.

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2 years ago

Loved your story sis and Martha did a good thing to her adoptive son. I'm happy that his biological parents find him in a right time.Some adopted are really hard headed and it's really rare only the good ones.

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2 years ago

If you raise children with hate they will cultivate hate. She gave him love and he learned to be intelligent and what he wanted was to get to know his parents and he did.

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2 years ago

It's true and our childrens is the best gift ever from god. It can changed our life into a good person.

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2 years ago

aveces la realidad supera a la ficción, no me sorprendería que fuera real y que bueno que tuvo un final feliz.

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2 years ago

Yes, that's right. He will have or had a happy life if the story is true.

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2 years ago

This story had the perfect ending... I have heard real stories of children that were abandoned deliberately by thier biological parents in infancy based on one selfish reason or the other. And after they grew into adulthood and become successful through the love and support of their adapted parents, the biooligcal parents would now come out of the blue to reap where they never showed.. In most cases the child would ignore them and never accept them back as his or her parents. In rare case, a child might still choose his biological parents over the adopted parents after everything they had done

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2 years ago

I think it is not a matter of choice but rather a closing of the cycle. Children should know who their parents are. But neither should they abandon the one who gave everything for them. If it was a good seed they should be grateful.

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2 years ago

For the fact that none of them didn´t make a fuss about it but had to deal with it gently, that shows how beautiful the story is. Martha was kind to tell the truth and not act as if she is the owner since she has taken care of him to such stage. I am also glad he found his biological parent who were millionaires.

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2 years ago

I believe that God works in such wonderful ways. One loses it and another gains it. In the end everyone wins. Life is a long winding road that ends in a straight line.

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2 years ago

That is how life should be and not the other way round. At the end, peace is all that matters.

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2 years ago

In the end it is love that counts. So it is.

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2 years ago

Happy ending! Somehow blood has as way of directing itself to meet its other part. That was what just happened in the story.

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2 years ago

The destination is always to find the beginning of the tail. Life is a circle that must be closed.

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2 years ago

I wa expecting a twist somewhere, but sometimes simplicity is golden

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2 years ago

It is a story told that could well have been true.

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2 years ago

That might well be true

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2 years ago

I have heard if something similar in my country around our former neighborhood, this couple have been married for years without an child then one morning they found a new baby at their gate , they took the baby to the police, but the police didn't accept the child , but they put up the new of a missing child, after years passed when this couples have taking care this child, the police brought a disabled woman to the couple house and told them that the disable woman was the mother if the baby , that robbers broke into her house and robbed her and took her baby, but we didn't find out why they dropped the baby to there, but the girl is doing fine with her two parents now.

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2 years ago

That's what I say reality trumps fiction. It's an amazing story.

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2 years ago

The story was great and very touching

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2 years ago

Thank.

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2 years ago

I love the history my friend 😊

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2 years ago

Thank.

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2 years ago

This is a touching story of love, affection and the true realization of whom we are as much as those of the forgiveness that the boy maintained even after coming to meet with his biological parents. We make st forgive and also learn to give back to all those who had shown us love in times past when we could hardly fend for ourselves just the same way Marta helped and fended for the poor little six year old boy

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2 years ago

She adopted him and loved him with all her motherly love.

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2 years ago

Love the story..And the ending.. The boy was a blessing to her and so was her to the boy... At least, the thieves didn't hurt him..

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2 years ago

They are the mysteries of God. He sent the woman a son and in the end he would be left with three loving parents.

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2 years ago

It gives me goosebumps destiny is such a great thing woah I don't expect the boy to be the son of the owner of the company he was in woah. Kindness really pay back double.

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2 years ago

Fate is unpredictable.

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2 years ago

Most of these stories happen in reality no one can tell,that was a happy ending for Martha as her kindness and love to the child showed off.

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2 years ago

And also happy for the son who found his parents because he studied and went to work there.

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2 years ago

As far as I know, trying to change a child's root ties, legally or illegally, is a crime because we all have a human and religious right to know their root ties and shape their future life. This right is usurped in extra-marital affairs or children who are consciously made to adopt a surrogate mother or in other ways, and the truth may not always come out, as in the story. A beautiful and instructive story!

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2 years ago

Not all abandoned children get a loving mother. It was a great gift of life that this child got.

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2 years ago

and Martha effort and kindness paid off

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2 years ago

That's right.

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