Hello everyone, it's great to be here on this wonderful platform, I have heard of this platform for a while now, but haven't been able to join, so a friend recently sent me a referral link, which I am grateful for.
My name is treasure awesome, I am a mother, baker, also a writer on hive. I hope to be able to impact greatly on this platform.
Thanks for having me, I hope I am welcome?
🥰🥰
Have heard of the word cryptic?
Cryptic?
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Ever heard of that word before, No? Me either, until few days ago, I got a WhatsApp message from a friend of mine, who has constantly been having one health issues, she's always complaining about how her stomach pains her, I have always been worried about her, so whenever this complains comes I do ask her to go for test which she does, but the pain always remains until towards late last year, when she said the pain has increased a lot, I asked her to come over since she has been on drugs prescribed by a doctor and the pain isn't going away, so she came over, you know we Nigerian believe in herbs, so we did some homemade herbs which she took and it calmed her a bit only , she called sometimes in may that the pain came back, I was like okay go to the hospital again and run some test lets know what's happening , she did , she even took a photo of the test result for me to see, the doctor told her she has a low blood level and that she needs to eat of vegetables and drink plenty water for the pain to go away, she has been doing so ,only for her to call me about a week ago that she was rushed to their school hospital, holding the stomach, she said she's in a diet that's why she he didn't eat that morning ,and i was like maybe its because you were hungry that's why you fell dizzy, then she said the doctor conducted a scan on her since she was still complaining of the stomach pain, there she got the shock of her life, 😲 she's 31weeks and 5dats pregnant, so all this while she has been pregnant without knowing.
Its what is called a cryptic pregnancy, ever heard of it before? No? Me too ,been 8months gone without any knowledge whatsoever, mehn that's sick and wonderful at the same time.😲💕
Google definition of a cryptic pregnancy
*>A cryptic pregnancy, also called a stealth pregnancy, is a pregnancy that conventional medical testing methods may fail to detect.*
Even after all the test she has done, to know what has been happening to her, none ever brought out a chance of pregnancy,isn't God wonderful, this is what I call been caught unaware, Have you ever heard of a person been pregnant and not knowing for months, hmmm?.
But I wonder, when I was pregnant with my first I didn't know until I was 5 months gone, that one is understandable, and normal, because I started showing around that time, but this friend of mine still has her body intact her face the same and nothing changes about her, while me at 6months I was already looking like a hippo😂. Well I'm happy for her, though she's still a student, but I am happy still.
Do you think you have heard of this before?
Let's see in the comment section. 💕💕
Treasuree 💕💕
Here comes Santa🎅
HERE COMES SANTA CLAUS!!!
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HOHOHOHO MERRY CHRISTMAS( in santa's voice).
It's funny to see a Santa clau in the month of June, but what can I do, it's time to distribute this many gifts I have here with me.
You know many of us would have really wanted this to become reality, but what can we do ,we are only left with our Imaginations, we as individuals have a lot on our mind and things we wish we can do to improve ourselves and those around us, well let's say sometimes we can only dream of having it becoming them, but its not a crime to aspires to be there, I have a feeling on how dreams becomes reality.
So if I were to pick 5 people to gift a present , first person on my list would be my husband, and the gift I will present him would be a car.
**WHY A CAR**
I would give him a car because he needs it, you see here in lagos it's not easy going out without your own mode of transportation, and even when you decide to go the fare is too much for just one trip, since he has been praying for a miracle to get a car, so a car he gets, 😃😂.
Second person would be my **MUM**
I know she has always wanted to move from their current apartment, a simple gift that would move her heart is either getting her a new apartment or getting her own land to build her choice of house on, so it would be a monetary gift, she's the best .💕
Third person that gets a gift is my sister @jessicaossom, hers would be a big set of makeup product and hair styling tools, to start up her own business well. She deserves a good life.
Fourth person would be my sister in law, she would get a perfect Wooling machine, since she makes clothes from wool, 😂 I'm always fascinated whenever I see her work, though she complains of the machine being faulty and slow, so I think I would be gifting her those.
Last but not the list, see let me not lie, I would be gifting myself a good oven and a good cake mixer, cause I really need them to make money, from the money I make I can use to get my kids all they need , even my family 😃😂
Well that's it for me being 🎅. Also this contest is for hive learners (week13e3)
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Never have I ever part 2.
NEVER HAVE I EVER. PART 2
A wonderful evening to you all from this part of the world, it's a beautiful cool night to write, i have always been one to read because I love reading than writing so I'm still working on my writing abilities, y'all should bear with me until I get better.
So like I wrote on my topic, this is a continuation of my never have I ever.
**Never have I ever been home schooled.**
Home schooled like been at home for a whole year or school term and getting lessons from a home teacher?, hmmm I don't think so, I have never been home schooled.
**Never have I ever had a crush for someone in my class**
**Nah Nah Nah, I ha**ve never harboured feelings for any of my classmates because they were too playful and rough, even when one made his intentions known I didn't even give him any attention, I just wasn't interested 😞🤓
**Never have I ever played in a sport team**
Can't say I haven't played in a sport team in school, I ran races during inter-house sports, and also whenever there was volleyball game during Physical Education period, i played.
**Never have I ever been a monitor or prefect**
Well to say I was the assistant head girl in high school and also a one time class captain when I was in ss2 , that was for a term sha. It was an honour them to be a perfect cause I wasn't even expecting to get a role, since I was the youngest in classes then. 🤓 but all things came out well.
**Never have I ever skipped school to do something fun.**
I have never skipped school before to go have fun, who born me well😃 Nigerian parents, especially my mum ,she would have broken my head, well being a God fearing student then was worth it.
**Never have I ever had a serious injury at school.**
Except for the time I was beaten by some juniors and had a swollen mouth, I don't think I have had any serious injury at school
**Never have I ever enjoyed studying.**
I love studying, even when im not preparing for any exam, I just like my brain to be working, till date that I don't even go to school, I still find time to study.🤓
**Never have I ever hit someone hard.**
**I** actually hit my younger sister once, and very hard at that cause I was very angry, but I later regretted it cause , she had a swollen face for days.
**Never have I ever played a prank**
The only prank I can remember I ever player was telling my classmates that she was called by a teacher and she went, 🤓 was so funny. The teacher was just looking at her as if she was crazy😃😃.
**Never have I ever stuck a funny note on someone's back**
I never stuck a note in anyone's back for fear of being slapped 😲😮.
**Never have I ever impress someone who dislike me**
**.**
I always stay on my own lane o, because in school, if you are not liked, just leave it for God, they will still come back and talk to you. So I have not had issues of impressiong anyone because he or she doesn't like me
**Thanks for reading through, I appreciate your time.**
**P.s Am I the only one having network issues this few days?, it has been so frustrating to say.**
**Treasuree 💕💕**
Success at last
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*>Weekly Featured Contents*
*Week 12:- Edition 02:-*
*Success Story*
*Tell us a story about someone that started from scratch and worked hard until they made it. It must depict hard work and determination. Make the success all the sweeter*.
This success story is about someone very dear to me( my husband), I pray for the kind of grace he carries.
HOW HE BEGAN
As a boy of 15years old with no parents to attend to his needs , he lived with his fathers younger sister, reason why is because after his dad died at age 61 he was 7yearsold, his fathers properties were siezed by his uncles and step mum, thee little money from the property that was sold then was given to his fathers younger sister to take care of him and his sister, well we know why happens in life that money is root of all evil, the money want used to do anything for them whereas this money was spent lavishly and before a year the woman has spent all on unnecessary things, even schooling became an issues for them, my husband did all kind of jobs then just to be able to get himself through school, even when at a point he was losing hope of ever finishing secondary school, some of his mate who were having same struggles as him had already pulled out and were just street guys, but he had the determination cause he said his father wanted him to become an engineer, with all and all was able to finish secondary school and at age 16 he decided to leave home and go find his way in life.
He worked as an house help for 3years, in which the woman sent him back to secondary school because she didn't want him to be older than her own children in class( Nigerian mentality), he didn't argue he went back to secondary school And repeated a class he had finished before, he was like an uncle to those who were in class with him because he was older than them, but he didn't mind, so gar she would fulfil her promise of sending him to the university, well the dream was short lived, as the woman sent him away in the dead of the night, that she didn't want him around her and her children anymore ,that night he cried and on his way he walked into a church were he went to talk to the pastor in charge, the pastor agreed to let him lived with him , after some month the pastor asked him to leave, till now he says he doesn't know what happen that made him Ask him to leave, then he approached a factory, in the factory they make nylon . this nylon or waterproof in which we put in things when we go buy we something, at first the manager refused to let him work there because they deal with big machines that could be dangerous for those who don't know how to use them, the man asked him to leave but he didn't he stay outside the factory until the next day, when the manager was going home after his shift he still saw him outside and that was when he decided to give him a job, as a packer, he would be packaging the nylon for sell, there he made friends,he started squatting with some group of friends, but at the long run he was asked to leave and then he stayed with a friend he made at the factory, the friend liked him, that when one of uncle asked him to come to lagos to pay him a visit, he asked my husband to come with, but the boy's parent were against it, after a while they agreed for them to go together, they cane together at the back of a lorry truck, there life in lagos began.
Everyone has this mentality that lagos is a hustle man land, that was his own mentality then, that he would find ways to make it in lagos, he worked at his friend uncles bar as a barman, along the line, he noticed that the uncle wasn't a christain he was already looking for means to get money and power in the area, he had to run for his life while his friend went back to Ibadan to his parent. He Took so many jobs at that period and he always made sure to do well and not give people a bad impression about him, some people were willing to accommodate him while others snobbed him, but in all he still kept on believing God had a purpose for him, with the little income then as a teacher he enroll for part-time studies at olabisi onabanjo university, where he graduated without help from family but God sent helpers to him, after his programme in school he was able to get his first decent job in a office, and that was when we became friends and church members, until he decided to settle down even after he resigned from his Hob then, he had this feeling that he will make it great, to be frank it wasnt an easy year 2017- 2018 ending was one year I never want to visit again, the hardship was much but we together we were able to scale through , we openef our own business that 2017 and with that we were able to achieve the things we have so far.
Our wedding
Our own land which we still in the process of building our house
Our own shop, we have our own business.
We got two kids
We moved to a better apartment within the space of 5years
He was able to get his school certificate with about 120,000 naira, ( you know Nigeria and bribery na).
Whenever he tells people he is not from a rich home, they don't believe, he is a boss on his own, though he is not there yet, but he knows with God grace he would achieve greater, and I would come testify of Gods greatness when He perfects all things.
Thanks for visiting my blog today, hope you enjoyed reading.
Treasuree 💕💕
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Never have I ever. part 1
Hello people it's another great day, lately I have only been a little bit active here, I wish I could get more time for myself, well you know with having a baby and a 4year old also a husband who depends on you to look after the store while he is away, this things makes me lose concentration and focus to write, I always don't feel like writing, even when I have got topics written down to write about, I still don't get the time to sit and create something good.
So today I will be writing on this,(image below)
I got this from a friends page on readcash,(@princessbusayo) and the most funniest thing is I have had this image saved to my home for a while now but couldn't write on it even after getting permission to use, I think she say she isn't the original owner, but I could use.
So here it is
MY NEVER HAVE I EVER.😃
I will be dividing this session into three or two, cause I have to take care of my one year old who has decided to live only on breast milk😣.
**Never have I ever skipped a class**
Ehn who born me well, to skip class on my own accord, well I haven't skipped any class, except during high school if we were being sent home for school fee, then no school for that day until our parents followed us to school.
**Never have I ever cheated in an exam**
I was a very good girl in school, so anything that would tarnish my good image I always avoided it, though I might I done a joint collaboration in a test😃, but never in an exam.
**Never have I ever forged my parents signature.**
When we were going to school there was no need for a signature by parents, just their presence was enough for the management, so I never forged a signature.
**Never have I ever bullied anyone at school**
I have never bullied anyone at school, instead I have been bullied twice by a junior and also my classmate, me that I was the youngest in my class, people who were my agemate were three class behind, so I often kept to myself because of this.
**Never have I ever been suspended from school**
**I** have never been suspended from school, I was a good kid , so there was no reason for a suspension 😃
**Never have I ever been in the bottom three of my class.**
Throughout my school year I have always been either first, second or third position at the end of each term, but I remember one year like that I was in jss3, I remember I and my sister lost interest in the school we were attending then, so we asked our mother for a change of school, then we didn't just feel the school anymore, so our mother went with us to the school and told the head teacher what we said, the teacher then said since it was an exam period that we should hold on for the exam and change when it is a new term, that exam I didn't even read, normally I would be so ready for exam but that one time I didn't put effort I came in the seventh position, I didn't even go back to the school for the result😃.
**Never have I ever hit someone with a chalk.**
If I hear that I haven't hit someone with chalk, I have well well, countless number of times, even to write on someone head or face if the person slept in class.🤓
**Never have I ever made fake excuse for being late**
I have o😃, many times, especially when I wake up late in the morning,and I have house chores to do before going to school, and when I try to avoid them, my mum would threaten to bring them to school to show my teachers. So after the forceful chores at home, getting to school late I would have to come up with something to bail myself from another flogging in school, which mist times doesn't always go well😃.
**To be continued😃.**
Bear with me, have a demanding baby can stop you from so many things.
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Treasure💕💕
A fulfilled year
This week has been a roller coaster of celebrations in my household, when I think how far I have come ,I can't help but to thank God for his grace over my life and that of my family.
HOW I STARTED.
In 2013 I was moving with the wrong crowd, I didn't have a direction not a adviser that would lead me to a brighter part, 2013 was a year, I was full of regrets, no church, no support from family or relatives, then my sister came back one Sunday afternoon from church she just went to, and then she went ahead to tell everyone in the house that she has gotten a place she will be worshipping, I knew at that point that I really needed somewhere to right my foot, so the next Sunday I went with her to the church, and I found Christ again through that church, I met my husband there, I really didn't think I was going to get married early, but when I saw that I can't let go of this very kind man who is 8years older than I am, he's a very fun person to be with.
I never thought in my life that I would be someone who could get married , all that I went through( still not able to talk about them openly) I always condemn myself ,I have always blamed my parents for falling out of money , and making me leave the house to go stay with family friend, when I decided that enough was enough the damage has already been done, but I just needed to find myself, which when I met my husband in 2014 ,we were just friends for that year and all through 2015 ,I was stil kinda traumatic at that point, but when he asked me to date him, i was like you are far older than me and apart from that you don't have money,I don't want to start another rotten life, and when he asked me to pray about it and give him feedback, u was dumfounded, 😲really so i prayed and i had this peace within me about him, and the we went ahead and told the church about us dating, well that day was filled with questions for both of us, everyone wasnt in support of us coming together cause i was just 18 and i havent even been to the university. To cut the long story short we had our families introduced in 2017, I got pregnant we had our first child we moved to a bigger apartment despite not having anything, 2020 we officially got married 2021 I had my daughter two days before my birthday, now she is 1year old my son is 4years old, i went to a catering school when I didn't have funds to go to the university, I feel I have got everything I ever wanted i might not have all the money I need, but I am happy with my family 💓💓.
God has been faithful to me so far, he has made a mother , a wife, a sister, a daughter, even when I thought I would lose my way.
I am +1 I am grateful for how far I have come.
#Big24
#mother
#wife
#daughter
#fulfilled
#Bakerbyprofession.
P.s yesterday was my birthday😃💛💓.
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My first earning
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My first earning was when I was in secondary school, my backyard neighbour then used to work as a house help, so she told me that her boss does perfumes and she needed help in bottling them and packaging them, I think that was when I first had the phobia for perfumes, I got to the woman's house that afternoon after school and I even told my sisters and some of my friends about the job, some came and also got the job, so we sat and mixed the ingredients first before using a funnel to pour them into their bottles, I actually had fun packing those perfumes that day, different fragrance, everything was colourful after we finished bottling about 2000pcs of them each.
It was late when we finished and also time to anticipate the payment, so because we were kids the boss gave the money to the adults to divide among us that were little. I think it was 1000naira we were each paid, though we I think about it now, I know we we were underpaid, but that was my first earnings.
Till date I don't like using perfumes, because after that day I worked at that woman's place,I was just smelling myself filled with perfumes, and even after bathing I still could feel the smell, that night I threw up a lot that ever since I just dislike using perfumes on myself.😃
This topic is a contest for the hive learners community, week 11edition 1.
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Cake week
So I have been quiet busy this week ,I haven't had the time to make a post, so I thought to let you all know what I have been doing and how I have been doing.
Since on Monday I have been busy getting prepared for my daughters birthday that is this week, from going to market, getting gift packs, and also getting cake ingredient.
It's a baking week for me, I also made a cake which I delivered yesterday, for a boy of 2 years old, they only wanted a small one cause they didn't plan to get one for him, but I made the cake and creamed it in a day, wow a busy day,
Today I make this post with a broken wrist, I don't know how I broke it, but I hope to get better after this week,
P.s it's also my birthday week💓💓. It's great to have children and yourself in the same month. So we are all celebrating together.
Well till I am better and relaxed ,I will show all the cakes I made this week 😃.
Will there be a change?
Will there be a change?
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Beautiful morning from this end, after a really busy day yesterday,if another edition to write about, so I will be talking about bribery and corruption, in a country like mine, there is a lot to write about this, I went through some other posts, and I saw that everyone has one or two things to write, well as a citizen of this country, I only pray for a better country.
CAUSES.
Well what I think that has caused the rate of bribery and corruption, is the government number one, they are not helping matters, they don't make things easy for the citizens, so everyone has resulted to having their way, in whatsoever they can,
Also the rich will always want to oppress the poor by their money, I saw somewhere where a rich man son got away from a crime he committed just because his parents are wealthy, which now results to the poor family taking the case into their own hand, and went to attack the parents when they were going out in their car, then the poor family got arrested and are being sentenced ,and the rich family have now become victims, in this kinda situation I feel the government has failed.
Even writing on this topic is kinda a waste for me, I only hope God can help us achieve a smooth and better country with this bribery and corruption
The only way to curb this, is if there's a prayer being held for the nation, and also the leaders to be God fearing and those in position of power to be fair in their judgment, then we would have a blessed nation, even crimes would be reduced.
Thanks.
Treasuree 🥰
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I have feelings too
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Being a woman has deprived me personally of some privileges, which I do sometimes think it's bad and sometimes good, especially as a Nigerian woman, there are things that we are meant not to do, examples
Not to take revenge when you are being cheated on by your spouse or partner: we have seen many instances around us and also on the net about women who has indulge in adultery because her spouse has also cheated on her, well am against this too, but where in the written word that say it's men that have the right to cheat and not being victimized?see I don't know about other countries but my own country would shame the woman in a bad way as if the man didn't do same.
[Source](**https://pixabay.com/es/photos/gente-negocio-cita-1979261/**)
Another thing is the role of contributing to the house keep, if you are from this part of the world you will hear instances like " I don't want my wife to work let her care take of the children" I'm also in this category, I don't know why they have that kind of mentality, or why it's like that, I don't know how they feel about women working and helping with the house keep, I overheard a conversation between two men , one of them just newly got married and the other was advising him to quickly get his wife pregnant so that he can have power over her, and he was advising him to not let her work anymore because from there she might start having a relationship outside marriage because she's still newly wed, at that point I was already boiling, I being a home baker has been a sort of issue for me I don't want to work for someone rather to have my business, but since i am not able of getting a shop for my self for now I result to doing my work at home and also keeping myself busy with my hive platform since I have been getting jobs of late, i think both man and woman should work for the house keep and whenever the woman gets pregnant and becomes quiet heavy , because one has to consider the stress women go through when pregnant, she should be allowed to rest and when she put to birth to take care of the child for a particular period of months.
Also women should have a say in taking decisions in the house or wherever, I notice even in church there's a discrimination against women, the men are give more right to take decisions in the church and when a woman comes forth to give her opinion , though she might be heard , but they still have to run the idea by the men in the church before it's being documented.i believe men and women should have the same right to talk and talk decisions.
If we look at the situation of the world at large now, we would see that there are so many successful women out there, for me women should be treated with the same respect a man get because we are all created in the image of God, women should also have a say in affairs if the state or country.
TO CONCLUDE
Even the Bible says women are help mate to the husbands not a liability but many have changed the interpretation of this to something else, well if I go on on and on I would have a lot of instances to give, but is all all women should be respected and treated in a right manner.
Thanks for reading.
Treasuree 🥰

A day without a phone.
It a beautiful hot afternoon here, so I will sharing how I spent my day phone less yesterday.😁.
So I woke up yesterday to prepare my son for school, I sat up and reach for my phone on the bed head rest, I couldn't find it, I then stood up, and tried checking on the bed, there I found it, I slept on my phone, when I held the phone it was very hot, like I had placed it on a stove😄 so I tried pressing the power button, then the screen came on, but it was blank, so I tried to switch it off and put it on again but it still gave the same result in my mind I was gegegegen( like a sound effect from a Nigeria suspense movie). Then I woke my husband and showed him the phone, m3n being men , he just started talking that hen it's not his phone that he doesn't have money to change anything for now, that I would go homeless for at least three months before I can get my phone again🤫, I didn't say anything but my mind was already calculating how to get money to fix the phone, the only money on me was the one I had to saved up for my daughters birthday, but then I thought about holding on for my husband to help me fix it up, then another thought came, how would I missed out on all my activities in hive and my other plAtforms, i was just thinking, while preparing my son for school a thought came my mind, my childhood friend, she's presently in school, I thought of calling her and asking her to fund me some money to fix my phone, shhe picked up when I called her, she then promised to send me something not all the money, cos the screen part is 15000 naira and the cash I had with me was 5000 naira and I needed 10000naira extra for my husband to help me fix it, so I went to stay at my husband shop because apart forom the phone and laptop repair shop he runs he also works for a company, though he just joined the firm. So I spent my day at the shop with some neighbours who sells things also beside our shop, I help her in selling her goods while I also attended to my husband's customers, I used my neighbours phone in calling my husband to confirm if my friend sent any money, which he told me she did send 5000naira, 😮 wow, she really tried in raising that amount, so I asked my husband to help me with the rest of the 5000 that I will pay it when I get enough HBD and also pay my friend too cause I don't want to inconvenient her.
So my day was spent without a phone it was like I living a different life without having a phone, even to make a call ,I had to borrow to call🤐🤪. I don't think I can stay without a phone.
Tell me if you have had similar experience😃
Treasuree 🥰
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High school love
Another edition of the hive learners contest,topic below.
*>Week 09:- Edition 02:-*
*Your First Love*
*For some people, the first time they fell in love was when they were no more than basically kids or at most teenagers and they did not know much about how love worked at the time. So, tell us about all your first love and how it went. Did it last? Did it progress into a relationship? Tell us, we would love to know!*
[Farrini](https://unsplash.com/photos/0dso2fC54ug)
Love is a beautiful thing, really it's great to feel loved and to love, funny enough my first love or crush persay was the pop singer MICHAEL JACKSON😁 , then whenever I saw any of michael's performance I would have this giddy feelings inside of me, I would be daydreaming of getting married to him but when he died I cried my eyes out like I lost someone dear to me,I had to move on.😁
[ Element5 Digital](https://unsplash.com/photos/jCIMcOpFHig)
My first real love was when I was in high school, while I was the youngest in my class because I had a very fast education, other of my classmates were dating or had boyfriends then, but I saw myself as still a child, so I didn't date I only did match making for my other forriends, so there was this guy called christian, he was a friend to one of my male classmate so he usually comes to our school every friday to play with his friend who was in my Friday, because fridays then in school we usually close early and it's usually a day where teachers dont come to class, we are only given notes to write , so whenever Christian cane Around, I usually feel so happy, that i stary doing thing I don't normally do, like talking to the house in class,playing with them,then i had a akinda phobia for boys, but whenever Christian came around I would involve myself in whats ever they were doing.
One of my female classmates noticed and started teasing me about it, which got the whole class to know I had a thing for Christian, so whenever he came to our school, my classmates would be calling me "christain wife" you see most of them smirking at me, I would sometimes feel embarrassed, but as we enter SS3, Christian came one day it was on valentines day he called me outside the class and then he said "*charity I know that you like me and I also like you too, but the reason i have not had the courage to tell you is because the reason I first came to your school was because my friend asked me to come see the girl he likes, and the girl was you, so I decided to keep my distances and have only been your friend but I noticed you don't like saheed, and when your classmates tease you about being my girlfriend I see the way you react, so that's why i said i must come today and tell you to be my girlfriend*" when he finished his statement I was like ehe ehnn, so saheed likes me, 😆but i dont like him in that manner, its you i like, he held my hands and pecked the back of my hands, he said now we are officially we are dating,
So that how we started dating for a year plus even when saheed fought with him about taking the girl he wanted he only apologised and after we left high school, we still dated a bit but Christian joined some bad friend and he didnt always have time for me, so sometimes I hung with his friends, the love didn't last as I wanted it too, i had to leave lagos state for port harcourt to stay with my aunty, that how we stopped being together.
That's it for my first love, find the contest link [here](**https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@kronias/weekly-featured-contents-oror-week-09-edition-01-oror-youth-crime**).
Thanks for visiting my post.
Treasuree 🥰
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Why crimes? Week9 edition1
It's another week, which means another contest week on the hive learners community, for the first edition the topic below.
*>Week 09:- Edition 01:-*
*Youth Crime*
*A lot of youths these days find themselves committing crimes for various reasons known to them. From peer pressure to just the basic need to survive... What are your thoughts on this? Why do you think crime among the youths has been on the increase? And what ways do you think they can be stopped?*
In a country like mine (Nigeria) we have had all sort of crimes being committed by youngsters, seriously I have asked myself and other around me about what really causes this youths to engage in such crimes? But the answer is not definite.
You see youths being involved in killings for money rituals, recently on the new the image of three boys were shown with a human head, the head being one of their girlfriend's, when this youngsters were asked who gave them instruction to do so , they said it was an old man called an herbalist, that gave them the instructions on what to do for them to make money.
My thought on that was why wasn't the man in question also being showed on the internet? Someone said because the man might have people in the higher place that's why he wasn't arrested or any of his image being showed. I personally believe if whenever things like this comes up and the instructor are always exposed then the rate of the rituals killings would be reduced.
If there were good infrastructures like good public school for the less privilege and also jobs for people who are willing to work instead of schooling then I believe the crime rates would be reduced , but all this is just wishful thinking, we only pray for Gods grace and protection in our everyday life, because the rate of crimes not only by youngsters but also but adults are becoming too much, if the government create more job opportunities and free schooling, and maybe monthly allowance for youths from age 17-21 then it will reduced crime rates.
Thanks for reading feel free to check out the contest post on the hive learners community page
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[Here](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@kronias/weekly-featured-contents-oror-week-08-edition-03-oror-one-superpower)
Treasuree 🥰
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A wonderful mothers day
A happy Sunday to you all, it's mothers day today, I use this medium to celebrate all mothers around the globe, it not easy being a mother.
As mothers we sacrifice a lot for our children and husbands inclusive, before becoming a mother we had all the time got ourselves, whenever we needed to do things like sleep, eat, go out, we just do them, but having little humans to care for has made us reconsider a lot of things in our lifes.
When we want to go out we have to consider how we can care for them where we are going if the place would be favourable for us to take them to, and if we see it's not, we have to forgo going even when it's an important event.
When we were bit mother we had time to sit for hours and out on make up, but now has mothers some of us don't have that time especially when you have two or more kids. Seriously can't remember the last time u had good makeup on.
Getting thing for ourselves has now become so hard, especially for me , if I have to get something for myself and kids and then on getting to the market I see something extra for my kids I forgi buying for myself and just getting for my children only😁.
That's sacrifices of being a mom
So I say this prayer for every mother and potential mother out there,
' May Gods ending grace never leave you, the strength to do more for our families , may God grant them to us, may all our heart desires be met , the strength to always carry on till our old age , may God grant them to us, may all our sacrifices over our children not be in vain.' Amen.
Happy mothers day.
Meanwhile enjoy pictures from our mothers day celebration In church today 😁
Treasuree 🥰
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The money machine😃😃
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I woke up this morning feeling giddy and strange, though through the night I had a kinda scary dream, it was was about me being cut open and being trapped to a bed , there were about four masked people around me, the pain from the syringe on my wrist was unbearable, after few minutes I passed out in the dream, only I woke up in my bed with excruciating discomfort, i just got it was because of the uncomfortable bed I took it off my mind, and I went about doing my house chores, bath and dressed the kids , then started out on preparing breakfast for them , only for the has to go off, jeez, I hate this everytime the has finishes, maybe those gas attendant don't usually fill them accurately, hubby not home, I don't have airtime to even call ,I need money to go fill this gas, I stood for some time and in just deep thought on how to go fill the gas I squeezed my 💪 and then I'm getting one kind of effect in my body , in another minute I see my arm Opening up and i see wads of cash coming out of my hand , And im confused about was was happening , my dream was really it wasnt a dream but it really happened. I tried squeezing my arm again and I see the same thing money coming out of my arms like an ATM. I feel so happy and elated. I am going to spend this money only for me to wake up and I'm in my bed nothing of such happened it was only a dream 😃😃.
What a dream.
>*ONE SUPERPOWER”*
*Hive can be a wild west sometimes, anything can happen. So imagine you can choose a superpower, but you must choose only one so you have to do that carefully. What superpower will you choose? How will you use it? Any plans on doing something special?*
Only if that dream was real then I would have been a superhero with money superpowers, I would have been able to help those in need and even myself, who is in need of an oven, 😃
If I had such power I would go to every house I can go to and give them enough money to change their life, cos people would appreciate such powers than any other 😘
This is a contest for the hive learners week8 edition3, what do you think of my imaginary super powers?😀
Link to post contest [here](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@kronias/weekly-featured-contents-oror-week-08-edition-02-oror-tourism-in-your-country)
Treasuree 🥰
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Why I have been sad
I recently made this cake for my cousin, I didn't charge her much, I just collected the money that would cover the cost of the ingredient and materials used in making this cake.
Where my sadness comes from, I have been meaning to get myself an oven because I don't have one and it will cost about 100$ to get one, I have been using a friends oven to bake, I know you will ask me why I didn't get mine?, if you are in Nigeria you will know that it's when you have connection that's when you can get more sales of your goods and product.
In using this my friend/ boss cake studio and oven I still had to pay her a little amount for what I used at her store. I am sad because I had a plan of getting my own before this month of may, and I even got to ask my husband for support on it.which he agreed, but now it's the month of may I haven't been able to get the oven, okay I was like at least I will still be able to use my friends store to bake, only for me to ask her and she telling me I can't use the place unless when I get any job, I should give them to her to do it.
This got me sad cos, I don't even get enough jobs at it is, it only my close friends and family that do give jobs, and I can't charge them like I would charge an outsider, it saddened my heart. I wish I had the income coming to be able to continue baking, if not I have to leave baking for a while until am able to get an oven.
Treasuree 😭
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Tourists wanna see
It's a lovely day people,, another edition on the hive learners contest, this edition topic is
>Week 08:- Edition 02:-
Tourism In Your Country
Every country has an inflow of tourists every year, even though it is only a little. Tell us about the place that is worth visiting in your country. And if your country is a bubbling tourist destination or not.
In Nigeria we have a lot of tourist attraction, though I have been opportuned to go see some of them not all, first place I went was
OLUMO ROCK IN ABEOKUTA
It's a place filled with filled rocks, I heard the story behind the rock was, whenever there a warir fight in the community, that the indigenous would go to the rock and hide, because the rock has holes to hide people, there are are things to see when you go to plump rock, though I went as a child so I can't remember all i saw there.but it's a great place to visit.
LA MERIDIAN.
LA MERIDIAN is situated at akwaibom state, it's a resort and also a place for tourist, I was awed when I visited there in 2014, the place has a golf course, a gallery for viewing arts, etc, that place is blessed, too bad I only got to spend one night there, la' meridian is a place where any tourist would want to take rest, and enjoy the scenery.
FELA SHRINE
This place is for party grooves, any club lover should visit here, it was formerly a shrine now it has been modernize that almost every one in lagos goes there to club, have fun. That's what I heard I haven't been there😁
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This are a few place I can boldy write about.
Treasuree🥰
Help gone wrong
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We humans come with different nature, we all have different character we exhibit as individuals, we come come from different families,different countries but we are still humans, we have that nature in us , either to love unconditionally, or to keep grudge, hate or dislike someone or something.
Where my topic is coming from, we have a friend who has been staying with us since December last year, we decided to house and feed him against all talk that he his human and tends to betray us in along run, which has finally come to manifestation, normally I wouldn't write about it but it's a thing that has truly hurt my husband dearly and has asked the guy to leave the house, which I am still begging him to consider despite what he has done.
So when he came to stay with us in December, he asked my husband to teach him how to repair phones and laptops, and how to go about the sales of phone accessories, my husband agreed without collecting a dine for the teachings, we have been feeding him by Gods grace , trying to make him comfortable in the best way we can, even to the point of giving him some share if money being done on some jobs
Now he want to stand in his own which isn't a problem, but the problem is him going behind my husbands back and telling his customers that my husband charges a lot,that he want to open his own shop, they should be coming to his place instead, well I don't know if I m wrong in anyway to think what he is doing is't right, I have told him to his face that whaat he his found is bad, but I don't want my husband to send him out of the house cause he doesn't have a place to stay for now.
My husband was really hurt, he was in tear as he was telling everything that has happened, even the times that he would go out and the friend would be in the shop, he will collect jobs and do them and then collect money and pocket it without telling my husband, it is only when the customer brings back the jib that it wasnt done we'll that's when he gets to know his friend hasn't been a straight forward person.
What your take on this guys, how should I happen this matter
Area pollution.
Area pollution.
It's another week, which means another contest to participate in, this week topic below.
*>Week 08:- Edition 01:*
*Pollution*
*What are the major causes of pollution in your area? Are they vehicles, industries, or just humans? Suggest ways in which this can be rectified*.
In my area there are some causes of pollution, the first is the
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/R1_ibA4oXiI)
REFUSE DUMP
Due to lack of the sanitation vehicle that usually come take up people's dump, not being in my area, people now throw their dirt in to people uncompleted houses that has bushes in it, and due to the large amount of dirt in the bushes, the smell affects the street or the area.
Also people burn their dirt, and due to the smoke in the area , the air gets polluted, people result to burning their refuse because the sanitation truck doesn't come to the area, though I have asked people why this is so, no one was able to give a good responses.
**How to rectify**
I believe if the sanitation vehicle do visit my area at least twice In a month it will reduce the rate at which dirt is being disposed in uncompleted buildings.
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GENERATOR NOISE
we know that there's what is called noise pollution, yes there is, in my area noise pollution is caused by generator sound, cause the rate at which we are given power supply is very poor, everyone now relies on generator, which affect others who don't have. And the noise that comes from this generation are very tiring.
Also the smoke from the generator pollutes the air.
How to rectify
If there was stable power supply people won't use their generator and the noise and smoke pollution it causes will also be reduced.
[Source](https://unsplash.com/photos/uxUUENpp01I)
WATER/ RAINFALL POLLUTION
Since we moved to this my new area I have been praying that the rain shouldn't fall during weekends , because we go to church Saturdays and Sundays, whenever there's rainfall one can't move out freely, cause the rain would have damaged the road to the point at which even bike can't even move on the road.
How to rectify
The best way to rectify this is when the government does the road then there won't be muddy roads and people can go out easily with or without rainfall.
These are few things that causes pollution in my area.
Treasuree 🥰
Have you encountered an angel?
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Having been on a low key for some days and not really knowing what to write about, I decided to make a post on this post that was in LOH contest .
*>Do you believe in angels and demons, or even experienced them? What would be your ideal guardian angel, or demon? Be creative.*
I have heard of people who have been in contact with angels in one way or the other, their stories were always kinda of farfetched until I got an experience some years back.
I wouldn't call myself a too religious or spiritual person, it happened that, I was with a group of ministers (drama) , we usually do host prayer meetings,I was one of the youngest there, the period before I joined this team I had some argument with myself, I didn't like the lifestyle I was living, maybe due to the friends I kept then, I couldn't concentrate more on God, but when I made up my mind to stop that life style ,I was impressed with myself, after much self reflecting and determination to live a better life I went to join this group that would boost my faith and beliefs.
After a while into fastings and prayers I got my first revelation of an angel, at first it was strange and all but then I got to realise the holy spirit was showing me things and in that trace I was a person in White, though I couldn't picture out the face but I knew that it was an angel, since then I never doubted anything of the word of God, like I said I not being spiritual.
This topic was a contest for the ladies of hive community , though I picked another topic to write in that day because of somethings that happen,
**WHAT MY IDEAL ANGEL WOULD LOOK** **LIKE.**
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Like I said before the man in white in my trance state wouldn't let me think of another image of an ideal angel, though my ideal I always imagine them in pink everything, but my trance spoiled the fun of it all, so I have this mindset that an angel is supposed to be In white.😁
Treasuree🥰
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Sweet sweet memories( childhood games)
Sweet sweet memories.( Games at childhood).
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When we were children, we usually delights ourselves in so many games, there's a saying that some people in my area do say, "never miss childhood play,whosoever locks up his her child indoor to prevent him or her from interacting with other kids has done the child more harm than good" i interpreted this from my language, when we were kids, we played varieties of games that even some of them I still play them with my sisters and husband whenever we get the time to, as kids we were unstoppable with our imagination and all, we invented indifferent games and also some we came to meet from our older one's. Games like TEN TEN, X and O, CARDSGAMES, IN and OUT, NAMEOF NAMES, TINKO TINKO, HIDE AND SEEK, etc, so many games we played as children.
My favourites are the cards, ludo,name of names, especially the name of names , the reason for liking this game is because it Involved you thinking of to write when an alphabet is being called we write things that's that's with the alphabet, then when we stop when the leader says stop, so many fun memories of this game.
Also X and Omany people still play this game once in a while like I do with my sisters, it's also a fun game.
You can find the link to the contest post [here](https://peakd.com/hive-153850/@kronias/weekly-featured-contents-oror-week-07-edition-01-oror-your-hobbies) it's for the hive learners contest.
This weeks topic
>Your Favourite Childhood Games
While growing up, as a way of entertaining ourselves we usually played different forms of games. This could be sports or board games, it could even be games that involved cards... What matters is that we enjoyed playing them a lot when we were kids. Tell us about your favorite game.
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Dreams
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How real do your dreams get?
Yesterday night I slept a bit early because I was tired, recently my friend lost her baby, it isn't what I want to write about, only the situation of the death has destabilized me, I am not ordinated in doing anything for now, even to clean my house ,I haven't been in the right mind to do so, also creating a post,I have just been on a low key, maybe my own way of handling the death of the baby girl.
Last night I slept so early , thank God my kids went to bed early, so it gave me my own time to sit and think, have you ever been in a dream that felt real? Well I did last night, I dreamt I was sleeping with my mom in a room, and I was hearing a sound of people clapping, in my dream it wasn't like a dream, it felt so real, at first I thought it was a neighbour who usually conducted night prayers I tried to remove the sound from my head and sleep , only for me to hear the song that was being sang to it wasn't like a gospel song or anything of sort, I then stood up and looked out the window, it was a group of women half naked that were singing and clapping, I them carefully closed the window back and I told my mom in that dream,"what are this stupid people even doing disturbing peoples sleep" she then answered that I shouldn't mind them, that they are witches of the night ,looking for people to inflict with their curse immediately I started praying and speaking in tongues, that I woke up this time lying down beside my husband and child but was still praying out, I finished my prayer and then lay down again to sleep, the sound I was hearing from my dream was real only it wasn't people clapping but my room fan rolling, it has this kind of sound that imitate clipping somehowwww.🤪
But seriously my dream felt real,and I am not a type that easily dreams, cause anytime I do it always about something or someone that eventually comes to pass. Well I appreciate the dream for making me pray out. That's how spiritual I get when it comes to dreams.
Which brings me to my question, how real do your dreams get?
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Delights in being in Christ.
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Being a Christian has been a from birth religion, my parents were a serious church going people, who believed that its only God that can make all things possible, as Christians we were made to understand the difference between a church goer and a true born again Christian
CHURCH GOER
This word is in it's simplest form, church goer is simply someone who goes to church for going sake, just to fulfill all righteousness , and a church goer is mostly someone who goes to church only on Sunday's, being raised in Christian home has made me even when I wanted to adapt to being a church goer, my family has never being one. We were fervently into the body of christ.
A BORN AGAIN
While I backside as some point in my life , as I grew older, I was more into the world but was still trying my best to be a Christian, but there no how you can be a Christian while still in sin, it's either you are for God or against God. As a teenager then, we tend to look at how our friends were living life, having boyfriends, partying and all, but at a point in my life, I did away with anything that could compromised my faith.
>Statistically, women tend to be more spiritual than men. From whatever faith — Protestant, Catholic, Muslim, Buddhist, Wiccan, or other — how did it become your faith? What delights, insights, and joys have you discovered?.
From this weeks topic, the delights of being a Christian, through the word of God is
We have God has our father, father in sense that when we ask of anything from him he supplies us with them
We have the holy spirit has a guide in our lives🥰 , he gives us direction and makes us know our rights and wrongs.
The joy of being a Christian is having to fellowship with people of the same faith and doing things in one accord.
In my case I can't say I am more spiritual than my partner, because he was the one who made me understand and move more closer to God.
God has being a faithful God to me as an individual In many ways that I can't even mention. being a Christian ain has Improved a lot of qualities in my life and those around me.
Thanks for reading through
Treasure awesome🥰
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Crypto or physical money
According to this topic below, I have asked myself several times, which do I refer to?
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*Physical Money or Crypto?*
*Ever since cryptocurrency became a thing and got the attention of the world, many governments have been against it while others embraced it. What about you as a person? Do you prefer the digital form of money? Or you would rather use physical? Give reasons as well, we would love to know.*
*So* this is it, if I were to choose honestly I would go with the physical money because the Nigerian government has banned the use of cryptocurrency, recently I saw news of some banks that were being sued for crypto transactions, really if we look at It, many join or get into crypto just to get more physical money, right?
We know cryptocurrency is a future thing that will exist for a long time, but I don't know why our government is against it if there wasn't a crypto ban, I am sure many people will openly get involved or transact with it.
Take for example I sent a message to my church youth group about an airdrop, normally I don't interact in the group, immediately I sent the message, someone was already asking what it was aboutt ,I had to explain that it's an airdrop, he then said he doesn't advise people to go for it, and I was like it not something that you will buy it only an airdrop. I just didn't respond anymore on the group chat, you know many people are ignorant about crypto, especially in Nigeria, only a few people talk about it openly with confidence,
For me , with the present situation of my country I would trade secretly my crypto, and then have physical savings in my bank account, until the government removes ban on crypto, then I would use my crypto.
Especially in a country like mine, see not that I don't like crypto, I do ,but when it comes to buying things , it isn't accepted in our country, so I will have my crypto one side and have my physical money one side, anyhow I like to do with any of them I do. So it a matter of when the ban is removed then others will see the usefulness or the greatness of the crypto world .
Thanks for reading.
My crypto journey.
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MY CRYPTO JOURNEY SO FAR.
I came to learn about crypto currency from my sister @jessicaissom, in 2020, while everyone was busy doing other things like myself watching movies, since the lock down was activated then,my sister was busy surfing the net for new adventures, she then texted me to join a platform called UPTRENND.
UPTRENND
This was where I started my crypto journey, it was a platform like hive, where you made posts to engage In the platform and earn equally, at first I was happy to get to know a platform for earning , even when I didn't know how to start writing, u always created something to talk about, then I wasn't able to withdraw from there because they changed their rules in withdrawal and then it closed down, u sad sad because I had some tokens on it, that wasnt able earn anything but that didn't discourse me when she texted me about minds.
MINDs
From minds I was able to earn some cash, though it wasn't much, then I was pregnant and due to pregnancy complications( 2021), I had to start at my parents place to receive more attention and care, the money I made from minds I gave them to my parents, then she introduced
**Crbn.social.**
Well let's say I tried my best to get to the leadership board but with my pregnancy issues, I couldn't keep up, I was always tired at looking at my phone at a point, so when she was given her token, I was not given, though I was sad but my health was more important, until I gave birth I wasnt into any crypto platform for a while
BINANCE.
After a while I advised my husband to buy some coin in Binance, which he did, he invested over 70,000naira in It, in buying bitcoin and doge, but he wasn't patient enough, he got some profit after trading the bitcoin and left the doge until last week which he sold at a very low price than how he got it because he needed money, my sister taught me how to trade on Binance.
READ.CASH
She Introduced read cash to me sometimes last year, I can't remember, I didn't do anything on the platform because I wasn't in a good state of mind.
But then I started posting on the platform late last year, which I have withdrawn from there once and still hoping to. Read ash is also a great platform for writers, you earn In bit of bitcoin cash.
This brings me to
HIVE
when @jessicaossom introduced hive to me, she was like to earn on hive Is hard, I just told her I would try my best to meet up with the rules of the platform, hive has been a wonderful place so far, apart from earning it a place for learning also 😍. I have learned a lot of things from this platform and from this platform I have been improving my writing skills.
That's it for my cryptocurrency journey.
Thanks for reading.
Evolution of social media
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The Evolution of Social Media
*>Social Media came to the forefront about ten to fifteen years ago and since then it has grown in popularity and there will be no stopping it. Over the years, more platforms have emerged and changes have been made to existing ones. Tell us two reasons you like social media. And also two reasons you feel it is bad.*
We all know social media has come to stay, no lie about that, many now days rely on social media to run their day to day life.
TWO REASONS I LIKE SOCIAL MEDIA
Firstly, social media has become platform where almost everyone sell their product or advertise their product, it is a very efficient wag of marketing to all who are in business, even bigger companies go through social media to make their company known, in terms of seeking out, employees, social media has become a great invention for everyone on earth, even people starting out little business use social media has a means of advertising.
Also social media has helped in meeting people in all works of life, like I know a couple who have gotten married to day through meeting on social media, social media serves has an avenue to meeting people, making new friend, and with newer social media platforms still coming out, we tend to rely on social media to communicate with people from other countries, it a the fastest if of communicating with people too.
TWO REASONS I MIGHT NOT LIKE SOCIAL MEDIA.
First its an avenue for scammers in terms of filing people out of their money many have suffered because of people who advertise product that they want to sell an after sending money for the product the individual doesn't get his or her goods and the money also is gone, it's an avenue for thieves.
Also in terms of children social media has corrupted a lot of children, with contents that are supposed to be rated 🔞, many teenagers now own phones, that they can easily look through social media and find lots of inappropriate photos and videos, even make bad friend on them.
In conclusion social media has it's pros and cons, it's only left for us to use it right.
Thanks for reading.
Troubled mind( moms worry)
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I have always thought d I could do more as a mom, while I was pregnant in my mynd, I had planned out how perfect raising my children would be like, their everything would always be Intact, but little did I know that life is on another level, being a mom for four years now, I have seen an experienced when things are rowt and and when things are down( financially/ emotionally).
We have had our own rough times, but we always look onto God as a last resort, cause we have no other helper or saviour.
SOME THINGS AREN'T PLANNED.
While pregnant with my first child then, I never planned to have a baby in my birthday month, but he came the first week of the month(MAY), that year I couldn't have my birthday, because the expenses were too much to handle, when he was 2 I just did a photo shoot for my birthday, I didn't want a party, I only wanted to spend time with my family, which we did, then my first son clocked three and the same month(may) on the 22nd I had my daughter who would be one next month too.
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MY WORRY
Recently my husband took another jib aside from his normal job like a part-time job, just to Increase the income of the house, since goods are now expensive to buy, which is a good step.
So now we all have our birthdays next month, I have already forfeited having any birthday for myself until I am financially buoyant, my children's birthdays are what I have on my mind, it been there since this month started as in me thinking about it, and stylishly telling my husband to prepare for it, cause he doesn't believe or like anything that will not produce money, now on my own I have been able to gather a little amount, but it wouldn't be enough, cause if the high rate of things.
I BELIEVE
I believe everything would eventually fall in place,I now give kudis to all moms around the world, you guys are great, why? Because you carry a lot in your shoulders, yes and dads too, all are trying to give their kids better life one way or the other, I believe I will celebrate my children birthday one way or the other, God can do, even though I might get worried I still believe everything would be okay.
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Shout out to all parents.🥰🥰.
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Who helped
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According to this topic below, this topic is a crucial one for me, because grieving up was kinda tough, I don't even know where to begin, but I guess I have to start from somewhere.
>We have all had a person who has helped us grow. Sometimes that teacher taught us with love, other times learning was a challenge. We want you to tell us about that person who helped you in the evolution of your life, it could be a boss, a friend, an acquaintance, a coworker, etc.
As a child, I wasn't close to my parents, if I can remember correctly, I was always scared of them not really in a bad way, really, it's just thus fear they plant in us children to always behave ourselves, so this fear made me in a way to be distanced from them, then as a teenager, I wasn't staying with my parent, I stayed with a family friend for a while, there too I wasn't close to anyone, I saw it that I was on my own , even when I had something important to talk about, I still didn't see that person in any of them to talk to.
After I came back to stay home, I would have live to share sine things, that got me to leave that family friend house, but for the past 12years I haven't been able to confide I anyone apart from my husband, it really a sensitive topic for me.
So which bring me to day that one person who has given my life a change is my husband, when we met initially, we were church members, we pray together, go to choir rehearsals together, the point at which I was able to open up to him and tell him things I couldn't even tell my mum till date, I guess that was what made me say yes to him when he asked we get married even at my young age, not that he is that old, he's only 8 years older than i am.
The way he helped me, I still can't understand the kind of bond we had, it was like he was heaven sent for me, cause I was at a really bad patch of my life even at my young age, he made me understand how things were supposed to be , he prayer with me, even the person I offended during my rebellious year, he made me make up with up, and also that distance I felt from my family he was like a cement that brought us back together, I know then my latent would have not felt like I was separated from them, because we were still talking and seeing each other every other day, but within me I felt turned apart from them, but ever since I knew him (my husband) he brought us closer, without even forcing himself, it was just natural, which made me become closer now to my mum, after that part of my life was fixed i became more closer to my mum, i seek her advise at any given time, even when nobody knew I was going to tie the knot early ,I time her my plans and she was okay with it, she then came to understand things I had done through when I wasn't at home, though i didn't tell her directly, I only twisted my words and she understood me,
So my husband was that person for me , still is, then my mom would be the other person that has taught me to love myself more.
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Technology advancement.
This edition is a kinda common topic in every household, everyone has one or two things to say concerning technology, yea it a topic that has so many things to write about.
>Week 05 - Edition 02 Topic
“YOUR FAVOURITE TECHNOLOGICAL ADVANCEMENT”
Over the years, the world has gone through various technological changes in almost every sphere of life. Some of these are good while affecting us in negative ways. Tell us about your favorite technological advancement today.
I have got many favourite things I use, before I got them it was kinda hard doing some household chores, but as I got them, life has become much more easy.
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FIRST is the washing machine, many household this days have one or two machine in which they use to relief the stress of sitting down and spending hours washing, so this has been a good invention of technology
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THE SMARTPHONE
Who doesn't use a smartphone?, everyone this days uses one or two or this.
Advantages of smartphones
Easy communication
Easy internet access etc
There are so many advantages of smartphones
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THE ELECTRIC COOKER
In the olden days firewood was mostly used in homes to prepare their meals, then technology came brought the use of electricity in cooking instead of the stress one use to lit a firewood.
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THE PLASMA FLATSCREEN TV
This one got me laughing whenever I heard the older generation talking about how they go to watch movies on at a particular location, whenever a movie came out, they would go sit in large groups just to watch what is being projected, then the boxed white and black tv came out too, only the rich then could get it, but as the years grew by, modern inventions came about now we have the Flat screen tv that whosoever still has a boxed tv is being classified has poor or old fashioned.
I have many favourite things I would have loved to continue naming, but I have to stop here, this are my few favourite.
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