Six Years With You and Counting

Do you have a bestfriend? 

Someone that listens to your rants, advising you, motivating you and always supporting whatever you do? 

Someone that became mad at you when you are being stupid in a relationship? 

Or the one who is more mad to your enemies than you XD? 

Saying harsh things to you but just being true?

I have one.

This is just about me and my bestfriend and how we met.

Let's start with our first encounter.

Way back in 2015 when I got to know her. We were classmates. At first, I didn't care about her, she is so quiet and I don't. XD She was so innocent back then (and am not haha), I mean she didn't know how to say bad words, didn't drink alcohol and other stuff. But now? She is the opposite of what she is before. Haha. I feel like I'm the one who is innocent now. XD Chaaar.

Before we became bestfriend, we fought. Haha. I will never forget it. The funny thing is, when she saw my bad side and her reaction made me laughed. 

So, here's what happened. I always have my handkerchief with me as I'm a sweaty girl. XD I put it on my armchair while having fun chatting with my other classmate. After a few minutes, I'm sweating, so I look for my handkerchief, it disappears in my armchair. I didn't ask my classmates until I became annoyed as I cannot find it in my bag or even on the floor (where I usually find it, careless XD).

I started asking some of my classmates if they have seen it, they said no until I saw someone laughing, she is a friend of the person that is now my bestfriend. So I asked her, why are you laughing? You hide my handkerchief? I'm serious. (I suspect some people laugh when there's a scenario like this.)

I kept asking her as she didn't stop laughing. Seriously? It makes me even more mad. Then she suddenly pointed out her friend, the quiet and innocent girl (who is my noisy bestfriend now XD).

Someone continued laughing, still they didn't give my handkerchief back, so as a badass girl, I let my anger out through saying bad words to my best friend. She was shocked, you will see it in her face. Then she said "You are too much, I didn't know that you have a side like this". I walked out! I felt guilty, the one who hid my handkerchief was the one who's laughing. See? I have trust issues now whenever someone laughs! Tsssk.

After I cooled down, I went back to our classroom and I apologized to her, she did too. Same goes to her friend, she felt guilty too for hiding my handkerchief. After that incident we became closer. We always go home together as we have one way to. We always enjoy each other's company. Actually, I didn't treat her as a bestfriend back then, just a close one.

Here's the reason why, before her, I had a bestfriend. We were very close, we knew all the secrets of each other. We always had fun together. 

Fast forward, vacation comes, we are still talking during that time. The class is about to start again, we even enrolled together but sadly she will no longer be a classmate. Well, it's fine with me. But I didn't expect that she would be cold to me. She had a new set of friends, I even chatted with her on Facebook, but she didn't respond. It hurts. I get mad at her for ignoring me. Like hello, what did I do wrong? Tell me. But I get nothing, no explanations or single word from her. That's why I don't want to have a bestfriend anymore. I don't want a commitment or anything! Don't get me wrong, I'm not mad at her anymore. We are still friends.

Back to my bestfriend. There are times that laziness eats me. I remember we had an assignment, she asked me where my work was. I told her that I didn't do that assignment haha. Guess what she did? She keeps nagging me to do it. Yes, she didn't stop. Haha. So I felt irritated and decided to make it for her to stop. I still have 30 minutes to do it, I finished it before our teacher came in. XD.

There are some subjects that want us to sit alphabetically, it happens that my surname starts with the letter "B" and her is "C" HAHA. There is a person between us. Haha. So as expected, the person between us felt irritated as we were talking while our teacher was having a discussion. Of course, we get caught. HAHA. It always happens. XD

We've been bestfriend for six years. This time of pandemic or even before, we rarely message each other. I don't know, maybe we are not close online. HAHA. But when we are together? We never run out of topic! Like we were guns with unlimited bullets! XD We always going out together, eat, and even cry. She is always there for me, make me laugh, keep motivating me, comforting me when I'm down. I had a lot of memories with her. I'm lucky to have her. ♡ 

I will not share every detail because I think I'm not gonna finish writing. Charot. XD For me, having a bestfriend is like having a boyfriend or girlfriend. Why? Because I don't like having a lot of bestfrineds, one is enough. Haha.

You are lucky to have a friend who wouldn't leave you after knowing your dark sides. So keep them. :)

Question: Do you have a best friend(s)? Can you share your story too? :)

Thank you for reading! ♡

Please don't mind the lead image! Haha.

dziefem's note:

Stay away from those toxic people. Have a healthy life and heart. :)

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