Have you ever hated someone before or today? What did they do for you to hate them? Is that something bad or something that you don't want about what they are doing?
Sometimes, I hate my father because I don't like how he acts and responds to others.
Here are the reasons why...
I hate my father because of his kindness. (Super kind!)
I mean it is fine to be kind but not always! Come on, Dad!
Wherever or whenever there are people who ask for his help, he always says "yes" "sure" "I'm going" any words that means being favorable to them. Even if some people say bad words to him, he doesn't mind, he doesn't care at all. But still, he is talking to those people calmly and with respect. See? I can't do that! Now I know where I got my behavior, from my mother. XD I will not talk about her. Haha. Readers, I know you know what I mean. If you don't, sorry XD. Sometimes I want to tell my father, "Dad, can you stop being so kind?!" but I can't because I know he wouldn't. -.-"
I hate my father because he is so extra hard-working!
Yes, you read it right he won't stop from doing something even if he is already tired, that's why I called him extra hard-working. Sometimes we called him to eat but he is hard-headed (I guess this character I get it from him XD). He always wants to finish what he is doing before taking a rest and eating. I hate it! Tsk. One time he fainted on the farm because it was 1:00 o'clock in the afternoon and I guess he was so tired. Luckily, someone saw him, he was in the middle of nowhere, I mean in the farm! What will happen if no one sees him?! Why didn't he go home before lunch?! Every time I remember that scenario, it makes me worried about him.
I hate my father because he is hard-headed.
In other circumstances, we don't want him to drive anymore because of his poor eyesight. But he is such a hard-headed man! So, he drove to go to my siblings' school to get their modules. It happened that when he was about to cross the highway, he didn't notice this man who had overtaken a big truck so they collided! I'm not at home when it happened. I was with my friend that time and my sister called me, telling what happened to our father. I didn't know what to do when I heard about it. My tears immediately formed in my eyes, I tried to compose myself and tell my friend what happened then said goodbye.
On the way home, I'm crying, overthinking and murmuring these words "why are you so stubborn, dad?!!" while my hands are shaking. When I'm near our house I try to calm myself and wipe my tears. Luckily, he wasn't injured that much. I already bought some medicine to apply it on his wounds. While applying, I cried again! A lot! Then I said "super hard-headed!".
I hate my father because he doesn't care about his health!
After that incident, once I had done some treatment on his wounds, we asked him to go to the clinic for x-ray, we wanted to make sure that he is totally fine. I mean, nothing has been damaged on his chest. But before that, he didn't want to. He said "that just costs, you must save it". It takes half an hour to force him. Because of that, I shouted "This is not just for you! This is also for us to know and be assured that you are totally fine!". After a few minutes he stood up and changed his clothes. Very good. XD. And the result says nothing to worry about. He always told us that "this is nothing" whenever he got hurt. Like seriously, it was obvious dad, why pretend to be okay?! Care for your health! You must witness all of us, your sons and daughters finishing studies!
I really hate you! Tssssk.
The more I hate you, the more I love you, Father.
You know that I'm not a wordy person but I know you feel how much I love you because I'm showing it though not every time. You are the best father for me! I'm sorry for being a bad daughter. Sorry for the times that I make you mad, sorry for bullying you sometimes. Haha. Thank you for everything you've done for me, for us. Thank you for your unconditional love! ♡
HAPPY FATHER'S DAY, TAY!
And to all fathers out there! :)
As Chef (in our house lol), I will be busy preparing for the celebration later because today is also my older brother's birthday. So, expect me to reply in the evening or tomorrow morning. Seeya! :)
Thank you for reading! :)
dziefem's note:
Stay away from those toxic people. Have a healthy life and heart. :)
Show your love to your parents while they are still alive.
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Hahaha I was scammed again with the title. 😭 hahaha but we all love our father though sometimes they are being too much