Growth Is Painful
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During transformation, you will feel like everything is falling apart. This is the time that you need to detach yourself from society. And it’s the attachment to the things that are important for your growth.
Our lives have to be completely shaken up, changed, and must be rearranged to relocate us to the place we’re meant to be.
Sometimes things simply don’t go our way but that’s life. But despite that, there is always something we can learn from every situation and you need to bear in your mind the thing that you needed to learn and how you could grow from every experience.
Through our darkest moments, we feel helpless, but there will always be opportunities for us to change grow and move in a new more exciting direction and even though it might not feel like it at times those moments of pain can lead you to something truly amazing and beautiful.
In this journey, there will be times of transition. You will feel lost, confused, angry, unseen, and empty. But do not be confused about these times of transition. You are breaking away from the things you need to let go of, and you're creating space for what will be.
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There are times that we allow ourselves to be distracted and have been focusing on the voices of others, their reactions, and the judgments of the world. So you tend to adjust your life based on the perception of others. So you have to mute the world and silence your crowd and fall in love with yourself this time. This is the perfect time that you can prioritize yourself and accepts who you are and the things that you are capable to do so.
You must stop caring what other people think about you. You must be detached from all the things that others want to look at you, and since we recognize that whatever they see about us is only a small fragment of the whole.
You may go through the breaking and the most painful chapter of changes for your growth, but you must turn the page whatever happens, and whatever it takes you must turn the page. It may seem long, but you will be healed. You will rise, you will come back. It’s the birth of the new you. It will never be easy but always be strong and be brave because in the end it all worth it.
Life throws us challenges and hurdles so that we learn and grow and can move towards our highest calling and greatest potential, so please do not get mad or upset. Just relax be calm and see what God can do with the cards that you’ve been dealt.
Be ready because everything is coming together for your highest good when your time comes. You should push yourself to evolve and get out of your comfort zone, and surely you can live and experience the true greatness that you deserve. So welcome change.
Things must be painful during your growth and changes, this time you must focus on yourself and remember that yourself needs you, and your future self depends on you. You must always prioritize yourself.
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Published : <May 12 2022>
Author : <charmingcherry08>
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