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Because He Loved Me...

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They say that love knows no boundaries. A person who fell in love with a person could be the worst and best risk-taker. It is how people defined the system of loving your significant other. I say it is true that love will see no boundaries because when it hits you, you will have to live with that.

In this article, let me share the things that my boyfriend, Darren, had to do because he chose to love me. Some challenged him, but I know he knew from the start who is he dealing with and what kind of person I am.


Before I say “yes” to someone or let them enter my life, I take precautions. I will spend a whole day explaining things to them and how hard it is to handle me. I remember the time when I told Darren that I am not an ordinary girl. He will not see me wearing any make-up and that I prefer simplicity. There are many reminders that I made sure to plant into his head before he decides on being with me. I told him everything from my past and how toxic I was before. But he stayed.

Because he loved me;

  • He dealt with my trauma and trust issues. I never lied about my trauma from my past relationships. I told him everything, especially about my trust issues. He chose to stay with me, so he needed to deal with that broken or untouchable part of my life. It was not an easy peasy, but I am proud that he is not doing anything that will trigger my trauma again. He is dealing with them right and perfectly.

  • He embraced my flaws and took away my insecurities. I know that every woman has insecurities. Admit it or not, you once looked at the mirror and thought you are the ugliest woman on Earth. I am feeling insecure because I know I have flaws and imperfections too. But because Darren loved me, he embraced every flaw and slowly setting aside my insecurities.

  • He handled my anger issues. One of the worst things and I hate about me is my anger issues. I have really bad mood swings that change maybe every minute of the day. I have this short temper where I feel so irritated and angry with just a few mistakes. But because Darren loved me, he is handling it well. I always say sorry for being a pain in the ass when I am angry, and he always assures me of how he understands that part of me. Now, I am working on it and trying to control my emotions, especially when anger is eating my whole system.

  • He supported me with everything. People say that if you love someone, you will be their support system one way or another. My boyfriend never failed to show me and let me feel that he will always support me. He never asked me why or how, and he will be there. Whenever I tell my plans, priorities, and decisions, I will not feel that he is against everything I do. Maybe that is the reason why we clicked too.

I have so much to say, but I am cutting it down here. If I made a list of the best things about my boyfriend, one article would not be enough to describe how lucky I am to have him in my life.



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Date Published: August 13, 2021

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At pinakilig na naman nila Charmingcherry08 at Darren ang umaga ko. Hahahaha. I think maganda nga yun na sa umpisa pa lang aaminin na sa taong mahal mo mga flaws mo para he/she would know what he/dhe is getting into. 😉

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2 months ago

it reminds me of my boyfriend/girlfriend, we're ldr pero she's doing her best xd ss sainyoooo

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3 months ago

Awww. That's good then :) you are lucky din po.

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3 months ago

Wow, you really had an amazing boyfriend. I am so happy for you. By just reading this, I felt like Darren is really a loving, caring and responsible man. Man like him still do exist but they are so rare. Therefore, if you found one of them, treasure and cherish them. I am also glad that my boyfriend was able to do the things you just mentioned above 🤗

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3 months ago

Yes, I am really lucky to have him. Most people who have seen him or met him told me how lucky I am and that just like what you have said, rare to find. I really treasure him and he is my person now.

Congratulations to the both of us for having the best boyfriends ever. Hihi. Hindi na makiki-sana all eh.

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3 months ago

I think your boyfriend is a kind, caring, and understanding boyfriend. Indeed, relationships are made with understanding and proper communication. Good thing you found that someone who loves you despite all the odds.

Wishing you both the best. Definitely, he loves you that's why he can do it all.

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3 months ago

Awww. You just described my boyfriend righrt. He is indeed caring, understanding, and has the purest heart full of kindness. I always thank God for giving him to me, though.

Thank you so much. Have a blast! :)

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3 months ago

It's very important to be very clear about your or his intentions BEFORE the relationship. Me? I don't think I'll be every ready to be in a relationship again.

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3 months ago

Yes. There should be a good and pure intentions to the person before deciding to enter their life. I think that should be normalized nowadays where cheating & dishonesty are f*cking the relationships.

Be ready for your next relationship & you must have pure intentions to your future partner. Never settle for less, too! :)

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3 months ago