An Open Letter To A Dear Friend Ranked As Spam
Teach your heart to embrace every disappointment of life. Learn to be teachable and accept it as it is while you continually learn the art of struggling on, trusting, and breaking up.
Remember those priceless times when you were once as eager as a beaver. On the very first day, you happily registered for an account and merrily started exploring an amazing and wonderful platform. You were once as innocent as a dove as your soul was filled with so much of cheerfulness, enthusiasm and motivation to keep on going on. You were once my motivator in the site and I always look up to you as a catalyst. Perhaps you were once a very enthusiastic user in the platform and you were once untouchable and unstoppable which made me wonder some things at the moment of why you were gone in a blink of an eye.
I wonder how you are right now and I wonder some of the probable causes of your sudden inactivity leading you to a prolonged dormancy.
One thing I have in mind is probably you were ranked as spam and hopeless. I assume that you are just a beginner and you are not a spammer yet in one way or another you may have been a spammer for not abiding the rules of the community. Or let me just assume that you may have been staying for a couple of months yet all of a sudden, you were ranked as spam by the system without exactly knowing the very reason. Never ever be sad anymore for it is what it is and you need to deal with it gracefully. Face every disappointment with grace and keep moving on even if it would take you to start over. Teach your heart to embrace every disappointment of life. Learn to be teachable and accept it as it is while you continually learn the art of struggling on, trusting, and breaking up.
When you had slowly discovered that you were unfortunately placed in a low score, I understand your anxious feelings for every time you add replies, you are totally hidden unless someone clicked a part the hidden section. It hurts to see you being ignored by anyone. It is even more painful to look at you with some forms of rejection for the system automatically valued you as spam. Know that you are so precious and loved by everyone but in cases like this, please do understand that anyone could not respond to you for all your responses are truly invisible. Never ever feel disappointed when anyone cannot interact to you anymore for they just do what is right, and know that each one is abided by the rules of the community. Hence, open your mind to a wider view and make your heart wiser.
Gradually accept your errors and mistakes even if you did not actually mean to do it. You may have joined the platform before with the eagerness of writing from your heart yet little did you know that the site has its own rules too and in order to enjoy the comfort, whether you like it or not, you really need to follow all of these by heart. Never feel ashamed that you are marked as spam, instead, face the truth, and stand for it. Have the courage to inform your other friends that you are auto flagged and just be very honest, it costs you nothing. Never ever be afraid to show once again through a different account. If you cannot really gain back your account after days, weeks, or even months, then forget about everything and let go of all the things that you cannot really control.
It is not giving up but it is moving on for a new life and a better life ahead of you to restart and start over.
Consequently, go forth and register for another account for the site would always give you some finite chances to change for the better and not to do spamming replies anymore may it be a conscious or an unconscious spamming. It is not giving up but it is moving on for a new life and a better life ahead of you to restart and start over. But despite another way out, you still choose to dwell with your first account. I so understand your lonely feelings and emotions. I know how sad you are and how very anxious you are. And I could somehow figure out few of the reasons why are you feeling that way. Probably there are things worth holding for on why you still want to gain back your account that was marked as spam.
Some reasons based on my personal observations may include:
You had already established yourself in the platform;
You had already gained many friends in the site;
You had already been auto-approved in various communities;
You had already stayed for a couple of months in the platform; and
You do not want to start over again from zero.
Struggle on, trust, and break up!
Although you had already established yourself in the community, gain a lot of friends, auto-approved in various communities, and stayed for a couple of months in the site, sometimes, you need to struggle on, trust, and break up.
Struggle on, Trust, and Break Up
Struggle on a little longer for maybe there is is still a chance to gain back your old account after days, weeks, and months of being active through a real interaction.
Trust that you could always restart and start over while you humble yourself.
Break up of the things that are beyond your control even it takes some time to recover yourself from a sudden disappointment.
Moreover, start over again from zero, and make a whale of time for more progress and achievements. It may be very hard to restart and start over but this is the best way to keep yourself still coming back in the platform again with full of positivity and resilience. You may feel weak for beginnings would always be the hardest but you just need a lot of courage to go on and be inspired once again to strictly follow the community rules by heart. Hold on and believe in the power of not quitting. You would get through everything one day. Just never ever give up and just always believe in yourself no matter what happens. Never be sad and hopeless for you can always make things right once more.
To a dear friend ranked as spam, always remember that when you wanted the most, there would always be a sweet glorious escape toward a better experience tomorrow. Learn the art of struggling on, trusting, and breaking up, and never ever dare to give up. This is an open letter to you sealed with my love and care, along with a beautiful hope that I would once see your humble existence in a community as amazing and wonderful as this. Hurry up, my dear! Rusty is waiting for you.
Sincerely,
Talecharm
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It must be really sad to be marked as spam after a long time spent on the site and meeting new friends as you say, but if we don't follow the rules things will get bad for us. Maybe this kind of thing happens to us because we are inexperienced and have nowhere to look for the information we need to remind us what is wrong and what is right to do.
In my experience I have been blocked from a community, I can no longer comment or post in that community even though I didn't break any rules, I followed the rules exactly as it says, but one day I just couldn't post there again....
Maybe we are also unintentionally branded as spam, I have a friend who was following the rules but they put him as spam, so he had to create a new account and start from scratch, he has done very well with the new account.
To avoid being marked as spam we have to be very careful and be aware of what we write.