For the Love of her Child

yes.dapat di talaga ipressure ung mga kabataan...

No perfect parent. No perfect love, but best efforts for both yields unconditional bond.

Our parents were educated and learned that you must study to be somebody, you must have professional and high level studies (as we know it here in my country) to be able to succeed in life. And they could not be more wrong. It is important to have education, to have manners, principles and values. But studies are not everything in life, there are things they don't teach us in school or university and they are also very important things. I will give you my personal example, I am an engineer graduated from a very good university in my country, I have specialized studies in my career and I also have a postgraduate degree, but I have no job and I live with my parents, why this? Well the situation in my country (I live in Venezuela) is very tough, there are no jobs or there are very few, we professionals want to pay us well below what is established and even force you to do illegal things, such as signing contracts that should not be done and so many other examples, then you must look for another job, as a waiter, cleaner or whatever because obviously you need to eat and survive, as it is something that for you is sginificado of failure then are things that affect you psychologically and can lead to depression and other diseases, is a very difficult issue and no one realizes that and the pressure that this can bring us as human beings. To not be so extensive comment, I can only tell you that as long as you do not do anything bad or illegal like stealing, selling drugs etc. to survive is fine, we are in life to be happy and fight for what we are passionate about, not to be pigeonholed. Be Happy

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Sometimes parents should allow their kids to do what they want to do.. until or unless it is an illegal or inappropriate thing to do.

Ako nga tali talino ko nung nag aaral palaging honor pero never akong sinabihan ni mama ko ng kahit very good o well done man lang. Kaya lahat ng accomplishments ng mga anak ko maliit at malaki pinupuri ko palagi.

Nainggit naman ako, I used to watched long episodes nagmamarathon pa ako kaya lang wala e, aanak anak e 🤣😂

Grades nman doesn't define a persons future. Kya let kids enjoy their studies coupled with play and recreation. Pro honestly, during this modular class prang pinepresure q ung eldest q. Ung pamamaraan q ng pagtuturo is not the way dpat, to the point na pinipilit q xang gawin modules nya. But then, I change and just let him be.

Well, nothing to do with these kinds of parents. If you remember, I've published an article about comparing. I guess our mom won't change and we just need to accept it. Hays. Lodicakes ka ate, napatawa ako sa christmas day. HAHA.

for me , it is good if our parent's will strict to us Because para naman Satin yung pag strict nila To avoid Spoiled child and wag naman po yung subra na pagka Strict ayy hindi naman po tama yun pero if we're talking about sakto lang ..it is good for us , .More articles po & Godbless 😇

Oops spoiler alert hahaha. But thank you for sharing some ganap on that kdrama. At first I thought thats boring. However, after reading, hearing it from I might watch it mamaya. Rest day ko later hahhahaha

My parents were strict about education pero never nila kaming sinabihan to be always on top. "Learn ypur passion but don't exceed ypur limitations" yan lage sinasabi ni papa. iba iba kasi pag train nang magulang sa mga anak nila☺

Been there, I always manage to be on the second. I just don't care whether I am on top or not. But my step mom wanted me to be on the very top. Can she be just thankful and appreciate even I am not the best. Hayzt. Kaasar at nakakaestress. I am not following her. But honestly I did once on my eldest before. But I realize it's not good to force a child to be the best. Knowing they acn read and write is already an accomplishment. Another accomplishments will soon follow. Just learn to appreciate them.

Yep the weather today is sooo good.. sarap maghihiga lang pero syempre d ko nagawa yun 😊 about strict parents for me ok lang maging strict wag lang wagas

Hindi nmn kasi lahat ng mga magulang naaappreciate yung efforts ng kanilang mga anak,,,'di nila alam nasasakal na pala yung mga anak nila sa subrang higpit nila... Yung binigay mo na nga lahat ng best mo kaso hindi parin sapat😥😔 ang napakasaklap panon,,yung kinukompara kapa sa iba...

Addict ka pala sa mga Kdrama Ate ruffa😊 ako dati nakakapanood pa .hmm katulad ng Legend of the blue sea, Goblin, Huwarang, weightlifting nalimutan ko na yung iba hehei😅

Di ako maka relate sa korean movies huhuhu.

It also rained here yesterday and weather is cool now and these days i didn't watch any single drama of mine favourite coz of business

Awww. I remember being grade-conscious in High School because of my mama. Hahaha! Nyak. Buti nalang college na ako. Wala na din sila medyong pake sa grades kasi wala ng honor2x dun. 🤣

Nakakainis lang din kasi minsan may mga parents na ganyan. Yung lahat sila nalang masusunod di man lang nila iniisip kung masaya ba anak nila sa ginagawa nila. Kaya nga ako, ginagawa ko tlaga gusto ko at ayokong kinocontrol ako ng parents ko kaya kahit sabihin na nilanv nagrebelde ako noon hindi naman nila ako masisisi kung bakit dahil napaka higpit ng sakal nila sa leeg ko at halos di ako makahinga 🥲

Tsaka yung icompare ka talaga sa ibang bata/anak talagang masakit din yon. Na halos dalhin at iisipin na talaga natin yan kahit sa pagtanda. Dala dala natin yung pain. Kasi sila dapat yung kauna unahang tao na magmamalaki sayo eh, sila dapat yung kauna unahang mangsosoporta sayo sa lahat ng kaligayahan at gusto mo. Pero wala, Lagi silang nageexpect , laging ang baba ng tingin nila.

Btw. Episode 2 palang ako dyan try mo next Doom at your service or Penthouse iF gusto mo mahigh blood 😂 HAHAHAHA

My mom used be like that , she pushed me to study and study kahit na hindi naman niya ako tinutulungan sa mga projects and assignments.. I did not experienced being free in my childhood since she was so strict..Now that I have cousins who are studying through modules..I'm not forcing them to learn knowledge in that modules , I don't want to be like my mom but I'm not saying na they will not study..

Rainy weather and cold weather does make you want to eat more :D
Parents do what they have to do for their child. You are right, no one is perfect but we do our best. I admire those who are responsible enough to raise a kid.

My parents didn't push the children to study hard, or instil in us the importance of education. So, kind of regretted that I was a mediocre student and didn't really achieve much at school. But that's all in the past now and we just have to move forward.

Lamig ng panahon tapos lamon pa sige yun nais mo Ruffa san, grabe yung init mo di ko kaya xD, Hanap kana kasi work xD pero grabe grind mo dito sa read.cash sana oll kaya ginagwa mo, nang dahil din sa Kdrama may nabuong article ka galing naman ng batang ituhh arehhh, iba iba talaga pagpalaki ng magulang pero as a parent we still need to discipline them not the point kagaya nung pinapanood mo, anyways nakabisita din sa post mo di ko masabayan yung iba ang famous mo kasi eh ahahahahah

Para tuloy gusto ko panoorin to.. Ilang epiisode nb? Bat ganun mga smart.so weird and nerd 🤣