I woke up this morning again with a gift bestowed on me which is Life from God. Thank you Jesus for another opportunity to write on this platform. Are you happy today? Whatever you are going through, just have faith and believe in God. Cast your worries upon Him because He cares for you...... Are you relieved now? π
Since I already knew what I would be writing on today, I didn't bother cracking my brain for a topic anywhere. I woke up, washed my clothes because I love doing nothing on a Saturday. I did the cleaning up in my room and thereafter prepared my breakfast of Amala and Ewedu Soup. This is a local Yoruba meal made with Cassava Flour. I just had to take my time to do these things before coming to write something I have for you all.
I posted something on my noise.cash profile yesterday and it's like this;
I was watching a video from YouTube and it's based on testing the loyalty of your boyfriend.
The two ladies were friends and a guy handling the show decided to make one of the ladies to call each other's boyfriends and flirt with them to see if they would fall for it.
The first lady was very sure of her boyfriend and trusted him. Then the second lady dialed the first lady's boyfriend and acted strange to him.
The second lady spoke with him and asked if the guy has a girlfriend which he denied. The first lady was listening and her mood changed instantly. Her boyfriend just denied her.
If we are to say it's like a joke, it isn't because it's what is happening in reality.
The guy handling the show said "Relationship is not for the weak heart but for the strong heart". So one has to be ready for whatever comes out of a relationship especially breakups.
I would want to believe that 80% of relationships between young people aren't real because whether you like it or not, there would be cheating. So, you have to get ready so it won't catch you on surprise. Only few ones stays true and loyal to their partners.
Hold onto such people because they are rare.
The post can be found on my blog here
I love this statement π
"Relationship is not for the weak heart but for the strong heart"
It's such a pity that everyone including the young teenagers goes into relationship for different reasons known to them. A major influence is that of friends oppressing each other and before you know it, the one being oppressed would desperately go into a relationship and they are easily used and dumped. You then hear a bad news later on that an individual committed suicide because his or her partner broke their heart.
If you aren't strong emotionally, relationship isn't for you because hardly would you see one who loves you truly from their hearts.
When I posted this on noise, different comments with their own views but @Fexonice1 said something that was in my mind too and here it is;
Here is my reply to him again on what he said
I used to say one thing that a guy or girl isn't yours until you are pronounced husband and wife legally. Until you get wedded and everything you do isn't a secret anymore, then any other thing that happens is wrong. What do I mean by this statement? When you are dating or in a relationship you so wish to call it, you don't have any right on your partner and if they choose to cheat on you, there is nothing you can do to it because both of you are free to do whatever you want but the day you are joined together and one of you cheated, it is wrong and such a case can require divorce as you both sees it.
A friend told me one day that your boyfriend is for every ladies until he puts a ring on your finger in the church or wherever you might hold your wedding.
I wouldn't blame the guy too when he said he doesn't have any girlfriend because he might have his own reasons perhaps wanting to keep his relationship away from public and honestly loves his girlfriend. What Fexonice also said is true because the guy might lose a big opportunity or chase away his helper if he shows his identity. So I am not blaming the guy. The lady too shouldn't take any drastic decision that would make her regret because I know what most ladies will do.
This is why I don't like the idea of testing your boyfriend to proof his loyalty to you. It may boomerang or not, depending on how he takes the matter.
A situation where a lady tested her husband and told her friend to go and seduce him because she believes he won't try to fall for it. After many months of being tested and the guy was rejecting the offer, instead of the lady to put a stop to it, she didn't and her friend was falling in love. The lady lost her husband to her friend.
So, proving your man's loyalty shouldn't be to test him using another human being because you will be hurt and regret your action.
Thanks for reading
Once you start testing the loyalty of your partner, it's the beginning of the end. Some even go as far as calling radio stations or other media house to confirm their partners loyalties, I see the relationship as a joke in the first place.
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