A Day Well Spent
I decided to stay away from my system yesterday to have my rest. I know it was the best thing I did to myself. I have always stressed myself too much just because I want to make money, but if I am not careful, I may end up using the money to buy drugs. So, what is the essence of working and paying on drugs again? My birthday is coming up in six days and I have been preparing for the day. I wanted to make myself happy, I went to get some things to use like clothes, weavon to make a new hair, I already have a shoe and the good part is going to the studio at least this would be my first time in life taking picture at a studio but not my first time making up as I tried it first in February 14 last year. I am someone who doesn´t fancy things like this but I just want to try it. I do make up but not as when a professional will do it for you, just a normal rubbing of powder and adding lipstick to make you look good in a small way. I called few people to let them know of my plans and where to celebrate my birthday and thank God, it falls on a Friday where I don´t have lectures. I will definitely spend the day enjoying the moment. Okay, enough of the gist and let me wait for the day to unravel itself. Remember I said I took my rest and intentionally didn’t come online; one needs rest at least but I was able to make myself some nice delicacies. I do this once in a while as I am not into cooking for myself that much. I only cook once in a day most times. This is why I try to make my first meal in the day as delicious because I won´t cook for the rest of the day. This is why I have snacks and fruits readily available all the time. I hope to change though 😆 I left read.cash and focused more on Hive after taking my rest and I was on the site for more than an hour. I would say that was the first time after many months of spending such hour on the site. I realized I have not been giving much time there than this place. So, I made up my mind not to come here. There are interesting challenge topics that I can´t ignore especially the communities I am into. There was one I wrote about yesterday telling us to write on how we left home for the first time to be independent. Was I nervous or excited at first? How did I take control of my life? I left home first in my life at the age of 18 years old when I gained admission into a federal college of education. It was so hard at first especially doing things alone for the first time without your parent with you. I learned many lessons and I took decisions from then. Living alone then has given me the courage of who I am today and I can never be afraid of staying alone. After writing my post, it was already getting late as it was around 6:45pm, I couldn´t prepare any meal again. I was just outside my room because the heat inside was much and I even sprayed my room with an insecticide. There were two ladies with me and as we were gisting, we were the only people in the building as others are yet to resume, I told them we should stroll out to the student market to see if we would see something to buy which we did. I bought Suya (a Nigerian roasted meat) and when we got home, I made cold thick tea along with it and I made it as my dinner.
One of the ladies asked if that would be enough for me for dinner. I smiled and told her; I don´t eat much. She said my husband do not need to spend much on me because I don´t eat. That was funny though. The light came back at 9pm and we all went inside. I thought I won´t be engaging online but my mind was here and I tried to visit many articles before retiring for the day. It´s weekend and I have few things to do today. Firstly, I need to go to the supermarket to get my water and then when I return, I would make my food and then do whatever comes to my mind. Did you read to the end? I do appreciate your time here. God bless you always. Photo by: Dan Burton on Unsplash https://unsplash.com/photos/3_5OfvOhvl4 [January 08, 2022] (No 8 article this year)
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Correct, we will not force and stressed our self to earn money cause we only end of using that money to buy medicines if in case we over use our self of earning. Just take a self relax sometime to feel better in another session of working. Keep safe
Thank you, friend.
It's really hard when it's your first time to left home princess. My experience reminiscing again about those days. It was really unforgettable. It is one of the saddest days I have in my life. Yes princess sometimes we need to rest too. We need to relax our mind. Don't work hard too much because it will lead you to sickness. We must care our health too princess. It's the main investment we have. Health is wealth.
Yes health is Wealth. We need to be cautious and take care of our bodies. Leaving home for the first time is always tough but with time, we learn to adjust and used to it. Thank you, my friend.
I have also considered directing some of my focus on hive too, the writing challenge was a nice one, it's something we need to think about. Happy in advance, do share location, let us meet up, and jolly
Yes, I love taking up challenges too as it helps me to be creative. Thank you man
Too much work might lead to something unexpected, I have experienced such thing before during last month...
May God help us.
This suya again 😍.
This suya again 😍.
Yes o Nothing is more important than enjoying what you did for the day, and having ta good food for dinner
I think we're the same sis😁I also don't eat that much.
I think it´s not a problem, it´s a way to manage food though 😂
Oh you spent your day really well and enjoyed the suya backed up with some tea... hoping your enjoy today.
Thanks
You really enjoyed your day my dear
Yes, I did.
Haha high five to that women because I can relate to that too.. hubs does not need to spend more because I eat like pea nut size portions haha
Hehehe! it´s something good though. It helps us manage food too.
Happy upcoming birthday miss princess. I'm glad that you have plans for that day. I hope you get to share the pics you take with us cos I'm eager to see..
No problem. I will definitely share oo 😂
No doubt, you will be inviting me over for the upcoming borthday of yours that is still loading😁. I go chop ckicken like mad that day o
How I wish you stay near, I would have invited you over.
It seems a lot of us have been so busy lately, mine is even worse coz at the end of the day, I won't even have the strength to interact here on readcash 😆 I also do not eat much but it depends on where I am, I tend to eat more when I am at home with my parents
The body needs rest and we should no deprive it.
I left home when I was 15 years old and since then, I wanted to become independent already haha.
And I can see you are already an independent lady now. 15yrs was so small then. How did you cope? 🤔
I left home when I was 16 for a particular exam for 3 months not that long, that was the first time I left home though
At least, the first few weeks would be somehow to you.
Woah, the countdown begins for the birthday girl haha. I was honestly laughing at the word I read that your future husband could spend only a small amount haha. My last GF was a slow and small eater and yes I saved money hahaha. Pardon me, for sharing.
It´s no problem. A guy would be lucky having such girlfriend with him because it means no much spending 😂
*We're opposite Princess, I am a woman who loves to eat and eat especially when all the foods I see in the table is my favorite...Anyways, advance Happy Birthday Princess*
😆 Won´t you feel going to the toilet after eating all? Lol
Happy birthday in advance dear friend. Can't wait to come eat the birthday cake.
I don´t think there would be one yet 😂
Happy birthday in advance @princessbusayo I wish you God's blessings and favour and more BCH too lol
Amen. Thanks dear.
I decided to take a break off screen but only when I don't have project at hand oo, happy birthday to you in ady
Thank you, friend.
Sometimes I feel this way too but my mind will still be here. Happy birthday in advance 🎂
We are already addicted. Hahahaha
Aww.. Happy birthday in advance.. And I would also like to know why you tried make up in February 14 last year 😏😏 Also why suya and tea, why not garrison😥😥😥.. Garri would have been the best
Funny enough, I don´t like taking garri except on days I just feel like and that could be once in two to three months. Then about the make up then, I just felt like changing my look and see how I would actually look like aside my natural self 😆
Also when is the birthday date..I guess next week Friday 😁😁 if I'm right say yes
Yea, you guessed rightly 👌
Believe me I have been counting down to your birthday since you mentioned it in December. I actually forgot and mistake it to be 4there of January since I also have a close friend born on that day...... Pls drop your location and the color of asoebi we are to buy ASAP 😂
Asoebi fun kini 🤣 I no do wedding na! Wait till my wedding for that. Lol and the location is in Ondo.
I hope you can have a very happy birthday. And may you give yourself lots of presents, you deserve them. I will come to visit you in your other place.
Advance Happy Birthday to you awesome! I wish you all the best things in life becausw you totally deserve it.
Let me start from birthday photoshooting; So you mean you are among the 3ladies that have not gone for studio to take pics? This is interesting. They are just three left out of all the ladies in Nigeria. Happy birthday in advance 🎁🎂
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