Benefits Of Having The Snake Plants
13th Wednesday January 2022
Decorating our house is the one thing we all do with enthusiasm. And to enhance the beauty of our room, the role of indoor plants is undeniable. Additionally, some indoor plants have health benefits. Snake plants are one of the most common indoor plants that you will find people keep indoor. So, in this blog post, we will be talking about the benefits of having snake plants inside your home.
Now, let us focus on those benefits instead of further ado.
`Benefits Of Having The Snake Plants:`
***Purifies The Air:***
The first and foremost benefit of having a snake plant is it purifies the air, approved by NASA. Like the other succulents, snake plants are useful for filtering the air of your house, even at night. Furthermore, the plant has the special quality to convert carbon dioxide into oxygen at night. Undoubtedly, this plant is ideal for your bedroom as it can balance the airflow.
***Eliminates Toxins:***
Another benefit you can get from having snake plants is it is considered as the toxic pollutant remover. Moreover, snake plants can absorb the pollutants like CO2, Xylene, Toluene, and cancer-causing pollutants and clears them out of the house.
***Keeps Airborne Allergies Away:***
The other important benefit of having a snake plant indoors is, it can keep airborne allergies away. It may happen so that you and your family members are allergic to some pollutants, and snake plants can prevent those allergies. In addition, as we have discussed earlier, it eliminates the toxic pollutants from your house and reduces allergies. So, do have snake plants in your room, house, office, etc., places to keep the air clean.
***Provider Of Night Time Oxygen:***
Besides all of these benefits, snake plants can be considered the provider of nighttime oxygen. Many plants provide carbon dioxide at night. But, it is not the case with snake plants. Additionally, snake plants are a cheap way to be healthy and breathe healthy air. Furthermore, it can release nighttime oxygen so that your body remains balanced.
***Prevents Sick Syndromes:***
Apart from all of these, snake plants promote a healthy, active, and fit lifestyle. Moreover, it keeps the allergies checked in to aid in preventing the illness. So, you and your family lead a good and balanced lifestyle.
***Others*****:**
Undoubtedly, snake plants are a good investment. It is the cheapest way to be healthy and fit. Furthermore, you do not need to take much care of it, and it does not take much place to make it fit in every corner of your house. Additionally, it does not take much water. Although indirect sunlight is perfect for the plant. And you may start with it outside in spring and then place it inside after a few days.
*Conclusion*:
`Snake plants are one of those indoor plants that can keep you and your family safe by filtering the air. Therefore, you should buy it for your house.`
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My Experience Crushing On My Sister Friend
12th Wednesday January 2022
my sister had one friend back then. Her name is Sade. She's so beautiful. I was crushing on her badly. Sade visits at least once a week.
my likeness for her was getting out of hand. I had to ask my sister if she thinks Shade likes me . She was like...she thought I was joking but I let her know I'm really crushing on Sade. She didn't find it funny again
why is she mad now? Is it my fault I can't control my feelings? I have said my own and I will make my move,I told my friends about it. Awon goons mii. They said I should go ahead that they are behind me like hunchback.
So I was just there waiting for Sade's next visit. I was fully gingered and rehearsed some Celine Dion's lyrics I was going to use.,next morning I overheard my sister telling mum Sade is visiting. They got assignments to do together.
meanwhile my sister is the one In Charge of house chores. All I do is fetch water.But dat morning I did everything,I even cleaned d fridge,,I ended up transforming our house from 'this is where I stay' to 'mtv base celeb crib', I even transformed myself or so I thought...
the bell rang. It was Sade. She was shocked when she entered.
`Sade: wow!`
`My Sis: Girl, can you believe it. My bro cleaned the house`
`Sade: wow he must be a keeper.`
`Me: *in my mind* Yes girl I'm a keeper. De Gea gat nothing on me`.
time for me to make my move. I was signaling my sister to leave the room but she's not coding. I had to shout..she left. It's just me & My crush alone. Things got awkward.I lost balance.My liver failed me,I was just staring
all I rehearsed left me like black dads. She's waiting for me to say something. I wish she can just read minds
1hour passed all I could say was 'how's the weather treating you'. Mahn! I just carried myself and left like...
I felt bad with myself.I had to lie to my friends she kissed me and she's coming back soon. They were happy meanwhile i was sad inside me,while they were busy dancing happily. Me I was just trying not to cry.
one day my Sister asked if I'm going to be home all day cuz she's going out and Sade is coming to drop something for her later.
The same Sade? The crush of my life? Hell yes I will be home all day and alone. Thank You Deer lord...I will need extra hands to transform our house again so I called my friends to come over.
They showed up and to my friends I was about to get laid...but in my mind I'm afraid because I lied to them . So they put in more effort and was fast with the cleaning
me that my cooking sucked but in a way I turned into a chef. I went from 0-100. She must fall for me o...everything was set. So I waited for my darling Sade to come and drop something for my sister and also drop her heart for me.
five hours passed i was there still waiting for Sade like waiting for Arsenal to win Champions league...my friends were at the next house waiting for me to come do the victory dance and share the good news.
My parents and my sister are back, still no Sade. I asked my sister. She said they met in town and she collected the stuff already
`me: So Sade is not coming today?`
`Sister: Nah. She's not`.
*what is life? Kill me now!!,Mum asked why I'm crying..
the 5star restaurant food I made was what we had for dinner. The next day My sister compensated my efforts by giving me Sade's number
started chatting up Sade, she was really nice to me. She even agreed to visit when there's no one @ home. Godwin
We set a date & I repeated the whole cooking & transforming our house again. Sade didn't come. Gave me excuses, this happened 5 more times. I gave up. I sense foul play so I went through my sister's phone to read chat with Sade. It was planned
she told Sade to keep promising me visits knowing I will clean and cook. I've been stupidly doing her chores.
she won because since then Mum preferred me cleaning the house & my food. Since I put so much effort and passion....Passion meant for Sade. How can she agree to this. I hated her. Since then I started seeing her as setup to my life and I still clean the house till date..I drew the line between me and my sister friends since that day.
`my sister: Sade told me she likes you ooooh`
`Me: Sade Adu?`
`Sis: No. Sade my friend that you like....`.
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Love and money
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***My today write up goes with the topic : I tilted LOVE AND MONEY***
John looked at the picture in front of him. It was the framed picture of Anita, his heartthrob. He missed her so much that some nights he sees her dressed in rose dancing to the song coming from his croaky stereo.
"I shall marry you Anita. I will make money and make you mine." He always said to her.
"You should do that quickly. My father may give me to ikechukwu , the biggest merchant of pepper in Delta state." She would reply.
John wished he had the money. Done with schooling and with a 2.1 CGPA, he hadn't been able to get something worth doing. All the applications he had written and the interviews he had gone to amounted to nothing. He was desperate. There was no way he could live life without Anita.
Suddenly the light on his Tecno Y3 started blinking. A call had come through. Picking his phone, he looked at the screen. It was his childhood friend.
"Hey, Chibuzor, how far na?" He asked. John could hear the loud protests of the worms in his stomach.
"Baba, I dey o. Where you dey na?" Chibuzor asked from the other end. His voice sounded an octave higher than what john was used to. His friend was super excited.
"I dey for house na. Where else I wan dey? Buhari still be President o."
"Omo, I dey show now now. Just pam wait for me." Chibuzor said as he ended the call.
John looked at his phone and shook his head. He wondered why Chibuzor was excited. Well, he must have gotten a job, he concluded as he stood up and made his way outside to douse his head with water. People say that pouring water at intervals on the head have a way of calming hunger down. John believed that too.
He was still feeling the coolness of the water when he heard the sound of jamming stereo. A car was driving down his street towards the one shop apartment he occupied as his house. Lifting his head up, he looked through the windscreen to see Chibuzor behind the wheel.
John was shocked. Maybe Chibuzor had become a driver. Imagine a graduate becoming a driver because the leaders of the country chose to enrich themselves than provide job for the citizenry.
"Ogbeni, fara baale!" Chibuzor screamed as he jumped out of the car. A clean Infinity Jeep.
"Omo Igbo, how far na?" John asked too weak to move towards Chibuzor. It wasn't like his friend was smelling. On the contrary, his friend appeared well dressed with golden chains dangling from his neck. He also held a bottle of champagne and some wads of Naira notes in his hand.
"Guy, show your person love na. Move enter my hand na. Abi you no wan celebrate my success?" Chibuzor asked laughing obviously enjoying the effect he was having on John.
Moments later, in one of the biggest restaurant in town and eating a whole chicken with a big bottle of Udeme 1749 by his side, John asked Chibuzor the secret behind his success.
"Omo, you remember that my girlfriend? That one wey I say I wan marry?" Chibuzor asked.
"Aisha, that Hausa girl. I remember her na. What about her?" John asked.
"Omo, I plus her." Chibuzor replied coldly.
His reply shook John to his very marrows. Chibuzor had sacrificed his girlfriend, someone he said he loved on the altar of personal gains and ambitions. He had killed someone so maga would pay in Dollars. And here is he, John, enjoying the proceeds of an ill gotten wealth. Blood money.
"O boy, na the way be that?" John asked slowly, the fleshy, tasty chicken suddenly becoming sawdust in his mouth.
"Omo, na the only way o. Ehen, what of Anita na?" Chibuzor asked innocently.
John looked at his friend and pictured himself landing the bottle of Big Stout on his head and using its shrapnel to slit the jugular in his neck.
Him, john, use his girlfriend for money rituals? The world truly has gone below the dogs, it is now contending with the slime of the earth.
The end.
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Why People Divorce - The Reasons For Divorce
10th Monday January 2022
There are many good reasons to avoid getting divorced - even if the relationship is miserable.
Economically, it is first and foremost expensive right when it happens. Division of property, attorneys' fees, extra furniture and so on. Next, there are the ongoing expenses for, among other things, double housekeeping month after month. But the worst thing can easily be the emotional pain of a broken relationship with the person you were once in love with and hoped to build a life with.
Not least if you have children together, a divorce will send a signal to them to give up, instead of solving the problems where they are. What type of role model would you like to be for your children? Remember they do what you DO. Not what you SAY or hope for.
But if it is still a divorce that you choose as a solution, there are some things you should be aware of,There are many good reasons not to scold your ex-partner. Do not criticize, blame, be negative or the like.
Of course, you do not have to be best friends, but there must be a neutral or friendly tone between you and in relation to each other. That is, even when you are not together.
If you are divorced and have no children together, you can just not care about your ex and see to move on in your life. Leave your ex-partner alone, even if it was not you who wanted to divorce. Maintain (or find) self-control and your inner balance.
BECOME the partner yourself who will be able to attract and retain the right partner for you in the future. In other words, do not want to marry someone who will never be "meant" to be a wife or husband for you. In a way, you have to want them and be able to attract their attributes in the future.
A divorce means you may never marry the person you were hoping to be married. So, you might as well get it over with.
What if the partner you are divorcing was the one who initiated the divorce? The answer is, that you have to be an independent person. You have to be able to take your own advice. So, do not try to bargain with your ex. It is best for both of you if you keep your disputes away from the eyes of others. That way, no one can be hurt, besides the other person. It would be the best for both of you to just resolve things.
Being separate, there is no chance you will be married again. If you are divorced and have children, you can have a relationship with your children's mother or father. Just do not have any romantic relationship with them.
You should not have any relationship with the child's mother or father until he or she can give a full and final consent to the marriage. In this way, you will be protected from any danger of the child's mother or father getting married again and ruining the child again.
To move ahead with a divorce, you may not want to stay in an abusive marriage or if there is breach of trust (tillidsbrud i parforhold). The good thing is, if you want to move ahead with a divorce, you can do it with a separation. And if you want to be married again, you will have to wait until he or she gets a divorce.
What if the partner you are divorcing is the one who got you divorced? Or what if you are divorced and your ex has been abusive? The right thing to do here is to try to make your life a living hell until he or she will agree to a settlement.
If your ex will not agree, then make sure that you hold a full and final divorce press conference, in which you can air your grievances, and let the court settle your scores. Then, work with your attorney to make the best settlement. The same goes for dating other people.
But, if your ex will agree to a settlement, and wants to move on, you should make your life hell. If you want to move ahead with a divorce, you will have to be an abusive person and live with the consequences.
There is no doubt that there are many reasons why people file for divorce. But, what is important is what kind of reasons people file for divorce.
So, the first thing you need to do is to gather some data and research the issue. You can research the issue by talking to people who are already divorced. But, when you talk to people who have already been divorced, you can see the process of the divorce.
You can see the legal documents and the court rooms. You can also see the mental trauma of the participants. The legal process of divorce takes one to two years to complete. During this process, you see the people you will be divorcing getting closer to you and become more and more distant.
In short, the legal process of divorce is one of the most traumatic events one goes through. It is also the most expensive and emotionally and physically draining event.
With all the reasons why people file for a divorce, the most popular reason is the irreconcilable differences. If you are thinking that people file for divorce because of irreconcilable differences, then you are wrong. The overwhelming reason why people file for a divorce is that they are bored.
For example, I remember watching a legal drama on TV, There was a case that involved two lawyers. The case was about how the two lawyers were not interested in the case they were supposed to be handling. One of the lawyers got bored. He sat down and put away notes.
Later, he stood up and announced that he was bored. This became a topic in the court room, and when the judge asked the lawyer what he wanted, the lawyer replied that he wanted to be bored. The judge agreed, granted the divorce, and everything was fine.
When people divorce, they may have children. People divorce because they are bored with each other. They want to try something new. They feel that this will be more exciting than being married to each other. And, this is probably true. But, it is wrong. The most common reason people divorce is not because they are bored with each other, but because they are unhappy. If you are not happy, and you know you are not going to be happy with another person, then you cannot be happy with another person.
The next common reason for divorce is infidelity. If your significant other is cheating on you, then you will want to file for divorce. If you have children, then you will want to protect them from the damage that this kind of behavior can do. Infidelity is one of the top reasons for divorce. But, if you are not going to be around your spouse, but will be in someone else's home, then you will want to make sure that your children are not exposed to your spouse's activities.
The third reason is that the couple is moving apart. This is another common reason for divorce. If you are not happy with how things are going in your relationship, then you should not stay in the relationship. People move apart when they are not communicating. And, if you are not communicating with your partner, then you should let go of the relationship and move on.
The final reason for divorce is the one that states that the couple is just not a good fit together. People argue. They have big issues. And, they are not going to be able to get along during the divorce. However, this does not mean that that there should be a divorce. If you are arguing and having big fights with your partner, then you should sit down and shut up.
If you are making promises to each other, then shut up. If you are just not communicating with each other, then sit down and talk about what you want. This is a great way to prevent a divorce from happening.
If you are going through a divorce, then you should know that people will judge you. They will think badly of you. And, they may even think that it is your fault. You should be able to say that you were not being a good wife, girlfriend, or girlfriend. And, you should not have an affair.
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Things I Saw In A Coded Bar/motel, Bothering Me About Marriage!
9th Sunday January 2022
An older friend, who could pass as a dad to me owns a bar and few a let out rooms for short fun or even a day booking.
He recently travelled to see his children abroad and asked me to come assist his wife once a while after work/hustle.
***The first scenario:***
I was there yesterday and I noticed a man in his 60's and a woman in her 50's, drinking and eating together. Their language was of the Eastern and I understood correctly.
After having some bottles, the woman talked about her husband who was on a business trip and her grown up children at the university and all. She locked her shop to come be with the man.
The man also talked about his wife in the village for a function and grown up children bla bla bla!
***The shock:***
The man was obviously trying to ask her out.....then she immediately told him that she wouldn't be interested in that. The man now asked what she wants and she said they should have fun, She said: "Any time my husband is away, I'll call you. "We would come here, drink and fun well"
The man accepted and they booked an hour and went into a room!
Even though they are older and had grown up children, I still don't like adultery!
***2nd scenario:***
I noticed this last week.
I saw 2 beautiful kids, a boy (about 4 years) and a girl (about 2 years) playing inside the bar. I asked my friend's wife and she said one of her customer had issues with his wife and the wife left him with the kids.
From her story, the guy use to work and provide for his family, till he lost his job and the wife couldn't cope with the hardship. She abandoned her kids and went away with a rich alhaji.
This guy has been taking care of the kids....bathing and feeding them, taking them to school and bringing them back, cleaning poos, etc. His rent expired and the landlord sent him packing forcefully, after some months. The reason he stays in the bar in the mean time.
Around 8pm that day, while he was out hustling, I saw the girl sleeping in an uncomfortable manner; hitting her head on the table while she dozed off, and I just thought to myself while carrying her on my arms so she could sleep well; she's innocent. She didn't bring herself to this world. She should be on bed sleeping now. She obviously hadn't had dinner.
Why would a woman abandon her own kids? Even if u don't want the man, can't u take your kids to your parents or even siblings and look after them? Where is the love? Is marriage not in good times and in bad times anymore? I had to shed tears while pondering! I was told the man had no one in the city.
I waited till he came back and I spoke with him. He told me the same. I felt so sorry for him. He was looking so tired and stressed. I can't do more than supporting him financially with the little I can.
This has really been disturbing me. Pls ladies, if you know you're not ready to suffer with your man when things gets tough for him, don't bother going into marriage! Don't even bother. A rich man today could be poor tomorrow. Life happens....it might not be his making! Life is not always Rosy!
***Our mothers suffered with our fathers when the going was tough, why can't we emulate it?***
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3 Reasons Why You Need Some Time Off To Spoil Yourself After Working So Hard
8th Saturday January 2022
Some carrier people work year in year out always seem busy, you’re busy smashing work and other goals, Chasing projects here and there, yet, nothing tangible to show for your hard work, it’s either same shoe, same set of clothes, that old Peugeot, probably, detoloriating state of health.
why? Aren’t you forgetting something? Body No be firewood, lol., After working this hard, you also need to give yourself a much needed treat in order to function better, improve productivity, relief some stress and boost your mood.
Well, it happens, some persons do not know how to take a break from work, take a long vacation and get themselves spoiled. However, there are people that see rest, buying things that would make their lives comfortable as waste of time and money, Because of this, one would ask, is spoiling yourself a luxury or necessity? Yes of course is a necessity. However, some persons would like to differ.
This is why we can only answer the question with prove, you can call it substantial evidence. Below are a few reasons why it is necessary to spoil yourself ….
***1. Life Is Too Short:***
As funny as this may sound, it is the truth. I mean why would you work yourself out in hopes that with time, you will have a break to enjoy them. The truth is, you are only assured of today, not tomorrow, and definitely not 20 years from now.
As much as you want to return good and early, it is not advisable to put off your leisure and enjoyment till when you have all the millions on earth.
In this case, spoiling yourself can mean taking a break from work. How would you feel if after spending all your time grinding, you discover you cannot enjoy your wealth because you had risked your health why trying to protect your future. That would be quite saddening.
Life is short, as much as you want to work, take a break when necessary. Go on a vacation so much as you can afford it. Let the work wait while you take care of yourself. This is an absolute necessity.
***2. It Makes Living Life Much Easier***:
Let me say it again, some persons have good jobs but do not have an easy life. A person can afford buying a washing machine, but prefers using their hand because they see it as waste of money. Some even go as far as not eating good food all because they want to save as much money as they can.
When you see them, they look worn out from excess work because they do not want to outsource their work not because they cannot afford to outsource this work, but because they feel it will take their money.
However, this is not so. In order not to wear oneself out, it is good to do things to make your life easy. Spoil yourself by getting that dishwasher or machine that will make your life easier.
***3. For Growth***:
This is one of the most important reasons for taking time out to Spoil yourself, to be able to focus on the bigger and more challenging aspect of your job or building your business and most importantly, take care of yourself.
You may never know how much you need to grow if you do not spoil yourself. Take trips to new places, stores, cinemas and cafes you’ve always had in mind to, make friends with new strangers, you’ll be amazed at how this will change your life.
Environment changes our mindset and perspective. Taking yourself out once in a while gives room for growth, it opens your mind to new horizons as you find that there is a big life out of the confines of your room.
Now, this is in no way encouraging frivolous spending, rather it shows a calculative investment into one’s future through the actions of the present.
So you see, as much as you say you do not have the luxury of spoiling yourself, you will find that it is necessary. If you want to have wholeness, that is, success in its entirety.
If you have been hesitating about spoiling yourself, please do not feel bad, take a step and do what is necessary. Who knows, this might just give you the leap you want in life.
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My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat.
7th Friday January 2022
Good day Readcash mate . greetings to y'all. I'm so angry right now. Please I need mature advice.
My father is not a learned person but he make sure all his children are graduates. My younger brother rounded up his Nysc few months ago, we're just 2 boys. My elder sis and I. My elder sis is a nurse in Austria (3 years now), she's married with a kid in Austria. My big sister send money home once in 3 months, and I have been the one receiving the money. I share the money exactly as instructed by my big sis. I have never cheated anyone, Infact my Dad and Big sis communicate very well. My Dad trust me so much.
My brother is always angry, He said he feel cheated all the time. He shouts and talks to me anyhow like I'm his mate.
Honestly speaking, I gave my brother more love and respect that he could ever imagine. When he was serving, he would call telling me he need 10k urgently, sometimes 20k, that he will pay back. Immediately I will send it to him and he would never pay back. Same thing he does to my father.
If we ask him what's he using his allawee for?? He would angrily say so is because we're sending him "chicken change" that's why we're asking jamb questions.
He said we don't regard him, he called my Dad a SIMP, he said my Dad listen more to my big sis and I....but he don't listen to any of his suggestions.
My brother is a 2:1 (second class upper) graduate in economics from UNIBEN. After his Nysc all he does is to sleep and eat. My Dad's good friend told my brother to come to Lagos and resume work with him. He refused. My Dad ask him if he wants to further his education (masters or professional courses)he said no....Okay follow my Dad to his cement shop and help him (my dad even promised to pay him salary) he refused....I overheard him on a call with a friend and i suspect he's now into yahoo yahoo.
Look at what happened. My big sis sent us money to celebrate this festive period. She said I should give my brother 50k, I should take 80k and give my father the rest (abt 250k). My Dad is always aware of everything.
I even added 20k out of my money and I transferred 70k to my brother, I was left with 60k (because she also sent me woman hair and I plan with my girlfriend to sell ). You can imagine this ungrateful brother started insulting me, that I cheated him. the fool angrily withdrawn the money from his account and SET IT ON FIRE (70k). He called my elder sister and started warning her saying "if he can't receive the money henceforth, she should stop sending him money again".
My Dad gave him a resetting, resounding, hot and dirty slaps. He pulled out a knife, deflated my Dad's car tyres and ran away from the house.
Everyone is not happy. I don't want my brother to live a wayward life. He's 26 years old.
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The Two Suffering Men
6th Thursday January 2022
Hello everyone greetings from this side to all that devote their time to read my write up, I love you all and all thanks to those that always up_vote and tips on my article... today write up goes with the topic: ***The Two Suffering men***
I am a person that loves cold weather. No matter how cold the Nigeria weather is, I must take my bath with only cool or cold water.
Since morning, I layed on the floor just to cool myself as I meditate about how the year will look like.
I decide to come out just to feel the heat of the sun and I saw a man I know many years ago. I was sadden because seeing him flooded my soul with memories.
I know this man from 2001. He was among the first men who started pure water business in my own town. I even work for him, stapling pure water for him as a young boy.
His business was doing well, until they fired him arrows and struck him with madness. He has been mentally sick for more than 21 years.
I felt pain when I saw him. I never thought his life will end this way..
I know of another guy who was once very close. He own a business and he was doing well until he met a girl who came from the village and they started dating.
The young woman became pregnant and had a baby for him. Things became so tough for him and he was evicted and loss his business.
In hardship, the babe fled and left the baby for him to raise alone. She started running after various men as her eyes has now open.
This man began to suffer in all levels of life. His suffering was so bad that, there was no one to help him because he has no good family members to help him. His suffering was so bad that, he began to tear fire wood for a living.
In appearance, suffer has made him look so bad to the point where he became very shy anytime he sees me and others.
I could feel the extreme gravity of what he was going through because I, too has my own share of struggles overcome.
I began to pray that, when things becomes very mellow for me, I will look for him and bless him and transition his life.
3 months later, I saw someone walk very fast and pass me by. I turned and was more than shock to see him running mad. They have fired him arrow of madness after 15 years of his suffering. I instantly voice out and whale as I run along with him.
I cried over him when I got home. At 1:am at midnight I wept as I question God justice for the first time in my adult life
***FINAL WORDS***
`Poverty is an instrument of God.`
Poverty is a perfect instrument of the devil. Satan can easily make a person mad after many years in poverty.
There are people walking on the street like a mad men. You may easily think, they are mad, no, they are not. Their mad countenance is as a result of chronic poverty and suffering
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5 Ways To Silence A Nagging Partner
5th Wednesday January 2022
Hold on, I know that caption seems a little bit off and you are taken aback right now. No one is killing anyone, do not worry too much about that. What is actually referred to here is how you can make your partner talk less, or cease bothering you about a particular thing.
When it comes to nagging, some persons often view it as the fault of the nagging partner. But this article in a way will show you how to deal with the nagging problem in your relationship and will also reveal that no one loves to nag. That oftentimes the inactions or actions of a partner warrants this behaviour. Now, before dealing with how to silence a nagging partner, what exactly is nagging?
The Oxford dictionary defines it as “the act of continuously reminding or complaining to someone in an annoying way, often about insignificant or unnecessary matters”. This definition is quite specific and what we will find in this read will utterly blow our minds.
Now to the main point; here are a few ways to silence that nagging partner that wants to wear you out through much chatter;
***1. Do What Is “necessary and expected” Of You:***
observe those two important words highlighted. When you get into a relationship with a person, it is important you know and note that although you both share love you are two unique different beings. What you consider unimportant may actually be important to your partner. So in order to live in love and understanding, you do those things you do not see as important but are required of you by your partner.
A relationship blossoms when two people take into consideration the person whom they say they love and cease being selfish and start acting selfless. When you do what is required of you, no one would pester you.
***2. Quit And Avoid being A Slave Driver:***
Are you one who is fond of expecting so much from a person? Demanding that your partner does or gives you things you know personally you will not be able to do conveniently. When people begin to task each other in a relationship, the relationship becomes overbearing and people just resort to complaining than just talking it through. If you do not want your partner to talk ceaselessly, stop with the slave master mentality.
***3. Learn To Overlook Matters:***
Often when the nagging partner begins their act, the best response is silence and walking away. This without further ado will make the person think twice about their acts. Responding with the same amount of energy will only cause a strain in the relationship, and if you are looking to bring out the best in that individual and looking out for your relationship, you will refrain from the vocal war. Learn to overlook things, keep silence and walk away.
***4. Seek To know The Reason Behind The Nagging:***
No one loves to talk about the same thing over and over again, because talking also expends energy. So if one ceaselessly talks about something, it is imperative to find out the reason behind their actions. Except someone just loves trouble and does not like peace, then the person will find ways to disrupt it by talking. Anything besides this shows there is something backing their actions, it is your duty to find out what it is.
***5. Last Not The Least Is Communication:***
some ladies in a way talk when there is a lack of communication in the relationship. It causes strain, so they voice out. Create time for that flow of communication, it is the thing that cements a relationship.
If the above does not work, it is high time to take a walk into a therapist office to seek help. And if you love to nag or just talk and complain; then you really need to change, for yourself and for the person you love.
Now, I know you are at ease because no one is dying anytime soon, rather someone is becoming a better partner.
`The concluding part is;`
`people can change, people will always change, if you have a partner like this, do not give up on them. Know that there is something you can do to help them, you can definitely silence a nagging partner by your right actions.`
Cheers to a better relationship.
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When a woman Becomes a Liability
4th Tuesday January 2022
Hello readcash mate and specially those that encourage and motivate me to write in this wonderful platform, since morning I was wondering on what to write,then this topic comes up my mind then I decided to write before I forget,..and I titled it ****WHEN A WOMAN BECOMES A LIABILITY.****
Ever heard statements like: "I must have a job before getting married, I don't want to be a liability to any man". Or "I can't be a full time house wife ooo, I don't want to be a liability to any man". Sometimes parents tell their daughters; you must finish your education and get a job before you think of marriage. I don't want my daughter to be a liability to any man. I have come to discover that this is the mindset a vast majority of people today.
I asked a lady quite close to me. "when does a woman become a liability to her husband? " Due to the fact that she knows me quite well and knows that I don't just ask questions any how, she didn't give me an answer that day. She had to think deeply.
She asked her younger sister the same question and she quickly replied without thinking "when she does not have a job. Her mum and a friend of hers gave exactly the same answer.
I have had course to hear statements like these in the past and a bit more frequently in recent times and I seemed to agree with it but as I began to hear it more frequently in recent times I found myself subconsciously thinking about it in... guess where? In the bathroom and toilet (sorry to mention that, some of my deepest inspiration come to me in that room).
Then the big question: Does the fact that a woman is not working and contributing financially to the up keep of the home make her a liability to her husband or the home?
Now, Mr. Man, you have a wife that loves you so much. She spends time praying for you, committing your day to God's hand, sometimes you wake up in the middle of the night to find her petitioning heaven for the family, she wakes up as early as 4 or 5 am to make sure you are set for the day's job and whispers word of encouragement to you just before you leave for work, when you get back tired and when you are discouraged.
In addition, since you married her, you hardly ever eat outside because she is such a good cook and you always eat at the right time. She even gives you a lunch pack. God has also blessed you with beautiful kids through her and those kids are well fed, taken care of, always neat and well brought up.
This woman does not make it a habit of denying you your conjugal right ,..... giving you one excuse or the other. You also confess that whenever you take your problems to her, she has a way of making your problem look so small or even go away. She is also a very good manager of resources.
Not withstanding, there is one major issue. She has no job and does not contribute to the financial upkeep of the family. Does this make her a Liability?
I looked up the word liability in the Oxford Advanced Learner dictionary and I saw three different definitions. The one that relates to the matter of discourse is that a liability is something that causes problems (in summary).
I also went into the scriptures to understand the role of the man and the woman in the family and I realize that women should primarily be "keepers at home" while men should primarily be "the Providers" for the home. 1st Timothy 5:8; Titus 2:5. Biblically, a woman who has succeeded in doing the above cannot be called a liability whether she contributes financially to the family up keep or not.
Let me buttress with this example. We primarily use phones for keeping in touch with people either by calls, SMS, chats etc. Now, I purchased a simple touch lite Nokia and it helps me to keep in touch with people without any problem.
Then I saw some phones that have features like GPRS, scientific calculators, internet etc. Does that make my nokia phone a liability? If I now get a phone that have those other features and then the primary function of keeping in touch is malfunctioning, which of these two phones now become a liability?
For me, a woman should be actively engaged in one career, job, trade etc or the other but not for the sole purpose of
contributing to family upkeep. That is the primary role of the man. If as a man, you have a woman that supports financially, it is just an extra feature for you and it remains only an asset to you as long as it does not disturb the primary role of the woman. If it does, your working class wife is fast becoming a liability.
***I hereby come to the following conclusion:***
1. That a woman does not have a formal job or contribute to the financial up keep of the home does not make her a liability. In short it is the man who cannot adequately take care of the needs of the family that is becoming a liability.
2. Any woman can be a liability whether working and contributing to family finance or not. It is a function of her primary role, not the added features.
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marriage problem
3rd Monday January 2022
Hello, I'm not necessarily looking for concrete answers here, I was just thinking that writing things down here might help a friend of my think things through and maybe people could make suggestions or comments to help him in that process. his been quite unhappy in general for at least the last three years.
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For parts his been depressed, but for the majority of the time he just engrossed himself in his interests during his spare time, and avoided thinking about the general unhappiness. his been married for over eleven years.
The last two years of the marriage have been especially difficult. his wife is neurotypical, and has been suffering from depression for about the last six years. She doesn't work and spends the majority of time sat on the sofa in the same clothes with her laptop.
When she's in a bad mood, she's very difficult to be around. About four years ago dey saw a marriage counsellor, the counsellor had experience with people on the autistic spectrum, and within a few minutes of speaking to him suggested he was on the spectrum. It was the first time he seriously thought about it and it helped answer a lot of questions he had about himself.
The counselling helped a bit, but didn't resolve things. About two years ago, his wife said she didn't love him any more, and she left to stay with her parents for a couple of weeks. dey talked things through and decided to try again and she moved back in. But the experience really hurt him. he feel like he just been drifting along the last couple of years.
The last few months the unhappiness has increased, and he felt depressed for periods of time. Initially he thought it was because he had very few friends, and so tried to do something to improve that.
He met someone online who he felt a connection with, it developed into something more than platonic, dey met up for a few hours in person, and he felt a connection and happiness with her that he haven't felt for a long time.
He stupidly fell in love with her even though he hardly know her. dey're still 'friends' but she doesn't feel the same way he do. In 'another world', where he wasn't already married he think dey might have had a chance.
So although he think this chance of happiness has gone, it does make him think that he could potentially find happiness in the future with someone else. So sometimes his thinking he should leave his wife, give up on the marriage, and try to start his life afresh.
Other times his thinking he should just be happy with what he already have. he have a home, pets and lifestyle that he worked hard for and don't really want to give up. he still have a bond with his wife, who has made him a better person, and on the good days is good to be around.
But he don't know if he still feel any love for her. he started seeing a counsellor who has experience with people on the autistic spectrum, and his hoping talking things through with her will help him decide to what to do with his future. Whatever happens, his not going to make a rash decision immediately.
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What Can This Family Do
02 Sunday January 2022
***Good day fellow READCASH***
There's this neighbour of mine, a family with 6 kids (3 boys and 3 girls) and the couple, totalling eight. They lived in an uncompleted building (they couldn't afford getting a single room) though with the permission of the owner. I've known this family almost a decade. The children ain't going to school. Not even a public school. The children look so pale, malnourished and unkept. The husband is a bricklayer who hardly get job. Most of the job he had gotten in his lifetime was just a join man job. The wife goes to different places to wash clothes and get paid which isn't constant.
Some of these children are becoming nuisance in the neighbourhood. They walk helmlessly in the street looking for what to eat. People took advantage of their predicament. Sending them errand at will, while their mates are in school.
Their mother and father had been insulted severely for stopping them from turning their children to their messenger. These children doesn't listen to their parents to stop walking helmlessly, parabulating the street and being sent on an errand by anybody.
They claimed their parents doesn't give them food to eat and they had to help people go on errand just to get something to eat. Even the church ain't helping. She had stopped attending her church. According to her, they mocked and make jest of her right in her presence. Why? Because of her condition, she wasn't contributing to the church.
These children had become a street beggars. Infact, the first son (13 years old) was arrested last week for stealing a mobile phone. He confessed, claiming hunger led him to it. My dad had to plead on his behalf and he was released the following day having seen the phone
I'm from a humble background. There's little to nothing i could do to help this family. I teach in a secondary school with just 33k take home as a corper. I do talked to these children, tutor them, admonished and give them the little from me. My mother being a friend to their mother also help in giving foodstuffs (though occasionally).
This family had been an eye sore to the public that i had to forget my own problem sometimes. According to the man, he claimed his wife had never disrespected him nor cheated on him for once. She was a good woman to him and his children. She was just unfortunate
This woman came to meet my mum yesterday, crying bitterly, hitting herself on the ground. She claimed her family had been for days without food (eating only unripe pawpaw) This was someone who had ulcer as a result of starvation.
She cried prufesly, lamenting seriously, claiming she'd have to abandon her children and run away. Her tears moved me and i got teary. My mum scolded her, letting her know the implications. Also, that should be the last thing to ever do. Not that she herself (my mum) was enjoying in her matrimonial home. However, running away, abandoning her children is a pure suicide mission that she'd regret for the rest of her life
My worry was that, these children needed to go back to school. These children are even brilliant seriously. The first 2 boys are done with primary school, while the 3rd child a girl, supposed to be in basic 6, sitting for her common entrance exam.
Is there any Agency/NGO that can help these children back to school? not minding public school? These children are more likely to end up badly if they keep roaming the streets while their mates are in school. They'd easily get exposed to all sorts of bad things including the girls amongst them. Sadly, the last 3 children hadn't been to school before. Yet, the last child is 4 years old.
Life was completely unfair to this family. They lacked the basic necessities of life. Moreso, these children doesn't deserve all these, as they are way too young for this. In a saner climes, i doubt if these children would be abandoned. Where can they go to? Who should they meet? These children mustn't end up on the street
***Looking forward to your suggestions. Thanks!***
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The Decision That Hurt And Hunt
1st January 2022.
It was my last days in the university. I had completed all course works, all results were out, clearance completed, I was preparing for service ... it was during one of those days that step-mum came to my room, she needed to discuss something very important with me, something dear to her heart.
She said she wanted me study medicine. She was going to sponsor me. She needed me to become a medical doctor. She said, 'I want you to use this brilliant brain for Medicine'. This was 2012. She had always wanted one of her me to be a medical doctor.
But all I ever wanted to be was an Engineer. I had no interest in Medicine. On 17th October, 2020, about 8 years after I turned down the offer, I regretted in tears. As she gave up her last breath, I cried I wished I had listened to her, I wish I was a doctor. And I truly wish I can turn back the hand of time, I wish I can go back to that day.
This is 2021, what led to her death was slow moving, spanning more than 15 years. Some things could have been done and for those who have better medical advice, some things are done.
I first heard of her condition was when I was about rounding up my WAEC. My dad had returned from work worried. He called me and said that Dr. Akpan had told him something so disturbing about my mum, that she had an enlarged heart and it is not a good thing. While very young then, I could see that what he had heard was disturbing information. This was around 2005.
The heart is an elastic container. It works to continually pump out blood, squeezing it out on every beat, every second, minutes, hours of the day throughout the lifespan of the individual.
When it does not squeeze the blood out effectively, however, for any reason when it retains some of it or it leaks blood back into the heart, over time, the blood retained in it buildups, making it enlarged, slowly becoming bigger and bigger and like all elastics materials, when stretched too much and too wide, it becomes weak, eventually loses its elasticity, its ability to squeezed back.
The symptoms were there that her heart health was failing. I believe the doctors would know and should know that any one developing an enlarge heart (or any other cardiac related issue) needs urgent attention to address the root cause.
There were a number of reasons she would visit the hospital, most of them would be getting tire easily, not having the ability to walk longer distances, edema (swollen legs), arthritis, waist pains, those conditions that would typically be associated with a person that has gain considerable weight. Each time she would visit the doctor for any of these reasons, each time an xray is made, it would always come out with the diagnosis of enlarged heart.
If I were a doctor, I would immediately refer her to a cardiologist for further examination and test. There was enough time since it was discovered early. There was a serious need to identify the cause of this condition, and while it may cost a lot of money, at least, the patient should understand what is going on and know the options before her. There was enough time for this. More than 15 years.
There are a number of reasons anyone would develop an enlarged heart. It could be that the person was born with a bicuspid aorta valve (instead of tricuspid aorta valve). Here aorta valve that prevent the blood from dripping back into the heart is made of 2 flaps (Instead of 3 flaps. Such persons normally develops heart related issues earlier than those with 3 flaps). It could be that an individual has a leaky aorta valve or it could be that some part of the heart muscle is death or calcification of the heart valve causing stiffening of the valve among other reasons. In any of these cases, it causes the heart to retain blood. As it continues to retain more volume of blood, the heart becomes enlarge, getting bigger and bigger as the months, years go by.
Every time an enlarged heart pumps, it is ejecting less blood, thereby leading to less blood around the body and in particular, less blood going to the kidneys. Now the kidneys are very sensitive to the amount of blood they received and its immediate reaction when getting less blood is 'this person is dehydrated, lets absorbed some water in trying to restore the amount of blood in circulation'. Normally, the kidneys get rid of water and other waste from the body through urine.
So the kidneys will absorbed more water, they would 'restore' the amount of blood in circulation, at least that is what the kidneys think they are doing. But the problem was never a shortage of blood, the problem was that the heart was never pumping effectively and that was why they were less blood getting to the kidneys. So the situation is, there is more blood in the heart, the heart still cannot pump all extra blood out because it is still weak and therefore the kidneys continue to get less blood, then the kidneys retain more water and the vicious circle continues for years where less blood getting to the kidneys, the kidneys retains water, the heart has extra blood to deal with etc.
As the years pass by, the amount of blood in the heart gets more and more, the heart continue stretching, getting bigger and bigger. Initially, when the heart is stretched, it acts like a rubber band, returning together with more force. However, as the heart is stretched more and more, it losses it elasticity, becoming weak and flappy.
These vicious circles happened to her. It was slow moving, took more than 15 years. The signs were there, the swollen legs, the breathlessness when going long distances or up the stairs, the weight gain despite all effort to lose them, the shortness of breath during the last week of her life. Thinking back today, I now understand why despite all effort to lose weight, it was never going to yield any result because of the enlarge heart - kidney interactions. It was her kidneys that were retaining the fluids.
Then again, on each recommendations for X-rays and the diagnosis of the heart conditions, not even once has the doctors referred her to a cardiologist for further examinations to get to the root of this condition. The recommendations has always been, lose weight, exercise, go on diet, but none of these were ever going to work and none actually did. The underlying problem(s) that led to the enlarged heart were masked with medications that would make her urinates the excess fluids. While providing temporary relief, the root cause was there, slowing causing more and more damage until the day she lost consciousness.
I am looking back with regret, I could have understood these condition and the mechanism behind them, the symptoms were before me long enough. Thinking about the mechanism of an enlarged heart, the kidneys, the less blood circulation, I am wondering if the many recommendations to exercise was of any good. All the extra working involved in exercising would really add to quickening the enlarging of the heart. Probably a case could have been made for the huge cost that the examinations and test needed to get to the root of the enlarging would have incurred, but at least we would have had the option, we would have know what was happening right before our very eyes and could have done something about it. If the root cause had been identified and addressed say 5 or 7 years ago, she could have had maybe 15 to 20 more years.
During the last one week of sharing this oxygen with the rest of living humanity, during this time she slip in and out of consciousness, not much could have been done except for the management care. When she crashed, during the CPR and all effort to resuscitate her, nothing more could have been done. I cried in regret wishing I had listened and switched to medicine 8 years ago, not because I could have provided better care than the doctors who attended to her (aside from the ethical implications, because at that stage, what she needed was a brand new heart), no, but because I could have understood the symptoms that had been present for years and would have offered better medical advice.
I cried in regret knowing that had I attended medical school, were I doctor, I would have understood the implications of what was happening over the past 5 or more years. I could have understood the mechanism driving the unexplained weight gain, the swollen legs, the breathlessness etc. While these symptoms were all attributed to excess weight, excess weight was only a symptom, we were only fighting the symptoms not the cause of the symptoms. I could have understood that the main problem was the heart that was getting larger and larger thereby not working effectively and the associated problems it brought. All these I could have understood and known, I could have advocated for the root cause to be identified and address. I failed you mum. cry cry cry I am so sorry. I should have listened to you. It could made a big difference. cry cry
I understand that life does not give us the opportunity for a do-over. *****This is the decision that hurts and hunts*****
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If You Want To Live Long, Here Are 4 Things You Should Learn To Avoid About Women
Friday 31 December 2021
As a guy, living for a long time and making things happen is your first goal in life. Every man on Earth is destined for a reason, and before you leave the earth’s soil, that reason must be accomplished.
Because of one weakness or the other, some men were not able to achieve their aim. Any of those weaknesses apply to the case of women.
If you look at the world today, you can find that there is a higher number of widows than widowers. One of the reasons may be that most widowers typically remarry, while another explanation is that so many duties and pressures lead some men to die. Some die because of women’s problems, and I want to advise all men on this note to always disregard or avoid such things about women in order to survive for a long time.
`Among the things to avoid are;`
I’ll begin with your bachelorhood.
***1. Avoid fighting for her with other guys.***
I don’t welcome the “if you love her, fight to get her back” notion. Why should a man fight on Earth over a girl? She would not have fallen into another man’s arms if she loved you. She’s not the only girl on earth, but you know you can see a better person than her. It’s safer that you let her go instead of trying to get her back. You will end up being killed or potentially murdered during the battle.
Learn to avoid that.
***2. Avoid jealousy.***
More than anything you can imagine, jealousy destroys the spirit. You just put your heart into an emotional trauma, as you become jealous of every man you see around her. The same way that she was drawn to you, the same way that she was drawn to other guys. Try to consider the fact that she will still have men around her because you are still dating her, and she is a woman after all. Some men may be so jealous that they get angry every time their girl receives calls from other men; why not calm down before you kill yourself with jealousy? No man will take her away from you, no matter how they try, if the love is there.
Over to when you are married.
***3. Avoid her nagging.***
In this area, some women are naturally gifted because of their disposition, and if you understand that fact, it is significant. Just because she’s nagging doesn’t mean you’re going to make her a punching bag or maybe start nagging along with her. As a guy, any time she starts to nag, you still need to act. At that moment, try to realize that she is upset, and avoid her until her temper cools down. I’m going to advise you to leave the house if it begins to start triggering your own wrath. By the time you leave home for a few minutes, when you come back, buy something for her and all that will end. Life doesn’t have duplicate, so don’t confuse it on your own. I’ve got a lot of men who have died from domestic abuse, which I’m sure you would have seen too. There’s no benefit in your wife’s war, so try to avoid it.
***4. Be careful with your female children.***
You have all the preparation to offer them when they are still growing up, but when they grow up, you should realize that you are not going to be able to manage them100 percent again. Sit them down and talk sense into them when you see that they have begun to take the wrong path. Don’t push it on them if they continue, just step aside to prevent early burial. Experience is often the best teacher. Maybe they can realize that life is not a bed of roses when they experience life a little.
I’ve seen occasions where, one way or another, daughters kill their fathers simply because the guy doesn’t want them to flex with whoever they want. Leave her to Heaven, who will teach her some lessons to learn from experience, if you talk sense into her and she refuses to listen.
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The origin of Yahoo
30th December 2021
When I was at the age of 15 , I started having the feeling that, I am not a Nigeria person-el. As I grew up, it became evident within my character and life that I am not a Nigerian person-el even though I am a Nigeria national.
I experience so much evil in Nigeria to an extent where I became convince that, wherever I go, If I see Nigerians, I may likely run away from that place.
Why?
Because Nigerians are too extreme for my personality.
**NOTE: Nigerians are very good people, but for me nigerians are not humble at all. They are just too loud and too extreme in persons.**
Nigerians are too greedy for my likings and they can do anything to satisfied their unlimited greedy heart.
***The Origin Of Yahoo boys.***
419 started in Lagos during the early 90's. As time went by, it advance to an extent and got into the Internet which is know as yahoo.
The name yahoo boys originated from the yahoo messenger in those days as it was the highest and only means of communication from the first, second and third batch of yahoo boys from the year 2000, 2003, 2006/2007
The first batch of yahoo boys from the year 2000 are more into lottery's and more. These are the foundation of internet fraud. They specialize on leads and mailers for bombing, asking you to pay money to claim your lottery prize
The second and third batch of yahoo boys from 2003 to year 2006/2007 are the real - G men.
The name (Yahooze) or yahoo boys originate from this second and third group
They are the god fathers of come and marry (love scammers). They are expert and also specialize on different areas of bank work. They are men now on low key and they don't make noise or flunt around as they value their anonymity.
The recent new batch of yahoo boys from 2010 to 2021 are the ones that make lot of noise. Their greed and desperation was so much that, they started involving or using black magic and charms. Some of the newest ones are into binary and crypto scamming. These are the group that keep falling into the hands of EFCC.
Ghana or Ghanaians was never into yahoo at first. It was Nigerians that early spread yahoo into Ghana, opening their eyes into the curse wealth.
I repeat; Nigeria is the elder brother of Ghana in all areas and in all levels of evil.
The head and hub centers of yahoo are:
***1: Lagos***
***2:Benin***
***3:Warri***
***4: Port Harcourt***
***5 :Ibadan***
As yahoo grows, it began to advance in length and breath and width. Yahoo began to spread as one of the cancer of greed that has no cure.
LAST NIGHT.
I woke up to a documentary on national geography channel, presented by Mariana van zeller, who came to Ghana and Nigeria to do a documentary concerning the dark world of internet love scammers.
I was very sleepy when watching it, but from what I saw, instantly remove sleep from my eyes and brought shame to me as an afriki nigeria born.
In her documentary, she did scores of interviews and from what I saw in the eyes of the white lady, she was even afraid from what she saw and heard.
Fear grip her as the masked Nigerians told her, they can scam she herself. The white lady saw that Nigerians are not people to be mess with, they are brutally wise and cunning fellas.
This was a very old but popular trend in Nigeria and Ghana. When they catch a new client that has paid them little, they will take the names, pictures and all the necessary Info's of their client to any popular yahoo juju priest.
They will demand $15, $20 to $50 K from the client and the juju priest will sent out demons that will manipulate mind of the client to pay the money.
The agreement was that, the client will be heavily debited and must commit suicide. The juju priest asked the mask yahoo boy if he agreed to the suicides death of the client ? He happily said, YES.
The sleep in my eyes, instantly disappears.
I was so sadden how heartless a black man can be.
The yahoo Ghanian boy on mask said, he has used juju to collect not less than $120k from all his client and many of them must have committed suicide.
The presenter asked them some sorrowful but heartfelt questions and the answer they gave to her to justify their act of greed, really terrified and sadden my soul.
When I look at the face of the white lady, I can see tenderness and disappointment. I, myself was disappointed because they were all with their Nigerian and ghanian girlfriends who keep enjoying the curse wealth from yahoo. Nigeria and Ghana women do not care how you make your money. Greed has rotten their heart.
A wealth that comes through an act of sin, can only be maintain through continuous act of sin.
After they have made money from their dead conscience, they will buy flashy cars and flunt around ☆☆☆★☆ hotels, gallavanting in big boys life style and all the gold diggers nigeria/ghana women will want their share via sex.
When all the youngstars - the boys and girls see their cars and houses, they too wants to enjoy this quicker means of instant success.
Greed - rooted yahoo has made all the Nigeria girls to go into prostitution. Yes, they do not want to endure hardship but need quick instant gratification to satisfied their greedy android heart.
95% of Nigeria boys and girls are now into yahoo and runs - . They do not want to suffer the cross like me.
They do not want to share Christ suffering.
They do not want to carry the heavy cross of trials.
They do not want to endure shame and humiliation like me.
They do not want to endure hunger.
They are not patient in (suffering) or wait on God
They want to avoid pain at almost any cost
They want instant relief and sexual gratification.
They do not want to pay the price of greatness.
They want the crown, without paying the price of the crown.
They want to enter the promise land without walking through the wilderness.
No, poverty is not the cause of their wickedness.
It is as a result of greed.Spirit of greed has made them to find joy and estacy from the losses of others.
what i witness in football Arena
Wednesday 29 December
Good morning READCASH. So yesterday as we were watching the LIVERPOOL match in a viewing center, a big, rotund woman, (very big, tall and round) stepped into the arena, at first I didn't really noticed her even though I saw her walked in as I was sitting close to the door (this is my ideal place for sitting when in a large crowd), next thing I heard was a big commanding scream "my friend come with ur phone".
At this point, people's attention were drown to the woman who made the high commanding order, and swiftly i wandered to see who the command was to, lo and behold, it was to a man who is much more older than the woman.
Older in age, but smaller in stature.
And it happens to be her husband.
Now I saw the man step back to where he was sitting, unplug his phone from the wall socket, and made way to meet his commanding wife.
See, while this was going on, I saw on the man's face some trembling reactions. He was kind of shivering and muttering something which even if everywhere was silent no one would have heard.
He was frightened and embarrassed at the same time.
Boom!, The man left with his darling wife. Then some people around me reacted by saying, ah, if this woman is this rude to her husband in public that means in their home the man is in soup.
And some sort of sayings...
"Now, my question is, what should be the right age difference between spouses"?
I didn't just like that incident of yesterday.
I realized the man was way advance than his wife aside the fact that she was very much bigger than the husband in size.
And she appears like a husband beater!!
I think this big age differences between spouses may have lots of disadvantages between them in the long run!
Most especially when one of the spouses becomes disrespectful and mean.
Then when I reach home,I tell my brother what happened and he gives me is own opinion.......
My brother opinion
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There is no right age difference. Age is just a number and, in my own opinion, not a true reflection of how a person has aged biologically, in terms of wisdom and experience.
I have met persons with more years that are outstandingly foolish and persons with fewer years that are remarkably wise.
I have met ladies in their 30s that look, act and think younger than ladies in their 20s. So age in terms of how many years spent alive is nothing as far as I am concerned. As far as domestic violence and toxic individuals are concerned age as we know it has nothing to do with it.
There are 15 year olds with enough bile and malice to kill to 30 year olds and vice versa. Find your match, irrespective of age difference, and live in accordance with the standards of marriage and you will have no issues...breach this, and you sufferings will never end.
Guys/ Ladies what do u have to say??
***Thanks 😊 you all for reading, and happy new year in advance***
Why You Must Not Quarrel
I write from life painful experiences and I share what I feel comfy to share about my life journeys.
Only mature mind with life experiences will forsee beyond what I write.
**THE STORY**.
Some years back, I was living in a place that is ruled and controlled by marine forces (water spirits) To safe guard my life and future, I had to battle this rulers of darkness.
In this place, I used to have a female friend that I care so much about. I was kind to everyone but not friends with all.
I called this my female friend and told her, please you must not quarrel with anyone because they will fire you evil arrows. She did not understand me.
I love to protect everything I care about.
So, I made a pact with her in the form of an agreement with me not to quarrel with anyone and I will give her any help she asked.
I told her, If you quarrel or adhere to provocation, then I will not give you the help I promised. She agreed with me to mind her business and not easily get provoked
I, myself hate quarrel and prefare dialogue (communication).
One night, I told her, please an attack is coming, look for a new apartment and move as soon as possible, she agreed and I kept my promise to her.
She did not listen to my last warning and the attack came and she move out to somewhere new.
As I, myself was about to move out from the place, a lady with a baby move in.
As a new tennant, she greeted me, good morning. I said to her, please do not greet me with your lips, but with your heart. Anytime you see me, don't speak out words of greetings to me, but smile at me from your heart. That is the greeting I want from you.
She look at me and wondered in her mind, what type of wrong person is this?
I told her, sister. I am not your enemy. I care about you so much. I care about your well being, but if you love your life, mind your business in this place.
Warning#
I warn her, if you want to save your life, mind your business and pretend as if you don't exist in this place.
I repeat; mind your business in this place.
She look at me like a sadist, a terrible person.
Throughout the month, she was not happy with me until I move out to somewhere to safe guard my life.
As I was moving out my properties, I look at the new lady tennant and knows she will not be able to stand the demonic attack.
I know she will flee the place in pains and regret.
Why?
Because marine powers ruled the place and control all the people except me and few others.
***THE MISTAKE***
This new female tennant quarrel with her female neighbour. In anger, her neighbor told her. I will kill you and kill your baby.
This new tennant, her baby instantly died.
She cried over her baby.
She cried over her loss
I know she heavily cried over her mistake.
She wept and lament over her foolishness.
She must have remember me - the lostchild, how I heavily warn her to mind her business..
I know the spiritual danger that await her and I warn her to ghost herself to save some sanity.
Her rent has not expired, but she pack all her things and fled the place in pains and regret.
She learnt a bitter lesson.
She will never befriend neighbors of quarrel in her life till Jesus comes.
**BEHIND THE SCENE**
The lady that quarrel with hew new neighbour, who made the decree of death, also learn her lesson too.
People will say and called her a witch- No, she is not a witch. She spoke those powerful words out of anger.
***There are two scenario***
1#.. She is heavily possessed with demons and as she made the decree, the demons in her life, carried out her command and killed her neighbor baby.
2#.. The lady that lost her baby, the devils in her life are targeting her baby. To succeed in killing that child, they needed a loop hole. They needed to synchronize the physical to create the avenues for the attack to kill the child.
The baby has a guardian angel but yet the devils need a bypass .
They needed an open door that will exposed the child to attack.
To do this, they will manipulate evil humans physically to provoke the mother of the child.
They create an avenues for quarreling and that quarrel heavily exposed the child to attack.
*****WORDS OF KNOWLEDGE*****
I am a veteran of many battles. I write sob stories from my painful life experiences.
Our life is constantly being influence by the unsean forces of darkness or light. In everything that happen, I can tell you what is behind and how the demons operate.
I know many of their tactic and how demons synchronize the physical to achieve their target.
Be very careful in all things.
My Experience Travelling In A Commercial Vehicle At Enugu State
I wanted travelling to Nsukka to go see a Very good friend of Mine, so I decided not to Board a bus at Gariki And Decided to get to Holy-ghost to Board a Bus. Took Keke drop to Holy-ghost N600, on getting to Holy-ghost, I located Eastern Gateway Mass Transit bus and Paid my N800 for the Journey to Obollo-Affor
The Driver was done collecting money from the Passengers, loaded goods of People in the Booth and the Journey Began. Halfway into the Journey, I heard a Loud **"Ameeeen"** and few People responded 'Amen' and the Singing began, after the praises, she entered praying, the woman was Praying so Loud that she Caught the attention of Passers-by.
Each area our Bus passed, people turned around to stare at our Bus,
I was so irritated by that act that I had to look for my Airpods, wore them, increased the volume and started Jamming to my Music The praying continued till Mid-way into the Journey!
When the woman was almost done with the praying, a baby barely 4 weeks old started crying at the back of the Bus (Guess the baby was awoken by the loud prayer of the woman)
The Young mom confronted the praying woman that even if she wants to pray, she shouldn't be praying that loud, that it's a Public transport and there are people in the bus who wouldn't want to be disturbed too, that she's woken her baby with her prayer now! I seconded the young mom's claim .
Na where Kasala burst be that, the woman (In her mid-late 60s I presume) who just finished Praying started shouting and Insulting the single mom, why would she say she shouldn't pray loud, is she a demon blah blah, the young mom lost her cool and also insulted the hell outta the Woman, and to my greatest surprise almost everyone onboard backed the old woman. Like Wtf?
Is this how religious we are in this country? How come we keep seeing bad news about this country on Frontpage everyday?
**‘AFRICANS, WE'RE OVERLY RELIGIOUS YET SO EVIL!**
Have you experienced something like this before?
My Nysc Experience in the North (kaduna state Corper)
When I graduate from school 2019, in my mind I was thinking that my service year will look sweet because I will serve in south, but then when all my friends are doing their online registration, I decided to follow the second batch.
I had never dreamt of ever living in the Northern part of Nigeria, not even in my wildest dreams. Never!
Ops! Excuse my manners. My name is Ossai Jeffrey aka jeff01, a South-South boy who was born and bred up in the Southern region of Nigeria, and this is my experience!
Here was I, in a cyber cafe drowned in fear, anxiously waiting for my NYSC Call-Up letter to be printed. In no time, it was printed and handed over to me, I hurriedly checked for where I was posted to, "kaduna State! O God why?" I screamed, as my jaw dropped, my heart skipped and my world came crashing all at the same time, after schooling in north.
Immediately, I called my friends to know where they were posted to, their answers broke me the more "Davis - Enugu, Prisca- Akwa Ibom, Jerome - Rivers", so I'm the only one going to the North? Where did I offend my ancestors? I asked myself.
At this juncture, I had no choice but to face reality squarely, and deal with this roller-coaster journey of life without fear of in security. I started surfing the Internet to know more about kaduna State and their insecurities problem,. I also read write-ups of Ex Corps members who served there, and their stories gave me hope. So, I was ready for what ever!
**Fast Forward** The D-day finally arrived, that morning my Mum prayed for me, asking God to Provide a job for me immediately after service (Did God answer the prayers? Stay tuned!)
I headed to the park where I was to board a bus. Need I tell you I wasn't prepared at all? As frustrated as I was, I was yet to buy my camp kits**wahala** . My friend Davis who was posted to Enugu, was already already prepared for the orientation camp. And since he was acquainted to the City, he accompanied me to the market where I finally bought some kits and provisions for camp, then I went broke afterwards. **sad**
From Asaba to kaduna, I joined another bus that was to take me straight to camp. While in the Bus, I met fellow, unlucky (O!So I thought) guys who were posted to same place. It was a long journey of about 12 hours, but I enjoyed every bit of it, as I got to behold the beauty of mother nature and route my destination.
Finally , we arrived @ Black Gold NYSC Orientation Camp, kaduna. As I alighted from the BUS, the scorching sun and Fierce looking Army officers who were at the camp Gate, welcomed me to the North in a horrible way. The camp exercise lasted for three weeks, and note! I never had a camp girl friend, because the little money I had could barely solve my needs, never wanted dragging an innocent girl into my financially miserable life. Lol
After three weeks of camping, I was posted to a government secondary school **not too good** in a town called kagoro.in southern Kaduna
Then the real journey begins...
I had thought people of Northern Nigeria were all Hausas and Muslims.but When I got to kagoro I realised Hausa was spoken as the general language, but they had their own culture and dialect, and were predominantly Christians but behave like the Hausas though.
Kagoro was a very cheap town to stay (no money there) and friendly town,steady power supply, water wasn't much of a problem. And above all, their girls **O lawd** Since they have this Northern orientation, they dress modestly, and always cover their hair like Hausa ladies too. But hey! they're very active in "za oda room"( I'm even thinking of picking a wife from there... Lol). If you think Calabar girls are the best in 'Bedmatics', then try an kagoro girl. Not forgetting my neigbour's kid who came count on any girl who comes by. **crazy, but lovely kids**
Unlike in the South where drinking of Beer was normal, I mean, my Mum could share a beer with me**winks**, here, most of them frown at beer, to think they're not even holy is funny(city of adultery and fu**kery), although few drink too but it's all their local drink.
Drugs consumption in the North is alarming, I mean, they hawk hard drugs on the streets. Since, beer is Haram to most of them, they seek solace in this hard drugs. (Hypocrisy)
I also made so many friends, mostly females, and few guys. I was a member of LFC (living faith church ) family, every body was so nice to me, kagoro became home.
**Fast forward** Days became weeks, weeks became months, and finally, we were talking about Passing Out next year February 2022 already. The journey is almost finally come to an end, but just like my Mum has said in her prayers before I had embarked on this trip "Go and be favoured".
**Happy boxing 🥊 🥊 🥊**
Which Year Did You Start Using Social Media & Which One?
This morning I just sit and think about interacting with friends and family across long distances has been a concern of humans for centuries.
Humans have always relied on communication to strengthen their relationships, when face-to-face discussions are impossible or inconvenient.
The first recognizable social media site, Six Degrees, was created in 1997. It enabled users to upload a profile and make friends with other users.
Years later, social media began to explode in popularity. Sites like MySpace and LinkedIn gained prominence in the early 2000s, and sites like Photobucket and Flickr facilitated online photo sharing.
YouTube came out in 2005, creating an entirely new way for people to communicate and share with each other across great distances.
By 2006, Facebook and Twitter both became available to users throughout the world. Other sites like Tumblr, Spotify, Foursquare and Pinterest began popping up to fill specific social networking niches.
Today, there is a tremendous variety of social networking sites, and many of them can be linked to allow cross-posting. This creates an environment where users can reach the maximum number of people without sacrificing the intimacy of person-to-person communication.
So the question now is,
Which Year Did You Start Using Social Media & Which One?
My Best Experience on Boxing's Day
I marks the year 2020 Boxing's Day as my best and sweetest because Boxing's Day had always been a slightly downbeat rerun of the previous day's festivities. That year, it became a chance for me to meet my girlfriend, And to enjoy an entirely unplanned day. And at the end of the day, I found myself asking my precious treasure out for a date.
But she looks at me from head to toe and ask can you spend on me today been boxing Day, but in other not to loses her because I have been looking for a chance to meet with her for a long time,
Then I agree and said yes, I can spend on you,but in my mind I'm confused because I only go out with 1000 naira, then I came up with a strategy.
I ask her baby can we go to a quiet place like church so we can have a good and cool conversation, because I don't want to spend more than what i have with me.
But she replied and said what are we going to do in the church, today is boxing Day not a church service day.
But ask a guy man that don't want to fall my hand, I ask her again with a freaky mind, baby can you just choose where we should go if you don't like us to be in the present of God.
Then she said let go to ShopRite, but it's not from my mind to enter there because it will lead to more expenses, but for my great luck, my old friend called me, and said Jeff where are you,can you come and meet us at the fast-food joint close to UBA 🏦 bank.
Then I have a settled mind because I know now anything that she will take must be taken care of by my friend...so I plead with her please let us go and meet my friend at the fast-food joint and she agreed.
Going to the fast-food joint was my greatest luck on that day, because they have save me from much expensive,so we took taxes to the fast-food joint.
Then when we reach, in my mind I was thinking how I'm I going to introduce her to my friends because she not yet my girlfriend,but I summed courage and said, guys meet my precious treasure, the girl that my heart ❤️ is up to and she smiles.
From my mind I have a great joy because that smile give me a signal that she will not say no to me.
Then she set down, and my friend ask her what did you care for and she replied anything he knows that is good for a lady., My friend then order a soft drink for her.
But my friend don't know that have not ask her out,then he ask the girl a question, and he introduced you to us as him precious treasure, I hope you are taking good care of him...
So she gives a sweet answer to touch my heart,she replied yes I'm trying my best to make him happy because I love him..
And that give me to room to conclude in my mind that she's my girlfriend from that day., Everything just work like a miracle to me because I didn't stress my self in speaking much Grammer....she give me a first kiss that day..I never knew everything will work so easily for me that day, because when I saw her at the first time,I really think she will be that heard to get,.
After spending time together with my friends, she ask me to took her home, on our way going she turned and look at straight to the eye and said, I don't know what comes over by saying yes to all the things your friends ask me, when you have not even ask me to date you...
Then I smile and said precious treasure it's all by grace and destiny to link us together that's why you refused to say no to all the questions my friend ask you...and she looks me again with a shy look and say I love you....and I replied I love you too,
I always remember this day....so let me see what today 2021 Boxing's Day will bring.
My read_cash mate what was you past boxing Day experience..
How I start Earning online
I stated my search for how to earn online during the lockdown...
I was a student with almost no money for upkeep so I channelled my weekly spending money to buy night sub and I came across a ton of both useful and useless apps.
I came to find out that our counterparts in Europe and other parts of the world can earn daily allowance from apps and games online...then I described that I could literally get transport money from answering surveys on your phone.
Then my first experience, I got 600 naira in July which I added up to the little I had to buy lunch in school and pay for my transport that day
So here are top 2+1 apps I have used that paid me in Bitcoin and Naira this year:
Versus Scout
Bling games
Saga polls.
The first 2 have paid me earlier this year....
No.1 paid me immediately I got to the required 36 points and clicked on withdraw.... In less than 2 minutes I got an alert. This was how I got extra 600 naira for transport and lunch that day.
No.2 Paid me in BTC after playing for a period of 3 months... They still pay but the higher the price of Bitcoin goes the tinier the payments🙁
No. 3 is what I currently work on everyday... Saga Polls: they ask you simple questions in their surveys and you said to earn 7k when you have scored up to 5000 points... I'm currently around 3000 points...
Then I come across read cash , but still studying how it works.
Who is a Yahoo boy or Internet Fraud_star
A Yahoo boy or yahoo yahoo boy is a person either male or female who illegally swindle or scam people of their hard_earned money or an individual that engaged in fraudulent activities.these guys are also called hustlers , Gee boys, yahoo yahoo 419, Gee and o on. The word yahoo boy" is coined from the popular yahoo, mainly because they make use of fake yahoo email accounts to connect with their victims, though they have moved far beyond that and are now using other social media accounts like Facebook, Gmail account, Instagram, Twitter and so on for fraudulent activities.
As we all know, the internet is a vast space which gives everyone the opportunity to make money even at the comfort of our home, you can also learn how to money on the internet, but in the case of the Yahoo boys, they don't go through legitimate methods.
The Gee boys also know as yahoo yahoo boy make use of the internet with various scamming format to dupe their victims which they might have initially started a friendly relationship with, and then after gaining their trust, they will strike and vanish into thin air. Most of the their victims are usually, investors, entrepreneurs, widows, widowers and so on.
After successful scamming their victims then , you will see them spending the money, lavishly by buying cars, spending on wine, prostitute amd so on,it knows that most of them don't even utilize the money properly.
In my conclusion goes like advice to all my read_ cash fans who have the mind set to go into yahoo, to desist from fraud and embrace legitimate work so as to have a good name is better than silver and gold.
6 Reasons Why I Love Food and Why You Should Too
Hello read_cash mate...I will be showing you guys some important reason about my love for food,Food is not simply stuff that people eat when their hungry. Food is awesome, delicious, inventive, colorful, inspiring, and so much more. A mutual love of food can bring different people together and can make the saddest person feel a little better without even meaning to. So, here are a few reasons why i love food so much.
1. It brings people together.
There's nothing better than having your whole family home around the same table for dinner. Food is a catalyst that brings people together. Having the entire family together at your grandparents' house for Christmas Eve dinner or a Thanksgiving meal, treating a friend to a birthday dinner, or annual family celebrations are perfect ways to keep in touch and connect with your family and friends that you might not see regularly. If a distant relative or family friend I hadn't seen in a while was in Boston and offered to take me out to dinner to 'catch up', you bet I would take them up on the offer. Food is a wonderful thing that can bring people together and can help you keep the ones you love close.
2. It's social.
Think about how many times you've texted a friend and said 'hey wanna get ice cream' or 'rise and shine we're getting brunch'. Even though you might not realize it, tons of social events are centered around food. Birthday or holiday dinners, city trips, lunch dates, cocktail parties, happy hours, and even pizza parties in your dorm room. The minute someone says 'there will be food' so many more people are apt to show up to the event or social gathering. People bond over food they enjoy and there are many different communities, like the vegan community, that have been formed all based on similar diets. Food makes everything more fun and it's a great way to get friends together and to connect with others!
3. It's always there for you.
SEE???? You can always turn to food to make you feel better, even if it is just for a little bit. People even use food as motivation for finishing their homework before they can take a study break to eat. After a bad day or after something makes you sad sometimes all you need is comfy clothes, a good movie, and a tub of ice cream to cure everything.
4. It makes any party better.
The minute someone texts saying 'there will be food', I'm 200% more likely to show up to the party or event. Food makes everything better, especially a party. Themed parties like fiestas or tailgates wouldn't be complete without tacos and queso or hamburgers and chips and guac. Let's be honest, parties with food and drinks sound so much better than an iPod hooked up to a speaker in a random basement. Party less, eat more.
5. It's fun to make.
Once I set my mind to making the multilayered rainbow cake I saw on Pinterest, there's no one who can stop me. Food is straight up fun to make. Getting recipes online, inspo from Pinterest pages, watching Barefoot Contessa on the Food Network, or even making your family's traditional Christmas cookie recipe is so enjoyable. There's nothing more satisfying than pulling your gooey, homemade, and delicious smelling creation of out the oven and of course snapping pics to all your friends showing them how much of a chef you really are.
6. IT TASTES GOOD.
Despite all of the other great things food brings to the table, people eat food because of the way it tastes. Whether it's the sweetness of the glaze on a donut or the spicy flavor of wasabi on a sushi roll, eating and enjoying good tasting food is what a food lovers life is all about.
Overall, food is much more than what it seems on the surface. It is powerful and makes differences in people's everyday lives. Now that you've read this article, I hope you have a greater appreciation for food and are able to recognize its impact and the way it makes you feel .
@Jeff_tech
