Is this how it feels for you too?

“You know someone is very special to you when days just don’t seem right without them.”

John Cena

I remembered my friend would always feel bored and sad whenever her boyfriend is away and would say she is missing him so much, I will be like “why not pack your load and go and meet him?” It was always fun though. Perhaps, I don't know how it feels because I wasn't in any relationship and it made me not understand her so well until it happened to me too. I felt it so much and I was surprised to see I am already in love.

My boyfriend spent over a week with me and seeing him around me gave me that feeling of love and to tell you the truth, he is so nice. I tried comparing him to my last relationships, he won over them and I just couldn't stop smiling and happy seeing someone who cares for me. He'd said before that if I truly love him, I would enjoy him. So, why not focus on loving him now? Just as my KP @Olasquare said, he told me to focus on the moment and stop thinking about the uncertainty because he believed it will last which I was doubting. I want it to last too.

One thing about life is that you will surely miss someone who has been with you even for weeks and such a person decides to go away for a while. This made me remember when I was living with my Aunt, she would always utter the word that she will never miss me if I leave because of my attitude to her. I would just stare at her and would say in my mind “we shall see then.”

On the day I was leaving for school, I saw her red eyes, tears were flowing and she didn't want me to leave. I smiled in my mind and said even if someone is so bad, there will be something you will miss in them when they are gone. You will try to do something the person has always done for you and that would bring memories back and you start missing their existence then.

I felt it two days ago. He told me he would be going back on Tuesday, and on Monday, my mood changed. I wasn't really happy with myself and it was as if he should stay more but I asked myself a question “even if he stays another day or week, won't he eventually go?”

I went with him to the car park yesterday and waited for the car to move before going back home. When I got home, I wrote on my status saying I miss someone.

Some people like @cescajove and @Gaftekloriginal came to my DM disturbing my life 😏😅 Shouldn't I miss someone again? Lol

A friend replied saying I should pack my bag and go and meet him. I just laughed and remembered what I used to tell my friend then. Does that mean Karma paid me back? 🤣🤣🤣

Is this how you feel too when you are in love? Love is sweet, seriously and until you have found the right person, you won't enjoy the moment. Maybe this is the moment. I am hoping for the best and just like the encouraging words from KP, I will always focus on the moment, enjoy it and keep praying for it to last long.

At least I am not getting younger but older and as they say, time waits for no man. But it doesn't mean I should be in haste for it. Being in haste could make you regret it later and I don't want such. So, I will take my time, enjoy the sweet relationship and if God wills it, we tie the knot.

Something happened yesterday when I was returning home. The cab I took got delayed at the park and there was this woman who kept complaining the driver should start moving and pick up other passengers on the way. It doesn't work like that. Cars or buses at the garage will always stay on the line, wanting to get all passengers filled up first before starting the journey. I wasn't even in a hurry as I was busy with my phone and trying to make my posts ready. But this woman decided to trade banters with other drivers around.

One thing about me is that I don't get in a hurry to reach somewhere because I believe whatever happens at that moment, God understands and if we human beings are always rushing and in a hurry to get to somewhere, we might only be deceiving ourselves because it is God who protects and understand every situation.

I have heard of a story where a passenger was travelling and when he got to the car park, he already got his space in the bus, and he went to pee. On getting back, someone had sat on his seat and the issue got escalated and this man refused to go again.

The bus moved and within a few minutes, they had a ghastly accident. Do you see how God saved this man? God is always doing things in a way that could mean we are being disturbed but in His way, it is for the good. The Bible says all things work together for good to those who believe in God.

So, whenever I am travelling, I take my time and will never hurry the driver because whatever happens, it is for my good. Even if it takes longer for passengers to get filled before embarking on a journey, I wait and do not get angry about it.

I hope you also learn from this and never be in a hurry to do things. Even if you are going with your car and you notice something in you, please take it seriously and never overlook it. God may be talking to you or trying to save you from trouble.

Thanks for your time.

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