A Journey of Words, Memories, and Gratitude
Sometimes, a small opportunity becomes the beginning of a life-changing journey.
Almost four years ago, I discovered a platform called read.cash. At that time, I had no idea that this site would become the place where my writing journey would truly begin. Before that, writing was just a thought in my mind, something I never imagined could turn into a real experience.
But read.cash gave me that chance.
It was the first platform where I started writing articles seriously. From there, my journey slowly expanded to noise.cash and several different sites. Yet no matter where I wrote afterward, my first experience will always remain special. Because read.cash was not just a place to publish words, it was the place that gave me confidence.
And surprisingly, it even allowed writers to earn BitcoinCash for their work.
At that time, receiving BitcoinCash felt almost magical. It was not just about money. It was about realizing that my thoughts, my words, and my experiences had value.
But if you ask me what truly made that platform unforgettable, my answer would be simple: the people.
Through this platform, I met some incredible individuals people I often describe as angels in my life. Before that, I never imagined that strangers from different parts of the world could become such kind and supportive friends.
**One particular person** helped me a lot during difficult moments. Even today, we still stay in contact. Whenever I face challenges or need guidance, he is always ready to help. His kindness and sincerity taught me something very important: sometimes the most genuine support comes from people you never expected to meet.
Through this same platform, I also connected with another adviser who supports charitable work in my country by distributing **Zakat** to people in need. These kinds of connections reminded me that the internet is not always a cold and distant place. Sometimes, it becomes a bridge that connects hearts.
Looking back now, I realize how lucky I was to meet such sincere and trustworthy people. People who support you without judging you, who believe in you even when you doubt yourself.
**To me, that kind of support is nothing less than a blessing from Allah.**
Life itself has never been simple. In many ways, I live the life of a single mother. I take care of my children, and I also have responsibilities toward my father. Managing everything is not always easy, and some days feel heavier than others.
But despite all the challenges, I still feel grateful and strong.
**My friend once taught me something that stayed with me forever:** how to walk alone in life, how to find happiness within myself, and how to take care of my own heart. He always reminded me never to think of myself as helpless.
And that advice changed my perspective.
Today, I proudly say that I am a single mother. Not with sadness but with pride. Because my children are my greatest strength, and raising them with love and dedication is something that fills my heart with purpose.
Like every parent, I have hopes and dreams for my children. Of course, the future is something only Allah truly knows. But I believe that sincerity, patience, and effort always find their way to something good.
When I think about read.cash, I also remember how it inspired many young people in my country. I met boys and girls who used to spend hours playing games on their phones or wasting time online. But when they discovered this platform, something changed.
They started writing......
Even the small amount they earned from their articles made them happy and motivated them to learn new skills. Some became interested in freelancing, others wanted to explore computer work and online opportunities. It was not a huge income, but it was a meaningful start.
Unfortunately, like many good things on the internet, the platform eventually changed. The price of Bitcoin Cash dropped significantly, and there were rumors that some users started abusing the system by creating multiple accounts to earn more.
Sometimes, the actions of a few dishonest people end up affecting many honest ones.
Even so, I still come back to this platform from time to time. Not because of the rewards, but because of the memories.
These articles feel like small pieces of my life. Occasionally, I open my old posts from four years ago and read them again. When I see the words I wrote back then, I smile. It reminds me how much I have grown, how my thoughts have changed, and how my journey has evolved.
And today, those memories brought me back here once again.
Sometimes writing is not about earning, recognition, or success. Sometimes it is simply about remembering where you started—and being grateful for every step of the journey.
And for me, read.cash will always be the place where that journey Began. Thank you read.cash :)
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I Choose Peace Over Chaos😌
Here comes a point in every woman’s life where silence becomes more powerful than explanation.
⭐I am at that point now.
No more exhausting arguments. No more repeating myself to people who refuse to understand. No more letting family drama drag me into emotional trenches I never asked to be in. I crave peace, not as a luxury, but as a necessity. I want peace like I want air. And I’ve learned that sometimes, the price of peace is distance.
I no longer feel the need to engage with those who only listen to reply, not to understand. I have tried. I’ve explained. I’ve pleaded. I’ve cried. But now? I’ve chosen quiet. Because some people are not stupid by chance, they are stubborn by choice. And I no longer have the energy to fight wars that lead to nowhere.
I like my work. I like the feeling of earning my own money and knowing that I don’t owe my survival to anyone. There’s something sacred about being financially independent- especially in a world that still expects women to depend on men. I don’t need someone who thinks providing is optional, respect is earned only by men, and women are there only to serve or suffer.
What I do need is freedom. To raise my children with love and dignity. To teach them that kindness is strength. That respect is non-negotiable. That being a good human matters more than pleasing the world.
I am not here to carry a man who won’t even walk beside me. I do not need a partner who disappears when things get hard, mocks when I cry, and calls my strength "attitude." A man who doesn’t understand responsibility is not a man I need in my life. I’d rather be alone and whole than broken in someone else’s shadow.
I don’t hate anyone. I just outgrew the noise.
I want to build. I want to heal. I want to create a future where my children know peace at home, not tension. I want laughter in the walls, not shouting. Love in the eyes, not fear.
So if I seem distant these days, know that I’m not angry, I’m healing. I’m choosing peace over people. I’m choosing myself without guilt. And I won’t apologize for it.
She’s just finally free.🕊️
Because this- this version of me, isn’t cold or selfish.❤️🩹
@sj0820@sj0820
“A Quiet Return to read.cash: Where It All Began”
It’s been a long time.
I didn’t just stumble upon this place today—I searched for it. Like someone looking for an old friend in a crowded world. Because this isn’t just a platform for me. This is where it all began.
read.cash was the very first place in my life where I started earning with my words. Imagine that! The little thoughts in my mind, the emotions I poured out on the screen—they weren’t just read, they were valued. It felt magical.
But the real treasure here wasn’t just the money. It was the community. The people.
I had friends. I had well-wishers. I had readers who felt like family. We didn’t just share content—we shared parts of our souls. Some of us were writers, others were thinkers, some were just wanderers passing by—but all of us found connection here.
Over time, life got louder. People got busier. Platforms changed.
Many of the names I used to see in the comments—names that once felt like a warm hug—have now gone quiet. Maybe they’ve moved on. Maybe they’ve grown. Maybe they’re just taking a break, like I did.
But me?
I couldn’t stay away forever. Something in my heart always missed this space. Missed the simplicity, the warmth, the realness that made read.cash different. No algorithms chasing clout. No race for attention. Just… pure, honest expression.
Today, I write not to impress anyone. I write because I missed it.
I missed writing for the sake of writing.
I missed being here.
And maybe, just maybe, some of you missed this too.
To anyone still here, reading this—thank you.
To those who remember me—hello again.
And to read.cash—thank you for being my beginning.
No matter where I go next, this place will always be special. I don’t know what the future holds, but today- I’m back. 😊
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"Hello, my dear read.cash friends!
It’s been a long time since I last wrote here, and I’ve truly missed this amazing community. I hope everyone is doing well and having a wonderful time.
Life has been keeping me busy, but I always cherish the connections I’ve made here. I’d love to hear how you all have been! What’s new in your world? Wishing everyone happiness, success, and good health. Looking forward to reconnecting with you all!"
Does something exist called true love?
True love is often portrayed as an ideal, but in reality, how much does it make sense? I don't think true love is what we talk about in reality. In fact, love is a matter of habit. Beauty in none of us is always permanent but a habit. You may like someone by seeing his beauty, by hearing his words or by any other quality and you may think you love him but with time the same beauty will not remain but when these qualities please you and you get used to them. Your love for each other will continue to grow. Then you will want to prioritize her inner beauty more than her outer beauty. Maybe this is what we call love!! True love is not just constant happiness or excitement; It's about supporting someone through highs and lows, embracing their flaws, and working together to create a deeper connection.
It requires patience, sacrifice and communicating things openly and respectfully even when things are difficult. True love develops over time - it grows stronger with shared experiences, trust and mutual respect.
So, yes, true love can exist in people's lives, but it is a journey rather than a destination. It is found in the daily effort to nurture a bond that withstands challenges and strengthens over time. What people often discover is that "true love" is a fantasy or attraction. Now the question is which one do you prefer? Outer beauty or inner beauty? But whatever the decision, it's important to have a real, grounded connection built on commitment, care and authenticity. If you can't make up your mind like that, it won't take long for your life to turn into hell!
Dual Standard
Many individuals are known to give more than they can afford to their own children, often prioritizing their offspring's needs and desires above their financial stability. These parents may send their children to prestigious and expensive schools, purchase the latest gadgets, or invest in costly extracurricular activities, driven by a desire to provide the best opportunities and experiences. This behavior stems from a combination of love, societal pressure, and the belief that such investments will secure their children's future success.
However, the same individuals frequently advocate for more economical options when it comes to the education and upbringing of other people's children. They recommend less expensive schools and budget-friendly alternatives, suggesting that high costs are unnecessary and that quality education and opportunities can be found at a lower price. This discrepancy can be attributed to several factors.
Firstly, there is a psychological bias known as "self-serving bias," where people tend to justify their own choices as the best while perceiving others' similar choices as less critical or even extravagant. Parents often view their sacrifices for their children as justified, given the emotional bond and personal investment involved. When considering other families, they may believe that the same level of investment is unwarranted or excessive.
Secondly, the disparity highlights the influence of social and economic factors. People tend to be more acutely aware of their financial limitations and prioritize their resources towards their own family. When giving advice to others, they may advocate for a more frugal approach, aligning with a broader societal norm of prudence and moderation. This dual standard reflects the complex interplay between personal affection, financial prudence, and societal expectations.
Lastly, there's a degree of cognitive dissonance at play. Acknowledging that one's own choices might be excessive can be uncomfortable. By promoting less costly alternatives for others, individuals can rationalize their own decisions as necessary and special, thus reducing any internal conflict about their financial choices.
This phenomenon underscores a broader societal issue where personal biases and economic realities intersect, leading to inconsistent standards in the recommendations for child-rearing practices. It reveals how deeply personal and subjective financial decisions are, especially when it comes to the well-being of one's own children versus others.
Now I am telling the story behind writing about this topic. This kind of thing happened to me and they were no one from far away they were my family members. What I think about my child is a matter of my own mind.
Every parent wants to do the best for their child but I want to do the best within my ability.That's why I don't need to take advice from anyone because I understand my limitations. But when someone comes to advise you unsolicited it is not acceptable because they are doing their best for their child and even unfairly putting pressure on the father and other family members and extorting money just for the better future of the child. And they are the ones who suggest me spend less. I have never reached out to them for help, but I have become a part of their good thinking. Really funny but nothing to do!
Excessive Talking 🤯
I have been talking too much for some time, I don't know why I am doing it, and I myself sometimes get tired of my talking too much.Of course, there are severe headaches sometimes. Many people I know, especially those in my home are also a little annoyed. My father also told me that you are talking too much lately and your high pressure will show. Actually I am talking too much and I am worried about this.But I don't know the reason behind it.Well,Is excessive talking a sign of depression? So what am I dipressed in!🤔
To tell the truth, I am a self-centered person and my circle of friends is very few and I know very few people. I speak very little since childhood. That is why it is inappropriate for me to speak at this age. Maybe I'm worried about something and talking to someone makes me feel better. That's why those who know me closely notice that I talk more. I sometimes feel like a mental patient 🤣
Anyway, I did a little research on this over-talking. Actually the reason for knowing is whether this excessive talk will cause me any emotional damage.
However, nothing negative comes. Anyway, let's start--
Excessive talking is not a common symptom of depression. Typically, depression is associated with symptoms such as:
- Persistent sadness or low mood
- Loss of interest or pleasure in activities
- Fatigue or low energy
- Difficulty concentrating or making decisions
- Changes in appetite or weight
- Sleep disturbances (insomnia or oversleeping)
- Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
- Recurrent thoughts of death or suicide
However, mental health symptoms can vary widely among individuals. In some cases, people with depression may exhibit increased talking if they are feeling anxious or agitated, a state sometimes referred to as "anxious depression" or "agitated depression." Additionally, other conditions like bipolar disorder, particularly during a manic or hypomanic episode, can feature excessive talking (pressured speech).
Since I am not a doctor or a specialist, I do not want to write more about this. But if anyone wants to give any suggestion then surely comment box is open.
Lastly,If excessive talking is a concern, it may be useful to consult with a mental health professional to understand the underlying cause and receive appropriate guidance.
Although I can't give any specific reference because there is no specific statement here.I have presented what I know in my own way.
Take care of yourself and be well!🩷
@sj0820
Bad incident🙃
Hello guys hope everyone is well and how is everyone's crypto journey going?🖐️
Alhamdulillah I am fine because I am alive, this is a great gratitude to the creator.My day goes through a very tough routine. This time at the beginning of Ramadan, my father went to Saudi Arabia for Umrah Hajj. I was very happy because it was my father's dream for many years and I also had a dream to see my father perform Hajj.Everything was going well and Alhamdulillah my father returned from performing Hajj.My father didn't have a smartphone so I couldn't communicate with him properly and he couldn't bring any pictures or videos from there as sweet memory.Although still I was very happy because my father is back in good health.
All my family celebrated Eid with great joy but this month of May turned out to be very difficult and sad for us.At the beginning of the month my father had a road accident and he has very bad pain in his leg. X-ray of his knee showed that the knee was dislocated and the foot was badly injured.It has been almost a month since my father was bedridden.😢
Other physical reports were very good. Only leg injury is bothering my father.But with that he has a sudden onset of high blood pressure.Now my father needs a lot of take care and I am by his side.🥹
A whole month has passed and he still can't walk.Routine checkup with doctor and ongoing medicine. I just pray when I will see my father walking as healthy as before. And I miss the happy days of my father 😔when he used to go out of the house to do his chores and hang out with his friends whenever he wanted. Sometimes I was very angry with him because I didn't let him roam around much. I would not ask to hang out with friends unnecessarily. I used to say that if you talk too much, your body will get sick. But now I hope in my heart that he will go around again like before.
Everyone pray for my father that he gets well soon.🩷
I am in a very difficult situation because earlier my father used to help me with many outside tasks like shopping, taking my little kid to school, paying bills etc.Now I have to do his share of work and also I have to do my share of work .
🥴At first I struggled and felt very helpless to handle all these tasks alone.But now it seems I'm getting used to working.
But the problem is that I am so busy with my family that I am not able to give any time to my own work.
However, there are some things or events in the human part that cannot be controlled by us, all of them belong to the Creator. Thanks to Allah for keeping us alive.🤲
I know you all are very aware but still be careful and be careful while walking or driving on the road. Many people may know about the road and crazy traffic of Bangladesh.Such irregularities in the country!🐸
Hello Sir @Omar4BCH Welcome back :)
Happy Eid to everyone!
Eid Mubarak 💝
Last trip of 2023
Hello readers! Hope everyone is well and have welcomed and celebrated the new year very well!
On 6th December I went to the village with the children and returned to Dhaka after about 22 days.The time spent in the village was very good because of such a beautiful environment and a life free from the noise of the city.But no matter where you go, you have to return to your nest.I visited the village after about two years and had a quiet time as the children's school was closed.
I went to Sylhet town first.Went there first to Bholagonj Sada Pathor Tourist Spot and visited a few other places including Ratargul, Jaflong and Shapler Bill (Dibir Haor).
Attached are some pictures of my trip.
It is Ratargul where growsWater Lily and hence the place is called Shaplar bill.
This photo was taken at Syllet Jaflong. A place of great natural beauty. Hills, water and rocks. The rocks are clearly visible through the clear water.
This is also a picture of Jaflong when we were traveling by boat.
It is above the mountain, the clouds touch the sky in such a way that it seems that the sky and the mountain have merged together. From a distance, it seemed that the sky would be touched only after reaching the top of the mountain.
This is a picture taken at **Hazrat Shahjalal Mazar Sharif.**
This is a picture of a tea garden in Sylhet. We went inside this garden. **There are many more pictures which are not possible to share here.**
To be honest, Bangladesh is a paradise of natural beauty. I still haven't seen my own country properly. There are many more beautiful tourist spots. Both time and adequate budget are needed to explore everything.
This time I only visited some places in Sylhet city. I want to save a certain amount every month and go on a trip to a special place when the kids school is off for vacation at the end of the year.
I think everyone should have such a mindset that he will take a good look at his own country and let his children know how beautiful their motherland is.Because there are many people who only understand foreign travel as vacation. Of course, these things also depend on ability.
But I had a great time and brought back a lot of beautiful memories with me. Although the whole year is very busy, the last month of 2023 i.e. December was very good for me. I don't know what the year 2024 will bring for me. But anyway, I pray that Allah will surely give good luck to everyone!♥️ ✨Again I wish everyone good luck and here I am ending my article today.✨
@sj0820----------------------
Beware of False Well-Wishers:
**Beware of False Well-Wishers: Unmasking Those Who Cause Harm**
In life's journey, we encounter individuals who appear as pillars of support, professing care and goodwill for our well-being. They step forward with warm words and promises of assistance, positioning themselves as well-wishers. However, their actions often tell a different story, where their intentions fail to align with their words. Sometimes, these individuals, despite their claims of support, end up inflicting the most damage.
How often have we trusted those who have assured us of their unwavering support, only to find ourselves hurt, betrayed, or misled? It's a perplexing experience, realizing that the very people who professed care turned out to be the source of significant harm.
The discrepancy between words and actions is a vital cue. It's imperative to discern the authenticity behind someone's intentions by observing their consistent behavior and the impact of their actions. True well-wishers demonstrate their support through deeds, ensuring that their actions echo their words, and their motives remain genuine.
Identifying these misleading figures can be challenging, yet not impossible. The presence of toxic individuals masquerading as allies requires vigilance and thoughtful consideration. Evaluating patterns of behavior, examining how their actions affect us, and being attentive to discrepancies between their promises and their actual contributions are crucial steps in safeguarding ourselves from their potentially damaging influence.
Remember, not everyone who claims to have your best interests at heart genuinely does. The authenticity of a well-wisher is reflected not merely in their words but predominantly in their consistent actions. Take the time to differentiate between those who stand by you through thick and thin, and those who, despite their claims, bring nothing but harm. Your well-being deserves genuine care, not deceptive intentions masked as support.
BCH and its informative knowledge
Of all the cryptocurrency coins discussed, Bitcoin Cash is my favorite. Bitcoin Cash abbreviated as (BCH) was created in 2017 from Bitcoin (BTC). Perhaps it was created to address some of Bitcoin's limitations, particularly in terms of transaction speed and cost.
****So let's know some basic facts about Bitcoin Cash :****
I want to give some common information about Bitcoin Cash which we already know from google and other coin related articles and various business sites. However, for the convenience of my article and for those who are not well versed with Bitcoin Cash yet, I am reiterating that information.
****Fork from Bitcoin:**** Bitcoin Cash was created in August 2017 as a result of a hard fork from the original Bitcoin blockchain. This division was driven by the desire to increase block sizes to enable faster and cheaper transactions.
****Block Size:**** One of the main differences between Bitcoin and Bitcoin Cash is block size. Bitcoin Cash has a larger block size (8 MB at the time of the fork), which allows more transactions to be processed in each block compared to Bitcoin's 1 MB block size.
****Faster Transactions:**** Larger block sizes provide faster transaction confirmation times and lower fees in some cases, making it more suitable for everyday transactions.
****Acceptance:**** Given the above points, Bitcoin Cash should be highly accepted and definitely a favorite coin for me. But as its acceptance there is some acceptance for online purchases and transactions by BCH. It is accepted by several merchants and online platforms. And the first choice of prudent people should be BCH!
**I normally only say that BCH has larger capacity than BTC. Due to BTC's limited capacity, it can never be the promised "sound money for everybody", but BCH can!!**
**Here is a little review on its price rise:-**
The rise in the price of Bitcoin Cash (BCH) can be attributed to various factors and As for the price of Bitcoin Cash, it is highly volatile and can change rapidly.
**Some possible reasons for its price increase include:**
****Market Sentiment:**** Positive sentiment and investor interest can drive up the price of any cryptocurrency, including Bitcoin Cash. News, social media buzz, and general market optimism can contribute to bullish trends.
****Adoption and Use:**** If more merchants and individuals start accepting and using Bitcoin Cash for transactions, it can lead to increased demand and, subsequently, a higher price.
****Blockchain Upgrades:**** Improvements and upgrades to the Bitcoin Cash blockchain can enhance its capabilities, making it more attractive to users and investors. For example, changes in scalability, security, or features can boost its value.
****Speculation:**** Speculative trading is common in the cryptocurrency market. Traders buy and sell based on price movements, which can create short-term price spikes.
****Market Dynamics:**** Supply and demand play a significant role in cryptocurrency prices. If there's increased demand for Bitcoin Cash and limited supply, its price can rise.
****Macroeconomic Factors:**** Global economic conditions, inflation fears, and currency devaluation concerns can drive investors to seek alternative stores of value, including cryptocurrencies like Bitcoin Cash.
****Competitive Landscape:**** Bitcoin Cash competes with other cryptocurrencies like Bitcoin and Ethereum. Changes in the competitive landscape can affect its price.
****Regulatory Developments:**** Government regulations and legal clarity can impact cryptocurrency prices. Positive regulatory news can boost confidence in Bitcoin Cash, while negative news can have the opposite effect.
It's important to note that the cryptocurrency market is highly speculative and volatile, and prices can fluctuate rapidly for various reasons. Predicting price movements is challenging, and investments in cryptocurrencies carry inherent risks.
**Note:-** Always do thorough research and consider your risk tolerance before investing in any cryptocurrency.
There is only karma
People forget the past, it is a human instinct. There is nothing to blame here because I think there is no expectation from anyone. Whenever you put any expectations on someone you are bound to be disappointed. Expectations are not met everywhere. I have grown up seeing the movement of many people in our house since childhood. Cousin brothers, sisters, aunts, uncle's even cousins' husbands used to stay in our house and have stayed for many years.
They mostly came from villages as they had no jobs and no technical education for which they came to our house for shelter and tried to get jobs from here. We all know that a person has to bear a lot of expenses to live in the city. In that case, our house was suitable for everyone. Because there was no money to be paid for staying and eating here as it was a relative's house.
My mother was a very soft hearted woman and she could never return any help if someone came to her, sometimes she herself faced problems but never let others understand.
I once heard from my father that he went for a visit to the village and saw my cousins herding cows in the fields. At the age when they are supposed to go to school with books in hand, they are cutting grass for cows in the fields. My father had no sons as he had only two daughters. That's why he considered his brother's son or sister's son as his own son. Although my cousin was my mother's elder sister's son. But even in this case, my father was their well-wisher. That is why he brought their sons to the city and gave them the opportunity to study here. Alhamdulillah now they are in a very good condition and very high status but the sad thing is that they don't remember any good words done to them.
My mother died almost nine years ago. She always had a worry about who would look after her and treat her if she fell ill as she had no sons. We saw my aunt who was my mother's elder sister, bedridden for about 13 years. She suffered a lot because she was dependent on the maids for cleaning, washing, bathing, changing clothes, feeding, everything.
Her sons were very busy with their work and the wives of the sons were busy with their children and other activities and sat in their homes during their free time. Meanwhile, when my aunt called someone for any need, no one would listen. If the maid ran and did some work, the work would be completed and if not, she would keep calling but no one would answer. My mother saw her sister's plight and realized much worse. That's why she thought so much. My mother always worried that if she herself was so sick, she would have to be so dependent on someone else.
She was troubled by another matter in her mind. The sister's sons, whom she brought up and educated as her own sons, did not afterwards feel the need to remember that my mother had contributed much to their establishment. Their birth parents could never have cared for them as well as my mother did for them. Many may think my parents are very stupid but no they are very gentle people.
After my mother died they only came to take a look but I never saw tears or sadness in their eyes. As an elder brother, they never asks us on the phone that "how are you sister"?
In middle I was in many family disasters, but I never found anyone by my side. Anyway, the danger does not stop for someone, maybe the pain goes away, but the memories remain. Today something from that memory may be reflected here in my writing.
What did she get by doing so much for others? I think she found peace of mind and never lacked as long as she lived. It may be that my mother did not have many comforts or luxuries but she never suffered and was respected by all. Although she is physically ill, she has never been afflicted with any illness that requires her to be dependent on others. It was also an infinite mercy of Allah on my mother. My mother never had to face the things that she was so afraid of and I think it may be due to karma.
I am not optimistic about anyone, I prefer to be myself. I think this is the easiest way in the world to find a way to be good within yourself.I cannot say that my parents were wrong to help and shelter others. It also includes their great qualities, not everyone can be so great.My mother is no longer alive but her good spirit inspires me a lot. I can't be as noble as my parents even if I want to be or I can say I don't have the opportunity to be so generous to someone else.
But I try my best, but one thing I have learned very well is not to expect too much from anyone. If I have the opportunity to do something for someone, I have to do it. Because maybe this is the rule of the world that after benefiting someone will not repay and forget. I also admit that it does not apply to everyone. However, in most cases, this is a matter of forgetting.
But magnanimity is a noble quality and we should walk in the path of that quality. I believe that even if no one does anything for you, the Creator is there for YoU!!✨
@sj0820
Feelings or Unwanted words 🤖
Who says only boys are rejected, and girls are not? Girls are also rejected many times but what do you know! Girls are very tough :). Because girls have many forms. Sometimes she is someone's lover, sometimes she is someone's wife, sometimes she is in the role of a mother and above all she is also someone's child. The creator has made us so strong because we have to incarnate so many characters. However, we also have something called heart! It hurts the heart a lot when someone's rejected us for love. Ops sorry coz heart beatless here 💔.For whatever reason, but rejection is rejection, right?
Whatever reason you show me, I accept it, but I suffer from you because I am rejected. You may have many reasons but I never let you understand my pain. Maybe I am very helpless and understand your situation that's why I kept quiet.
I told you that money can solve all problems but sometimes people need emotional support. A reliable person is needed by the side.I have loved you unconsciously and I don't know when I dreamed of getting close to you. Not only hearing the words of consolation from afar, I wanted to touch and see how you are a person! Have I committed a great crime?Maybe I walked the wrong path and dreamed the wrong. But I want someone next to me who will hold me tight and tell me that I am by your side, don't worry.
You have always been that person by my side. You came into my life as someone I could never have imagined and whose depth I could never possibly measure. And that's why I love you. Love in your eyes is an infatuation or a fake emotion. Maybe it was for a time when we were teenagers. Then too much glamor worked or external glitter attracted us too much. But after passing a mature age our realities shake us a lot. But our hearts are like children all the time.True love is another name for respect.You have earned it, endless respect and gratitude to you.
Although everything looks beautiful from a distance and wants to get it. When the thing is approached and achieved, it may not have the same value as before. Can't say, the opposite can happen. I also comfort my mind that maybe you look beautiful from a distance and that's why you stay away.
It goes without saying that you are my support system and I can't imagine myself without you. **You once told me "to assume that God sent me to you, That's why you should accept my support"!**
I believed and obeyed your words. I told my Allah only this, Allah may want you and that is why he brought this great person to me. I never knew your kindness and I had no idea how much you could support me. It was only introduced by a miracle. And we are still connected to each other. You never forget to answer my call and I am grateful. And also grateful to Allah my Creator who has kept me so well. I pray that you too are always well. May all the imperfections of your life be fulfilled !!Amen!!
Every time I think about you or want to write something, tears come from my eyes. I don't want to be emotional about it in the least. I don't even want to look for someone else because I'm fine the way I am. But you know what? A fear in my mind, if you move away. However, no one has control over the future and we cannot change fate.
In fact, my feelings are all mixed up now, so I may not be able to understand what I am trying to write or what I am trying to convey. Or can understand but no longer have the conditions to express it properly. Even then I try to express some if not all the feelings because the heart needs to be lightened. I feel like a big burden to myself. That's why I'm saying leave it, there's no point in trying to understand me because you need a heart to understand me and your logic and brain work more so you won't be able to understand me> lol🤓
Good morning, my amazing friends! 🌞 Another day to cherish the beautiful moments and create new ones together. Wishing you all a day filled with positivity, laughter, and endless joy. Let's make today unforgettable! 💫
I have written an article after a long time. I hope you guys will definitely read the article if you have time 🥹
https://read.cash/@sj0820/a-womans-journey-through-lifes-trials-ceeeb7d2
#GoodMorning #Friendship #PositiveVibes #article #invitefriends
A Woman's Journey Through Life's Trials!
Life teaches us through many events, doesn't it? Life can be a rollercoaster, a whirlwind of challenges and triumphs that shape us into who we are meant to be. As a woman navigating this intricate maze, I've often found myself on a path fraught with difficulties, but each hurdle has been a stepping stone towards strength and self-reliance.
In the face of adversity, it's remarkable how the human spirit can rise to the occasion. I've encountered obstacles that tested my limits, made me question my capabilities, but ultimately propelled me forward. It's in these moments of struggle that I discovered an inner reservoir of strength that I never knew I possessed.
What I've realized is that strength isn't just physical; it resides within the depths of our hearts and the corridors of our minds. It's the determination to keep going when the road ahead seems insurmountable, the belief in oneself when doubt creeps in, and the unyielding spirit to rise above any circumstance.
The journey to self-reliance has been marked by countless lessons. I've learned that asking for help is a sign of strength, not weakness. I've understood that self-care isn't selfish; it's a necessity to nurture our inner strength. I've witnessed the power of resilience in bouncing back from setbacks stronger and wiser than before.
Through it all, I've been fortunate to have a support network of friends and family who've been pillars of strength. Their unwavering belief in me has fueled my determination to stand on my own two feet, both figuratively and literally.
As women, we often find ourselves juggling various roles and responsibilities, and it's easy to forget the incredible strength that resides within us. I want to remind every woman reading this that you are capable of overcoming whatever life throws your way. You have the resilience, the fortitude, and the inner fire to rise, no matter how tough the journey may be.
In the darkest moments, when you feel like you're drowning, remember that you can swim. In the face of uncertainty, when doubt creeps in, believe in yourself. Through the storms and sunshine, your strength and self-reliance will guide you to a place of empowerment and fulfillment.
Let's celebrate the journey, the challenges, and the victories. Let's embrace the path that leads us to our true selves, where we stand strong and self-reliant, ready to conquer whatever life has in store.✨✌️
Unspoken Love Letter ♥️
My Dearest [...........],
As I pen down these words, my heart swells with emotions that I have long kept hidden within the depths of my being. From the moment our paths crossed, a spark ignited in my soul, illuminating the corners of my world that I had never dared to explore before. Your smile, like the sun breaking through the clouds, warms the very core of my existence.
Every stolen glance, every shared laugh, every fleeting touch has etched itself in the tapestry of my memory. Yet, I find myself imprisoned by my own silence, for fear of disrupting the delicate balance of our friendship. I cherish the moments we spend together, even as they tug at the strings of my heart, reminding me of what I long to say.
In the quiet of night, I often imagine a reality where I could speak these words aloud, where the echoes of my affection could reach your ears. Alas, fate has dealt its hand, and my voice remains confined to the pages of this letter, unable to bridge the chasm between my desire and reality.
Know that every word penned here is sincere, every sentiment genuine. My feelings for you have flourished in the shadows, nurtured by the beauty of your spirit. And so, I release these words into the universe, hoping that somewhere, in some small way, they may find their way to you.
With an aching heart and an enduring fondness,
Your........... ♥️♥️
....................................... …... …. ……………….. …
I don't know if anyone has ever written a letter like this to anyone, but I have tried many times.Perhaps this letter will never reach its proper destination, that's why this letter is called an unspoken love letter!Maybe I won't get a response to this letter or this letter won't be seen by the right person, but I will write my words and maybe I will get a lot of peace.
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Criticism and self-deprecation
"People are adept at criticizing others but never seeing their own faults."
Do you know the truth, when four people are sitting and criticizing another person, if one suddenly move away from them, you will find that the other three have started criticizing him.This is extremely real and true!😂
Women can be said to be wise and savvy in this matter because there is a lot of movement of women in the grocery shop, picking up children from school and in shopping malls and they have no pairs of discussion, criticism.Because when a few women come together, the world is in their hands.I am a woman but I am not belittling women in fact it is a special feature of women. But we must keep control in this matter. That's it!🫣
This matter is a curious incident to me. And many of us have faced such a situation at some point in our lives. Why is it that human nature is blind to our imperfections and leans towards finding fault with others? It seems that we have a sharp radar that detects the flaws of those around us, while we remain indifferent about ourselves. Perhaps it's easier to criticize others because it creates a sense of superiority, making a momentary moment of feeling better about themselves enjoyable.
However, this tendency to point fingers and give judgment often stems from a lack of self-awareness. Acknowledging one's guilt requires humility, weakness and the willingness to deal with our flaws forward. Such introspection can be uncomfortable, and it is human nature to avoid discomfort whenever possible.
We are living in a world where social media and digital communication have become prominent, as a result of this behavior seems to have expanded. Behind the scenes, people feel bold in their criticism, hiding safely behind a virtual barrier. Sympathy among people is fading, and understanding is becoming a rare commodity. To fight against this pattern, we must develop self-awareness and empathy. We have to admit that no one is perfect and we all have areas where we can improve. Instead of judging others harshly, let's try to understand their perspective and situation. Engaging in constructive dialogue rather than resorting to criticism can foster healthy relationships and community. When these human feelings are born in us, maybe a healthy society and we ourselves can live in a healthy way.
So, the next time we catch ourselves pointing out the faults of others, let's pause and reflect on our motives. Are we truly trying to help them grow, or are we just indulging in a momentary sense of superiority? By acknowledging our own imperfections and approaching others with compassion, we can create a more compassionate and understanding world.
My personal opinion is that -saying something behind someone's back is criticism so it's better to avoid it. If you can say something about someone in front of him, then say it and if you can't say it, then what is the need to say it behind his back! The time you spend talking about others, is the time you spend thinking about yourself. Maybe something good will happen to you :)
@sj0820
Unveiling true nature: When Interests are Hurt
Regardless of our position in society, each of us has our own individuality. Each individual has a unique blend of values, beliefs, and motivations that shape their character. While our true nature remains concealed behind social masks and cultivated personas, it is when our interests are threatened or compromised that our authentic selves often come to the forefront.
The purpose of my article is to present the real form and combination of our own thoughts behind our inner mask. So let's start with the keynote and trying to present the main points in the form of continuous points:-
****The Masked Persona:**** In our daily interactions, we often adopt masks to conform to societal expectations, social norms, or personal aspirations. These masks serve as protective layers that conceal our vulnerabilities, desires, and, at times, even our true nature. Society expects us to adhere to certain standards, and we willingly or unwillingly conform to them. Consequently, our true selves may remain concealed, leading others to perceive us differently than we actually are.
****The Catalyst of Hurt Interests:**** When our interests, whether they are material, emotional, or psychological, face a threat, our instinctual response is to protect them. The prospect of losing something significant to us can unleash a range of emotions, such as anger, frustration, or fear. In such moments, the protective barriers of social niceties and self-imposed masks tend to crumble, revealing the unfiltered aspects of our character.
****Unveiling Authentic Emotions:**** Hurt interests act as catalysts that evoke intense emotions, sometimes leading to behaviors that may not align with our usual demeanor. These emotions can be raw, unfiltered, and deeply rooted within us. A person who is typically calm and collected may suddenly display outbursts of anger or aggression when their interests are threatened. Similarly, someone known for their generosity might exhibit selfishness or self-preservation when faced with personal loss. These glimpses into our true nature arise from a primal instinct to protect what we hold dear.
****Motivations and Priorities:**** When our interests are compromised, it sheds light on our underlying motivations and priorities. The pursuit of self-interest becomes more pronounced, revealing our true inclinations and desires. The choices we make during times of crisis or conflict can be telling, reflecting the core principles and values that guide our lives. These moments offer insights into our inherent nature, as our actions become driven by our personal stake in the outcome.
****Growth and Self-Reflection:**** While hurt interests may bring forth aspects of our character that we might not be proud of, they also present opportunities for growth and self-reflection. Recognizing our flaws and the impact of our reactions allows us to evaluate our behavior and strive for personal improvement. The revelation of our true nature can serve as a catalyst for self-awareness, leading to a deeper understanding of ourselves and our relationships with others.
****Last word:**** The unveiling of a person's true nature when their interests are hurt serves as a reminder of the complexity inherent in human behavior. It demonstrates that beneath the façade we present to the world lies a deeper essence shaped by our passions, values, and motivations. While it is crucial to recognize that this revealing process can manifest both positive and negative aspects of our character, it also opens doors for personal growth and self-reflection. Understanding this phenomenon allows us to navigate conflicts with empathy and to forge deeper connections built on authenticity and mutual understanding.
@sj0820
Peace of mind
How much precious time of our life is spent trying to please ourselves? And how much time we find ourselves. I don't seem to do anything to please myself. I always try to do my best for my family happiness, my father, my children. I want to see smiles on their faces, I want to keep them happy, I always want to prioritize their needs. Maybe it bothers me sometimes, but it seems to have become a very important part of my personality.
To be honest, the daily routine of making everyone happy I think is the main source of my happiness.
But is life limited to this? Of course not and this fact I have been able to realize after many years. Because life demands more from us than we spend within these small boundaries.
It has been a few years since I discovered myself in a new way. But how? This is what I will share with you now.
It started out as an effort by a great person but now I seem to find a lot of joy in the work myself. First I started talking to some people and tried to help them financially. I have brought smiles to many people's faces and received prayers from many.
I am a very self centered person. I usually don't get along very easily with everyone. I never had much interest in asking about anyone. I like to stay in myself as I said earlier I was happy only in my family's happiness.
But since a mentality of helping people was created in me, I noticed a huge change in myself. I love talking to people, listening to their problems and helping them as much as I can. It is wrong to think that people always want financial support. Sometimes many need emotional support as well. But it cannot be denied that financial problem is a problem that can be solved only with money. But if we try a little bit from our position then maybe we can make someone happy even though human needs are infinite and our resources are very limited.
Although I am not rich but I believe it doesn't take a lot of money to help someone but a generous mind is needed. When I talk to someone who is very poor, my own problems seem so small compared to their poverty.
Many of us are depressed and unable to solve many of our own problems, leading to more and more depression. Some kind of mental patients can be called them. But do you know that when you get close to a very poor person and listen to his problems, it may happen that you feel very lucky in this world because God did not give you poverty like that poor person.
It is not just about poverty there are many people who are physically disabled. Some have no hands or some legs are useless and many have their whole body paralyzed and they have no working ability.So think how lucky we are to be among those helpless people! There are many old people in the world whose children do not support them or shelter them in their old age. We have a lot to learn from them. These can purify our minds as to how we should treat our parents!
Don't just wallow in yourself, friend. Look around and capture the world with your own eyes. Look at the people around you. Try to find yourself once lost among everyone, you will see a lot of peace in your mind. If the whole life is about family happiness and personal problems, then when will we find peace of mind?
@sj0820@sj0820
Embrace Life, Find Joy!!
**Life is Short, so Cheer Up Every Moment!**
Life is an extraordinary gift that should be cherished and celebrated. It is a fleeting and precious experience that passes by in the blink of an eye. While the concept of time may be constant, our journey through it is incredibly transient. This realization should serve as a powerful reminder to embrace every moment with joy and enthusiasm.
In the hustle and bustle of our daily lives, it is easy to get caught up in the monotony and routine. We often find ourselves rushing from one task to another, always looking forward to the next milestone or accomplishment. But in this race against time, we often forget to pause and appreciate the beauty and wonder that surrounds us.
Life's brevity should not be a cause for sadness or despair, but rather a catalyst for living fully and authentically. Each passing moment is an opportunity for growth, happiness, and making memories that will last a lifetime. It is crucial to shift our mindset from dwelling on the past or worrying about the future, and instead focus on the present moment.
The present moment is where true happiness resides. It is in the smiles we share with loved ones, the laughter that echoes in our hearts, and the simple pleasures that bring us joy. By cultivating an attitude of gratitude and mindfulness, we can elevate our everyday experiences and find contentment in even the smallest of things.
Embracing the impermanence of life allows us to let go of trivial worries and prioritize what truly matters. It encourages us to take risks, pursue our passions, and live without regrets. It prompts us to cherish our relationships, nurture meaningful connections, and express our love and appreciation for those around us.
When we realize that our time on this earth is limited, we are inspired to make the most of every opportunity. We become more open to new experiences, eager to explore the world, and unafraid to step outside of our comfort zones. We become more resilient, facing challenges with a positive attitude and a determination to overcome them.
The truth is, life is too short to be spent in negativity, grudges, or self-doubt. Instead, let us choose to focus on the bright side, find silver linings in difficult situations, and surround ourselves with positivity. Let us fill our days with laughter, love, and compassion, for these are the true ingredients of a life well-lived.
Of course, it is important to acknowledge that life is not always sunshine and rainbows. There will be moments of sadness, setbacks, and heartache. But even in those moments, we can find solace in the knowledge that they too shall pass. We can find strength in the resilience of the human spirit and the power of our own will to overcome adversity.
So, my dear friends, let us make a conscious decision to embrace the fleeting nature of life and seize each day with enthusiasm. Let us celebrate the beauty that surrounds us, relish in the love that fills our hearts, and find joy in the simplest of pleasures. Let us live a life that is rich in experiences, laughter, and meaningful connections.
Remember, life is short, and our time here is limited. So, let us make the most of it. Cheer up every moment, for each passing second is a precious gift waiting to be unwrapped.
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Hello, my dear noisers!
Great to connect with you all today. I hope you are doing well and that life is treating you kindly. I've been thinking about you guys lately and how much fun we always had when we were together! We were always connected to each other through our writing.
I think it's a great way to catch up and enjoy each other's company by expressing ourselves through our writing and trying to communicate what we know to others.
Anyway, I just wanted to say hello and let you know I'm thinking of you.Here's hoping for some good times in the near future!
Goodbye today, hope to take care and talk soon.
Some technical issues and re-post my article!
Hello my writer friends! Hope everyone is well. After a long time I am again writing an article. I posted an article a while back but surprisingly the article has been posted twice I saw in my profile. Due to which I delete one article but unfortunately two articles get deleted together but luckily I keep a screenshot of the whole page. I attached it here.
It is a request to check whether there is any technical error in read.cash .And if my writer friends are facing such problem then definitely let me know in the comment box. I re-added the article below, don't know if it will be published or read.cash will accept it again? let's see -----------
****Sharing your achievements on social media?****
**Is it okay to share your achievements or everything on social media?** In today's digital age, social media platforms such as Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, LinkedIn, and others have become an integral part of our daily lives. We use these platforms to share our experiences, connect with friends and family, and sometimes even to showcase our achievements. While social media can be a great tool for self-expression and communication, it's important to consider whether sharing your achievements or everything privately is the best option.
First, let's examine the benefits of sharing your achievements publicly on social media. One advantage is that it can provide a sense of validation and recognition. When you share an accomplishment, whether it's completing a project, earning a degree, or achieving a personal goal, you may receive congratulatory messages from friends, family, and even strangers. These positive affirmations can boost your self-esteem and motivate you to continue striving for excellence.
Another advantage of sharing your achievements publicly is that it can help build your personal brand. If you're looking to establish yourself as an expert or leader in your field, sharing your accomplishments can demonstrate your expertise and credibility. For example, if you've published an article in a prestigious journal, sharing it on any social platform can showcase your writing skills and knowledge on the topic.
Furthermore, sharing your achievements publicly can inspire others. By sharing your journey and the hard work you put in to reach your goals, you may motivate others to pursue their own aspirations. Your achievements can serve as a source of inspiration, and you may even receive messages from people who say that you've had a positive impact on their lives.
However, there are also potential drawbacks to sharing your achievements publicly on social media. One concern is that it can come across as bragging or attention-seeking. While it's important to be proud of your accomplishments, constantly posting about them can be perceived as self-promotion, which may turn some people off.
Additionally, sharing your achievements publicly can invite criticism or jealousy from others. Some people may feel resentful or envious of your success, which could lead to negative comments or even cyberbullying.
If you notice one thing, you will see that when we upload a video on social media, there are many views, but how many people like or comment on your video? Likes are usually not given by anyone except very close people and it shows how much people like your success because people don't like other people's success.Remember one thing people can hurt you what they know but can't hurt you what people don't know so always try to limit yourself.
It's important to be prepared for the possibility of receiving negative feedback and to have strategies in place for dealing with it. So, what's the best approach to sharing your achievements on social media? Ultimately, it depends on your goals and personal preferences.
Good morning friends!
It has rained a lot since yesterday so the morning is nice and pleasant.In this environment, I feel like a poet.So here is my poem 🧨🎈
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Good morning world, the day is new
So many possibilities, waiting for you
May the sun shine bright, and the breeze be cool
As you set out to accomplish, every goal.
Let each step you take, be filled with grace
And may your be full, of love and faith
May your dreams be big, and your spirit strong
As you chase after them, all day long.
Let not the fears, of yesterday hold you back
Instead, let them be the lessons, that keep you on track
May your mind be clear, and your focus keen
As you strive for greatness, in everything.
Believe in yourself, and all that you can do
The power is within you, to make it all come true
So seize the day, with all your might
And make this morning, a beautiful sight.
Good morning my friend, may your day be bright.
May it be filled with joy, and endless delight.
May your heart be full, of inspiration and hope.
Hello friends! Hope everyone is having a great day.
Is there anyone who makes coffee with coconut oil?
I like to mix coconut oil in coffee.Just take one spoon of coffee powder, one spoon of powdered milk and one spoon of coconut oil in a coffee mug.Then pour boiling hot water into the mug from above so that all the ingredients are mixed and a foam is formed.Then blend well with coffee mixer or spoon.Then enjoy the delicious coffee!!😊I am enjoying my coffee and you must try it👌🏻.
Why astral period so important for you ?
Astral period is generally used in astrology as the calculation of moon, stars etc. and their position when combined with birth year, date /birth chart to predict someone.
But I am not talking about all these prophecies. I want to say that in every human life there comes an astral period, how much that period is necessary for that person so I want to explain here.
This astral period is an important time for personal growth and transformation. During this period, you will be able to explore new aspects of yourself and make changes in your life that will help you reach your goals. You may find yourself re-evaluating past decisions, finding clarity on current situations, or gaining insight into the future. By taking time to reflect on your life during this astral period, you can make decisions that are in line with your true desires and values. This astral period can also be an opportunity to form meaningful connections with others and develop a sense of self-confidence.
Anyway, don't make this too serious, how are you all?And Please share your opinion.
I am fine by Allah's grace. Although I have shared something after a long time, I hope will write something new soon!👌🏻🥰🎈
Open your own eyes.
Every one of us is sent to this earth by the creator with our own being but sometimes it seems not because of my belief in my own existence because many times I leave my own joy and sorrow to the opinion of others.
It's not just my problem but there are many like me. I used to think that I am a very strong and brave person but I realized it too late that actually my idea was very wrong about me.
If this is not the case, then why does it hurt my heart if someone speaks with pain? Knowing that the person's character is always happy to hurt others. I am not complaining against those people, only my own weaknesses I am guilty of because whatever the world thinks of me, at least I should be clear about my own being and mentality. If the person said against me is wrong, his/her thoughts are wrong and their mentality is negative for me, then why should I suffer from that person's words! Where I know what I am and how positive my thinking consciousness is.
All problems are actually created from lack of education. Education is not just about institutional education. By education I don't just mean institutional education, I mean family and social education in which we grow up in the environment and among those people. At birth we also get a lot of psychological or emotional cues from our parents.
The path in life is never easy. We have to build ourselves through many obstacles and the sooner we fight hard realities and build ourselves up, the easier it is to succeed. Although success cannot be measured by any specific definition because our needs are endless.
The hard reality or obstacle I mentioned covers a huge space of people's negative comments that are constantly thrown at you and never let them become a thorn in your side.I think the sooner you develop an attitude of trying to evaluate your worth, the sooner you will succeed and stop judging yourself in the eyes of others.
#Original content by @sj0820
Do you know what is a waste of words? It is a waste of depreciating words to say your valuable words where your valuable words have no value.🧨🗯️
My fear
Do you know that no matter how much we don't communicate with anyone or want to live alone, people around us will criticize us. Sometimes it becomes too rude but there is nothing to do because you can't shut people's mouths.Because everyone has the freedom of speech but if it is applied more in their case, then it is possible to make many improvements in the life of many people, but how many people can you explain this?
You know that wanting to live alone is also a kind of crime because people will think that you are anti-social or do not have the ability to interact with people in society.But no one will wonder why you want to be alone and why you hate being around people so much.It means they are so well-wishers of yours that they will never back down.
I am one of those antisocial people and I don't like crowds because it involves introducing myself too much or talking too much about myself because everyone is very curious to know about me but I prefer to stay hidden.Now the question may come that why I prefer to hide myself? because people prefer my flaws more than my good side!🥴
Although earlier these things used to bother me but now I don't have to worry about what anyone thinks because I know my own faults and I can openly say my weak points in front of everyone. So if someone wants to poke me with any mistake of mine, it won't hurt now 😔.
We are afraid when we want to cover up our weaknesses or fear that someone will find out. But when I freely admit my fault or my mistake I will never let it consume me.
Trying to manage myself after all this because people make mistakes!
@sj0820
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