Say No To It, Please.

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It's really not a nice thing when you read stories of how a guy is taking advantage of a lady. I don't get the rationale behind it because consent is consent and a no means no. Even my old dog in my dad's house understood that word no so it's hard for anyone to tell me that teenage boys or a full-grown man don't understand what "No" means.

You can't confuse consent, it is not possible. You can't tell me you read the signs wrong clearly when you knew you forced the lady or even the guy (in some cases) into doing what only you can enjoy. Isn't sex supposed to be mutual? What's the fun in having your way at the expense of the other? Some are clearly drunk too yet some people think that's the best time to have intimacy with them? That's exploitation and rape to me as well because no one under the influence of alcohol should be taken seriously when it comes to intimacy. It might not be them at that time but the alcohol talking.

I don't know why some people take pride in having carnal knowledge of women as though they would be given some medals if they have a sizeable count. God knows I had my share of... You know... Back in the day but never would I force a lady or even ask a lady an intimacy question when they are drunk. I don't drink anyway so I wouldn't have been able to ask anyone drunk such an intimate question.

This life is a funny one and it seems to have been turned upside. It's annoying what is making the rounds these days and how sex is selling faster than doing good deeds. Sex has ruined a lot of lives while some happen to have a second chance, many don't.

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Social media went crazy when the sex tape of a popular Nigerian singer went viral. She was caught having sex on the yacht and it was only her face showing and not the guy in question. It's shocking how people who knew the consequences of a thing would end up perpetuating it and you see why I said sex has ruined a lot of lives. The annoying side to it is that she has a son and in this internet age, the son will grow up to be reminded of the moment of weakness of his mother. The internet never forgets and it's sad that most people still don't get it.

Some things defy common sense and rape or making a sex video is one of them. I might never understand it and may I never will but rape should never be tolerated in any way. Some do it to shame their victims while some do it to boost their ego and whatever reason they give in doing it, I don't think in this case the end can justify the means because it involves destroying another life and the scars can last a lifetime.

Some got pregnant through rape and in their good conscience they didn't abort it. Some end up resenting that child for what he or she didn't cause while some have withdrawn from anything intimate as a result of this. So many dreams have been destroyed as a result of someone's inability to discipline himself or herself and it is shameful that the world is not giving out more stringent punishment for the perpetrators rather the victims get shamed which is why you don't get to hear many of them coming forward to share their side of the story.

It would be nice to have a center where people's grievances would be heard and those who have endured rape can be given justice against their molesters while the victims are being helped as they ease back into life after a series of counselling to help them get back on track.

We need to do better and we should stop turning a blind eye when we see someone do this despicable act. It is not okay and would anyone have to wait till it's done against someone they know before they call it out? What's bad is bad and we shouldn't try to sugarcoat it or make excuses for it.

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A lot of people would blame it on what the lady wore. Come on... You clearly lack self-discipline if you can be triggered to think with your third leg just because a lady wore what she felt like wearing. It looks bad on you than her because it shows a huge character flaw with anyone who would rape another lady because she wore something skimpy. If they have a sister who wears the same would they have raped her? Would that excuse sound better if someone says that against the molester's sister?

We all need to stand up and fight against rape just as we are standing up against our bad government. We need to protect the rights to life of individuals who have fallen as easy prey to those who take delight in molesting others just to fuel their ego. No one deserves to go through life having such a scar and as humans, we need to do better.

The world has changed and the world is hard enough but we humans make it even harder and lack of love makes it even harder because if we have consideration for others we won't even think of having our way with them at their expense. It's a shame but I believe we can fix this together.

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I really don't understand why some people just allow themselves to have s*x with random people just for fun.. I will never do it in my life. It is supposed to be done with the person you love. For some men, why force women to do such thing? We aren't toys.

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2 years ago

Exactly... there are some things we cannot understand and it's crazy what the world has turned into.

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2 years ago

Something I didn't like about the men's nature. No it's not man's nature but a sinner's nature. People even blame the girl even though it's the man who's at fault. If ever I could kill someone without being convicted to crime I will kill all the rapist and pedophile because they're not human anymore. Even in two partner it's consider a rape when you forced your partner t do things she didn't agree off. Thank you for being a voice of them Lazysnail is a man too and I agree on you all way

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2 years ago

Hahahaha read your last post about being a man hahaha and I was a little surprised. Thank you so much for this brilliant comment

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2 years ago

Really well said We must have a voice and speak up against any form of molestation. They may be tagged weaklings but they have a voice

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2 years ago

Absolutely. Thanks for this.

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2 years ago

If your intentions is pure and you really love that person, you will respect her/his decision.

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User's avatar EJ
2 years ago

Spot on...so true.

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2 years ago

Thank you for speaking in behalf of us. It is not our fault to be rape pr being rape we don't want that happen but then society blame the way we dress ourself.

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2 years ago

The society is crazy.

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2 years ago

Honestly, I love this and you're a man oo. It makes me sad when I see ladies saying"that skirt was too short" or "why did she go there alone? She knew what she was in for" like that justifies rape.

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2 years ago

That's the sad thing, ladies that are supposed to understand are the first to cast the stone.

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2 years ago

Woman no like womanπŸ˜”

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2 years ago

Hahahaha.

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2 years ago

Kudos to you for writing something about a topic that is so taboo to the society.. Some of the points you made are the same I speak any time they blame victims saying "she was asking for it" just because she wore something revealing, as if these men leave women who are fully covered too... which is worst than the rape itself...ridiculous,

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2 years ago

Thank you so much for this. Exactly, even children get raped and does that mean children wore revealing outfits too? They are just flawed and should be dealt with.

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2 years ago

I think what escalated the celebs video was the fact that she knew the video was being recorded. I will say that's still not bad since most couples do that nowadays, but making use of snapchat in recording when you know the danger attached to social media nowadays makes it foolish. The lady will be the only one castigated at the end of the day.

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2 years ago

Exactly...they know the danger and still went ahead with it. Only her face is showing now and it's bad on her. I really hope humans can think better where their life is involved.

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2 years ago

Thank you for this. It means a lot to me.

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2 years ago

I'm glad πŸ€—πŸ€—πŸ€—

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2 years ago

Thanks for being our voice. Rape of any form should never be heard of in our society. And we need to stop blaming the victim of being loose.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much and yes, we need to stop the blame game.

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2 years ago

This one made me sad. I could not but agree with every single word of it. No means no. But some animals hardly realise this.

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2 years ago

Well said... They are animals. Thanks a lot.

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2 years ago

There's also another way where victims might gk after rape. Instead of withdrawing from intimacy, they began to be more intimate with more people. In their minds it will be about taking back the control of their body, not realizing just how it is damaging them. It is really sad just how much sex ruins other people's lives. Why trade one's whole life for just temporary pleasure?

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2 years ago

Wow... This is another angle to it and a very good one. That's true...from there a rape victim might just go on a free fall and it's sad, really. Thank you so much for this, my friend.

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2 years ago

I wouldn't call that rape though, but if she wasn't fully aware of what happened then it could easily be tagged as rape... making a sex tape out of that, is crazy stupid. I will never know what goes on in the minds of celebrities just to seek attention...

many people tag a lady as the oppressor in every case because she decided to wear what she wants to wear. It's bad now even to the recent cases...

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2 years ago

No... You got it mixed up. The sex tape wasn't a rape. I only cited an example of how sex can ruin things when we don't think clearly and make bad choices.

Exactly...she wore what she felt like wearing, it should not be a reason for rape.

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2 years ago

That very true, I actually got it all mixed up... I agree with you and I could see it all play out from your example.. good write up

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2 years ago

Thank you. Good to have you here.

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2 years ago

So sad for that singer... What people wear does NOT equal consent! Clothing does not cause rape, actually even infants are molested. How scary this wprld has become..

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2 years ago

Thank you so much. Exactly, are babies also wearing indecent dresses? The world is upside as it is.

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2 years ago

I truly do not see where the confusion comes from. There is and will never be a reasonable excuse for taking advantage of someone in any form

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2 years ago

No excuse at all. Thank you for this.

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2 years ago

The wost devilish part of it is the one a farhrty will take advantage of his own child when you hear this stories you Wonder or do we talk about the so called religious representative. Woo e tire person jare

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2 years ago

It's very tiring, really and the cycle just continues. I hope it ends.

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2 years ago

It is unfortunate that things like this happen, men and no one has to mistreat a woman, there are other methods to solve problems, and neither should a woman mistreat a man.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much. Yes, there are better ways to solve an issue and rape shouldn't be a form of punishment in any way.

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2 years ago

Thank God you specified your private part or else, people like me have dirty mind 🀣🀣🀣 It's such a pity so many people could go their way raping young girls. Guys needs to be taught the word "No" which means it's a no go area. This can be done when they are very young because you can't teach someone is already addicted to it and you expect him to turn a new leaf

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2 years ago

Hahahahaha yes, my heart is my private part πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ€£.

Yes, we have to nick it in the bud quite early so that the young people coming up can understand that no means no and a stringent punishment for those who perpetuate this dastard act.

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2 years ago

To me, making a sex tape in the first place is kinda idiotic. Why would people video themselves having sex? I don't really know if Tiwa was aware of the sex video in the first place. One can't be sure as it's possible someone else was going to making a video of them. As for rape, when a man learns to control his sex urge, he has solve 99% of his problem. Sex has been the downfall of many go the world's greatest men. Like all desires whose outlets are sought unlawfully, it always backfires.

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2 years ago

Thank you so much for this. Spot on...brilliant comment.

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2 years ago

It is incredible that these things happen. Society is largely lost. Too bad that certain people want to turn the world into a dark place. Stay in the light!

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2 years ago

The society is lost, truly because so many weird things are being accepted as normal.

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2 years ago

Some people practically know what they are doing is bad but because there is no good government to stop them so they take it as a normal thing

And as for tiwa it is her boyfriend that she was f**king that exposes the video no doubt about that because it shows that she wasn't the one that record the video

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2 years ago

It's sad the kind of government we have, my dear. There is no help whatsoever from them with anything.

Of course, I heard the guy was planted to make Tiwa fall in love because I don't understand how the video should be recorded in the first place when she wasn't under the influence of alcohol.

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2 years ago

The matter get as e be o

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2 years ago

The matter get as e be o

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2 years ago

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2 years ago

Just as you say today, the Internet and social media can play a very destructive role in the lives of individuals and families, the person who shares such videos from the private lives of others is not a human, and other people who reshare these videos, too...

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2 years ago

Exactly... Both are as guilty as everyone else because we should put a stop to the menace. Thanks a lot.

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2 years ago

Tiwa Savage case πŸ’”πŸ˜”

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2 years ago

Massive heartbreak...

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2 years ago

I want to kill these people,who leaked video of innocent people, actually everyone wants to be negative in his character but why,why they don't respect people,sex is a part of life ,when we do in socails area so whats wrong with that, absolutely nothing , everyone have a life and his dreams,i totally disappointed from them, I realized that you enjoyed a lot yesterday becuase you are happy now i think, Stay blessed and pray for you and you have to pray for us πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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2 years ago

Hahaha of course, I prayed for you all and yes, those intimate moment should never be brought to light neither should anyone also rape another because it's a terrible act.

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2 years ago

Yeah bro,

Shameonrapist

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2 years ago

Absolutely.

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2 years ago