Hello beautiful people!
I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨
This is actually not the article I supposed to be publishing today, I have one about being drunk, but it seems that something is off on that one that I need to polish first.I have read @BreadChamp article about Klase Klase Kong Kaklase, you can check it here if you haven't read it yet. With her article, an idea came out to my mind why not try to do the same? But this time it will be about my exes. I actually have a lot. (Wow! Nagbuhat ng sariling bangko.) I actually have a boyfriend each year in high school, one from college, and one from my office. That's a total of six exes. But you know, there are exes that we considered as ex and others are not. I do not know why. So out of six, I only considered 2 as real exes. But I'll have a four category on what type of exes these people are. Let's try to leave it this way. By the way, I can still remember the dates we became official with my exes and the dates we broke up too.
The well groomed ex. He's actually my first boyfriend. That was when I was first year high school. (Yes, maaga po akong lumandi.) We became official March 26, 2011 and we broke up on the following month, April 26, 2011. I actually liked him as he's very neat and clean. That's what I like in a boy. I will be very attracted if they are pleasant to my eyes. But yes, we just broke up as my mom, did not allow me to enter to any relationship yet as I am too young way back. We're actually friends now and he has his own little family already.
The mama's ex. He's my boyfriend on my fourth year in high school. We became official October 10, 2015 and ended our so called relationship month after the same date, November 10, 2015. I actually liked this guy as he's very polite, proper, and religious. He's as well the first boyfriend my mom approved for me. But we broke up because he was very close to my mom. I mean, it is nice that your mom likes your boyfriend, but that time it seems that its over. If we have a fight, he actually will tell my mom about it and I do not like it that way. I explained it anyway why I wanted to break up with him. We're friends now and I think he has a girlfriend already as well.
The workaholic ex. He's my boyfriend last fourth year college. We became official December 10, 2018 and we broke up last September 20, 2019. He's actually an ideal guy, to be exact. He's a leader at school, he has talent, he is intelligent, well groomed as well. He graduated as Cum Laude in college. My mom liked him for me too. I actually thought that forever will exist on us, but it turned out to be the other way around. He worked in Manila as a teacher and we've been LDR for months until we broke up. The reason? He cannot handle having a relationship while being a teacher. (Masakit yun mga bes! Maiintindihan ko naman sana na busy siya, pero wala talaga e.) He actually tried to pursue me again last June this year, but I did not say yes anymore. I already moved on and I do not have a feelings for him anymore. I am not sure if he has a girlfriend now, but he's still in Manila working as a teacher.
My one month boyfriend. After the three month rule that I followed after breaking up with my workaholic ex, I got to meet this person at the office. We became girlfriend and boyfriend last December 17, 2019 and ended our very short relationship last January 22, 2020. To be honest, he was the best boyfriend I have. I was able to show what I really am. We got to have a lot of memories in a span of one month, that is why even in a short time I really get hurt after our break up that my work was affected. The reason? He fall out of love. It was painful seeing him at the office everyday, but you know things may really not aligned the way we wanted it to be and to accept it is the only way I could do. Good thing I did accept it. We're friends now and he's happy with his new girlfriend as well.
So that's it. That's the type of exes I have before. As you can see, my relationships with them are very short. The longest was the nine month relationship. Well for me, it is really not the time you spent, but the memories you created and shared together that will build up the relationship. Things may work the way you wanted it to be and may not as well. I got hurt with whatever happened with the past relationships I have, but I am glad that I experienced it as I learned a lot. That's what matters the most. And I am happy as of now. And it is more than enough.
That's all for today beautiful people. I hope you enjoyed reading my article for today. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️
- MissJo 💜
The important thing about a relationship is what is learned. When it is an ex and it was not concluded with a commitment it was because he was not the right one. You have to enjoy life until the right one comes along.