Hello beautiful people!
I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨
@dziefem tagged me on her latest article Emotionally Taken. It is to do a challenge about answering some questions that she herself picked from Questions and Singles that was initiated by @Eylz2021. It is actually some questions about why a person is still single and the like. So let me take my side if I will be asked with such questions. You may agree on this or you may not.
Isn’t there someone you at least like?
They say that if you do not feel like liking someone you are not normal, for me it is still normal. You cannot force anyone to like just anyone because they say so. It is their choice, so get out of it. In my case, I am liking someone right now. We are actually trying to know each other well. I mean, yes we are enjoying each other's time, I guess?
Are you having a lot of casual flings?
I never tried having such. I mean, way back I used to enter to relationships that I thought will work. I do not want to just settle for less now. I can easily fall in love with someone, so having a fling will not work for me. I may end up having a one sided love. And that's not easy. You will move on from a person that never been yours.
Are you thinking of talking to your ex again?
No. But I am friends with them. I mean, can exes be friends? I guess so. We're casual. If there's just something important to ask about, I never hesitate to message the person. Why not? I just need to ask something that that person is the only one who can answer. Then after such, end of business. No more, no less.
Are you opening yourself up to love?
Yes. But before that, some of you may read already about my previous article I just cannot, for now. It is actually about my reasons why I cannot enter to any relationships. But for now, I realized why not? We cannot control our feelings, nor we cannot fake it. The more we deny, the more it will get deeper. Then once it will get deeper, you will be drown by it that you will be having a difficulty on getting off from it.
You’re such a catch! How are you not taken yet?
Am I really even a catch? I mean if I am really is, then what? Not because I am a catch does not mean I need to be in a relationship right away. Relationships is not only because you two does love each other, but for some reason it is a choice. Because what if love will be lost? Are you just going to run away from it, or you will choose to stay instead and work for it? Well for me, there's no such thing as falling out of love, and even if there is, then maybe it is really not love at all.
Jumping into a relationship is not easy as one two three. It is a risk you need to take. Choosing to be in such because it is what the society is telling you, and the pressure you have around is a no no. It is not a race that you need to be in. It will never be. Anyhow, if you are destined to be in a relationship, then for sure you will be. With the right person, at the right time. Just enjoy being single. No pressure. Love yourself first. Complete yourself first. Be happy first without depending that happiness from someone. They say, there's lot of fish in the ocean that one day, you gotta catch a good one.
That's all for today beautiful people. I hope you enjoyed reading my article for today. If you have any thoughts and take away about this piece, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️
- MissJo 💜
there's a time for everything..so soon basin naa na na miss jo.hehe