Everyone life is a story
*Life is a greatest teacher. Every day of our life taught us a lesson. Open up someone on us or sometimes proves us wrong. sometimes life seems very beautiful but at the next time its so difficult to stay alive any more.*
*In that era of chaos, when everyone keep her/ his self first. Life teaches a lesson. We learn a new lesson on everyday. Everyone life is a story. Some ones life has love story, some have story of failure, some have story of disloyalty, some has story of deceives while some have story of success. Some have story of success through failure*
*But every story teach you a lesson.*
***Story of love***
*Sometimes a person fall in love with someone. And in her love he forget all the world. He forget his blood relations even he forget the concept of right and wrong. And keep following his love . Sometimes this love relation is much more beautiful than every blessing in the world. But sometimes a person lost his lover due to some reason. When he didn't find his love, he feel heart broken, depressed. Nothing in the world makes him happy. Some people after getting deceived take it on his ego and cross the limits but when he realized. He has nothing more than regret. But all in vein because time has passed away.*
*Some people find the way of God love through the lost love. The true love is to see the others happy, no matter in what condition you are that the true love and very few lucky people find this type of love. some peoples become so selfish in love but the life introduce them to reality very soon.*
*****Story of failure*****
*Sometimes people do a great effort, countless attempts but he failed just because of bad luck . This is because that not the right time for him. But this is not mean that he will no be succeed in his life . His time will also come and he take the whole world in his fist. He learned a lot from his failure. Learn about friend , relations, true well wishers etc. Because your true well wisher are only those who stands with you in your hard time . Who support you. Your failure makes you able to see the real face of everyone.*
*****Story of success.*****
*Sometimes people get success very easily. They are very lucky. Their success push them towards the next destination after getting the first one. Every person idealize them.*
*****Story of success through failure.*****
*Sometimes people learn from his failure. By failure he know about their weak points work on it and do their great effort. And they become succeeded.*
*****Story of disloyalty*****
*disloyalty is very painful. Not everyone face it with patience. when you are very loyal to someone. like a wife is very loyal to his in laws as well as his husband. she put his whole effort to balance the every relation. but It's not possible for her to makes every one happy. Her in laws never admire her on her loyalty. she is loyal to his every relation but still gets the label of disloyalty and sometimes this relation is opposite.*
you are working at some place. you are very loyal but the the others are not loyal to you . This is very painful.
*****Story of deceive*****
*sometimes we trust on some one too much. As I do. In last lock down, One of colleague text me that boss give order to complete some files. I complete my work on time . As a result I get my neck muscles stretched. she tell me send file to her. she wants to check these files. but she deceives me. She present these files with her name. On that day I learned a lesson that not trust too much on any one else. Not every one is same.*
*****Story of blood relations*****
*when a person is healthy and wealthy. Everyone is very nice with him. If he got ill and on near to death bed. He realize that who is really nice to him. most of the blood relation leave him alone , but some look after him till he become healthy. His bad time taught him that who are his true well wisher.*
*Every one life is a story. we see a lot a people in everyday who has face these stories in his life. some peoples are very brave. They face all the difficulties of life with the smile on his face even no one can realize that in what condition they are. but some peoples not very strong these difficulties of life make them psycho. them need love and support from other*
*Never give up. Try to live your life with full zeal.*
*Thanks for reading*
what I do in my spare time...
***Whenever I have free time. I make myself busy in making something new. I like art work. In my school time I made lot of decorative charts related to different subjects.***
***Every year our school organize a chart competition and I always got the second position. I can't understand that its my fortune or unfortune but I always understand that may be the first one did a great effort then me and man always get for which he do struggle.***
***I do art work because I feel my mind relax while doing this.***
***I made a paper bicycle. I take lot of A4 size papers and roll it over to give it a straw like appearance and made a bicycle out of these and use colors to paint bicycle. Everyone appreciated me. they can't believe that its made of paper. My father says to that its***
***awesome . My brother says to me that how much amount you pay to get this. After getting this lovely reviews I decided to share it with all .***
***In this week I did a lot of art work. I'm a teacher I made a group of teachers and a lot them a task on my head instructions. our task is to make the students to introduce his/herself to world fearlessly. He can communicate with teachers and others very easily.***
***we all decided that the best ways to gain students attention towards this plan is to make attractive charts . teachers also communicate with students in such a way they inspired to follow them. we chose some sentences for daily use of students and add these sentences to our art work.***
***some art work of mine I want to show you.***
***All drawings and cutting was done by me. I cut tree out of chart and colored papers birds and flowers . and birds attract the students a lot. an they were very happy after seeing it in class.***
***I cut a cubes of multicolor papers to make the boundary of this chart.***
***This Idea is one of my team member. This chart is for class one.***
***Everyone has some hobbies to get them out from boring routine. I'm feeling relax. while doing art work I forget about all the worries in my life. I'm in an other world while doing so.***
***Except doing art work . I like stitching. whenever I see some new designs, I try to stitch it for me and for my sister. I made lot of dresses, pouches for make up and stationary.***
***In my childhood age I took some chalk and made alphabets out of it by carving it. Ones I made shoes out of chalk for my friends doll. I decorate it with the glitter of golden and purple color.***
***what you like to do in your spare time?***
***Thanks for reading.***
Do first by yourself than ask others to do..
***It's very easy to advice others because it is very easier than to do. We all have to learn about that if we want that others believe on us. They listen to us then do by yourself firstly than ask others to follow you words.***
***If you have not be able to attempt first then your have no right to advise others.***
***Because you have no experience the situation that they face.***
***I like to write about something that increase someone's moral values, ethics. Something that increase someone's confidence, trust on his/herself because when I have to become a motivational speaker.***
***Today, I decide to write on this topic there is big reason behind it. An important member of my life use the words for me that feeling me ashamed that what I'm doing? This person is my mother who always guide to towards right side. I want to tell you what's the story behind it.***
***I lovey nails and I daily apply nail paint of different colors. Today's morning when l go for breakfast my mother see my nails. She told me that how you advise your students to cut your nails even you have such enlarge nails. They told me that my dear to advise other is very easy but to apply on yourself is very difficult. I feel so ashamed and cut my nails. Because I'm a teacher and my students will follow me. I realize that how can I say to them to follow which I'm not wanted to apply on myself.***
***If you want that your words has deep impact on anyone else that never forget to apply these words on yourself. Because to make your advice very impressive and effective your way of spoken, your body language even the whole you is just as an example of your words. Make yourself just like that the others wanted to listen you.***
***For example:***
***Parents expect that their offspring are obedient and follow their directions etc. But they can't realize that their children will follow what their parents do. If your are a parent and did a promise to your child then complete your promise. If you not fulfil your commitment then your child will never listen to you next. Even they don't trust you. And you should have to do great struggle to gain this lost trust. If you give respect to your parents your child will respect you. If you don't did this your are not be able to ask your Childrens for this.***
***I want to share the great moment of my life with you. One of my colleague has joined our institute in 2020. She become panic. Because every new one in our institute is always over burdened. I support her because I know that she has a great knowledge and I want that she's always with me. I motivate her . I always advice to do your work without being panic and she always follow my words. Give me respect. She really such a lovely girl. And now he learned, he know what she has to do in every situation. She asked to my close friends that I'm blessing for her. Her words make my soul satisfied.***
***Your words are very impactful when you have experienced the situation. Sometimes people says that you did this like that ,like this and all. If something happens wrong to you it's your fault. You don't do the things like this. They can't realize that it is very easy to advise others. They never know about the situation of others. We all met with people like that in our life.***
***Advice is good thing, but don't use the word advice to hurt others. Support the others with whole heartedly .***
***I want that you give the answer of this question.***
***Can you ever met any person in your life who only used to advice others but not apply on yourself?***
***Thanks for reading.***
Everyone needs appreciation
*Every person in the world need appreciation. No matter to which age they belong. When anyone else does good things, they need appreciation.*
*Child need appreciation*
*****Every child need appreciation:-*****
*Whenever they want to do something new, they want to be appreciated by others. This may enhance their confidence.*
***For example****:*
*When a baby tries to take his first step. Baby needs appreciation to take second step. Their parents appreciate him by doing this they will increase his trust and he tries to take second step. And with the passage of time he starts to walk properly.*
*****Every student needs appreciation:-*****
*Every student in the world need appreciation. If students are doing excellent work t they surely deserve appreciation. If you not appreciate him. His performance will be impaired and, he will not respond you in excellence. If a student do good or average work , he also deserve appreciation. You appreciate him to do more better. Your appreciation will boost his confidence and, he will try to do his best.*
*On the last Saturday, l promise to my students that if they will get full marks than l will take them in all classes and ask the students to clap for them. They become very excited and every student try to do his best. Today, I complete my promise. By doing this, the students that not shown good results promise me that they will also show good result in the next test. Because they want to be appreciated.*
*If you not appreciate the students for their small good things. His confidence would not be enhanced.*
*****Our senior citizens or family members wanted to be appreciated:-*****
*Our senior family members are important part of our life, they need appreciation. They need our time. If we have no time for them, they become frustrated, angry, disheartened. As the man becomes older, they are not be very able to do their chores. They need help from others. And health is not as good as in young age. If you want they will be healthy and happy then listen to their stories and appreciate them to tell more about your life experience, by doing this you will appreciate them, motivate them to move towards life. At the old age, they only need your attention.*
*****An artist needs to be appreciated:-*****
*If a painter made a painting . He wants that every one appreciate him that what a painting he made. After doing hard work, they wait to listen these words. If they are not appreciated by others, they feel heartbroken.*
*Some people ignore this by saying this is only for the one time that this happens, next time will never be happens. They endure all these and move forward very courageously. But some peoples not have this type of courage.*
*****Your friends need appreciation:-*****
*We know that our friends are very talented. But they have no trust on their self. If, we appreciate them then their confidence will enhance and, they realize that what they can do and how daring they are?*
*****A patient needs appreciation:-*****
*Sometimes due to some accident, some patients become paralyzed. They become hopeless from their life. They consider themselves a burden. And sometimes these patients recover very fast. Do you know why is this so?*
*This happens because they have strong will power. Their loved ones appreciate them by saying, try to move your body parts, you can do this. By doing this, they bring them back towards life.*
*****An employ need appreciation:-*****
*An employ that work under someone need to be appreciated. If they work very honestly, they deserve appreciation from honor. if honor will not appreciate them , they leave him and join to others and he will be in lose.*
*Our honor last week give an annual dinner to all the workers and give the certificate of appreciation. According to me this is very important.*
*some peoples start to work for the needy or helpless peoples. they start some welfare programs. they starts to teach their childrens who are not able to pay fee. these people need appreciation because they had a quality to change the word.*
*These are the peoples who really deserve our appreciation. They see the world with different perceptions.*
*In simple words everyone in the world need appreciation. Even me when try to cook something and taste to others. The only thing that I do every time Is to wait for the appreciating words from my family.*
*For the first time when applied for a job, they called me for interview. I'm confused whether I can do or not. If I not pass the interview then what will happen. But my brother boost my confidence by appreciating me. He says to me that I'm awesome. He said that if you intended to do anything then you have a quality to do it at any cost and, he says he is always with me. I keep his lines in my mind, and l got the job on that day.*
*Thanks for reading.*
Anticipation Vs Reality
*****What is anticipation?*****
*Anticipation is something like you hope that it must be happened positively.*
*Anticipation in simple words expectations are different from reality. Sometimes we expect a lot from others, but When time comes they make us realize that what the reality is.*
*****Why I decided to write about anticipation and reality?*****
*Today when I receive my parcel of online shopping, I think I have to write about expectations and reality. I bought some clutches and a bag because when I saw the images the bag and clutches were very awesome. I became excited and add these to my cart. Today when I receive my parcel I'm very excited but after opening it my happiness change in to sadness because wallet size is too small, and bag size is also not more attractive. Although quality is also average. This incident makes me realize that things look beautiful in expectations, but in reality it might be different. whenever I click some shorts we add filters, beauty and pics are totally change from reality.*
*Sometimes I expect that some looks would be perfect for me ,but when I dressed up according to my expectations it looks different.*
*While writing this I have a smile on my face and maybe you too. Because after getting bad experience, I try it again and again.*
*Today, my head give me the order of taking an interview of job applicant. I call an applicant after knowing about their qualification. I really inspired but when I interviewed her she was totally against my expectations.*
*sometimes people used to live in the word of anticipation.*
*one of my close friend loved to read novels and every time when she read novels he start to live in the word of novels they expect a lot from her future life. we always try to understand her that come out from the novels world real life might be different prepare you mind for both situations. You life may be as you think about your future, but It may be different. Because she belong to backward family . They married their girls in early age, but she has a dream of becoming a doctor . Her family not support co-education. We were not want that her dreams break and, She feel so alone. and this happen when the time comes and she want to apply in university her family fixed his marriage , but she never lose hope and complete her education in simple subjects. she apply for private exams process but she is not a doctor.*
*Parents have too much expectations from their childrens but not all Childrens are similar to their expectations 100%. Sometimes people's behavior with us is so nice, and we expect a lot from them, and the moment comes they do something intentionally or unintentionally that you should not expect from them.*
*****Not all the time expectations are different from reality.*****
*Sometimes anticipation is worse than reality. We think that something happening to you is very bad for you, but in reality it proves to be good for you.*
***For example:-***
I'm very possessive about making new friends because I think that I can't understand what people think about us, may be they are our well wisher or not. In my master part I me and one of my friend start going to college and the day when I was absent She made new friend. On the next day, I become worried about that we don't know which type of girl she is. But with the passage of time I realize that she was so nice and totally change from my expectations.
*****Sometimes we expect too much from others.*****
Sometimes we made some extra expectations from others, but we didn't understand that the person from we expect a lot is not in condition to make us satisfied. This is the time when we need to understand his condition. And make him realize that whatever the condition is, we are always with you to support you.
I want to give example like parents expect a lot from their child even when he was born, they used to say my child would be a future doctor and as the time proceed this feeling and expectations becomes more strong. But they can't understand that their child doesn't Want to be a doctor or may be sometime his IQ level did not match for this profession. That is the time when parents need to support their child, not to force him to be a doctor. They can't realize that by force their child become rebellious, or may be depressed or sometimes they took some steps that are not good for them.
Sometimes expectations are worse than the reality, but sometimes reality is worse than expectations. We just need to understand that what the condition is and how to take yourself out of it.
Thanks for reading.
Feeling inferiority can affects your personality....
*Today, I want to discuss about the major problem that mostly peoples face on daily basis. It is the feeling of inferiority. Different peoples have complex for different things.*
*Sometimes peoples have a lot but when they see the others, they think they are inferior to anyone else. During my daily routine, I met with a lot of peoples who suffer from different kinds of inferiority feeling.*
*****Feeling of inferiority by appearance:-*****
*It's true that your appearance controls your confidence level. Whenever you go for a job interview they first thing that they notice is how well you dressed up, how well your manners are. However, whenever you dressed up well , whenever you look perfect you feel that your confidence is increasing with every moment. And when you become more confident, your way of spoken is at another level and the person In front of you thinks that, you are the one who is perfect for this job. But it's not matter in all places. In some places your knowledge, your experience matters to justify whether you are perfect or not.*
*Sometimes some peoples have not enough resources for this. But keep believe on yourself that you are perfect if you have done what you can. Sometimes peoples are looking perfect from every aspect, but they underestimate themselves. And due to their feelings that they are not perfect, they are inferior than other lowers their confidence and due to this feeling they lose many opportunities.*
*****People feel inferior by seeing the life style of others:-*****
*Not everyone in the world is at the same status. Some people take it serious and undergo complex. They hesitate to attend events, they hesitate, to invite someone at home, they feel inferior. They see that some peoples in the world has cars, Bangalore, business empires etc. but at same time when they think what they have they become complexed. They become rebellious, their desires are more than their income when they not gain what they want in his life, they chose the wrong path to fulfil his dreams. Or in some cases they become depressed.*
*****Feeling of inferiority by job:-*****
*Sometimes people face inferiority because of being jobless. For example, two persons completed their education from the same institute at the same time but one get the higher post but the second one continuously searching for job. This makes the second one to feel inferior.*
*People feel inferior because they think they have no talent.*
*Sometimes people feel inferior because they want to do something but succeeded and degraded by others. For examples, A person love singing but whenever he tries to sing some song people not appreciate him. They make fun out of it . They start insulting him. And this person undergoes severe complex that lead to depression.*
*****Feeling inferior by color complexion:-*****
*Some people has a sever complex just because of its dull complexion. But they not know that people with little bit dull complexion are more attractive than others. They feel inferior because peoples are taunting them.*
*****Feeling inferior by their work:-*****
*Some students have completed their project with perfection, and they were very happy but when they see the other students project they feel they are inferior . They think there work is not perfect. They think that they can do more better.*
*Some students feel inferior because they have no trust . Today, when l was in class six, a student tell me to write her name with colorful markers because she feel ashamed on her writing. Then l boosted her confidence by saying that keep believe on yourself. Do this by yourself. Your writing are very beautiful, don't underestimate your self than they feel little bit superior.*
*****Avoid feeling inferior:-*****
*We all need to be avoid the feeling like that because God make us perfect and no one can challenge him for this. And not the everyone should be perfect. God bless every one with some unique quality. So keep believe on yourself and never think that you are superior than any one else. you are perfect because God made you perfect.*
*Sometimes peoples feel more superior even we say that they are over confident and their this feeling can lead to the lose.*
*****We need a balance between the feeling of superiority and inferiority:-*****
*Yes we been to maintain balance between these two feelings. Not only feeling of inferiority lead to lose , the feeling of be a superior can also lead to severe loss. We just need to balance them.*
***Thanks for reading.***
Birthday Celebrations
**By occupation I'm a teacher and as a teacher I want to be like one whom that students look at me with the smile on their face. They can share any thing with me ask question to me without any hesitation. I think I'm successful in maintaining this.**
**Today , I am feeling happy because my students want to celebrate with me. I was in class in ninth when few students comes to me and ask me for permission that, they wanted to celebrate their class mate's birthday in class room. They said, mam we invite you whole heartedly to come and celebrates with us we are waiting for you.**
**I replied , sure why not ? I will must comes to your class room after delivering my lecture. They become very happy. It was my last lecture in their class . I decided to take all of my students in ground because weather was too good. I arranged a set up and ask students to make a queue they become very excited a start jumping with happiness. they ask me that I'm the best teacher in the world.**
**Students help me to decorate the stage. We blow lot of balloons and tie ribbons and some students were busy in cutting the ribbons while some blowing balloons.**
**They were very happy. we cut butterflies out of paper and tie with the rope on front.**
**Student cut cake and divide to all students. we All give gifts to the birthday boy. some students make birthday cards for him and we can't realize how the time ended. we all wished him for good future. we wished him for success in his life.**
**After cutting cake students wants to play some games. They play musical chair , sing songs. The celebration ended at about 4:00 pm . This day was very energetic and I feel very happy with my students.**
**I have never celebrate my birthday in my life. when I was in my childhood age like other children I also attracted towards birthday celebrations and all. I want to celebrate my birthday with my class mates and my teachers , but due to some reasons It doesn't happens in my life when I was 18 years old then my friends decided to celebrate my birthday its not to be possible because of summer vacations.**
**On one of my birthday my exams result announce and I got A+ grade . I think it is the best gift for me in my life when I got my first degree.**
**On my 22nd birthday there was my final exams and my friends ask me that they wish me after attempting paper but when I saw the question paper it was almost 50% out of syllabus.**
**Now I don't like to celebrate my birthday because as the time passes the excitement for birthday celebration diminishes.**
**But, I also wants that every one get in his life all that I missed in my childhood.**
**That's why I organize this birthday event in my school for students. By doing this I feel contented.**
**I always try to do for others that I want to have in my life. If your little effort makes some one to smile, makes some one happy then never ignore it and please try to do it as yours this little effort matters a lot for others. you can do every thing for yours happiness but the thing is what you can do and what you are doing for others.**
**some times when peoples not fulfil their desires they become annoying persons.**
**they create troubles for others to stop them from achieving that they can't achieve in their live. they behave like that because of the situations they face they need counseling and love from others .**
**I think this is the real humanity level and when you think like that no one can beat you. you become the apple of every ones eyes and when someone says to me that you are an apple of my eyes I have the feeling of butterflies in my tummy.**
**thanks for reading.**
Today I miss my bestie a lot
**Today I miss my best friend too much. friends are the precious part of our life. Good friends always heal your soul , makes your mind calm. According to me my friends are the reason of my happiness. Mostly the smile on my face is just because of my friends. My friend list is very short but I have true best friends in my life.**
**Friends always stand with you in your tough time. Sometimes they takes all your burden on their shoulder. They support you . They fight for you. They can do every thing for you if you have such kind of friend you are so lucky and every person have few such friends in his life because they are rare .**
**I use the word rare because in full buzzy life no one has time for others. Every one first priority is their on life. when a man stuck in a trouble every one even the blood relations will leave a man alone except true , honest , real friend.**
**I have such friends in my life. when I was in my inter part I , one day my elder brother call me he put his phone in my hands and convincing me to talk with her friends sister because she wanted to got admission in my college. on the next day he identified that I was that girl whom she talk last night by listening my voice. I was amazed .**
**we were not in the same section and we met in break time or off time but friend ship is not deep . As the time passes the we complete our inter part II . and in graduation we were in the same section. we become very happy. we become close friends. Once our English teacher think that he was doing cheating in her test he scold her , I don't know what happened to me on that time and I took stand for her because she used to cry continuously because she was not doing so. while teacher return her paper but he always remind me that what I do? I can't bear that she is crying.**
**we celebrates our birthdays together , enjoy night time college parties and college trips that time was amazing . after completing graduation we select one subject and apply in the same university. we are just like the right arms for each others. Our friendship was famous in whole university. we enjoyed samosas in rain . we bunked lectures together.**
**During my master I met with one of my sincere friend . she is so nice, I remember that I was apply for the 14- scale job and I have to go for test and I was worried that how I reached to the examination hall. she offer me that she drop me to the examination hall because she also apply for this job.**
**she daily call me we continually talk for many hours still today.**
**its being 3 year that we are not met with each other but still calling and messaging each other last night she put a status on what's app for me . her words are:**
***what do I miss?***
***I miss sitting with my best friend ,wasting my time on silly and funny topics .I miss our hangouts , our jokes , our laughter and our high five.***
***It's been so long since we have sat down together and have a good time. "Thats what I really miss."***
**Her words make my eyes full with tears but with smile on my face that I have such one in the world who miss me a lot and I also miss her a lot. I replied and my words are:**
***My dear I also miss the time that I spent with my bestie especially when we were sitting on the back seat of van, when we are playing and teasing each other on the whole way back to home. I never forget the feeling of a person that fit as the forth one on the seat that was only enough for three persons.***
**Honestly those days were amazing they all are married now and after lock down when I rejoin my job . I'm feeling alone, feeling sad because I have no friends with me on my work place and I really miss my bestie.**
**may she live happy healthy and log life.**
**thanks for reading.**
Optimism and pessimism.
Today, I want to discuss optimism and pessimism because we all have faced these two conditions in our life and me too.
First of all we discuss the optimism.
***What is optimism?***
Optimism is something like think positively.
For example, when you sleep at every night you don't know how much longer life you have But you slept because you have a belief that you get up in the early morning, this is the optimism.
You have a belief that every dark night will change into the bright morning this is the optimism.
A person who is suffering from a chronic disease, but he has a strong will power that he will get well soon. This is an optimism.
If you stuck in trouble and a time reach when you feel helpless, but you still do effort to get out of it because you have a hope in your heart that you will get yourself out of it. This is an optimism.
Once my room lock is stuck everyone try to open it but never succeeded then I decided to open it . I made myself that I open it at any cost and when I try to open this for the first time I failed, but I never lose hope and try it for second time and I finally open the lock everyone amazed that how could I do that and I feel proud on myself. This is optimism.
*****What is pessimism?*****
Pessimism is just the opposite of optimism. When you think negatively about anything else, you are optimistic.
For example
If you put two dogs in two separate boxes you see one dog is learned how to escape, but the second dog give up as he thinks he can't escape out of it. The second dog loses hope. He is pessimistic.
We all face the both the situations in our life.
As I consider myself, me too is both optimistic and pessimistic but In some cases.
Whenever I took some decision, I have a fear that it's may be wrong for me but when my family support me that l take a good decision then I become too confident about it but at the next moment some outsider hit point on my decision that it's not good but I show my optimistic part that may be it's not good for them but for me it's good.
*****What you are an optimistic or a pessimistic?*****
Explanatory style of a person tells us about what we are.
For example, if you go for an audition, If you are pessimistic you think you will never be able to give an audition but if you are optimistic than you think it's not impossible for me.
If you are pessimistic you think it's pervasive that you are not an interesting person but if you are optimistic you think it's not pervasive, it is just an isolated situation.
If you are pessimistic you think personally that you looks are not perfect for audition and they humiliate you but if you are optimistic you think it's not personal they might be in bad mood.
*****Benefits of being an optimistic.*****
1- Optimism helps us to gain more.
2-Optimism helps us to improve our over all health.
3-Optimism help us to have more happy and healthy life.
*****Harms of pessimism.*****
1-Pessimist give up at the first step.
2-They are more likely to suffer from depression, suicide and other psychological problems.
3-They are not enjoyed the happy and healthy life.
So optimism is much more helpful to us than pessimism but we just need to maintain balance in both otherwise you can get delusional and end up torturing yourself. If you have a bad business idea and you think it's not permanent and keep investing on it for several months and you not get any profit and you think it's not pervasive and keep investing on it then you are not optimistic you are an idiot who can' t understand that it's bad idea for you because it's not profitable for you.
So it's a good thing that you are optimistic, but at the same time you need to balance it with the pessimism.
As I discussed above we all have face these situations. It's pleasure for me if you share your optimistic and pessimistic situations.
Thanks for reading.
Sometimes restrictions are blessings.
Sometimes restrictions are blessings. Sometimes restrictions are for our protection. For example when you are traveling on the road and you see that at some point road is block by some hurdles which mention that don't go behind these hurdles it's all for your safety. If they not restrict you may be you got an accident.
AS childrens are small their parents restricted them from going here and there without permission. they restricted them from receiving any thing from a stranger. They do all this for their welfare.
In this pandemic situation government of each country set some restrictions some rules for public to follow. As you know ***Coronavirus*** disease 2019 (***COVID***-***19***) is a viral disease and it spread very fast . So government set SOP's and every citizen should have to respect these SOP's. These SOP's are:
Wear mask
sanitize your hands
Don't go out if it's not necessary
Keep distance etc.
If you don't follow these restrictions you will not only take your life on risk but also take others life on risk.
I also have a example of me once when I was in my master's last semester my my mom told my to take leave from university. she need some help I don't want to take leave but I took leave. And on the next day l amazed to know that yesterday the college van have severe accident than l realize that my mom restrict me from going to university and she safe my life. God knows what was happening on that day and he protects me through my mother's restriction.
In many countries still today parents are not allowed their daughters to work in banks, as a nurse, and places like that they restrict them not because that they have no trust on them. It's because they did not trust on the society. They know that their daughters are very innocent and any one else can trap them so they allow them to go out but with some restrictions. if they follow these restrictions the feel safe.
Sometimes we are trying to do something but most of the time we are not succeeded many restrictions come in the way of destiny. These restrictions are sometimes signal that this not a right path for us. God cause these restrictions to stop you from doing this as he knows what is right for you.
So keep patience and wait for the god thing happens to you.
In my childhood my mother used to told a story of king. Once upon a time a king with his president go for hunting and accidentally one of his cut and his president said that what's happens to you is good for you. The king got angry and capture his president in a lock up. And on the next day he has to pass through a forest and on they way some forest liver caught him and They wanted to kill him for their lord but when they saw his one finger is injured they let the king to go. The king was very happy and go back to realize his president when do so he ask a question to his president I caught you in a lock up what's good for you in this. President replied , if you not put me in a lock up than the forest liver killed me in replacement of you. Than the king realize that every restriction is a blessing.
One thing that I want to discuss here is that some times restrictions is blessing but sometimes is not as when water level of sea rises we try to control it by strengthening coast but it's break the all of it and flood occur same is the case with Childrens. sometimes parents over restricted their childrens this result in that their childrens become rebellious they start to rebel against his parents. So please try to balance this.
On the other way everything has some good point and some bad points. The choice is yours.
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Things that I never do in my life but I always wished to be have in my life
Every day we have see lot of dreams and many more wishes but mostly our dreams not turns to reality and some of our wishes are not fulfil we see dreams we start to wish when we were few of few months.
*****A child wish to catch the moon..********..***
A child loves moon a lot he always desire to have in his life. He do much struggle by his arms and leg to catch the moon but he can't do this because it's not possible. Life is not stop as the bay forget about her dream and start to see the new dreams we have to forget about the things start effort for others.
Today , I discussed about few thing that I want to have in my life but I never get it.
*****I always want to see the snow falling live.*****..
When I was about 7 to 8 years old l have a desire to see the rain falling but the years of my life passing on and I still have a hope to see the snow falling. I really want to catch that snow in my fist and and l have a trust that a day will come in my life when God fulfil my wish.
*****I want to do sky diving...*****
When I was under 19 I saw the show in which girls are perfectly doing sky diving fearlessly .On that day I desire to do sky diving because I think it's also a way to relax your mind when you are at a height about to jump you have mingled feeling of excitement and fear of jumping but when you take a dive and as you go towards the earth your your mind start to relax and at that time you feel the peace, losing all thought that makes you disturb. l really desire to feel that feeling. When your parachute open you start to enjoy you feel like a bird that flying in the sky. I love paragliding and sky diving.
*****I want to become officer of higher post...*****
When l complete my studies I was about to 21 years and I have a dream of becoming an officer of higher post. And l become succeeded step by step to fulfil my dream today I'm employ but during my employment I get experience and my experience and effort lead me to my dream post. Nothing is impossible but if you don't get something then something more better is written for you in your fate by Allah. I hope that one day will surely comes to my when l bring the fruit of my efforts.
*****I want to be in my dream place...*****
My dream place is that I have dress up like a fairy and wanted to walk on on the wet and fresh grass with bare foots, butterflies of beautiful colors fly around me, birds and animals trust on me that , I'm not their enemy I'm their friend. I know this is childish but I want to be in my dream place. I think it's different from everyone's dream place because everyone has dream to go to some country and all.
*****I want to see the fire flies in night...*****
I have never ever seen a fire flies in my life and l wish to see the fire flies while glowing in the night l want to capture them in my hands and then to release them. I ever want to capture this beautiful seen in my eyes.
*****I want to do sketching perfectly.....*****
In spare time I like to do sketching because I want to become an artist. I try many sketches and I think it's as perfect as I want. So, I want to do this with more perfections and one I will surely do it .
we all see dreams in our life , wishes for more . sometimes you turn your dreams in to reality, get your whishes but sometimes not. If you don't get it , it doesn't mean the is ended . life is being continue on and if you not turn you dream into reality may be it's not better for you as the God knows better . and in return to these wishes you find find something new in your life that you didn't expect in your life. So , always hope for the positive.
thanks for reading.
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never have I ever caught something on fire while cooking
This sentence give a big smile on my face because when ever I was in the kitchen while cooking I caught different things on fire once I burn my clothes and my sister pour a bucket of water on me. once I totally forget about the tea that put on a stove for my mother and the pot was in a fearful condition.
***never have I ever danced when I thought nobody was watching , but people were***
unfortunately yes , I have danced when I thought nobody was watching , but peoples were. In my childhood I love songs dancing and all as I think that It also the ways to keep yourself happy I remember on that day I was very happy and start dancing and singing and eventually I turned back my whole family was glairing at me. I feel so ashamed and they ever use this situation to make fun out of me.
**Never have I ever had a popcorn at the movie theater .**
I never had a popcorn at movie theater because my I neve ever seen any of the theater. once our college plan a movie night for students in college all the students carry popcorn chips and all but I carry chips because popcorn make my jaw muscles tired.
**Never have I ever colored my hairs a crazy color.**
yes , I colored my hairs a crazy color a maroon color because my hair color is light brown and I always try new colors because I love my colorful hairs.
**Never have I ever sung a song loudly in the shower.**
yes I have sung a song loudly in the shower because I love the sound quality that produce in washroom because of eco.
**Never have I ever put peanut butter on a dog nose.**
I have never want to try this because once a dog start ran behind me and eventually I feel down I think the dog has bite my leg but I was in my senses I find my both leg perfect with few scratches that I got because of rubbing against the road and after this whenever I saw the dog I change my path . I have a fear about dogs.
***Never have I ever make a you tube video.***
I have never make any you tube video in my life I don't why but I'm did this at all. after reading this question I ask a question to my self that why am I not did this and I find no answer.
***Never have I ever been to universal studio.***
yes, I have only once in my life when I need some passport size photos of my self.
I know its strange and I also feel this today.
***Never have I ever had a practical joke on my friends.***
yes, I had a practical joke on my friends on my friends. Once me and my friends attach a balloon fill with color on the backside of my friends shirt and when the balloon pop out you can understand what was happens to him and I always remember my teachers reaction and her words was get out from my class.
***Never have I ever had a high fived and no nobody responded.***
I have never face this situation because I'm the apple of everyone eyes and I never face the situation when I have a high fived and a person of my society in front of me never responded to to me.
***Never have I ever watched a TV show live.***
yes , never have I ever watched a TV show live but I really want to see the set during shooting .As we all see the live recording of some Tv shows but I want to see the TV show live from set.
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The moments of my life when I feel happy😊
Today I decided to share the thing that happen to me and I feel very happy and the first thing is
***I feel happy when my mother do extra care for me..***
You all have this kind of feeling in your life when someone do extra care for you. My mother cares me a lot even I have little but suffering but my mother makes the world beautiful for me . I feel like a fairy every time when she is with me. God always bless her healthy and happy life .She turn my life in to heaven.
***I feel happy when my father appreciate me..***
I feel very happy when I did something new and my father appreciate me. I feel so confused while doing something new but he always appreciate me and make me to feel that what I'm doing is right for me. whenever I did something wrong he guide me and push me towards the right path. For me he like an angel in the world . he is my super hero who face lot of troubles for me but never make me to feel this.
***I feel happy when something suddenly happens to me..***
sometimes we trying to do something . we do lot of efforts but we had never succeeded. we try again and again but we not succeeded but suddenly we have done it with little effort. we amazed and become so happy. I really love this feeling . This realize me that when you become hopeless and start thinking like it's impossible for you , the God make it's possible for you and this strengthen my belief on God.
***I feel happy when I satisfied my students...***
As a teacher my ambition is to transfer more knowledge to my students, help them in achieving their goals. when I did this, I feel very happy its a pleasant and soul satisfactory moment for me when my students show satisfaction with me. They like me, They idealize me and at that moment my feeling is just like that as I touch the glory of sky. This really makes me very happy.
***I feel very happy whenever I beet/defeat my brother...***
I love to play games with my brother and I'm crazy to play games with him. when I play with him and eventually I won my feeling is just like dancing and all. I love to see his face at the end of game and when he say I lose this chance only for your happiness next time I will see you and I continuously teas him. he really loves me a lot and without him I'm nothing .
***I feel very happy when I help others...***
I feel very happy to help other and when ever I help someone I feel very happy and say thanks to Allah who make one of those who are able to help others not one from those who seek help from others. I'm very thankful to Allah and feel very happy.
***I feel very happy when someone buy a doll for me....***
I feel very happy when someone bought dolls for me because I loved dolls from my childhood age . I know it's childish but I can't control my self. I'm crazy about it.
***I feel very happy when I do something for my family....***
I always wish to support my family financially and physically. I feel very happy because Now I'm able to support my family. I have job fulfill my wish.
***I feel very happy after listening the words....***
I feel very happy when after hard workout on job I came back to home and listen the words of my sister " please come fast the lunch is ready we are waiting for you". when I returned to home from my job place ,I used to feel very hungry and these words pleased my soul and makes me happy .
***I feel very happy when I cock something new...***
whenever I free I like to cock something new and I feel very happy when I try something new and taste to others in return the admire me ,appreciate me .
***I feel happy when I saw the new notification in my notification bar....***
I love to know that I have new notification and when I opened this, I feel so happy after knowing that I have a new notification. I feel like flying in the sky when someone like me and my work of any kind. This encourages me, motivate me and make me feel happy.
***The purpose of sharing all above moments is that our life is full of happiness but the need is only to do search for happy moments of your life that helps to forget the saddest part of your life.***
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****Give some respect to yourself**** https://read.cash/@forieya/give-some-respect-to-yourself-2c9d7831
****Cheating is curse**** https://read.cash/@forieya/cheating-is-curse-de4cc1a0
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Think before you speak
Today, I want to discuss about the problem which we all face everyday that peoples not think before they speak and even they didn't realize that what they are doing. they enjoy while doing this.
you should take this lightly, in fact it's lethal. people think that they are making joke with others but for others it's heart breaking. Peoples are taunting, scorning and criticizing others and give the name of joke. They are trying to be funny. According to them it's fun but for the guy next to you its not fun.
Slip of tongue is the major problem of today's society. When people are taunting they did not realize that wound cause by hands and other things can be heal with the passage of time but wounds cause by words can't heal through out the life.
*****"Mostly peoples suffer from wounds cause by words not by the stone or stick."*****
sometimes peoples not like you and when they see you are more happy they start to taunting you they feel happy while doing this but after some time they feel regret on what which they do. Mostly a child miss behave with his parents but after this he feel regret. He used to cry when he realize his mistake .
That's why *I must says that , always think before you speak because its your words that may make someone or broke some ones heart my friend always used to say me that, the words can makes you or a break you . So, always chose the words wisely .*
*Chose the words that not degrade others , words that not heart others, chose the words that not insult other*
*sometime you share your secrete with some one but he tell the others and after doing this he/she says "it's a slip of tongue................ups" I also face this situation . I also share my secrete with my friend but he broke my secrete and then she said its a slip of tongue not intentionally. I forgive her but I never forget the lesson that I learned , not believe everyone too much keep the every one else in his limit . people while doing this not realize that they are loosing trust .*
Our words are like a bows and arrows . As the arrows shot from the bow never return. just like that our words shot from our tongue never ever returns. we may forget these worlds but the person who listen these words never forget . These words always injured their soul .
Everything you say should be true but its not necessary that every thing that should be true must be said to others.
That's why I believe that to avoid hearting others we have to think before we speak because our words matters more .It reflects our personality, our behavior, our family ethics and more etc.
That's why I must say that always think before you speak, taste your words before you spit them out. Be careful about your words because it may returns to you.
Thanks for reading .
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****Give some respect to yourself**** https://read.cash/@forieya/give-some-respect-to-yourself-2c9d7831
****Cheating is curse**** https://read.cash/@forieya/cheating-is-curse-de4cc1a0
****your attitude towards life is everything.**** https://read.cash/@forieya/your-attitude-towards-life-is-everything-3d448062
****Can our fate justify our destiny?**** https://read.cash/@forieya/can-our-fate-justify-our-destiny-b62fd704
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Over thinking can cause traffic jam in your mind
Today when I'm feeling very sad then I decided to write about over thinking. Today, I want to share some of my own opinion about over thinking.
when your are doing something new you think about it before you start it. Then t's a good sign that you wants to do your best but when you think about it at every moment ,It's not good for your mental health. When you think about some thing and do planning but you did not got success you become frustrated ,panic and your mind is now a well of different thought .Some good thoughts to try again and do your best but at the same time some thought of hopelessness also invade your mind. we can't decide that what we want to do. At that time we become depressed . our mental health did support us and we face the continuous feeling of sadness even we don't want to talk anyone else ,we don't want to do any activity.
some time severe depression lead to suicide and if you want to stop someone from suicide than you should have to become a person that release some ones depression. Every day in the world one person out of 5000 to 15000 take a suicide attempt . They need counselling with a psychiatrist.
To improve your mantel condition you have to cleanse your mind. some time peoples are depressed but they did not realize that.
How you know that your are depressed?
Depression has following symptoms
continuously feeling sad
sleepless or may face oversleeping
low energy level
over eating or a loss of appetite
showing no interest in any activity
irritated or frustrated
If you suffer from the above situations then you are depressed. and here the question the question is that
*****how to cleanse your mind?*****
Take a deep breath , try to think about the good moments , think about the things what you do in your past , encourage yourself and more important tell about all the the thoughts that shaken up your mind, that makes you upset ,in front of your loved one that understands you and wants to listen you. This makes you to feel lighter .
If you don't have any person like that then write all about what is continue in your mind.
Take a punching bag remove your all frustration. Now you have to take fresh start and do what you want to do in past. And this time you may get succeeded.
we are mediocre and in everyday we all face a lot of problems in our daily life and me also a mediocre when I saw my father troubling to survive. I feel sad he is doing too much effort for his family. Sometime he get profit but sometimes not but one thing that I learned from my father is that never give up. he taught me that nothing is impossible in the world , if we loved to do something then every thing is possible for us. My father taught me that you can do every thing but every goal demands struggle and effort.
Try to keep your mind stabilize ,with relax and peace full minds you can do every thing but **when you overthink about something your mind is just like that the road with heavy traffic and face traffic jam.** these thoughts block your mind, you are not able to make decisions, you become frustrated. So, please clear your mind and avoid overthinking.
thanks for reading
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Give some respect to yourself
Today I have decided to write something about self-respect and self-esteem. I have decided to share some of my words and thoughts about self respect .
**Do you know what is self respect?**
self respect is something to giving value to yourself . It is the part of self esteem. It has to give some positive values to yourself like honesty, dignity, humility, confidence etc.
**Self esteem**
Self esteem is that what you think about yourself. Self esteem is something about that how much you give importance to your abilities and skills.
Give some respect to yourself
some time peoples suffer because they give no respect to yourself. they underestimate yourself. when they were in some any kind of trouble they became worried , they hesitate because they think that the people not believe on them. They think that others considered them wrong.
when they do something they did not introduce their work, their talent to others As they think people not motivate them. They think that people did not believe on them that they have such talent and mostly it happens to them because they give no respect to their own abilities and talent .
whenever you believe that what you do is prefect and is like that the others would not do it with the kind of perfection as they do. They become more confident as they give respect to yourself.
It doesn't matter what people think about you . As you are not what people think about you but your are what you think about yourself.
***"please don't judge yourself according to the people perceptions and keep believe on Allah almighty that he makes you perfect and no one can challenge him for this."***
peoples are not happy with the same person at the same time. you are a good for one person but at the same time you are a bad for others. your personality reflects what you think about your self.
People not stop to criticizing on other as it's their habit. and it is too much annoying. One thing thing that today I told you that when peoples have complex they criticize on others to overcome their complex. if a person is slimmer it is criticized by the fatty on and vice versa .
One thing that I learned that don't allow the others to point on you and make them realize that if they have some problem with that then kept it in their mind.
In professional and personal life experience, I have learned that leave the place where you get not respect. As your respect matters first. And not ask others to respect you do some acts that peoples wants to respect you but If people not respect you in spite of your hard work, hard effort and honesty then leave them with their ego because we do not change their school of thought.
I'm a doing a job and I try to do my job with perfection but whenever I discus about increment with my director they start to take my observation on daily biases and in search of the moment then I do mistake and humiliate me. One day I decided to resign but when I take my resignation latter to director then she realize that what he loose and they request me to not leave the job and they feel sorry for their act and accept my all demands
On that day I realize that until you not respect yourself the others will not respect you. Your self respect is more important whether your are teacher , doctor, nurse, banker no matter which profession you join your self-respect is more important.
So, please give some respect to yourself.
sometimes people are egoistic and they consider it as self respect. self respect is not ego self respect is something like good attitude and egoistic person have bad attitude. An egoistic person consider the others as slave. He expect that all others must be follow his rules and we are not force others to follow our rules because everyone has some own opinion , rules and regulations in his life.
peoples not respect the egoistic person. they hate the egoistic persons they did not follow their rules and always ready to move against the egoistic one
So, I advise you to being a person having self-respect with good attitude not being an egoistic one.
Being a person with self-respect
Respect yourself
Love yourself
Take care of your self
Speak to your self
Listen to yourself
and more important
Trust your self
respect yourself than others will respect you.
Thanks for reading.
Cheating is curse
Today when mostly peoples are discussing about cheating, I have decided that to share some personal thoughts about cheating with all of you.
According to me cheating is curse and it has various forms . Today, I give some examples of cheaters and discuss about that how their cheating habit tease the others. In our daily routine we all face a lot of cheaters whom which we detect some but mostly do their job in a very tricky ways.
In everyday routine when we bought some milk from milkman he do not provide us pure milk . He add lot of water to increase the liters of milk. As we buy vegetables they cheat people while doing weight. they do not feel shame for their act. the peoples like milkman which we have discussed above take the risk at innocent peoples health fearlessly.
Even people do hoarding of wheat , sugar and other things when these thing are cheap and they have in excess. They do not follow the rules of government and sell these things when their cost value is high. they cheat the people as well as government .
"Our prophet Muhammad(PBUH) has said that the cheaters are not belong to us"
when we buy fruits some fruits sellers show fresh fruits to the customers but when he add fruits in a bag 2-3 days old fruits to the bag. they do this to earn profit but they forget that they have to show the face to Allah almighty .
Here I have some more examples like students do cheating in their exams they not only cheat their teachers they cheat their parents also . They could not realize that what their parents has face for them and when they realize the time has pass away. If an employ not do their job honestly he cheat her owner, when a person with his fellows go out and ignore all what his parents taught to him he cheat their parents and play with their trust without feeling ashamed .
Students while doing cheating did not realize what they are doing because of their mental age. they did not realize that they spoil their future and their parents effort.
when people says that they was not cheat others intentionally may be some true but mostly not so i must say that
**"cheating is a choice not a mistake"**
you all have face this situation in your life that sometime our friends decided to do something together but they do already without informing others to gain some good points. they want to come in the good books they cheat their friends intentionally not mistaken.
when a student do cheating he knows what he was doing but in spite of it he do .He cheat his parents and teachers intentionally.
when a milk man add water in milk he did it on choice not mistakenly. when a shopkeeper do cheating while weight balancing he did on choice not mistakenly.
I also face the cheaters once my college told me that the owner has allot a work of composing some files. I compose all the files and send her to check. she stop me from sending files to my owner and she send these files with her name and collect all the credit. I feel bad but its taught me a lesson that not trust too much on a stranger.
some time peoples not deceive or cheat others intentionally if they did this they were in trouble may be they were black mailed by someone. May be someone forced them to do this. not all milkman , all fruit sellers , shopkeepers and etc. are cheater may be they have some compulsions .
cheating is a sin but if you find the reason behind their act please try to solve their problem. If don't do this may be you push the person more towards the wrong direction.
In spite of all the above reasons I must says that,
cheating is a curse and if people cheat to others its on choice it's not done by mistakenly.
Thanks for reading .
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your attitude towards life is everything.
some peoples have goals in their life , have dreams in their life , some aims in their life. when they not fulfil their dreams, not achieve their aims and goals they feel broken. they feel disheartened.
the most people problem is that they have some goals and dreams they fearful about it, they hyped up about it but they not execute it . and I experience that when you not get what you want in your life you feel that your life is spoil. You have become hope less than you become addicted addicted to drugs, addicted to alcohol .you become a weirdest enemy of yourself.
whenever people not get their dreams, not appreciated by other as they desire they become frustrated .They sabotage their life, they sabotage their dreams and even they become the monster for yourselves .
one thing that I want to told you that never give up in your life . when you not achieve your aims try again until you got it. Make more efforts , seek guidance and continue to move towards your destiny.
sometimes people confused as they not know that what is wrong and what is right for them . As they cover whole path and at the end they realize that this path is wrong for them . Never give up , push yourself for step ahead and fresh start your journey towards the right path because life never stop and need struggle to gain more success in your life. if you look up on your childhood stories that spider tries many times to climb up on the wall and for every time he fall but the spider never give up and finally he climb up the wall.
Nothing is impossible in the world. Try again and again until you get succeeded in your life. may be once you failed but try again and you get succeeded for the next time.
your success demand struggle , hopes , believe in your self . believe in your self means keep trust on yourself while doing everything that you can do it.
People that have true belief that they can do what they want to do they become surely become successful in achieving their goals. Those who believe that they can do but also have some doubts on yourself they achieve their goals with 50% chances but the peoples that the people who don't believe on yourself they never be successful in achieving their goals. So, always keep trust on your self and never gave up.
Tries to touch the the sky .you have to keep on doing every thing that makes you a successor or a winner
**" you have to fly to the height of sky. If you Can't fly you have to ran faster. If you can't ran faster then you have to walk with fast steps . If you can't walk then you have to wriggle but never stop . As the life is the name of being continue and never ever to be stop "**
If you fail while doing one thing then try an other may be you have a hidden talent of doing the other one .
As your attitude towards life is very important....
Can our fate justify our destiny?
**Today me as a teacher it believes that our fate justify our destiny. whatever a person think about her own future , what happens to her is the only Allah that knows . Allah knows what is best for her.**
**If I told you about me, than you realize that what will happens to us is already is already decided and written in our fate by Allah. when I was in metric my parents have a dream to see me as a doctor in future and their dream is also my dream .**
**I have passed my matriculation examination with A+ grade and after that I decided that i have to become a doctor at any cost. Than I got admission in top college of city on scholarship after clear inter with first division I was preparing myself for entry test but after a great effort due to some reasons I have not been able to appear in this test and I got admission in bachelor of science .**
**On that day I literally do a fighting with my Allah that what he has done to me . I was totally hopeless . I was broken but due to support of my family I got good grades and apply for the master of science in the first year I got fourth position . I was very happy and do great effort to to maintain my position . finally I complete my degree and try to search some proper job according to my degree. I drop my cv in different institute . and one day i find an institute that hired me on the spot.**
**It was Friday and I start my job from Monday because Saturday , Sunday is off .**
**it was quite difficult job for me and while doing this job I realize that it was better for me that today I'm not a doctor. Today I'm proud to be a teacher , A good teacher , my head realize me that how much I am important for his institute. today I'm much confident , too much happy that my students like me , and they wants to become just like me . As a successful teacher I love my profession .**
**Now in these days , I realize that if I would be a doctor than I would not be a good doctor because I'm too sensitive and can't see any one in trouble.**
**Allah knows that I was not be able to become a good doctor so he wrote a better profession i.e. a teaching profession for me in my fate. As I do a fight with Allah what he has done to me but today I'm very thankful to Allah what he has done for me.**
**and now I believe that whatever we decided for our future no matter. the things happens to us is only that Allah wants and Allah wants better for us. He is the great well wisher of us and now I have a great believe that our fate justify our destiny and no one can change our fate except our prayers .**
**So, keep trust on Allah and keep praying for the best as we don't know what is best for us but Allah knows.**
**we don't know what's our destination but Allah knows.....so, always hope for the best and keep on praying for your better future.**
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Being a beautiful from Inside....
In my whole life experience, one thing that l feel is that we have to become beautiful from inside it is more important than we are beautiful from outside. Mostly the peoples are good looking and have charming personality but they are not beautiful from inside because they consider the others good for nothing.... today when i was travelling on the road a rich good looking man deriving a muricides car shout on the peoples for not clearing the passage because he was in hurry.
not all the good looking and charming peoples are beautiful from out side some people are beautiful from their heart, from their looks and especially have a beautiful soul. they are very sensitive they can't be able to see anyone in trouble and always ready to help others. some people not have charming looks even from their looks sometimes you afraid but when you talk to them, when you spent some time with them you find that they have a beautiful heart . They are beautiful from inside . they deserve our attention and our goodness . They are in complex that no one in the world like them but may be they don't know about themselves that a person with beautiful soul and heart always like them.
someone says to me ,
" A person with beautiful face always catches your eye but a person with beautiful soul will always rule on your heart or conquer your heat"
so always try to become ruler of people's heart by your good deeds because when you die you will be still alive in peoples heart by your goodness. live as the fireflies that enlighten the path of traveler when there is darkness all around .
glow always with your goodness without thinking that how the others react with you because God always knows what you are doing. As the fire flies glow in the darkness always and we have to react like a fire flies to make the others feeling happy by our goodness.
your are good to others its your quality so justify yourself with yours qualities.
A woman with beautiful soul is more brighter than the stars of heaven. if your kind to others the others are kind to you.
In simple words being a good person is more important than being a beautiful. beauty from inside is the real beauty.
**I always found a lot of people in my life that are my fire flies. one of them is my parents they always make me happy whenever I'm sad, they guide me towards the right direction.**
**they never ever let me in trouble . I always see their beautiful side not only for me but also for others. they are the glowing fire flies of my life.**
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