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Hello beautiful people!

I hope you all are doing fine amidst of the shortcomings and uncertainties we may feel day by day. Always remember that a positive life is a happy life. ✨

@dziefem tagged me on her latest article Emotionally Taken. It is to do a challenge about answering some questions that she herself picked from Questions and Singles that was initiated by @Eylz2021. It is actually some questions about why a person is still single and the like. So let me take my side if I will be asked with such questions. You may agree on this or you may not.

Isn’t there someone you at least like?

They say that if you do not feel like liking someone you are not normal, for me it is still normal. You cannot force anyone to like just anyone because they say so. It is their choice, so get out of it. In my case, I am liking someone right now. We are actually trying to know each other well. I mean, yes we are enjoying each other's time, I guess?

Are you having a lot of casual flings?

I never tried having such. I mean, way back I used to enter to relationships that I thought will work. I do not want to just settle for less now. I can easily fall in love with someone, so having a fling will not work for me. I may end up having a one sided love. And that's not easy. You will move on from a person that never been yours.

Are you thinking of talking to your ex again?

No. But I am friends with them. I mean, can exes be friends? I guess so. We're casual. If there's just something important to ask about, I never hesitate to message the person. Why not? I just need to ask something that that person is the only one who can answer. Then after such, end of business. No more, no less.

Are you opening yourself up to love?

Yes. But before that, some of you may read already about my previous article I just cannot, for now. It is actually about my reasons why I cannot enter to any relationships. But for now, I realized why not? We cannot control our feelings, nor we cannot fake it. The more we deny, the more it will get deeper. Then once it will get deeper, you will be drown by it that you will be having a difficulty on getting off from it.

You’re such a catch! How are you not taken yet?

Am I really even a catch? I mean if I am really is, then what? Not because I am a catch does not mean I need to be in a relationship right away. Relationships is not only because you two does love each other, but for some reason it is a choice. Because what if love will be lost? Are you just going to run away from it, or you will choose to stay instead and work for it? Well for me, there's no such thing as falling out of love, and even if there is, then maybe it is really not love at all.

Jumping into a relationship is not easy as one two three. It is a risk you need to take. Choosing to be in such because it is what the society is telling you, and the pressure you have around is a no no. It is not a race that you need to be in. It will never be. Anyhow, if you are destined to be in a relationship, then for sure you will be. With the right person, at the right time. Just enjoy being single. No pressure. Love yourself first. Complete yourself first. Be happy first without depending that happiness from someone. They say, there's lot of fish in the ocean that one day, you gotta catch a good one.

That's all for today beautiful people. I hope you enjoyed reading my article for today. If you have any thoughts and take away about this piece, feel free to leave it in the comment section below. Let's interact. Stay safe always! Xoxo ✨☺️

- MissJo πŸ’œ

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there's a time for everything..so soon basin naa na na miss jo.hehe

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3 years ago

Yaay! Puhon. πŸ’— Saktong panahon.

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3 years ago

madali ako mainlab, huling inlab ko sa makadiyos ako napunta. ayun nagin taken tuloy ako

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3 years ago

There will always be a time for everything e. Happy for you. πŸ’— Stay strong kayo! πŸ€—

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3 years ago

Ako din madaling mainlove kaya parang ayoko na lang kasi selosa pa ko, stress na malaki yan hehe

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3 years ago

Ay so true din talaga hahaha same here sis.

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3 years ago

Madali ka lang pala mainlove Sis 😊 pero hindi ka naman siguro madaling bolahin yung mga Lalaki kasi ngayon konting bola bola lang nakukuha na nila damdamin ng mga babaeπŸ˜…

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3 years ago

Ay sis, parang ganon padin. Kaya iwas iwas talaga e. Mahirap na.

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I just need to ask something that that person is the only one who can answer.

How are you so sure, he is the only person that can answer?

Jumping into a relationship is not easy as one two three. It is a risk you need to take. Choosing to be in such because it is what the society is telling you, and the pressure you have around is a no no. It is not a race that you need to be in. It will never be. Anyhow, if you are destined to be in a relationship, then for sure you will be. With the right person, at the right time. Just enjoy being single. No pressure. Love yourself first. Complete yourself first. Be happy first without depending that happiness from someone. They say, there's lot of fish in the ocean that one day, you gotta catch a good one.

I love this other part the most..... Nothing can be compared to the radiance we exude once we begin to love and value others. 😊

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Hi Eddy. 😊 It is actually some question that I got to ask my ex for. Something that has to do with him.

And thank you that you love the last part. We really need to love ourselves first so that we can give the same love with others.

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It is actually some question that I got to ask my ex for. Something that has to do with him.

Oh ohk..... I completely understand

And thank you that you love the last part. We really need to love ourselves first so that we can give the same love with others.

Yes, once we love ourselves, we will be able to love the next person better.

Thanks 😊

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3 years ago

You are welcome. Is it okay that I'll call you Eddy? πŸ€—

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Yes, it's fine..... But I'll prefer Edy, if you don't mind 😊

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3 years ago

Well being in a relationship is a huge responsibility but it can wait ..No need to rush thing it just because other people say so..They don't have the right to dictate what you will do in your life.. Exes can be friends too ..why Not diba.. Dapat nga sila ung mga friends natin kasi nakilala na natin ugali nila...hehe.para sakin lang po.

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Hi Jher. Yes. I agree talaga e. No need to rush. Not a race tho. Correct! We can be friends with out exes as we know them na din. But we need to respect others on this matter din. And I agree with you on that.

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3 years ago

I like your answer that people use to say that opposite gender has attraction, If you not feel for someone, you are not normal and all. you are right its still normal condition. Not force anyone to like someone just because some peoples use to say the words like that. It should be our own choice. I like your school of thought.

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3 years ago

Hi there. Its good to hear that you agreed with my thoughts. I really do believe that we should not be pressured on what's around us. It should always be our choice if we wanted to do such thing.

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3 years ago

For a relationship to work, loving each other is not enough, I totally agree with you, loving someone or having a relationship is not a race or an Olympics, it is something that has to be assumed with responsibility and maturity, because it is not just having a partner, and now, it is dealing with all that this entails, great way to respond beautiful friend, greetings, happy

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3 years ago

Hi my friend. I totally agree with you. Jumping into relationship is more that just love. You are not dealing with yourself only, you have to think of your partner as well. That means, you really need to be atleast prepare. So no rush!

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3 years ago

Eyyy. From last week "I just cannot, for now" to opening up to love now. Yiiieeee. Hahaha. And yeah, you're such a catch but of course, not necessarily to be taken duuuh haha. The right time will come.

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People change, you know? Hahahaha and because of the karupukan na din yarn. πŸ₯΄πŸ€£ Pero yes, right time will come. πŸ˜‰πŸ’—

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Yeah, I know. Hahaha. Aigoo buti ako hindi marupok. πŸ˜‚

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Oh, edi sana all. Sana all hindi marupok! 🀣

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Itutor kita, friend? πŸ˜‚

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3 years ago

Aigooo, ayan na naman yang tutor tutor na yan. 🀣

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3 years ago

Tinuod mam dghan pang isda nga mag kapa2 maong mamili jod ug maajohon pra way mahay2. Sakto ng imo, di mag dali2 hehe

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3 years ago

Dili gyud. Kay ang bali sa dali, ilad. 🀣

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3 years ago

Aguyyyy hahaha maong pamili jod ug tarong nga isda

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3 years ago

Oo kanang lamion na isda hahaha

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3 years ago

Being in a relationship is never easy. Importante jud te nga akong na learn kay dapat kabalo jud ka mag blance and kanang love yourself gyapun jud.

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3 years ago

Trueeee! Kay ug love ma gyud nimo imoha self gyud kay di ka masakitan pag ayo. Kay wala may mawala nimo.

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3 years ago

Exactly ateee

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3 years ago

πŸ’—πŸ’—

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3 years ago

Josepennnn, bat walang tag dun sa ano dun sa ano. Nang aano kayo ee, nakakaano lang talaga kayo. Wahahaha.

Ehh, madali ka pala ma in love. Ako madali ako magka crush, pero pag andun na wala ng gana. Wahaha, kaya fling fling lang sakin. Landers to the max ba. Huehue.

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3 years ago

Ano ba yang ano na yan ate. Nakaka ano yan ah. Hahahahaha

Ayaw ko talaga ng landi landi lang ate e. Mahina ako. Marupok. Inlove agad. Jusme! Sana all ate kagaya mo, how to be you foo? Huehuehuehue

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3 years ago

Basta ung ano, isipin mo nalang na ano yong ano nya diba. Wahaha.

Haha, pag alam mong may nararamdaman ka na, ee di hanao ng panibago ulit ahaha. Baka lumala talaga ee talo ka pag ganyan

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3 years ago

Anong ano niya ate? Ano ba yaaaaan? Hahahaha

Hala, grabe naman yung hanap agad. Sana ganon kadali. Charot! Pero bat parang natakot ako bigla sa pag lumala eh talo na? 🀯😱😭🀣

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3 years ago

Bwahahaha balakajan wahaha

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3 years ago

Love yourself first. Dont rush, Love will come unexpectedly in the right time.

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Hi Mhy. Yes I am loving myself firs and no pressure at all. Thank you. πŸ’—

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Marrying someone is not a simple decision... You have to think thousands time before being in relationship.. One bad decision can ruin whole life.

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3 years ago

Agree. Super correct.

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3 years ago

Sakto Jud ka mamsh dli Dali dalion pero dli sab isirado Ang kaugalingon.

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3 years ago

Truth. Better safe than sorry.

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3 years ago

Basta pag si V ang nanligaw sakin. Single no more na. πŸ‘ŒπŸ˜‚

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3 years ago

Sakiiiiiin nalang si V, please! πŸ™πŸ€£

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3 years ago

Hahahaha bawal! 😏

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3 years ago

can exes be friends? Pwede Naman. Tama ka. Yung casual lang. No bitterness ganon.

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User's avatar Yen
3 years ago

Dibaaaa ate? Maturity lang talaga e.

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3 years ago

Yes hehe

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User's avatar Yen
3 years ago

Ipopost ko na din ata akin bukas HAHAHA andami na nagpopost neto ah. naglabasan na mga single ngayon aba πŸ˜‚πŸ˜­

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Hahahahhahaha singles invading read cash

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It’s ok to be single. For me the relationship has to bring in something which makes my life better than it is when I’m single and that’s not an easy task πŸ˜‰

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Agree as well. But if a person is not yet ready, better be prepared. Thank you for passing by. πŸ’—

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3 years ago

Just posted mine too 🀣🀣 Gawa na kya tyo ng club 🀣

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3 years ago

Samahan ng mga single ba ate? 😭 hahaha

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3 years ago

Halaaa true ba? Check ko nga entry mo ate hahahaha. Arat na, "The Challengers" 🀣🀣

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LR manubag akong bibii uy, iba jud basta naay experience. πŸ’—

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3 years ago

Kaayo dhai..LR jud ma nosebleed gani ko.shene ellπŸ˜…

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3 years ago

Sana all jud kaayu ate

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3 years ago

Hahahaha jema ra na mii. 🀣

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ahhhh sus, asang jemma ba? Haha

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3 years ago

Jemaaaa ra gyud mii hahaha

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3 years ago

Pastilan jugma lageh oyyyy

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Hahahahahahhaha gitubag ra nako mga pangutana te

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You cannot force anyone to like just anyone because they say so.

Correct. Ang hirap pilitin yung sarili mo na gustuhin yung taong dimo naman talaga gusto

But for now, I realized why not? We cannot control our feelings, nor we cannot fake it.

True kahit ayaw mo pa kung yung puso mo naman ang may gusto wala kang magagawa. If idedeny mo mas lalo lang lalala

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3 years ago

Relate ka ba mars? Hahahaha

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3 years ago

Don't rush. πŸ‘Œ

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Rush guard. Hahaha Hi Ly! πŸ˜‰

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I thought I fell out of love before but I just realized nalinga rakos lingaw ug barkada without realizing nga ang sakto nga tao gitalikdan naho. Hahaha! Char oy

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3 years ago

Aigoooo hahaha muabot gyud ta ana nga time sad siguro ay. Haven't tried pa gyud nuon nga na fall out love nako.

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3 years ago

Wa man sija pod nuon na fall out of love. In fact bisan nasakpan ko nija naay ka fling2 lain ni fight gihapon sija pero mao lge to, i feel like na hog kos mali nga desisyon

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Ayyy sana all mamsh ipaglaban. Me can't relate. πŸ₯΄πŸ€£

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3 years ago

Hahaha kapoy drama mem

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3 years ago

Truth. Kapoy gyud kaayo.

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