People Will Use You as long as You Let Them.
Date: 17th April, 2022
SundayThe day is the black day in your life when you found yourself alone among in the crowd. Too many people walking around you and no one eager to make any sense to you. How can you get rid of that when many questions are surrounding in your head? The person you know, suddenly turns into a biggest mystery. You found yourself being used for other's pleasure, for other's rise, for other's success. Life changes at that moment when someone drop you out of nowhere. You feel angry, sad, jealous and mad because you, my friend, you have being used for a purpose and in the end, no body gives any attention to you anymore.
Hello family, what's up? Good to be back here. I hope your days are going well. My prayers are always with you. What is going on my mind is absolute rage and I'm sad too. When suddenly you see that people used you as a stair to rise up, you feel uncomfortable. That's what I'm feeling. No reason to calm down as I personally feel that it is not right and I must ask for the reason. I should ask, right? I must question the reason of it. Well, it is a long story & I don’t want to share the entire story with you all people. Someone will get offend with that. Let it remain like that way.
People use you for their own benefits. When they don’t know nothing, they seek your help. Your help was the first step of their rise. They understood it & then they start using you as their lift to rise. Their innocence behaviours are completely fake with zero feelings inside. After reaching their destinations, they will never see you again. They start ignoring & then you realize that you have been used.
Why People Use You
When people around you, start thinking to use you as a promotional way, your worth becomes classless. Their emotions and feelings for you becomes a total selfish act. Maybe at first you do not understand their perception. But sooner or later, the truth reveals their nastiest desires. You go completely shocked. How easily they walk around you all along these times, using you as their success bait! Everything becomes clear then. Their sweet words to impress you were nothing but the illusion which made you believe that how caring they were to you. The first thing that would come to your mind after knowing the truth is slapping them. But I suggest you not to do that. Keep the anger inside. Let it burn you but not them. Why am I saying so? Come with me.
Let the Fire burn
Even through the darkest days, the fire burns, always and let it burn. This feelings is completely yours. Let it burn you but not them. When you find out the actual reason of their acts, hold the anger. You just have your lessons and this fire will forbade you to fall in another situation like it. It is human nature that we forget things easily. This burning fate will never let you trust these types of people who use others as their bait to rise. Just make a distance from them and never trust them in life.
Maybe you people are thinking why I'm saying so. I personally found someone who did that so. I was super angry but like I said, I controlled my anger. Why should I waste my anger on that person? That one doesn’t even deserve my single emotions too. Thanks to Almighty that I knew that person’s intense earlier. I'm good now but I'm not forgetting anything.
Well, that’s all for now. I hope you understand my concerns about it. Don’t let anyone disrespect your honour. People can't use you. They have no authorities. So my friend, chin up. You are not letting you down by allowing those advantage takers in your life anymore. Always remember, people will use you as long as you let them.
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Thanks for being with me.
©Lucifer01
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