Marriage is a part of our life, but we have the choice to go for it or to live our life alone; to focus serving in church or to focus taking care of your love ones. It's not about a race that you should push yourself, but a decision that you must think multiple times.
Today's article is to show how important love is in marriage life. So if you're not yet in this point of life, make sure to always pray to God about this, as He is the best author and director of our love life.
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Story of an Hour is a Contemporary Literature written by Kate Chopin in 1894.This depicts about the modern marriage life, which Mrs. Mallard the main character represents. I actually read this twice, as this kind of work uses a lot of imagery.
The story begins when Josephine and Richard, told Mrs. Mallard about the death of her husband due to train accident. Mr. Mallard wept and filled with sadness, and went to her room. When she's already alone in the room, she stop crying and felt relieved. The sadness turns to joy, thinking that the death of her husband means freedom. But on the last part of the story, when Ms. Mallard went out the room, her husband went home like there's is nothing happened, and confused what's going on. Mrs. Mallard was shocked, fell down and had a heart attack, which the doctor said, "died of a heart disease - of the joy that kills".
Would you think that Mrs. Mallard was really happy seeing her husband? Or discourage about the change of plot?
I am still a student, and marriage is not yet in my vocabulary, but why I came up with this topic was because some of my friends already entered this and end with frustration.
I have this friend whom I haven't meet again after we finished Grade 7, he transferred in different school and our communication was gone. After 6 years I saw him again in the city carrying a baby. I was surprised to see him, and then he show the baby, saying that it was his child. In a distance there was a beautiful girl that he point out, saying that it was her wife. I'm really happy for him because of that, and we say farewell and never meet again.
Recently, he chat me and asked how's my life going on, we are just chatting funny things until we came up into his marriage life and then he said that they already broke up because the girl cheated on him. The new guy is rich and have a business, which he think why his ex-wife chose to be with. Now he was so sad, since his ex-wife get the baby and stay away from him.
If you have read @King_Gozie's article I Got A Crush On You And This Is Your Test, He mentioned about setting a standard, reality of love and self-love. In this article I leave a comment saying how important setting a high standard is.
And thank you Sir, that you appreciate my thought about your article.
At last, what I want to convey is to choose wisely who are you going to marry someday. Don't waste your time and effort for someone who doesn't deserve you. While for those who are married already, I would like to send my prayer for a more fruitful, blessed and full of love journey of your marriage life.
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Author's love message :
Hello lovely readers! How was your day?
I would like to say sorry for not visiting your articles because I had my second dose of vaccination yesterday and I need to take a rest. I will visit your articles when I'm fully fine. Thanks.
GOD Bless. Hugs!
Ps. Thank you for those who've mentioned me, I will visit your articles later. I really don't feel good for now:)
October 5, 2021
-Ling
ako nga nauna ang pag anak before na kasal. eh kasi naman ang covid nakaka delay ng plans.