Happy Birthday Myself!
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Before I'm going to start this content , I wanna say thank you to all who greeted me in the blog of beautiful and sweet sister, my bff. And also to our Beloved God The Father In Heaven. Thank You for giving me another Year of My life. Another journey to face.
Heartfelt Happy Birthday Wishes to Myself
Wishing and celebrating our birthday is not a bad idea. Birthday is the most special day in anyone's life. Like we celebrate any other event, birthdays are also celebrated with warm wishes and messages from friends, family, and love ones. But it is a more special day when it's our birthday.
It is with great pleasure that I am here to celebrate another year of my life. I am grateful for surviving all the challenges throughout the last 365 days and turning 30 years old today.
This birthday of mine is so special because it's the first time that I've been surprised, yeah! It's my first time that a person who I love, gives a surprise celebration to me. I didn't expect that he would because he is busy with his work and also far from me, but he did. Thank You Baby ko @BitterSalt29 for the surprise even if you are busy but you still give time to me. I never expect that you came home today just for me. I'm so happy baby ko for always being there by my side, for your unconditional love even if I'm moody sometimes, hehe. I'm happy that I meet a man who truly loves me, appreciates the things that I achieve. You are always a positive, sweet, and caring man who always thinks of me.
This morning I called him. (This is our daily routine. I'm his alarm clock although sometimes I'm late to wake up and make a call to him). Then he told me that he have an early meeting. I'm waiting for his call if the meeting is done. He did call me at around 11 am. So we talk in a few minutes. After that, He chatted with me that he had another meeting in the afternoon and told me that he didn't know if when the meeting should be done. I was here in read.cash replying messages and comments to another member here then around 2 pm I chatted him if his meeting is done, he replied that he was still there in the meeting room. Later someone knocked on my room. I look for who was it and when I open it, it's his niece with a wide smile. The next one I see is no other than "my baby ko". I cried because I thought that he would not come home. I thought he will be home tomorrow. He hugged me and said you never expect that I'm going home right? You know how special you are to me and you know how much I love you. I'm busy but I will give time for your special day.
I cried with tears of joy. Finally, I meet a man who is always there by my side. A man who loves me unconditionally respects me, cares for me, and always understands my moody mood.
Baby ko, thank you so much for everything. I'm happy with your effort. Even if I already told you that I'm ok without celebration. Having you and healthy life too makes me happy already. I don't mind celebrating, you are enough for me. But you did, thank you and I love you so much baby ko.
He cooked a simple but full of love which is pancit bihon and also chicken joy. You know how much happy I'm am today.
To God, Thank you always for guiding me and also to all people who are part of my life that they are all safe. Thank you for your unconditional love for us. And also for giving me another year, another journey of my life.
Struggle's in life
*We have many problems in life that we face now and then. It's part of our life to be strong and have faith in God all the time. Our life is not forever in this world. all we need to do is be happy and enjoy the beauty of life. I know sometimes problem are hard to face or hard to find solution but we need to remember that every problem there is a solution.*
*The one problem we face is a financial crisis for people that don't have business or no income and no work . It is very hard to find where you can earn money in this time of pandemic, where you start finding a job, where to find a new business that will grow .We all suffer now because of this pandemic mostly of us , but I know we can find a solution for it*
*Next is unfair treatment , yeah its part of our struggle in life now , because some of the people are looking for the status of a person , I know not all are like that but sad to say mostly and its reality. This pandemic we can see who is real one and who is not real [ true color of a person]. You will notice that mostly of a people around you are ok if you have money , yeah mostly and not all, because I know there is good person too , most persons knows how poor persons feel or a person have to face the same problem.*
*Some change for better but some for the sake of their own life. This pandemic we struggles a lot of problem but all of this is part of our life to remember that God is there and remember us that our life is precious , so we must enjoy life of what we have, always remember YOLO [ you only leave once] so enjoy every moment of your life .Sometimes we forgot how we are lucky to be part of this world. From the beginning when our mother and father are making us we are millions in competing each other but luckily we won that competition and now we face many problems and we forget that we must enjoy and treasure every time, minutes in our life ,because this life is just temporary , all of us will die*
*Remember that problems is part of our life , for us to remember him [GOD], That he is always there , even we didn't ask he knows already what is our problem . He's just waiting for us to ask help from him and we forget it, because we forget of talking to or praying asking for forgiveness and I'm one of it, sometimes when I've face difficult situation I give up and didn't notice or remember him that he is always there for us , he is waiting for us to ask him for help. And I'm happy that he never left all the time.*
*Many people change in their attitude's , we can't judge them because this pandemic most people suffer or have struggles in life* .
*Challenges makes life interesting, overcoming them is what makes life meaningful*.
*Life its too short to wake up with regrets. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life , let it. Nobody said that life would be easy , they just promised it would be worth it*.
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*Thank You* !
Seeking a future partner in life
What kind of partner are we gonna choose?
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As a woman , we have different qualities that we are looking for in me. There are many kinds of men we meet in our life but there's only one who will have that certain characters that we want and would surely captured our heart.
Again , because some women also have different wants / needs for a man; some women are just simple by standard and some women are delicate in choosing their future partner.
***Kinds of a man that are we looking for;***
A man who never lets you forget how much he loves you. If he truly loves you, you will feel and know it.
A man who always supports you. He will never discourage you and he will be beside you every step of the way, cheering on your victories and comforting you during your tough days.
A man who will always inspire you. Takes effort and encourages you that you can do it, that you can achieve it no matter how hard it is.
A man who will work to gain our trust. He will make you comfortable and confident in your relationship. Your trust must be earned and will be kept. Without trust there is no for foundation for love and respect.
A man who will always make you feel beautiful. It means that he truly makes you feel beautiful in the way he looks at you, touches you and treats you.
A man who will make you feel safe.
A man who understand the word action . Action speak louder than words. He will keep his promise to deserve your respect.
A man that will open up to you , no matter how difficult it is at least he expresses his emotion , innermost desire and fears in life to you. And he will not hide things from you knowing it will cause tension and frustration on both side.
A man who will always be honest to you, which can build a foundation for a happy and healthy relationship.
A man who will stand by you in good times and not-so-good times. There will be challenges and unexpected situation that comes, he will stay by your side and be your teammate through it all.
For this year in my life I found a man who I want to be my future partner until the end. I don't care about the physical appearance but his personality . I accept him for who and what he is.
Physical appearance is just the looks/outer beauty while personality is the inner beauty that refers to mindset and character.
That's All!
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High School Love
First Year High School
By the way high school is very memorable to me , where I have lot of friends and also crushes, hehe its true and not just a crush but also high school sweet heart.
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**Here's My story;**
It's my first day of school I meet a guy who's name is Jerson , he told me that he meet me before and he wrote my name in their desk at school for him not to forget my name but sad to say I didn't met him or even talk to him before. I don't know where he got my name . By the way we came from different school. And its the first time that we met each other.
Crush is a burning desire to be with someone who you find very attractive and extremely special.
Many of them start of dating and courting , but me that time is my first time to talk with other people because I'm a shy type girl . hehe. One time there's a guy name Peter who wrote me a love letter .
**Peter** : ***Hi beautiful girl , your my sunshine in my life and an angel comes from above, first time I saw you , my heartbeat is like a drum it beats faster and faster*****.**
**Me** : ***Who you! wala akong time sa mga pambobola nyo.***
**Peter** : ***Sa tingin mo nanbola ako , sa ganda mong yan maka pambola ba ako, I'm honest , cross my heart totoo lahat ng sinabi ko nung una palang kitang nakita tumibok agad ang puso ko.***
Si ako naman kilig din, haha, char ! So that's the start of our cummunication with each other . Every breaktime he gives me love letter and asking when I accept his feeling to me. That time I'm hard to get charr ,I'm just testing if he is true for what he said. And one day he there again asking for accepting his love.
**Peter** : ***Kelan mo ko sasagutin , pwedi mo ba ako sagutin ngaun . Bigyan mo naman ako ng chance na ma prove sayo kung gaano ako sa sincere sayo******.***
Me : ***Ok sige if yan gusto mo sige bigyan kita ng 1 week contract , If you past ok try natin ituloy If hindi ibig sabihin nun maghiwalay na tayo. Ano deal?***
**Peter** : *ahmmmmm, 1 week lang ,ok deal.*
So this is it he started courting me every time we are on campus only because I have a strict uncle and he knows it from the start. And so we dated for almost a month and the saddest time is comes when someone talked to me about him and I consult him about it and then I said to him we will end our relationship, he cried that time and I feel that is the right thing to do even if its hard for me too , because he is good guy and also caring one. And the year end he transfer to other school, his cousin guy told me that Peter is hurt with our break up and that's the reason he transfer to other school. I felt sad because its not my intention to hurt him but I want him to solve first the problem .I want him to face it first but he transfer to other school , I felt sad but its ok we must move on .
Second Year of high school life
Fast forward. There is a new guy which is always saying to me every time I pass in there room.
**Guy** : ***Hi chiks pwedi manligaw, pssstt lingon ka naman .***
His friend is there to cheering on him and said "heyyyyy ". In first time I'm just ignoring it and didn't give attention to them but one time I sat in the bahay kubo with my friend ,back side of the campus which is near to there window where he can saw me.
**Guy** : ***Hi gwapa , pwedi manligaw huyoo,Kunting smile naman jan.psssttt! gwapa !***
One of my classmate ask him if who he refer to that gwapa , and he replied the girl with pink dress. my classmate told him about my name and said to me that ,
**My classmate** : ***Oiii! Gwapa daw oh ! lingon ka naman kahit kunti . May gwapo oh laging kang tinawag pansinin mo naman girl. haba ng hair oh.Oiii...***
**Guy** : ***Gwapa hi, pwedi manligaw*** .
As I heard it the way he said that I feel kilig then . Charr! I'm waiting to him to talk to me if he truly mean what he said , I feel crush to him too he is prince charming in there level. Intrams day where I'm one of the muses on that event . when it almost over which one the judges announce who is the school campus muse, I heard my name on first I ignore ,and one of my classmate call me to get the reward which is a bouquet of a flowers , that time only bouquet of flowers they give . And my eldest sister won in 10 meter run too. congrats to her. After that event when I saw a banner where they put my name as a muse of school campus and guess who is my prince the guy who is always calling me "gwapa ", his name is Jonard, kilig ang girl .Char!
He saw me again walking in front of our room and he said ;
**Jonard** : ***Hi gwapa congrats.***
**Me** : ***Thank you***!
We never been a lover that time because there is a girl Gen who is in love to him ,one of my classmate and one of the friends of the girl told to Jonard that the Gen has crush on him, that's it they been dating .And happy to them even if my heart hurt hehe char! but its ok. its just a crush or what they called puppy love haha .
So fast forward I meet a guy name Reymond one of Jonard's friend , he give me a love letter
**Reymond** : ***Hi I'm Reymond one of your lover , sana pansinin mo ko , at bigyan mo ng chance na manligaw sayo. Totoo yung feeling ko sayo sana may chance pa ako sayo .***
**Me**: ***Getting to know muna tayo para naman mas makilala kita ng lubos. makaka antay ka naman siguro?***
**Reymond :** ***Oh sure , basta hayaan mo lang ako na ihatid ka pag uwi mo .***
**Me** : ***Sige pero ayoko na makita ako ng tyohin ko baka magalit.***
**Reymond** : ***Ok sure.***
So he start courting me and the time came I said yes to him its almost a month I think . Almost 6months of dating and got break up too .I have 2 suitors after that break up but I didn't mind them until in 3rd year high school. Nutrition month event I'm the representative that time, then I got award best in costume . After that event when I'm going home some one call my name , guest who, my crush in second year , charr!. Then he ask if he join me and I said "yes" . So we are talking many topics until he open a topic which make me kilig char!.
**Jonard** : ***Pwedi ba ako manligaw sayo ulit.***
**Me** : ***But ako marami naman girl jan ah. Sila nalang ligawan mo.***
**Jonard** : ***But mo ko ipapasa sa iba if ikaw naman gusto ko, dati pa.***
**Me** : ***Seryoso kaba talaga oh nambola ka nanam sakin ?***
**Jonard** : ***But naman ako mambola sayo , ikaw nga tong hindi ako pinansin , dati pa nga ako nanligaw di mo ko sinagot***.
**Me** : ***Malay ko ba if seryoko ka nung time na yun, at saka naging gf mo nga si Gen diba! So anong nangyari at naghiwalay kayo?***
**Jonard** : ***Nasa manila na sya, nilayo ng magulang baka daw kasi masira ko pag-aaral nya kaya ayon , nakipag hiwalay sya sakin , ayaw ng parents nya na mag jowa while ng aaral.***
**Me** : ***ahmm ganun vah. Tika parang lumapas ka na ng daan ah , di ito yung daan pa uwi sa inyo.***
**Jonard** : ***Maya na ako uwi , tulungan muna kita dalhin ng mga gamit mo.***
When we almost near our house I told him to go home , Its almost 5 in the afternoon. But he refuse , he said there is a condition he will go If I will said yes to him. And I said that he should give me a time to think about of it, but he refuse again. I don't have any choice but to say yes .But this time no more escourt when I go home , he agreed. So we are dated only in school and a month passes again we break up . But sad to say after our break up , he stop schooling don't know the reason and I never see him again.
I'm happy to have more friends and have a lot of memories too.
That's all
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Once again I wanna Great my sister @BCH_LOVER a HAPPY 28th BIRTHDAY . On this special day , May you always knows how much YOU'RE loved By so man people specially me . Wishing you an extra special and birthday and exciting year! Thank you for being such a great sister. I love you always sis , More Blessings to come.
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Childhood
My Childhood Memory
when I was a child, I think that time I remember I was 5years old I live in my grandma [nanay -mother of my father] house, but sad to say I feel that she didn't care about me.
By the way, we are 5 siblings in the family and I'm the 3rd one.
When every time I'm going to school before 1 peso is big enough for our allowance. But when I'm asking my grandma [nanay] for my allowance she always tells me that she has no money left. While my brothers and sisters have their allowance . In my mind there's a question why every time I'm asking for my allowance she always tells me no more money left. But to my brothers and sisters she always gives them allowance . Do my grandma [nanay] loves me? When I have some savings on my piggy bank she always take my savings without my permission . I have a saving before because when my father got home from the city all the money he give to me I will put all of it on my piggy bank. once in a moth month my father visit us in our grandma's [nanay] house, its because he is busy with his work that time.
My Birthday comes
When its my birthday there's always no celebration but for my siblings they always have. I understand that because I know we don't have enough money for it, but I also feel sad slightly, I feel jealous. When I decided to come to my grandma's [lola-mother of my mother] house which near to my grandma [nanay] house, I told to my grandma [lola] and to my auntie about what happen and I cried, because I feel that I'm not belong to them or she didn't like me I think .
So my grandma [lola] and my auntie told me that " don't worry we are here for you, we love you , don't mind what your grandma [nanay] did to you. And they decided that I'm gonna stay with them, so that its I stay with them.
Graduation day of my eldest brother
When that graduation day come [elementary], my auntie told me that I should come and make picture with them and also be part of what ever they gonna do, so I said ok I will be there.
So after I finished all my my duties on house hold chores I left the house and go to the graduation ceremony, but I have have doubt in my mind, what if they ignore me or telling to me that I'm not part of it. But I continue to walk until I see them going home talking and eating bread that time I see them laughing while eating a bread walking in the road, I decided to go the deep wheel near the road just to hide my self to them because I don't want to interrupt them having fun, and I pretend that I didn't see them, I just vowed my head and washed my feet and also drink water. Then I saw my brothers and sisters coming to the deep wheel water to wash their feet , I felt shy that moment I can't say anything even hi to them , I feel uncomfortable .Until they left me on the deep wheel .
After they are gone I continue to walk and decided to go to school even if the ceremony is done, while walking my tears goes down I can't hold it I felt that I don't belong with them. When I been there in the school ground I sat near the stage and cry until my auntie notice me crying, she comes and sat beside me asking why I'm crying what happen , I told her everything and she cried to ,and said to me don't worry I will buy you a bread , stop crying , don't waste your your tears remember were always here for you.
My Graduation Day
This is it, my graduation day in elementary. But before that graduation day comes I decided to come in my nanay's house because I want to borrow some of the nicest dress that my sisters wear it .
My two sister is knowledgeable, they are honor student, always have medal and ribbon while I have nothing .
When I told to my nanay's about the dress that I'm gonna borrow for my graduation day , she refuse and said to me " No , you cannot wear it because you are not honor student, when I heard what my grandma [nanay]said I felt really bad , so I ran away with tear in my eyes.
I told to my lola and to my auntie about what my nanay told to me, they comfort me and said its ok , next time I will buy a nice dress ,don't worry. On graduation day I'm just wear a simple t-shirt and skirt, and guess who is there escorting me, not my lola and not my auntie but my nanay , even if my auntie is there , they decided not to escort me because my nanay is there.
I'm so blessed and thankful to have a lola and my auntie who is always there to support and loving me. I grow up with them until I finished high school.
AND THATS ALL FOR NOW.
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Be fair when it comes of love to your grandchildren and also to your child, because they are part of your blood and also part of your family. What ever happen in the future family is always a family .
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Hello Everyone!
About Me!
Hi to all, and thank you for coming out this afternoon. My name is Miya. Before I begin to introduce myself, here is a a quote, "You are true success if you can trust yourself , love yourself and be yourself." To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.
I am simple woman that have a big heart and also have a big dreams in life. I want to have a simple and happy life together with my family. I have many problems that I encounter in my life, but having faith in GOD and always pray to him, nothing is impossible .
And I am happy that there is a person who comes into my life , who encourage me to be positive no matter how hard the problem is ,there is always a solution . This person is the one who comfort ,respect and love me for who I am, he didn't judge me for my past. He always encourage me to be the better person even if in myself I have doubt that I can't do it, I'm not a strong person to face any problem or circumstances in my life but he is there in my side comforting me and guide , and he told me ,"you don't need to be better for other, just be the right person for someone."
Pain will give you strength , the more painful it is the more stronger yo get.
What kind of person I am?
Friendly
I am friendly to all people around me ,even if they are not. Making friends is not miracle, the miracle is to have a friend who will stand by you when millions are against you. I'm not perfect but at least I'm not fake friend.
Good friends are hard to find ,harder to leave and impossible to forget.
What is my favorite?
I do love reading novels.
I love watching K-drama, love and magical movies.
I like to eat ice cream , chocolate, cake, mango float, and more sweet foods.
I like to travel in a place where is I can save memory with people I love.
How do I know read.cash?
My sister told me everything she knows. And as a beginner , its my time to explore something that I haven't done before and also observing now how these flat forms works, but I hope I can learn more knowledge here.
And also sharing my story , goals and making friends in here too.
This is all for now. Once again I'm miya . I'm from Philippines. Thank you for reading.
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Have a wonderful day to all!
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