The Alternative Good Side Of You

When you are upset you should not make important decisions, you should always try to think well what you are going to say, but there are moments when you do not control yourself and offend someone, there is no turning back, you must assume your responsibility, it is better to keep quiet.

Anger should be managed rather than stifled or ignored because it can provide us with information about what we want, what we don't want, and what we need to do next. “Is there a solution to what has already been done or from the impact of anger"?....... Sometimes we might be that lucky because what we didn't have a lot of impact and at that time we can go back to the person and say I'm sorry but what if what we did angrily cost a life what should we do

We can't choose the right thing once we get angry, sometimes we are going to be in a situation that we can not want to be. Our anger brings us to the point we say everything that we don't think it all I could was to regret it afterwards. We don't want it but it's still is it an ordinary feeling we felt when we were disappointed or someone do bad things to us.

I remember what a classmate said to me one time when I asked her if she could do something bad, she said she wouldn't know until she has been in a really messed up situation. Life problems and challenges can turn someone good into bad, and sometimes we might think we will never make the same bad decisions but we wouldn't really know until we are faced with the same challenges

I once read that character is what we are in the dark. Difficult situation or moment brings about the true behavior of people, although sometimes we all react irrational, whenever we do that we ought to apologize or redress the situation.

Just it's so sad that other people take advantage on your kindness. So I would say, that there are people who deserve your anger. But still, we should choose to be in the good side.

It's normal to flare up once in a while in annoyance but the rightful thing to do after realising your mistake is to apologise..

“Have you reacted too quickly before and you regret doing that?” Honestly, I have anger issues, I always try my very best not to blow out my anger because if I did, I couldn't control my anger anymore and I might say words that may sound too offensive to someone, that's why when I'm mad, I just stayed quiet and calm myself.

Beautifully said.

You have spoken with wisdom. We shouldn't be envious of other people's progress in life. Plus, we should be conscious about making the effort to grow in the direction of getting better.

We are who we are when no one is watching. Hence, we should reevaluate ourselves and reinstall a positive attitude and energy to life. Thanks for a wonderful read. Keep writing, boss.

You hit my conscience friend. I think I have to go meditate again so I could release my negative energy and get in touch with my higher self.

The side we feed always bury our other side deep down that sometimes it is difficult to raise it back to the surface. Always feed the good side as that's what gives the best impression. Control your emotions else they control you.

There are a hundred of instances where I regretted of reacting out of anger and feeling bad about it later... This has made me look like an enemy to a lot of people, but people who looked at me beyond my anger always tells good things about me.. so my mom always tells me to stay silent whenever I'm angry

Great peace of article it happens with me that as I am very emotional person I react on things very early and I have regret for that after but with the passing time I am learning and polishing my personality by overcoming such loops things

Thank you so much for this sir Gozie. Everyday is a chance to start a new something. There's always a hope. Anytime is a free time to change. We don't need to lock up ourselves into that side that worsen us. Find a ways to get out and trust yourself that you will make it right. God bless you sir Gozie.🙏

Your negative self will always be your worst enemy. Make sure to take control of it and don't let it out too often. Win over it.

Winning the dark side is not that tough as we think. As you said, we just need to allow ourselves to accept, heal and go with all the good things we have. Thanks for the dose of motivation.

Temptation is always there... everyone has their own good and bad sides, so temptation is always there to trigger our bad side it's up to us how we resist it.

I actually was like this but I intentionally ran away from it and it flew away...

Temptations, temptation, how to get away from you?! I learn a lot again from you, King. Thank you for this great message. Happy Sunday! 💗

Tapped a lot of knowledge from this... Is it necessary to react to everything that crosses your path? Not at all, there are times we just have to allow those things to pass by to avoid problems. if we care to retaliate, it might bring about more harm than good.... it's sucks! Isn't it better to stay back then?

Like I will always say, no one is too good and no one is too bad, you have your bad side and also the good side, but we should not allow the bad side to overshadow the good one.

"Ho! I'm going to show you the lion in me, I can't take it anymore" sr/br, you need to swallow your balls, if another tiger comes out, yours might not be able to withstand it. So why show the tiger/tigress when you can always walk away from trouble, a slight mistake can spoil your reputation.

You might be building a good reputation for years, but a minute of anger can destroy it in a blink of an eye...

“Have you reacted too quickly before and you regret doing that?” If you don’t feel a remorse over your mistakes, you are not ready for a solution to take place.. many union or relationships has ended because of easily angered party, he or she tries to bring you to understand it and you wouldn’t listen.. The more time spent, the harder it is to control you.. Everyone gets annoyed sometimes but the good side must always outweigh your bad to avoid complications.

Oh omg this is a very Aries trait to be honest. Sometimes it’s hard to control our temper and may blurt out hurtful words only to feel bad about it and regret it right away. However it’s hard to just take it back as well, and that’s what we should be able to learn to control

Personally I believe that everyone has a good character, good side. But things change when someone push them off their limits. Even a Lucifer was a fallen angel once.

That is why I always choose to be silent whenever I get angry. I don't want to utter bad words because once words be spoken, you can never get it back.

Greetings friend, before I was a very impulsive being, but with time I managed to control that and my life has gone wonderfully, I have saved myself a few fits of rage and disappointments too, have a nice day.

I used to having such a problem until I learnt to do things differently

I've always found it very difficult to control myself when you m confronted with such a demanding issues but your post have ensured I know how to handle it

I've always found it very difficult to control myself when such is trying or when such a situation of not been able to control myself is my case. I will work towards it when next I meet with situations like that

I've reacted too quickly that I've always come to regret my with begging for forgiveness as my only option in manyy many times my dear but I've always found it very difficult to control when such is trying or when such is my case. I will work towards it when next I meet with situations like that

I've reacted too quickly that I've always come to regret my with begging for forgiveness as my only option in manyy many times my dear.

Hmm thanks for this. I like that you mentioned prayers. Prayer does a lot of things in our lives.