Find Your Balance And Be Comfortable With It

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2 years ago

This is your life and you can get accustomed to a whole lot of things, you can live a life or a give a good life without you being a millionaire or having a mindset of making all the money in the world before you give yourselves or your kids or your family a good life.. If you cant help out now what makes you think when you get to being the richest person on earth that you'll be any better...

You will never know the impacts of your work, it doesn't matter how comfortable you are right now but the little satisfaction should get you through... there's a way God can turn around your life that will make you noticed immediately and unexpectedly everyone wants to know you and your art or your work..

You don't need to get too attached to what you see, as long as you are happy and you create a residual income or a passive income or a multiple streams of income then that should be enough to sustain you all the time.. what if you needed to be closer to your kids or your family for a reason and they are all really happy with you then why aren't you happy with what you do... to be a bread winner isn't as easy as the name implies because it takes all your time and it takes your attention too but you have keep your state of mind under control and move with care...

In one way, you feel you just don't do the most, but what if you’re creating a balance that is very suitable for you and your home.. Relating this to your home, if you've got children they would have to come first and if you've got other priorities they have to come first too.. You have to be in control of your schedule and don't make it look that bad that you then neglect the most important things in your life...

There are a lot of people here that go through a lot and still find time to blog, its not easy to maintain that balance.. but it's really for you to have an establishment because nothing lasts forever, so there's a feeling in our body's to start other things... but even if you do want to have this extra jobs, nothing must disrupt the usual. No one should suffer in your home because of what you do and your health should be affected in the process of having a lot of work to do..

You have the mindset that you have to go out and work and be gone all the time and be over worked and out 14 hours a week, but if you're that person that sets things in place you don't need a million to make a better home or a better life.. work within your capacity coz there will be several opportunities coming to you and you don’t have to ruin everything because of greed..

I'm not saying you shouldn't work or do any thing you do that brings in money, but build a balance.. learn to create time for yourself and family, create time for your kids and spouses, create time for the people that mean a lot to you or basically your loved ones, create time for God too and yes! you heard that right..

I get it that you when see people that earn 7 figures you equally want to be like them, its very attainable although may take so long but even while hoping and waiting don't neglect everything around you in pursuit for fame and glory...

There’s a step by step method to everything in life, one blessing or achievement before another.. if you run too fast there’s a tendency for you to loose your life in the process, your family and friends… Aspire great things, it will come through and even though you don’t have a family of your own to look out for how about yourself and your parents… The get rich quick platforms also known as ‘ponzi’ is an example of wanting to get money quickly as possible and in the process millions of money wasted…

Thank you all for reading, it’s just a little friendly advise to be careful and also be strategic in your goals and dreams… God bless you..

Happy weekend

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2 years ago

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Here we have a big problem, you can work as many hours as you want but if there is an inflation that eats everything, the possibility of reaching a few figures vanishes, which drives us to keep looking for improvements from other points of view, it is not easy at all, maintaining a balance like this is almost impossible.

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2 years ago

There’s always going to be a road block and it needs proper understanding before going into anything… creating balance is key

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2 years ago

Work life balance is the relationship between your work and the other important things in your life, If you feel like you have enough time for all of these things in your life, you probably have a good work-life balance. And when you have a good work-life balance, you’re more likely to have the mental and emotional energy to give your children the loving attention they need to develop, learn and thrive. A well-balanced family life can also help you enjoy life, manage stress and prevent burnout at work.

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2 years ago

Exactly.. boboyi this topic is already yours like, you have a special way of edifying a topic and adding a little story telling.. we must create a balance and that helps in keeping the home in order.. my neighbor was always out yearly and would return every Christmas holiday, he told me that his kid talks too much when he comes back then I chipped in something that hit him deeply… told him that he’s never been around when he’s son was quiet and he is always like that..

I think that was when he changed his job back ground

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2 years ago

The most important thing in life is family.. I have experienced it first hand myself.. I had been through so many issues and every time, only my Mom and husband came for the rescue.. so no matter how succesful we are, no matter how rich we aspire to be, we always need to find that balance for sure

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2 years ago

Exactly… we can’t except or omit the most important people on our lives. You will surely need them even in any advancement. Truly family is precious and we can’t go through life without them

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2 years ago

Doing all sorts of things to get money is not the problem, the important thing is that, are you able to balance everything or you're neglecting the important one to get the other one done.?

This is related to everyone, it's fine that you planning to become rich in life, and you combine a whole lot of work just to meet up, and as a family man, your family does not get your attentions anymore, your children don't even feel that fatherly love anymore and you're planning to be rich where there's a fire burning on your roof, if care is not taken , such a person might end up bitting the finger if regret and might end up not getting what he aspire for.

Everything should be done in a systematic way, no matter how busy you might be, you should be able to give your love one attention, the need, money is not everything , but they need that care and love.

The funniest and the bitter Truth a about it is that, working hard does not even guarantee someone to become a millionaire, common sense matters to make everything balance.

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2 years ago

To maintain and balance; I know it's not that easy but one thing for sure it's better for us. I'll mind this as always, thanks King.

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2 years ago

You’re welcome dear… it’s better to take things easy and maintain balance.. have a lovely Sunday

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2 years ago

The process shouldn't be rushed; life is all about stages after stages, hence we shouldn't live our lives based on other people's achievements.

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2 years ago

Very true Malcolm… we will get the chance to be who we are not when we fully have responsibilities.. greed comes into play..

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2 years ago

Yes this is true sir Gozie. We should know how to balance. Don't focus only in just one thing. Always remember there a lot of important things surrounded you. You need to give a time each one of it.

If you are not then you will ruin something important to you without notice since your mind only seeing on one thing. We should avoid this kind of behavior if you're not I'm sure at the end you will realize and regrets what have you done. You need to be responsible for everything who is part on you.

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2 years ago

We regret a lot of things later in life because we rushed so much on our path.. sometimes we have to really pay attention to the things and people under our care, will they be affected too… not after things fall apart that we realize that we’ve lost everything… God bless you Romona

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2 years ago

Yes indeed sir Gozie. We must be responsible who we are. Just take it slowly everything turns well. Just be mindful to the things surround you. God bless you too sir Gozie.🙏😇

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2 years ago

We need to spend some time with our family to make them feel loved this weekend... let's create time for them

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2 years ago

Exactly brother.. we must create time to spend with them, money isn’t everything…

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2 years ago

We should acknowledge our own mindset first. Then we should start doing something. Well said.

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2 years ago

Thank you..

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2 years ago

True words. When we see people that earn large, we would want to be like them and in turn, start to do all manners to meet up. It's good to work hard or to go extra mile but it's better if we find easiness in what we are doing. I must admit, the kind of work I'm doing now it's not worth it, it take absolutely all my time and things are not yet balanced. I'm trying my best to pull out and I know it'll happen soon.

When smartness is applied, the balance is assured

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2 years ago

I’m sure you will figure out how to but please try as much as you can to create time for other things as well.. this is not easy and even the Nigeria system is nothing good..

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2 years ago

There's no happiness in money but happiness is in satisfaction. Get more happiness by not focusing on impressing people around you, but find peace in yourself obeying your creator. Good job @King_Gozie.

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2 years ago

Thank you Omar.. you really said everything. There’s always happiness in satisfaction knowing fully well that you have people supporting you and you never left them…

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2 years ago

Find happiness and take care of your health. Got it :D

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2 years ago

Thank you Lee… our health and happiness is first in the picture we just not take these things for granted..

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2 years ago

Take it slow, slowly but surely - no need to rush things. You'll get there eventually just be patience and push your way to your goals.

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2 years ago

Exactly I agree with you dear… we will get there and we don’t want to arrive our destination with regrets or leaving people along the way… patience is key, thank you ate Ruffa

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2 years ago

learn to balance everything and just take it slow. If we do it day by day it will surely be achieved, no matter how slow the progress is, as long as you're appreciating things along the way you will get to the end of your journey or your goal. Don't rush everything, rushing something can lead to disappointments and failure waiting at the end.

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2 years ago

I love your contribution dear… it may take years to reach but we must not neglect the things we have, all that we’ve achieved and the loved ones who are dare to us.. and as well take things step by step thank you so much

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2 years ago

If we learn the lesson of hardworking in our mind and keep it alive than earn money is not big deal. Money come with passion and after get benefit of your abilities. We can do everything but keep our moral and determination keep alive. No matter what we are been through. But one day we would a successful person by keep working with full passion.

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2 years ago

I love what you write on keeping our minds alive and at peace and these happens with the little things or people who are always there supporting… in what ever goals we pursue we have to set things straight and carry everyone along as well.., thank you for your lovely contribution

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2 years ago

You are most welcome mate. But i think you lazy yo visit my articles lol 😏😀. I like to read good articles and you are come with good one.

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2 years ago

As they say, there is no shortcut to success. I have joined a lot of networking and lost money and friends so yeah. Small steps at a time, slowly but surely :)

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2 years ago

The number of times we fall into the prevailing things that come our way without proper studying is really a lot… it may take time but we are sure everything is set right.. I agree with you that it’s a step by step process

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2 years ago

Thanks for the advice... Slow and steady wins the race... We should go through the proper steps in life to achieve wealth... Well said friend...

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2 years ago

That’s right, it will take sometime but as long as we keep things in order we are at peace with ourselves… all we seek will come through..

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2 years ago

your mindest and your thoughs are appreciative

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2 years ago

Thank you so much for stopping by..

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2 years ago

What is money and all if you lose your family and self. I agree with all those things you said, balance is needed.

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2 years ago

That’s right.. money truly intoxicates and I see no reason why we will leave the things we ought to look out for all because of wealth.. it’s so sad, we really need balance..

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2 years ago

I agree we need to balance everything to be happy. Spending too much time on something may also have a negative effects.

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2 years ago

It will always have either a negative or positive effect, we must consider the options available.. and when it doesn’t fit that should tell us something…

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