I'm Single and I Love It

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Being single does not imply that you are unattractive or unpopular. It indicates that you have the patience to wait for what you deserve. While enjoying yourself as a single woman, take some time considering what you want your life to be and who you want to spend it with.

I have read @dziefem's Emotionally Taken article, which was all about being single. Since we're both single, I can relate to some of her remarks and views. Thanks to ate @Eylz2021 's Questions and Singles article for kicking off this fun and exciting challenge for singles out there.

So, I'd want to share my entry with you as well.


Here are the following questions that I chose.

How come you’re not dating anyone?

How come I'm not dating anyone? It's because I don't want to. I haven't dated anyone, not a single one. But I do sometimes entertain someone but am not open to a relationship. I don't want them to waste their time on me and I don't want to waste my time on someone that I know I don't want to be with. It may sound rude, but so be it. I'm not fond of flowery and sugar-coated words. It's better to tell someone directly and frankly that you're not into them than to give someone hope when you yourself know that you can't reciprocate their love towards you.

 

Does it bother you that your friends are engaged/married?

No. Not at all. Well, in fact, most of my friends already have their own families and babies. And it doesn't affect our friendship though. We're all Ninangs and Ninongs to their babies (Godfather and Godmother). The whole squad will always get together when there are occasions like my friend's baby's baptismal or birthdays. And once we're all gathered together, we're back to being teenagers again, like high school students. Remembering our stupid and crazy stuff we did when we were in high school.

 

Do you think you’re being too picky?

Lmao, I guess? Speaking of being picky. Some say that I'm too picky when it comes to the guy I like, lol. Just because I didn't pick you doesn't mean I'm already picky about everyone else. (Ulol, hindi ka lang sinagot kung ano ano na pinagsasabi mo). Well, in fact, there's nothing wrong with being picky. It's just that some people misunderstand the word picky. Who would've picked someone they didn't like at all? Why force yourself to be with someone you don't even like in the first place? Pick someone whom you can trust and be with forever. Not that someone who's only good at the beginning.

So how long have you been single?

Oh. I'm a loud and proud NBSB, No Boyfriend Since Birth here. Yas, you read it right. I didn't get jealous of other girls out there, especially those young ones hanging out with their boyfriends. lol not at all. Why would I, I have myself tho.

I haven't been in a relationship since I was born on this planet earth. I almost had one, but luckily the inner me had said "No" to that person. I'm wise though. I won't fall into his shallow single trap. Lol

 

Do you like the single life?

Of course! I'm happy and contented with being single. I'm a strong and independent woman. I do things that make me happy. You don't have to look for a partner or a guy to make you happy. Happiness can not only be found in one person. Happiness is everywhere. Just because I'm single doesn't mean I'm alone. I have someone. I have my family and friends. And other people that are close to me.

I'm not bitter, it's just that I'm still enjoying my single life and spending time with myself lol


Hahah that's all. By the way, I'm challenging all singles out there, whether you're a guy or a girl to do this challenge too. lol

You can randomly pick questions in here.

40 Questions all single women are tired of hearing

By; Rania Naim

08-06-21

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Author's Note

Hello, there lovely readers! Thank you for stopping by and spending some time reading my article today. I hope you you enjoyed it too.

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Have a great day ahead.

Arigathankyougozaimuch ❣️

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Single-blessedness🥰🙏

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3 years ago

Whaao.. NBSB ka talaga sis ? Hindi ka naman ba takot magmahal ? Minsan nalang ako makakita niyan 😊 yung iba dahil sa Strict ang parents hehe napahanga mo ako Sis. Enjoy lang sa pagiging single 🥰

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3 years ago

Hindi naman sa takot ako magmahal, sadyang ayoko pa lang talaga pumasok sa mga ganyan. Ayoko pa mag commit HAHHAHA

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3 years ago

minsan wala nang sasaya asa single e pero taken ako HAHAHA xoxaddddd

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3 years ago

Sanaol HAHAHHA stay strong sa inyo. Stay in love ❣️

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3 years ago

Ang saya maging single kaya sana all nalang NBSB pa sana ako din HAHAHA wala nga akong mga goddaughters eh dipa ako ninang at the age of 21 lol

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3 years ago

Ang dami kong mga inaanak. Nagpramis kasi kaming mga barkada na kapag may mag kaanak sa'min, automatic lahat kami ninang o ninong HAHAHAH kaya ayon, halos lahat ng tropa ko may anak na 🤣

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3 years ago

Awit ang hirap din maging ninang no. pero di naman as always gift ang habol need din ng guidance at pag aalaga okay na yon sakanila. 😊

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3 years ago

YAYY to being single! 💙 We're the happiest here because we are free and we don't need to report to anyone abt our whereabouts. And we chose to be single so, that's that. Wehwhw

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3 years ago

Ang saya kaya maging single, no worries and no dramas 🤣🤣

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3 years ago

I think we should be more understanding about the choices of others. We can't just say someone is picky. Of course your committing to something so you have to be picky. I don't understand why you can't be picky?

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3 years ago

Exactly, there's nothing wrong with being picky tho. We have rights to choose who we want to be with. Some people just don't understand what it means to be picky lol

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3 years ago

That's the reason more end up being hurt.

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3 years ago

ahahahaha napatawa ako nito "Ulol, hindi ka lang sinagot kung ano ano na pinagsasabi mo"

tama ang mahalaga happy tayo kahit single :). thanks for doing this challenge!

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3 years ago

thank you for initiating this challenge ate. Nakakatuwa basahin yung mga entry ng ibang users 😂

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3 years ago

yep.. sobrang aliw hehehe

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3 years ago

Trending ang mga singke ngayon ah, hahahahaha.. Nakaktuwa magbas ng ganito, slumbook version 2.0😂

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3 years ago

HAHAHAHA nagsilabasan mga single dito 😂

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3 years ago

Seryoso? !nbsb? Ilang taon kna? 🤣 Mailista nga mga single dto. 🤣

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3 years ago

Bata pa po kasi ako. Charot HAHAHAHAH 20 pa 🤣

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3 years ago

Mabuhay ang mga single!! Charooot lang.:-D Kung unsay makalipay nimo sis, go lang. As long as happy ka sa imong life, mao man nay importante. Unsaon man ng taken ka unya problemado ka kaayo di ba? So, enjoy lang. (•‿•)

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3 years ago

Mao gyud ,sakto gyud ka ate. Unsaon manang taken pero daghan oid og problema, maypang single nalang kay malipayon pa HAHAH

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3 years ago

Uuyyy ang nice kaya maging single, hahaha walang stress and walang makikialam sayo. Charot. Na enjoy ko yung single season ko nun eh.

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3 years ago

Sanaol naay jowa 🤧 HAHAHHAHA pero true, nindot jud single kay no worries and no dramas 🤣

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3 years ago

Hahahaha enjoyyy rajuud

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3 years ago

Kudos to you sis!..Enjoy mo lang ang single life!..sabi nga nila, pag God's will kahit hindi yan pasok sa mga qualifications mo sa isang guy, titibok at titibok ng kusa ang iyong puso. Wag magmadali!..

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3 years ago

Tama po kayo, once na ma pana na talaga ni kupido, hindi na mag ma matter yung standard na yan 😊

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3 years ago

Haha. Masaya talaga buhay single, no worries. XD. Dami kong inaalala nung kami pa ng ex ko e hahaha.

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3 years ago

Sanaol talaga may ex 🤧 HAHAHHHAHA

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3 years ago

Basta humihinga okay na yan HAHAHAHHA

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3 years ago

Kaya nga ! HAHAHAHHA Ang importante buhay pa

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3 years ago

Whatever makes your soul happy Jinifer! Gora!

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3 years ago

Exactly po! I'll enjoy and live life to the fullest while I still can. ❣️

Thank you ate 🌻

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3 years ago

You're welcome, sis!

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3 years ago

OH. I am a Ninong of lot of kids now huhu.. December is coming and again scares me charrr

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3 years ago

Huhu you're not alone, ify
Ang dami kong bibigyan, not just my inaanak but also my pamangkins 🤧

Hays, perks of being a Ninongs and Ninangs 😂😂

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