Becoming a mother in a wrong time is still a blessing in disguise

February 13, 2022

Blessing in disguise? Well, for me these are the things that we unexpectedly thought of coming to us or to our life. The things that we thought won't happen to us but it did and the best part is that it brought us the blessings that we as well doesn't expect.

We had lots of experiences in life as we sail on the wave of life. We tend to fall on the boat that we are in while sailing but failure or bitter trials while on our way toward the endpoint of the ocean are also often blessings in disguise. As what @Jane said that bitter trials are often blessings in disguise. And I definitely agree with it. As long as we tried our best to open our eyes from the positive point view of life then those hard trials that we are facing right now were surely be resolved and with the help of light by opening our eyes we can able to see on how we can surpassed problems and reach our goals.

We actually have this so-called blessings in disguise that we may named them as our blessings in disguise. For it maybe change our point of view in life, it may thought us many learnings that we able to apply in ourselves and we became better from it, it maybe helped us reach our goals accordingly and many more. Those were we can say that such exact happenings in our lives are truly the blessing in disguise. But in some point, we may somehow neglect those blessings for we have that pride that ruined us in embracing such blessings. In this case, we disallowed those things that may be the blessings for us. But I guess, as I've said if we are going to open our eyes for the positive things it brought then we can able see the blessing it give to our life. Then we can barely say, it is definitely the blessings in disguise.

Becoming a mother in a wrong time is a blessing in disguise.

I consider it a wrong time because first of all I became a mother that I and my partner were both financially unstable. He's still a student and I just graduated college so I still don't have a job.

At first, I didn't tried to open my eyes on the positive things. I always looked down myself, felt the regrets that I somehow disappoint my parents even if they never felt me that way but still know I disappoint them. I looked always on the negative sides like how can we be able to become a good parent if we can't able to provide our kid. Those were the common things I thought when it happened to me. Of course when I engaged on intimate love I never thought of such possibilities because what I only have in my mind is the pleasure it gave to me and I know in that sense I'm totally wrong. Until such time that I became pregnant, then I started to think on its negative consequences. I totally closed my eyes for the positive things and never thought of considering it as my blessings in disguise.

Not until I passed the LET (licensure examination for teachers). I was still pregnant when I took the exam and others said that the baby inside my womb is a blessings for it helped me passed the LET. Then, I started to think that maybe? Maybe it really was a blessing for me because I knew that time I don't have a proper review, I just reviewed less than a month for the exam and that's the week before the exam and also I knew that my time that I focused on my review wasn't enough for me to passed but still I passed. So, yeah maybe it brought me the blessing that I never thought.

Another is when I already gave birth and saw my son. I then thought of another blessings that come my life and not only in my life but to my parents for they were so happy and excited for my son and of course to us as parents whose excited to see our son grown from time to time. When I start to witness all the developments of my son I always felt that being a mother is a blessing in disguise for being a mother I was able to learned many things in life and will do everything to provide my son and my family. I learned how to be hard working in all ways as I can in all the possibilities. I able to somehow know my real purpose and what's my greatest goal in life. All those made me think that becoming a mother really is a blessing to me for it made me better everyday. My life already sailing straight to mya target destination that despites all the challenges I faced I really tried to get up because I had my son that motivates me when I felt that I'm falling on the boat I'm sailing. I even meet this read.cash in my life when I became a mother and also this platform brought me blessings to especially on financial things and aside from that I became true to myself in here for I can able to express all my thought freely.

Therefore, becoming a mother is what I considered my blessings in disguise.

Now, how about you? What are those things that you considered your blessing in disguise?

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