"Reasons that may ruin our future"
January 19,2022 Blog#126 no.16Hello reader's and writer's how are you? I hope you guys are doing well and stay safe. Yesterday, I failed to write my entry as I focus on reading articles here in read.cash. It's been awhile since I did that, so for me to cope up with my poor performance here, I set aside my research. I read a lot of, sad, bad news articles, but mostly was about this gallery raid hit. It's really fun to read different stories of each photo and I enjoy it. Last night I decided to sleep early as I feel very tired. I thought I will wake up with full of energy this morning since I get a long sleep last night, but unfortunately I woke up with headache 😅.
So much for that. 😅
Anyway today I will try to have a good discussion with you, and I hope you learn something from this blog. The discussion that I wanted to discuss with you are those possible reasons that might ruin our future. We all know that every choice that we make, every decision that we plan will affect our future, so we should be cautious and choose smartly and have a good life in the future.
Reasons that may ruin our future
Ego/pride
Us humans, we commonly have ego. If we can't control our ego and if we won't learn how to stay humble in all cases it might bring negative impact to us. Some people have a very bad ego, they don't want to be corrected and they don't accept their mistakes. Sometimes because of pride/ego they don't even notice that they are already hurting the feelings of their love ones, as they consider their selves as a king.
Sometimes even they are already struggling, they don't want to claim it, instead they keep on trying to prove their selves that they don't need any help even it's already ruining them.
Basically we need companions, we need help, but for those who have bad ego they think that they don't need anybody until they died.
Negativity
A person with full of negativity in their mind won't be able get some improvements in themselves as they don't have any trust even in their own ability.
With negativity we can't have real happiness and we can't have real peace in our lives. We can't achieve any goals as we are being swallowed by negativity.
Imagine, you wanted to open a new business, but because you let those negativity come over you, you get scared to make a move. Negativity makes you a coward, it's frightening you make a decision that may help you to grow as it won't let to succeed. If you let negativity control you, you will live with, full of doubts and regrets in your entire life.
For us to succeed and achieve our goals we should learn how to stay positive, even at the hardest time.
Being materialistic
Basically not only girl's are materialistic, sometimes men too. It was okay to buy something for ourselves, especially if you're financially stable. But what if you're not spending your money in the right way and your earnings are just enough for your needs? Being materialistic is also one of the reasons why a person can't have any savings, as they prepare to buy their wants than to save. Sometimes being materialistic makes a person's greedy. Furthermore because they can't have everything that they want, they will do everything, even if it's against the law just to get what they want. In the end they get in jail or they got killed because of their wrong actions.
Bad circle
Nowadays, it is hard to trust anyone that we meet. It's not that I'm having a trust issue, but just based on my own experience, it was really hard to give your full trust to anyone. Sometimes even our own relatives, can betray us.
When it comes to our friends and companions we should always be cautious as sometimes not all of them are real. Not all kindness that they show you are pure as sometimes they have their own agenda. I'm not talking this in generally, because there are still few person's who's willing to help you. Let's all be cautious.
Closing thoughts;
Basically, our future is our choice. We can decide weather we want to be successful or if we want to become a failure. We should learn how to balance everything, as our future wasn't form by the hand of others.
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This is all for today and thank you for reading ❤️
All photos from this blog including the lead image was from Unsplash.com
Very good points , to be honest being negative all the time is very bad for mental health also, we should be always positive humans to have a good healthy life.