"Get rid your Disappointments"

Blog#139, February 04,2022 no 04

Basically, one of the reason why we felt disappointed is because we expect too much. Well, I'm not saying that we shouldn't expect, but I just wanted to remind everyone, including my self, that we should lower our expectations to anyone, so we can avoid disappointments and felt demotivated. Expectations is actually quite normal at all costs, specially if we did something. Sometimes we expect for a simple thank you or a response from our greetings or we expect that they will be honest to us the way we did to them and that's absolutely normal but still we should not expect. And if you're helping or supporting someone or you're in love to someone, I think we should also lower our expectations, as sometimes expectations may lead us to disappointment and heartbreaks. We cannot guarantee that the person we love will love us back the way we love him/her dearly, we cannot guarantee that the person we supported will also support us in the end.

At some point we shouldn't expect that people will pay us back to our kindness, or do something favourable in return for our kindness. We are all different, our perspective are normally different, sometimes even how we show our gratitude are quite different too. So as what I have said, don't expect that once you showed your kindness to that person, he/she would also do the same, because sometimes people can do the opposite and we cannot do anything about it, but respect the person without any hatred. We don't have any authority to dictate anyone to be kind to everyone as all of us has difference's and we should value it.

For example is here in readcash. Not because you always upvote or read someone's article, the author would do the same to you, lower your expectations as sometimes we cannot guarantee that our article's are interesting to everyone. As a matter of fact our interests are also different, very different but our goals are quite similar. Some users read our article's not because they have responsibility to us or they owe something from us, they read because they wanted to support us, they read because our article is interesting to them, they read because at some point they can relate with our situations, they read because they feel motivated with your words, but of course sometimes they cannot read our articles because they don't have much time, not actually because they are not interested, remember all of us has priorities. And so what if they stop reading you, would you cursed them? Noooooooooo! Don't be silly.

Eventually we cannot guarantee that all people will stay. We cannot guarantee that all your supporters will remain at their spot, so be grateful at all times, but please don't hate. Respect and don't stop supporting each other. You can still read her/his article and you have your choice if you gonna upvote his/her articles or not, nobody would force you. Sometimes you're comment or like is already enough, but of course the biggest choice is respectfully yours😊.

At my part, I can only read the article's of those who are in my comment box, not because I don't want to read other's articles, but because my time is so very limited, but I do read them if I have extra time. Anyway, I know that I don't need to explain why I can only read your articles if you commented in my articles, but I just want you to know that, I really don't have much time to check my notification to look for your articles, just like I used to do before. Now my bell is actually always red. I cannot open them one by one anymore 🥺. I don't have much time, I'm being preoccupied taking care of my little one, but I don't wanna stop writing as I also need money😅 , i have bills🤣. That is why sometimes I cannot reply your comment immediately, as I prefer to read your article's first than to reply your comment in my article.

My apology, if sometimes I cannot leave a comment, or if sometimes I miss your article's, and if sometimes my upvote isn't that big. It's actually because I upvote base on how much I have in my wallet, as i also need to split my balance so I can upvote as many as I can and if I cannot land in your article, I'm really sorry.

Anyway this is just one of all those reasons why we felt disappointed, actually there's still have lots, but expectation has the biggest impact in our emotions that really makes us feel disappointed. And so for us to avoid disappointments we should not expect too much, we better lower our expectations or maybe do not expect anything in return. Let's just all be grateful and be happy for everyone's success.

Less expectations, less disappointments and heartbreaks😉. Spread peace and love to have a happy life.

I think this is all for now and thank you for reading. If I mentioned something where you don't agree, your opinion will be respected, this is just my own opinions and thoughts 😉😊, just love.

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