The Right Age To Get Married
Many people always get this topic wrong, what you're about to read will enlighten you to a new world of marriage, I hope you're able to learn from this, I would talk about how long a relationship should last before it leads to marriage, the right age to get marriage, Goals, and dream of couples before marriage. So let's go!!
How long should a relationship last before it leads to marriage?
What you're about to read is from my point of view and based on my research.
Society and the older generation has put a time limit on how long a relationship should last before the couples get married, to me there is no time limit on how a relationship should last before marriage, if the guy and the lady love each other and are fully prepared for what is to come after marriage, then they are good to go.
I'm not saying when a guy and a lady meet themselves today, and they feel like they love themselves they should go on with the marriage, that's not my point, at least they have to know themselves first and get to know a person with their characteristic shouldn't take more than two to three month, if its a serious relationship, discussion about the future or where the relationship will lead to should be discussed already.
There are some facts to consider before deciding to get married.
Financial stage of both partners
Goals and dreams of each
How mature and prepared they are
Family
Communication
Tolerance
And many more.
The right AGE to get married
Society has put an age to the time to get married especially for female children when a lady is getting to age 29th or 30th, you will year people around asking, "when will you get married" "where is your partner" this happens to both the guys and the ladies. When it comes to the guy, the parent is the one that asks this question the most, and the truth is, there is no right AGE to get married. The place we grow up, the tradition, the norms and morals, the environment sometimes put an age limit for marriage, when a person hasn't met up with the right requirements of marriage, the person should rush into the marriage and when they do, it always turns out bad, that is why we have more divorce case these days.
In conclusion
Many people have rushed into marriage because they believe they have passed the age limit of getting married and this is a threat to our society as we have many divorces now, single parents, and many broken homes. The parent shouldn't force their kids into marriage when they aren't ready and prepare for it, marriage isn't something you rush into, it's a lifetime decision and it should be taken with all seriousness.
I hope you have been able to learn from this, if you have additional words, you can add them in the comment section, I will read, reply and tip.
Thanks for reading, I hope you follow up for more.
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Article type: Marriage
Date:25/02/2022
Author: FashTioluwa
From my own view like you've rightly said, how long a relationship is doesn't matter for it to lead to marriage. What matters the most is putting God in the picture, and praying to him to help you in the journey.
The Will of God matters the most. How long a relationship is doesn't make you know your partner, you could date a guy for ten years, get married and he turn out to be another person entirely. Cause you can't know human completely. Only God knows everyone perfectly, he is the only one who can choose the right person for you without you having regrets.
I pray God helps everyone here and none of us will make mistake in marriage.