Marriage: You dare not rush in!!

Marriage is the union between a man and a woman who has agreed to become husband and wife.

Husband: A man shadowed with the responsibility of taking care of the family, providing for them, protecting them, putting them first, loving them, be ready to eat last after the family, the responsibility is so much that it can never be written down.

Wife: A woman with the responsibility of taking care of the family, cooking for them, bringing everyone together, loving them, caring for them, watching over the children and her husband, the accountant of the family, the one with the scale of preference, and many more, same as the man, there are more to the responsibilities of a wife.

Before one would go into a marriage, either the man or the woman needs to understand the sole responsibility would be taking on, the job you would do will be different from the one you have been doing when you are single.

Even if a man and a woman live a couples life when they are in school: oh yes, couple life is the kind of life most youths live today in their various school, when a young man and a young woman in a relationship decide to live together under the same roof while they are not married and they are doing what married people. Sometimes, such a relationship does end in marriage and sometimes it ends in a breakup, which will leave the guy or lady broken.

Rushing into marriage

It pains me to say that divorce is so rampant in our world today, it is now a normal thing, when a marriage isn't working out, instead of the man and woman sitting down and working things out, the next thing they think of is divorce, even when they already have kids, one of our great writer here @Tomi-Ajaxax once said "The devil has made evil look civil" yeah, now divorce has been legalized, it now like a solution to a failed marriages, no one is ready to work things out. Now I do think if there was nothing like divorce, what would happen to people facing issues in their marriage? Will they learn to understand each other? Love each other? Communicate more and learn their difference?.

You see, you would never know a person completely, and why is that, it is because we humans are bound to change, so in as much as we change, we would always learn new things about our partner, so when we love our partner and understand them, even with the new change, we would try to understand them and adapt to the change, if the change is good.

Some things you should understand before marriage

• The character you possess and that of your partner will change after marriage.

• Marriage doesn't stand on love alone but communication, understanding, friendship, and many more.

• You would have to let go of some character you possess to bring peace to the house.

• You aren't marrying the man or the woman alone, you're also becoming a family with a new family

There are many more, if you're seeing this, you can add more points in the comment section of things people should know before marriage, I'm sure there are married people here too.

Article title: Don't rush into marriage
Date: 05:04:2022
Author: FashTioluwa