August 28, 2021
This article has been seating on my draft bank for about a month now. It's just that I lost my interest in it while writing it then, so I thought why not try to finish it again so I can have an article today that I can share with you.
This quotes used to make my heart flutter during those times that it was shown in the movie, I guess it's because I was way younger back then and my life was full of colors unlike now. You know, when you are in your 20s life is full of love, life is full of adventures and it feels like all the lines and quotes from that love story movie are all about you.
All these quotes are from Nicholas Sparks novel that I used to like, yep used to like because it doesn't appeal me anymore but who knows maybe tomorrow it will have a different effect on me. Let's start with the line from the movie A Walk to Remember.
“Love is like the wind, you can't see it but you can feel it.”
― Nicholas Sparks, A Walk to Remember
This quote has some truth in it. Love is everywhere actually, it really is like a wind that you can't see but you feel it every now and then from the people who love you. You can see it through their actions even if they don't say it. Sometimes it's like a whirlwind that will make you fall head over heal in love with someone without any reason. It's like magic, it can make everything sparkle and beautiful.
“So it's not gonna be easy. It's going to be really hard; we're gonna have to work at this everyday, but I want to do that because I want you. I want all of you, forever, everyday. You and me... everyday.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Notebook
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I still wish someone would say those lines to me someday and prove to me that yes, it's hard but it's ok because were both working on it, because we both want to be with each other so no matter how hard it is, it's ok because you are both there for each other. Someone who will reassure you that it's worth fighting for, because your love for each other is true.
“I finally understood what true love meant...love meant that you care for another person's happiness more than your own, no matter how painful the choices you face might be.”
― Nicholas Sparks, Dear John
For me this kind of love is the selfless love, because you only care for the happiness of the person that you love. That you are willing to let go if that will make the person you love happy, even if it means that you will be left alone. Even if it means that it will break your heart but if you will look at it in the long run, you will realize that letting go of that person is the best thing you've done in your life, because no matter how much you love a person if he/she doesn't feel the same you will not be happy too.
“You're going to come across people in your life who will say all the right words at all the right times. But in the end, it's always their actions you should judge them by. It's actions, not words, that matter.”
― Nicholas Sparks, The Rescue
Yes, I believe in this one. And believe me it is so good to hear all those words that you want to hear, its as if you've already met the one that is really meant for you. You will hear how special you are, how much he/she loves you, how he/she can't sleep without hearing your voice first but they are all words. He/She just says all the words that can make your world turns upside down but it's not supported with actions. He/She says he will call and you waited until you fell asleep without receiving any call or text from that person. He/She is always missing in action until such time that you will doubt all the words that he/she says because it is just words and you never felt it with his/her actions.
My thoughts?
It is so good to be in love, it is so good to know that there is this one person who will always be there for you but always remember to love yourself more everyday, just not give your 100%, you always have to leave some for yourself. Not that I'm saying you shouldn't love your partner wholeheartedly, what I'm saying is don't lose yourself while loving someone because you yourself also matters.
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That is what my mom keeps on telling me. To not give my 100% and leave some for myself too.