Sermons that I got after watching "17.3 about love" Japanese drama
It's been a while when I wrote about the drama that I watched. If before, I wrote this article titled: Sermons that I learned from watching it is about what are the lessons that I got after watching this drama, Our Gap Soon a South Korean Drama that aired last year 2016.
And now, I watched this Japanese drama named, '17.3 about a Love' but it's have another title of the drama but I choose not to choose the other one because it is very prohibited and if I say that it was prohibited, I would like to warn the minors readers out there that you shouldn't watched this kind of Dramas because you are still a kid. But if you are willing to learn between the Love and S*x just like what the other teen agers topics about prohibited Relationship, you can watched it but don't do it.
Like I said, this drama has a little prohibited scenes and lines it can affect the youth from watching it but at the same time, you can learn some life lessons. So here are some the lessons that I learned from watching it.
Number 1: Don't relay your Decision to Online Sites
If we are talking about some serious topic about life esp if we are talking about s--, we should not relay to the sources or informations of what we read to online sites. In making decision about doing it, we should think carefully because there are some possibility that we will regret doing it after. As you see, the Female Protagonist is just 17.3 years old and she's curious about 'that', she wanted to do it because of coriousity. But you should not become like her, This kind of things are not for that kind of Age. If you are watching me watching this drama you can see me being disgusted because of the reason that her age is so young yet she's being curious to that kind of things already.
In our country, Philippines. We have this kind of emotions when we knew some news about someone a young girl was pregnant. I don't know why, but if to other country is natural to them but for us, it's not. When we have news like that here, parents are scolding us for not being like them and that. So my Emotion while watching the girl is so very priceless earlier.
But glad, that the girl change her decision because of the reason that she was scared and she realized that she was not ready for that. If you are wondering why who is the culprit why she was jump to the conclusion of doing it, it is because of the online site who give information about 'that' thing. Just because of the source and information that you read said that many percent of population doing that kind of things, it doesn't mean that you will do it too and now that we are talking about these part we should jump to
Number 2: Don't relay to your Friends Opinion
You and your friends are not the same. Sometimes friends are the reason why many youth was driven to evil deeds. They are the reason why they pushed to something that they are not sure if they can do it. The Female Protagonist has 2 friends and I can tell that her two friends has different personalities and I like the second one because the first one is the one who was became one of the reason why she was pushed doing 'that' thing. She even tought her the basic things if how to do it instead of giving advices not to do it she even support her friend to do it. lol and I keep saying the same words every time that she advice in a different way because she is a example of friend that bad influence.
Anyways, what I am trying to say is, don't listen to your friends in making decision. Don't compare or make yourself just like the same as them because you and your friends are not the same. Just because they have experiences, you can also do it. Just because it is easy for them, it will be easy for you too. Remember that sometimes we have some friends that pushing you do it too because they would like you to do the same mistake just like them. Because I, even my self experience being on that kind of situation and I'm glad that I didn't listen to that friend of mine because for sure, I will be like her now.
In relationship there are this kind of situation that we always watched, read, and witnessed to some kind of stories and this lesson is not new to us anymore but I will say it again one more time and that is,
Number 3: Don't be blinded by love
Sometimes there are some types or boys that keep saying that they love and like you but they don't mean it. There are some type of boys that they are good at playing with girls feelings. Just like the Protagonist's Ex. I was so very thankful because the female protogonist changed her mind that day. Because if not, I don't know what will happened. I'm glad because she choose the wise decision of not giving her V-card to that Asshol3 because in the next day, after that accident happened, the Girl was a hot topic of their campus. The news was easily to roam around that she did it with him even if it was not.
In our generation, many girls was became a victim of this kind of trick. So this kind of lesson for us should be reminded that even if we love someone, if they will invite you of doing this kind of thing, learn to say 'NO' because a true man should never do this kind of thing to their Girl. They will respect you, should marry you first and they will never ruin your future.
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And if we are talking about Gender, You know that LGBTQ+. Well, there are still some people who can't accept that there's Gay, Lesbian, and other genders now aside from Boy and Girl. Nevertheless,
Number 4: Never Judge the person based to their Gender
I am not against to LGBTQ+ because my Sister is a Lesbian. I admit that I once hated her for being like that but as the years passed, I get used to it. Because I can't do anything about it because she choose to love a girl and it is her decision and I don't own her heart.
I saw a lot of people hated their opposite gender and lost their respect to them. But we should also learned to accept them as long as they don't trample on people. There's still some LGBTQ+ that has a good heart and I'm so very amazed to them why?
We can relay things that we can't do to them, just like for example: Doing make-up/fixing ourselves when we have an occasion, Gays can be there for us to lend some help.
Imagine they are still Boys yet, they can do the things that we can't at the opposite thing can also be the same as Lesbian's can also do the things that Boys can't to girls. Even tough, they are still a Girl, they can make a girl Happy because they understand us.
Anyways, like I said, never judge a person based on their Gender. On the one episode, I mentioned to you that the Girl Protagonist is a bad influenced, she easily judge the Protagonist's recent admirer as he admits to her that he once dated a guy, and his true gender whuch is he's a Bisexual. I hated the protagonist friend because of it. She have a never ending mouth of hers easy to judge a person just because of the gender. If I was also one of the character, I think even if the spanking her to the head is not on the script, I will do it. Charot
I'm so very talkative yet I haven't say the words that what I am trying to say. Lol remember to Let's respect each other. Sometimes, We don't understand our self as well. It is not their fault if what are they because we just born at first of what we thought to become. They don't deserve your hate because they are also a human being they are just choosing the things that making them feel free and happy.
Closing thoughts...
In watching, I learned a lot of lessons esp. If it is about life. I'm still young so reading and watching can help me to learn a lot of things but sometimes, I also make my own decision and not relay to them. When I am on the same shoes just like what drama I seen before, I can't apply it to my self HA-HA so all of these things of what I watched or learned will be also useless.
Nevertheless, I still enjoyed watching this drama. Thank you for reading!
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Good that you enjoyed watching the Japanese drama. We had the experience of living in Tokyo, Japan, for about eighteen months during Oct 2000 - Mar 2002. We had witnessed real-life Japanese drama and had some Japanese home visits.