Point Of My View: Why Do Men Cheats?

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Simply why we cheat, you have shown great but you give differently. The man showed you the sign but you ostracized, dude act right but you think it’s not, boys are lads nothingness going to change it.

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Point of View is a person opinion or particular way of thinking about something.

Prime and foremost, I know some of my readers mostly my friends here will attack me after this LOL. This is my point of view, my observation and some of my experience don’t judge or down-vote me. Just be open and received what my thought is all about.

I hate cheaters, that’s real. My family was merely broke and my mother could kill us and herself if she continued to be eaten by the devil. That’s the reason why I don’t have a good relationship with my dad, because I hate cheaters, and I will never be one of them. Just Ignored this, it’s not the topic LOL.

Man cheats with their own reason, it’s not true that they cheat just the moment we saw someone and we will say man begin cheated you, it’s never like that. Man is born with a lot of critical thinking, and man is naturally supremacy. The more you show he will passively cheat the more he’s getting curious.

Man Cheat Because Of Curiosity

It’s like tasting the new brand or product of wine, they had this thinking “What is the difference between this two?” we are curious about the change. What if I have a partner who will never scold me? or never always shown jealous of me?. They began to wonder and think of another possibility.

It’s not that man see another with much better they began to have them. NO, it’s because they see your relationship with no improvement at all. If you're being a jealous type of girl and he proves to you that nothing has to worry about and still you always show no change for next certain times, do you think it’s still peacefully beneficial for them?

How to prevent this? Simply improve yourself and your relationship, that’s the secret of others. Be curious too, be open about the thing you been curious and solve the mysteries with you two. I'm not an expert, but I am a Man.

Man Cheat Because Of Weakness

He has shown you but you have never seen him, he’s always hiding the weakness and you don’t get the message. If you really loved your partner you will know how he reacts to things, the simple silence makes you knew what he needs and what he doesn’t.

For instance, he’s tired and he needs food but you gave him the cloth. Their a huge difference, a man need a woman who knows what he really needs not a woman who gave just what she thinks it’s he needs.

If you loved someone simple un-normal moves you will know when and he’s weak.

How to prevent this? Simple you just knew who he is when he needs help do the thing he needs.

Men Cheat Because He Doesn’t Really Love You.

Yeah, this what you been waiting for, he doesn’t really love you or he is still doubting the loved or you're love so they do some experiment.

He’s pondering your love or him, that’s it. Don’t just think the other side that he cheated on the girl because he doesn’t but see another portion of the story. I don’t protect the man but I knew that there is another side, do you loved him so dearly? or do you give him the return he deserves? That’s the question.

They cheat because they had been looking for something that wasn’t there before. That’s the reason why all the viral scandals of break-up in toxic social media. A woman who been engaged for years was rejected and he marries the one whom he just met for a month. When Derek Ramsey chooses Ellen Adarna because he says there something in her that is irresistible.

That’s what the man does, we are searching for something that we don’t really know, and there are some missing pieces that we always want to look after. For me, I don’t know still, what I am looking for. That man who stays and loyal to you or in someone, they saw what they looking for. So even just a short period of time they already want to have lifelong commitment.

Point Of View: Why Do Man Cheats?

Actually, there is more reason why men cheated to their spouses, but one thing for sure not only Man cheat and don’t judge them nor the prey, it’s really complicated to answer the question, although some girls labeled all men as a cheater and I don’t know why but I also don’t judge them.

As I said, there is nothing wrong with you if a man cheated on you he is the one who is wrong. Also, when women do the identical thing to a man.

Boys are born with curiosity (I don’t say all boys), it’s like a new model of cars, motors released one night we will think about having some. We are born with weakness, so some of the men are falling down to a hole. For me (Just in my view) he will cheat if he doubted to love you, and he will come back if he realized he’s wrong.

And for my previous relationship (I going to share anyways) I already said to her I won’t cheat but ended I don’t have time. When college is over I focused on my reviews and when I finished the exam I focus on my career. So we BOTH decided to cut for us to grow and focused more on our profession. So we just stay friends (Kind-of LOL).

Authors Note

I really find it hard to construct this prompt of @JonicaBradley because I am considering if it could offend anyone, so I got too many words detached and replaced. I actually want to cancel this but maybe there is something you been asking yourself for a long time “why he cheated?”. I am saying this not because I’m an expert but I am also a Man.


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Cheating will never be right. If you're in a relationship and you feel that you no longer love your partner, end it. Why cheat ?

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3 years ago

Bat parang nasaktan ako dito? Hahaha! Sana di ganto bf ko ngayon.

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3 years ago

Ako, nong nagcheat ako ang dahilan ko lang non is wala syang time sakin. Awan anong ginagawa nya basta I hate a guy na lagi ng late ang reply. Saka mapa babae, lalaki, bakla or tomboy ee nagchicheat talaga. Pero diko naman nilalahay ha aba. Dapat lagi syang may timw sakin para di ako maghanap ng iba! Ahahahaha the immature me 🤧

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3 years ago

Basta para sakin talaga mali ang mag cheat kahit ano pa ang rason. Para sakin, kung curious pa at di pa nakita, wag na lng mangligaw or pumasok sa relasyon, kasi masasaktan ang isa. Alam ko mahirap ang sitwasyon ng pinag-cheatan.

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3 years ago

Haha oo na.. Experience niyo eh LoL

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3 years ago

Di pa ko nag cheat at di ko rin naranasan na e cheat hahah. Pero alam ko marami nahihirapan tumayo ulit pagka nasaktan dahil sa cheating

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3 years ago

Kailangan pa ba to'ng pag.usapan sir Eunoia hihi😅 Mapa-girl, boy, bakla, tomboy.. Nag.che.cheat talaga especially pag nawalan na nang gana.. At yung pinapakitaan ka rin nang motibo na gawin yun. But bottomline Cheating is cheating..😁

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3 years ago

Sabi mo eh hahaha baka form your experience chaaarrr

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3 years ago

hahaha...hmmm😁🤭 shhh🤫

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3 years ago

Girls do cheat, too. Hahaha.

My take on this is here: The cheater may make an excuse as to why he cheated nd sometimes provide "VALID" reasons as to why he cheated. I mean, may times na masasabi mo, "Deserve nya talaga na iwanan sa ugali nya" and all, pero cheating is not the answer. When one side is wrong, it can't be corrected by another wrong. Kung di mo na mahal, sabihan mo, makipaghiwalay ka ng ayos, para walang sabit sa bago. Minsan nakakaawa din yung number 2, walang kaalam alam, nakakasira na pala ng relasyon, eh yung nangaliwa ang pinakamay kasalanan dito. Haynaku, ipadala ko sa Mars yang mga manloloko na yan eh. Hahaha!

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3 years ago

May mga taong toxic ng mindset. Pag babae nag cheat, grabe makalait. Walang delikadesa at cheap. Pero if lalaki mag cheat, sasabihin pang okay lang. Natural sa mga lalaki yan. Like what? Sana okay lang kayu.

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3 years ago

yep... its not only boys who cheat even girls do cheat.. and i agree with you one the reason why people cheat is because what they feel is not really love or that they are not content with what they are receiving but my question is why stay in a relationship if you are not content with what your partner is giving? why don't just be honest and end it peacefully and there will be plethora of questions that will be unanswered. I just find it sad that people do cheat just because they are not happy with what they have

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3 years ago

May mga babae naman na nag cheat. lol..may kakilala lang ako na mas gusto maraming afam ...ayaw mag settle sa isa kasi boring..well it's her life naman ,,hahah

May mga trust issues lang talaga ang babae kaya madali sila magduda which is a turnoff minsan para sa mga boys kaya nagagawa nila ang mga bagay2 kasi pini presume na kasi nang ibang girls na nag cheat sila or whatever...di ko nilalahat ah..base on my POV lang din

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3 years ago

Natawa ako sa Afam hahaha

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3 years ago

May kaibigan ako na nag cheat sa Jowa niya .sinasabi ko to hindi dahil chinichismiss ko siya sinasabi ko lang na part siya sa mga cheater kasi kahit ako nagagawa niyang lokohin .. Kakamustahin niya lang ako kapag may kailangan siya manghihiram ng pera hindi naman nagbabayad since nung kami nag aaral pa lagi niyang ginagawa sakin.. Yung nakaka sad lang yung jowa niya nagtatrabaho para matustusan ang pag aaral niya pero nagawa pa din niyanh lokohin sa kabila ng lahat.

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3 years ago

Nakakainis nga yun hahaha

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3 years ago

kahit naman anong reason cheater parin HAAHAHAH char

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3 years ago

Hahaha basta yun na din yun whahahah

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3 years ago

pero wala di parin masisi. 5years ami ng ex ko tapos ewan badon nalaman ko nalang na sila na pala ng kaworkmate nya tas 6month na. mas malala buntis na ung babae heheeheh. di naman masaket, sinupport ko nalang sila if sa sila masaya at di ako nagalit.

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3 years ago

It goes both ways.

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3 years ago

there is nothing wrong with you if a man cheated on you he is the one who is wrong

Correct! Di kasi sila makontento sa isa. Kaya wag dapat sisihin ang sarili natin. Mas maganda nga yung iniiwan tayo ng mga ganyang tao. Parang pinatunayan lang nila na may MAS deserved pa para satin at hindi sila yon 💚

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3 years ago

Comes from experience ba? Hehe

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3 years ago

Oo naman sinong hindi makakaranas ng ganyan 🙄

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3 years ago

Man cheat because of curiousity? what if woman cheat also because of curiousity...hehe. Isa lang ang alam ko dyan if you truely love the person you will never cheat. Pag niloko ka hindi ka nyan totoong mahal, hindi kase kuntento. wala ng pali paliwanag hindi ka nyan totoong mahal....bitter na bitter...hahaha

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3 years ago

Hahaha.. Are woman curious too? I also wanna know 😉😁

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3 years ago

oo naman pero hindi kami magchecheat ng dahil sa curious lang, saka never pa ako nagcheat kase ako ang niloko hahaha

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3 years ago

Okay lang naman maging curious din, as what you’ve said nature of a man yan but I guess not all, Pero for me pag pumasok ka na sa relasyon kung curious kapa then just tell the truth to the partner na something like may hinahanap kapa na wala sa kanya, para naman maging aware ang girl at maiwasan ang cheating. I mean instead of cheating due to curiosity why not just tell the truth bahala nang masaktan ang babae sa katotohanan kaysa bina backstub because of cheating mas masakit pa yun. 😊 This goes for both actually, not only men. Baka kasi not contented pa kaya ganyan. Pero anyway thanks for your point of view I somehow understand mens view though 😅

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3 years ago

Yezzz ganon na nga hahaha.. (Wala ako maiisip ma rep) hahaha

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3 years ago

Okay lang naman, coz we have our own different views in things... Ako kasi noon nilalahat ko na all men were cheaters hahah dko namna na experience na chineat ako so far hahaha wag naman sana haha, Guilty ako sa nilalahat, na realized ko lang nung sinabihan ako ng partner ko about his point view also as a man. Paano kasi mostly ng nakikita ko lalaki yung nang cheat kaya nalalahat ko tuloy.

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3 years ago

Whatever the reason is they're still a cheater. I hate cheaters too and those who tolerate them( I don't have any experience with cheaters though). I don't really understand why people cheat, there's no good reason.

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3 years ago

Just my POV anyway don't hate me I don't tolerate hahahah

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3 years ago

Oy I don't hate you and your opinion HAHHAAH. medj agree nga.ewan bat parang seryoso nga yong tone ko HAHAHAH

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3 years ago

You should say “A Cheater” naa awa kasi puro nalang Man , yung babae din naman nag ch-cheat eh. But anyways. First, I understand your point of you but if a Man or a Women fell out of love they should’ve been honest instead of looking for other girl to hook up, maybe they can find a way to save their relationship and look back. Pero pag wala na wag na pilitin, let go na instead sa mag cheat pa, grabe kasi yung effect pag nag ch-cheat isa sa kanila. Nakaka pang question ng self worth. Second, if you want to be in a relationship na walang cheat, go for someone na niligawan ka para pakasalan (para sa babae to) hindi yung kasi gusto ka lang , kasi nagagandahan sila sayo, problema kasi sinasagot agad not knowing the true objectives of a guy. Lastly, If a Man Cheat then he isn’t a Man he still probably a boy full of curiosity, as for women , you’re still just a girl. Now , grow up! Yun lang po, dami kong satsat 😂

Edit: I realized na kahit na pinakasalan na may nag ch-cheat parin, maybe they’re really not open with each other that well. Yung mga gusto pero di kayang ibagay? Idk 😐 A cheaters confuses me so much

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3 years ago

Hahaha yun din young naunang draft actually kasali babae. Pero alam kung mas magiging comfortable sila magbasa kung lads ang may sala whahaha.. Nice thoughts thou 😉

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3 years ago

Thanks for sharing on this topic, and your point of view as a man. The main reason could be that his faith is weak.

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3 years ago

Thank you too for openly absorbing my view 😇

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3 years ago

Yan din naiisip ko eh at palagi ko tinatanong sa partner ko what if he cheat.. Sabi nya wag daw ako pataba lol talaga pero seriously sabi nya, malabo daw kasi nakita na daw nya sakin ang hanap nya. Lol. Pero ayoko talaga pakumpyansa kasi nga d ba? Marami pa babae what if may makita sya dun na wala sakin. I mean, tamad ako ehh. Lalo na sa kusina lalo na ngayon na may baby. Hahaha. Pero yun nga, depende rin sa babae talaga paano dalhin at intindihin mga partner nila. Pero sabi nila, dapat mas mahal ng lalaki ang babae kesa sa mas mahal ng babae ang lalaki kasi daw di mag grow pag ang babae ang subrang nagmahal, dapat yung lalaki daw kasi nga ang mga lalaki sabi mo nga curious kayo, so what if yung curiosity nyp matabunan yun pagmamahal d ba? 😫

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3 years ago

Hahaha basta yun na yun.. Hahaha

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3 years ago

Pero mali pa rin talaga mag cheat. Beri beri rong yun talaga. Kung di na mahal at curious pa naman pala, wag na lng pumasok sa relasyon. Period!

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3 years ago

Oh well, this is another side of the story, and yes, this might offend someone. But regardless of those reasons, still cheating is not good. Just tell that someone that you don't love her rather than hurting her more.

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3 years ago

Indeed. I know I offend someone and there is one that gives down thumbs hehe.. Should I alarmed on that?

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3 years ago

In stories there will always be an antagonist, in this topic, you are on that side. hehe. you better wait for the comments.

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3 years ago

Tama po..kung nagcheat man sayo yung isang tao, hindi mona pagkakamali iyon , pagkakamali niya na iyon.Never ever blame yourself .

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3 years ago

Indeed.. Hayaan nalang di siya kawalan hahaha

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