Three questions to my readers.

These questions are really hard because most teachers are thinking if you say to them you are doing this thing in a wrong way as you devalorize them even if it is true. Most of these things are done in a private way means after the class lesson is ending then you go to the teacher and say: I think this could be corrected in this manner but not saying You are wrong in the correction by this manner as it has the practically same result as first.

With the case of SSC holder and BSC holder will I think wasn't right. The BSC has a higher position indeed and I think it was hard for her to work being supervised under with a lower position. However we don't know, maybe the school has purpose, maybe they want to see how this two persons work together and if both of them can work professionally without considering the level of their positions but only considering their assignments. Unfortunately the outcome was failed as both didn't work according to the tasks that was given to them. While the office manager on the other hand will I think I should also not let the wife enter the office as it was the boss order.

Let me chip in the way with what I've learnt in my church settings... which I found so applicable anywhere.

The settings work with duration you've served in the commission, so if you have lesser qualification and age, and a bigger mighty person is posted to assist you, the bigger boss pays maximum respect to his SMALL BIG BOSS. Ministry has it that the bigger boss hearken to the instructions of the small big boss and if by anyway the bigger boss default,,,,,report straight.

The ssce holder did the right thing, the back holder wasn't taught humility in school🧘

Oh wow, the first case, I would just ignore her and mind my own work because dealing with rude people is not my cup of tea because if I had to start dealing with it, I will serve jail time, you know what I mean right? and second case, if I were the manager, I would tell the wife to wait in the lobby until the boss is ready to meet, I mean, this ain't their house, it is office.. so

I think those accommodities belongs to SSC holder, nothing is bad if she don't want to share. The answer of your question is also inside question, Has not BSC done nothing bad while saying no to SSC holder at that time. Not helping but expecting for commodities, is using her authority of superiorvision wrongly. Secondly, I'll also stop his wife too . Because I get paid for my boss not for his wife.

You know private schools have their different ways of operating and from what you just narrated, it simply meant that the Degree holder was just earning got obviously doing nothing and it's wrong. I feel she should obey constituted authority regardless of the circumstances.

Communication isn't alive there, they are both wrong and should have communicated well to get things right besides it is a work place and everyone should do their jobs rightly,. I would tell the wife that he was called for an urgent meeting and it would take time, I'd even add that he says he'd be going home afterwards and I think that should stop her.

If you want to learn wisdom and experience from anyone who is in a particular field you need to swallow your pride.

I remember going to training and a ten year old boy was giving me instructions. I was obeying him because he has more experience than me and I didn't look at his age or academic qualifications

I also have same thoughts dear ella isn't it professionally wrong to put bsc holder under the supervision of ssc holder, i mean everyone knows there a much difference between both levels, as bsc holder has came to that post with double efforts and hardwork as compared to ssc holder, i think its totally wrong, and it is the pride and courage of bsc holder to work under the ssc holder who is less educated and less experienced and alao rude to her, but i also thi k she will get to learn much more after working under the supervision of ssc holder.

I saw pride in the BSC holder's life, if she had humbled herself and assisted the SSC holder she would given her from the gifts. What the younger teacher did was actually right. It's good for the proud to learn their lessons some times.

First of, I can fault the superior for not carrying her subordinate along. Because that is what I can deduce from what her subordinate replied her with. But then again she was uncomfortable asking her to do one thing or the other. I believe proper communication from day 1 or day 2 would have solved this dilemma. As for the wife-boss issue, true that we shouldn't mix business with pleasure, but I would mention to the wife what the husband said, if she still decides to go in, I honestly won't stop her.

My dear Ella, the discussion the lecturer engaged her students in it, was very interesting. In my opinion, morally and professionally the BSC holder must assist the SSC holder and the class teacher in the scholars, and attending in needs. And if I was an office manager too, I stop the wife of boss, and tell her hubby is in a meeting, because it was an order from my boss.

Normally, in any organization, someone with higher degree is always placed at the top.. imagine you taking all the stress to attain a higher degree so as to be placed in a high position and this happened.. first you'll feel bad. But as the case maybe, the BSC school be able to help out too in the office work... It's always good to the right thing at the appropriate time. And for the second one about the Boss, i will rather obey the instructions, to avoid problem, since he said " no one should come into his office," his wife is not excluded...

I loved these meetings to discuss questions and express oneself in different situations. For the wife, I will abide by the director's instructions not to allow anyone to enter, and I will ask her to call him to decide if he will allow her to enter or not.But deep down, I hope she will come in and discover his betrayal

I'm on the side f the SSC teacher... She was humble enough band accorded the older and more qualified assistant her due respect. If the older woman had humility and was ready to work. I don't think anyone would be able to tell who was the superior between them. Infect the younger woman would be happy to introduce her colleague to the parents of the children too. Hence, she would also develop a good relationship with them

The school placing a BSC under SSCE is nothing bad, they must have considered experience as well, and the BSC holder was wrong not to have helped the SSCE.

If I was the SSCE teacher, I would hesitate to share the gift with the BSC teacher. It should make a difference, love can change a whole lot of things. -----------------------------------------_-- I will definitely follow my boss's instructions, the wife is not the one paying my salary.

Oh I will go to the CR and as if I never seen the wife coming hehehe.. The wife has the right to enter his husband's office hehehe...

This is just a thinking of a married woman who don't like to hear men cheating a woman like me hehehe

Well the SSC holder shouldn't have behaved like that, using wrong to pay wrong, who knows if she had given her out of those things maybe the BSC holder would have changed towards her.

Also I believe, professionally or not those certificates are just paper, what they have upstairs determines who gets the lead role.

The school was wrong in putting a more qualified person under a less qualified person. The way the BSC holder behaved is understandable under the circumstances howbeit wrong, but the retaliation of the SSCE holder is both wrong and stupid