A Moment To Remember. (End Of Phase I, Phase II Begins)
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Phase I of the contest , "**A Moment To Remember** " has come to an end and as such the winners were supposed to be announced last few days but It wasn't hence I am doing it now. Because of changed activities on the site, the Phase II might take more days for review.
Among 25 entries , I had to make a decision on choosing the "best" 10. Here are the winners of Phase I and a brief about their articles. **Note: It is not in any order ..**
@Njokuiyke
This entry was quite a short article though but it actually represents the attitude of certain teachers . It was a nice article..
**https://read.cash/@Njokuiyke/my-further-mathematics-teacher-9365cf84**
@ADEPRETTY
This was quite a great occurrence . Sometimes we do not hope for the best for ourselves after we know that , for this activity, I couldn't perform well . We sometimes don't have the hope that it will run successfully when things seem impossible but that doesn't mean we should stop , keep pushing and you might win.
**https://read.cash/@ADEPRETTY/the-day-i-will-never-forget-4fe41ca5**
@wakeupkitty
Sometimes the Influence on us by the people around us or the environment do make us feel left out in all they do and even bully us , leaving us pretty happy when they do not bring their troubles on us. And with such feeling the day we get to leave such circumstances behind becomes a real day for us.
**https://read.cash/@wakeupkitty/those-good-days-45154d7c**
@Macronald
A life filled with joy; one where parent's had a great time together and helped others build great bonds. Things started changing as dad had stroke and couldn't recover till he died of which trusted people were not of help but a pain In the neck as they used that as an advantage to gain profit for themselves leaving a debt on mom and the collapse of their two shops.
In various means to keep dad alive , the writer took that as a responsibility and did it diligently till he made a mistake one day of which he still thinks was the "cause" of his dad's death.
**https://read.cash/@Macronald/moment-unforgettable-2728bea5**
@PASTOR001
A funny moment happening on a wedding day. After several preparations , he was even left with no time to bath not talking about dressing to his wedding ceremony. He even used or chose a "best-man" who he never knew and doesn't know.
**https://read.cash/@PASTOR001/the-day-of-my-wedding-cd36baa8**
@Xzeon
A story of a ten year old girl whom because of false identity resolved into stealing. Feeling afraid to do her normal "stealing " since her friends were not around, she had a great sense of fear in doing that if which she did atlast
Few steps away from the "shop" a strong hand grabbed her by the collar and there the story begun.
**https://read.cash/@Xzeon/the-chocolate-fe2169e5**
@heartbeat1515
An article about how the uncle kicked them out of their house by surprise even on a rainy day. Being hurt by such a wicked act caused the writer to have "hatred"for the uncle. He/She worked for it and eventually got a new house for them .
With time the anger vanishes and was able to let it go. It really has some important life lessons also.
**https://read.cash/@heartbeat1515/unforgettable-aa2a518f**
@Meher89
An article about a strict teacher the writer had in school who aimed at instilling a sense of discipline and cleanliness in the students. For the fear of her by many student , examinations as well as other activities were done in a discipline matter by students to avoid being punished..
**https://read.cash/@Meher89/some-memory-of-a-strict-teacher-in-my-school-life-1f58aa7b**
@annoftheroses
It also talks about the various things that happens to them in 2020. Sad for me as they lost their homes to a volcanic eruption even before the Covid -19 struck.
**https://read.cash/@annoftheroses/what-2020-did-to-us-359ec3a0**
@mgf2394
This is also based on his the writer met her love (husband) and the fascinating experience it was ,after finding out they has the same birthdays.
**https://read.cash/@mgf2394/remembering-the-day-i-met-you-27a0fc13**
Other entries were by @Sarahmay @lou1e @snezana28 @jimjim @shailaishrah @jakariya561 @mr.trenzs @khalidrajpoot @kaushik12 @marieofhtemiah @anne10 @humaria @annoftheroses @pusher @Equator-2
Thank you all for participating . PHASE III begins and it is based on any same idea. 2 days for submission but **3** days for review.
Thank you.
Your Limitation - It Is Just An Imagination..
**24/09//20**
**Episode 3 of Success Tips**
Hello everyone, it's Dangerous_Fly once again. I present to you **episode III** of Success Tips. Please subscribe if you haven't and leave a like or a comment if you want to.
**Previously** on Success Tips , we talked about why the need to get or dream big . We did, to be able to be successful we will have to plan on achieving bigger aims of which we will be continuing today. Previous article written **here**. https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/dream-bigger-5db9ddb9
As with big dreams, we just don't set them and stay ideal bit after finding them we start working towards them. At sometimes we feel the dream can't be accomplishment hence leading to today's article.
Today, we are going to talk about the subject, **"Your Limitation - It's Just An Imagination"**.
In the course of our dreams , we sometimes look at somethings and say to ourselves, "for this , I can't do it now matter how hard I try" but should I tell you something? Such statements are just as a result of your imagination and not because you can't actually do it.
You think you can never get the good grades you would love to get simply because you always fail. You have made failure an excuse and always you wish to get good grades but also you think you can never get them because all you have tried doesn't work. Then I say you haven't tried yet.
You sometimes say schooling is not my portion or that particular dream of mine is not my portion after several tries but the question is what about thise who have achieved that same dream or far better ones , where they born with it ? No, no one was born with such accomplishment of dreans but they all struggled going through up and downs and also seeing far beyond what your imaginations(limitations) are.
They see success in that tough task while you see failure hence making them better but that shouldn't be it but you should also see beyond that thing that calls itself limitation. Instead of being lazy , get up and start searching for how to accomplish the dream .
Don't limit yourself when it comes to your dreams. Don't look at your situation or what you have but rather focus on the dream and you sure my will accomplish it.
A boy started to learn how to play basketball. He went for training for quite a long time but he wasnf becoming the best he wanted to become. He blamed it all on his height as he want talk enough to reach the "rim".
It was event causing him to lose interest until one day he saw what he thought was impossible. It was a basketball🏀 tournament and to his surprise the MVP(**Most Valuable Player**) was a short man. He could do all the things the tall people were capable of and even more; scoring the 3 -pointer, "dribbling" and what ever the but thought was impossible for him to do was done by the short man.
After seeing this , he eventually began to have interest again and by working hard, he become the best he wanted to be.
In this scenario, the but had an imagination that being short makes it impossible for him to become a basket player making it a limitation but as he saw someone do it , his imaginations wee cleared same as the limitations making him successful.
With that dream of yours do you think , you can't accomplish it because of lack of certain qualities ? Or say the requirements are not of your size? Then I say you are mistaking and your imaginations are causing you to have limitations therefore the need to clear all imaginations of not being able to complete the dream since such limit you and rather focus on the dream.
Thank you all for your time, it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**.
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School resumes in 12 days hence reduced activities here is bound to occur for me.
Thank you all for the support , will be away for 10 weeks ...😅
> Remember , it's Dangerous_Fly
Dream Bigger...
**23/09//20**
**Episode 2 of Success Tips**
Yesterday's article was written based on a statement, **"****Dream it, Fight For It, Achieve It****"** . It was mainly about what a man has to go through before he can become successful in what ever task or in life. You can read it **here** if you haven't. https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/dream-it-fight-for-it-achieve-itep-1-1613a29f
**Dream Bigger** as the words put together suggests simply means , we should also have a bigger aim in the method of dreaming instead of going after normal ones. We should always seek for dreams that no other person will think of and that is the bigger dream. We have to distinguish ourselves from others when it comes to the dream we want to accomplish in order to call ourselves successful among any group of people.
Dreams are dreams, one might say , but not all dream are of the same value and process of accomplishment.
Although you become successful pursuing the dream that everyone else is chasing for but your success won't be recognized at a different place.
Among those who achieve same dreams as yours or those who haven't achieved anything you are successful but among other group of people , you are nothing but poor . For me, to make it successfully you have to be recognized everywhere you go not at specific places .
Among the blind, the one -eyed man is the King but among the fit he gets missing.
This is how your success looks like when it is the same as a lot of people's. You are only recognized because you are a bit better than those who see you to be successful but among the others you are nothing...
**Dream bigger** is just a phrase with an encouragement message that , we should always seem to achieve greatness but thinking or dreaming bigger..
Basically no one can compare a "store keeper" to a millionaire why? The millionaire is recognized at a lot of places but the store keeper, not everyone in your locality might know you.
Imagine two students in the same class offering the same course , one aims at getting the highest grades in all exams but for the other , he just wants to pass but not get the best grades.
Exam came and the one who wanted to just pass, couldn't pass because the exam was too difficult than expected hence failing since he didn't prepare extra harder and was just looking to pass. The other student on the other hand , couldn't get the best scores though but passed, who among these will be recognized??
It doesn't always mean that our dreams will come true but the greater the dream the Better the outcome even if it is not "fully" accomplished.
The wise aims higher than he can achieve and works diligently towards achieving it and when he doesn't , he gets a better result than that of a normal wish ..
It is therefore advisable to always have or make big aims or have bigger dreams but not that doesn't also end the process of becoming successful so we continue as stated in the **First Episode of success tips..** https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/dream-it-fight-for-it-achieve-itep-1-1613a29f
Thank you all for your time .
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Dream It, Fight For It, Achieve It...(Ep. 1)
**21/09//20**...
**Episode 1 of success tips** ..
Hello everyone, it's Dangerous_Fly once again. I deem it an honour to be on this site and also thank you all for your support; likes , comments and tips in my articles. I appreciate it all and I say a very big **"thank you"** to you all for your support.
I present to you , a series of quotes that I will be posting everyday for the fifteen days(today included), all in the form of articles. Please stay with me and make sure you read them . Thank you...
**Dream It, Fight For It, Achieve It!!.**
This consisits of three steps that can be of help to us ; each and every individuals who seeks success in life.
Basically, for every success , the first step or thing one must do is to dream of what he or she wants to become.
**DREAM IT!!!**
There is no way one will be able to achieve something without knowing what he or she wants to achieve and with such an idea everyine has to have a dream if only they want to be successful.
Dreams can include;
Being a millionaire at a specific age
Being the best at something
Being part of a group of people (profession)
Being able to.own something and a **whole lot of other ideas**
Dream should be ones that we have interest in and is willing to do. One shouldn't just pick up a dream but should do so based on his or her abilities or capabilities.
Right after having it picking a dream; dream of becoming a doctor, nurse or manager , it doesn't just appear from the skies, you will have to fight for it and work towards it.
**FIGHT FOR IT!!**
YES fight for it . Right after you pick a dream, you will have to work towards it. Work in accordance to it, stay strong in times of difficulties and whatever happens .
If you want to be a doctor,
Firstly, you will be enrolled in basic school
Passyour exam to senior school and University
Offer a course that can be used to become a doctor
Pass your exam and get a great CV and even with that you go for interview or whatever they call it to become a doctor.
If you want to be a millionaire at a specific age then ;
Reach out for opportunities
Do your own research
Invest and re-invest
Per the above , it can be seen that in whatever we wish to achieve , after dreaming for it we don't just remain there but we should work for it and by working for it , we move in accordance with our dream in order for it to be fulfilled .
**ACHIEVE IT!!**
Luckily, when we are able to pass through all these and make ourselves useful , we accomplish and achieve our dreams and make it a reality if which we become proud of ourselves as well umas community and family.
Thank you for your time.
**Dream It, Fight For It, Achieve It**
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Not Taking Any Risk Is A Big Risk.
Risks are really dangerous as one would describe it , therefore not trying to take them but do you know that, not all risks shouldn't be taken and also some risks are supposed to lead us to our greatness?
The list goes on when we are talking about the risks some people took that has made them really valuable and recognized in society and the state we live in but that doesn't mean they were not ripped or scammed before. There might have been scammed before getting to where they had it and became successful through it.
Risks are really important "occasions" and are supposed to be taken by all though they sometimes leave us with a sense of regret but does that call for a run from it?
Recently a token (UNI token ) was initiated and distributed to people causing a whole lot of joy for they were fortunate and disappointment for others who couldn't make it.
These were all risks taken , what if they didn't trade in the platform because they had been scammed or someone has told them that all exchanges are scam? They wouldn't have gotten the token to which has caused some success.
Now we follow people and hail those who are known to have a lot of Bitcoins simply because it has a lot of value now. But if they hadn't taken the risk to risk their money they wouldn't have gotten that worth of profit on it.
**Not taking any risk is a big risk** simply suggests that, not going out for any chance will eventually lead us to a broken future since almost everything we do in life is full of risks.
Actually, a whole lot of things we do in these days are all made of risks but if you still decide to not take any then I don't know the future you are trying to create for yourself.
Risks are mainly taken in life at various occasions of which some includes :
When your mum and dad decides to invest their money into your education so that you can become profitable in future but that is not a quarantee. They do so without knowing the outcome and such is a risk
When you decide to put up a store where you will see foodstuffs to people, you take a risk by doing so since it might come out profitable or a failure.
So is those who invest into stocks, assets , companies, and business as well as cryptocurrency. They also risk losing or gaining .
All risks are profitable or less based on his they are taken ;
If your mom decides to take the risk of.putting you in school and finds a job for you right after University, that risk is not as compared to furthering your education after University since when you become unproductive after furthering your studies she loses more but when you become productive she gets more profit
It is therefore advisable to take risks and calculate your risks to know what can be the effect when you lose or the benefits when you succeed but that doesn't make as stay out of it since almost a lot of things are made of risks .
Join when the opportunity comes and take the risks since it is through risks that we can succeed .
Thank you for your time, it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**.
You Can't Make An Omelette Without Breaking Eggs...
**You can't make an omelette without breaking eggs** is a statement that suggests that , at various situations or times in life we can't solve problems without it having effects on us.
It also makes it an advantage and tells us that sometimes we can't achieve success without making mistakes somewhere; someway or somehow.
As humans, mistakes are a part of us and will forever be a part of us but mistakes are supposedly not supposed to happen twice or more hence making it of great importance as it helps shape us and make us mindful of the outcome of certain actions or activities.
Mistakes may be of great disadvantage to us as it sometimes causes a great deal of loss and a whole lot of frustration but they are made to shape us.
Imagine solving a question while preparing for an exam. In the cause of doing it, you made a mistake with "Basic operations" causing the whole answer to be wrong hence causing failure in the trial.
Such occasions are unfortunate but when it happens it gives a sense of caution and makes us go by the correct way or principle. As this happens, it prepares you to be extra careful to avoid same mistakes incase same or similar question appers in the exam.
In a project of writing codes to make a specific thing happen, mistakes might be in the project (code) which when run at it's basis will produce an error making us fix and look at how it is "integrated" or "called" properly in order not to make silly mistakes when the lines of codes become excessive or plenty.
It is advisable not to always get "mad" at things when they don't go well or go as expected but rather learn from them by reviewing them, develop and try as much as possible to avoid such mistakes from happening again at all costs.
**Summary**
This statement in its own sense talks about why mistakes are of relevance especially when we are doing nearly impossible tasks or things that hasn't already being done ..
We make mistakes only to correct ourselves and keep the game or project going because nothing can be achieved on a silver platter, if and only if it is of great relevance. https://read.cash/@Her-bert/success-is-not-gotten-on-a-silver-platter-109ee17c
It is therefore advisable that, we prepare for and keep in mind that mistakes are bound to happen in any project we try making all we have to do is fix it, take notice of the cause of it and never repeat it since we might not be able to stop mistakes from happening for the first time but can prevent it from repeating itself.
Thank you all for your time, special thanks to @Telesfor , it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**.
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Don't Cast Pearl Before Swine ..
I was always of the view that, my senior brother would be of a change of mind if I handed over some resources to him .
I always wanted to let him secure a place of living since we all lived together in the family house but all the time he wasn't just ready. All attempts to help him secure a job so that he can save to secure a house for himself proved futile as he wasn't ready to do so, therefore I stopped trying to help and secured the job for myself, worked , saved something and managed to build a 3-bedrook apartment for myself away from the family house but for my brother he still lives in the family house till now.
A friend of mine was not so good at academics. He was not good and couldn't solve most questions we were given in school . Always scoring below pass mark and getting punished but he still can't get it. Everytime, he hears there will be a test the following day, he becomes disturbed .
I thought his fear would push him to learn and make him better if he had an assistance from someone so I approached him one day and decided to help him . He happily agreed but whenever we set a meeting or date to meet , he doesn't appear; he makes no effort to study but rather spend time with friends whi care less about him and laughs at him any time he gets punished.
I tried for a couple of times but to no avail them I stopped and focused on my studies.
**DON'T CAST PEARL BEFORE SWINE**
I am of the view that , by reading these two scenarios you might have gotten the idea behind the topic but if you still haven't stay tuned we are on it.
Don't cast pearl before swine simply suggests that, we shouldn't continue to offer something valuable to someone who does value it or see it's significance.
Sometimes we do want to be of help to people thereby sacrificimh out time, our goods, our services and even sometimes asking other people to be if help to them but do you know what happens? Those that we care about and will go all miles to help them do not value the offer, our assistance and do not care about it not because it is not good but rather because they are lazy to work with it.
As seen in both scenarios , there was a sign of care for them by me , where I was willing to help but they were not ready to help themselves.
I was willing to sacrifice my time , resource but weren't hence a retreat.
Many are the things others are willing to sacrifice for us but umtil thy see that sense of maturity, willingness, eagerness, persistence and that of hardworking spirit, they will never put their service into it , so should we.
To help a person , make it a priority to look at it before but shouldn't just help without looking at past works but also we should give chance to people who are new and are willing to make a service since not all people are liable to rely on their own to complete a project but when helped can make it happen.
Thank you all for your time, it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**
Practice Makes Perfect!
**19/09/20**
I was really good at running as I was always ahead of my classmates whenever we set to run. By so doing, I was always of the view that I was the best and was reluctant to train or practice as others were .
We organized a competition and to my outmost surprise, a friend won. He was always practicing while I was relaxing
**Practice Makes Perfect**.
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**Practice Makes Perfect** is a statement with a simple meaning; the importance of practice. The more you practice the more you become better at what you do of which idleness doesn't add up.
It emphasizes on the fact that, we should avoid laziness and practice because it is only through practicing that, one can help him or herself and leave up to a specific task.
In life , all situations or what we intend on doing becomes easier to achieve when we keep practicing, practice is what makes such activities come out with a better yield.
I had a design contest in a week's time. I therefore decided to use any free time I get to practice and by so doing I was able to know what it means to create a gif and how to go about it when it appeared in my tasks . If I hadn't practiced I wouldn't have known how.
To write an exam, I made my mind to practically improve my score this time hence using any small time I get to learn, practice almost all drawings , getting my hands on some essays questions and solving some past objective questions and in return of this the exam really went well and I got the high marks I wanted.
So is everything in life, in football, most at times those who practice more are the ones who are successful, basketball ( all sports), in education it does apply with technology. The more you practice the more you became good at it and be able to solve problems when the need arises.
The list goes on to even game playing. Those who spend a lot of time playing it are those who are really good at it.
It is therefore of great importance to practice than sit idle since practicing is what makes a person perfect or puts a person in position to solve specific problems or accomplish and aim.
Thank you all for your time, It's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!.**
There Are More Ways Than One To Skin A Cat...
Have you ever tried solving a problem or a situation but all attempts proved futile? It is of a lot of frustration when our methods of solving specific problems do not work out but what if the problem is from us? What if it is our way of addressing it is that which is not working?
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Today's article simply suggests that, there are of different ways that can be used to solve or attend to a problem .
Sometimes we limit ourselves to only a special approach , method or way when we are dealing with people or problems.
It is sometimes good as it works but what about times that we are dealing with different people with different characters or attitudes as well as likes and dislikes altogether? Can one aporoch work for all of them? No.
Some methods seem to work for us but as we keep on using them , it sometimes become inefficient as it doesn't work on some people there the need to adjust somethings.
This article simy suggests why the need to try almost all possible means when solving problems or dealing with people especially when we keep on failing and stick to the ones that works perfectly on specific problems and apply in such cases.
They say as a seller, you have to ensure that you have a good sense of community and friendship or relation with your customers that they will keep coming for more but does that mean distribute the goods at a price that is cheaper than that at the market place?Does it mean you should stop selling at the store at sometimes and start joking or laughing around ? **No**
You can see cmvery well that , such are also methods but that won't be an effective one but as a matter of fact when we move to a different locality or start to deal with a different group if people we should try all methods it out up a set of different behaviour simply to find out the best one .
This doesn't also mean we should go off board simply to find the best way if relating to each person but need to look at the people involved; their Character, and act accordingly to whom a person is or a problem we are facing not act always with a **general approach**.
I conclude them by saying, the way of life of us at specific times should differ based on tried methods and it shouldn't be a one way thing if it does seem to work well. After all, there are several other easy to skin a cat and applying such an approach will be of great help when dealing with a wide range of variety of people or problems.
Thank you all for your time, it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**.
You Can Lead A Horse To The Riverside But Can't Force It To Drink..
I had this friend who follows some people out of school right after lessons close everyday while he was a boarder. He did that for a long time but one day , he wasn't fortunate , he was seen by one teacher as he was leaving campus. The teacher said nothing but allowed him to go and come back the next day.
At school, he called this guy's name and told all of us his offence and was immediately deboardinized. I was sad at that but do you know what pissed me off when I met him? **Stay tuned**
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As the topic suggests , no one can take part in an activity without his or her consent. Actually forcing a donkey or horse to the Riverside is the influences around us, those people who tell us to do certain things and also drinking the water is completing the command or instructions.
So per the statement it simply means , one can have an influence on you or force a command on you but cannot force you to work it out unless you do so in your own consent or interest.
Sometimes, it takes pain baring and a whole lot to make someone to do something against his or her wish and if such people blame it on others I do understand them and consider it an excuse.
But a situation where a person put blames on other people especially the people around him saying, these people are the ones who caused me to, it is their fault and other similar statements , I deem it "foolish" and do not consider them
Imagine someone blaming someone for showing him the drinking spot after he went there to drink and got drunk. Does that makes sense? No. In the first place you asked for the location and he gave you it without forcing you to go and drink to the extent of getting drunk and even if he forced you there , he can't force you to drink, the moment you do that , it is of your actions not someone's influence.
We are and should be responsible for our own actions of which no external influence will account for it's effect on either us or the people we live with. And by such if we follow such influences and it has negative effects , we are those who will suffer it not those who showed us or influenced us.
As with my friend, I was really sad at that punishment given to him as I had lost a room mate since we all associate well like a family with one another. So this was a dialogue that happened between us.
**Me** : What really happened and what do you go out to do? ( **since whenever we ask him , he doesn't tell us but we keep covering for him.** )
**Him:** I follow the students to play games and after we are done , the students go their separate ways to their respective homes as I also go to my cousin.
(**I became disappointed to hear that, he follows the students to play games and after they are done , the students go their separate ways I to their respective homes as he also goes to his cousin.** ) So I continued.
**Me** : Why don't you return after playing the game with the students.
**Him** ; Sometimes at night, I go out with my cousin and it is my cousin who always tells me to come home so that we stay together.
I got frustrated and without a second thought, I said it boldly in his face that, **it is not the fault of his cousin but rather his** when he was **trying** to blame his cousin for the mischief. I also made him notice that, his cousin told him to come home but didn't force him but it was his will to join the students and go to him Making the effect his. If he hadn't followed his cousin he wouldn't have landed into trouble so it is his own fault.
(I left him right after I finished telling him this and he sat down quietly)
**The End** (Fiction)
People sometimes follow what others tell them without looking at the real facts of it and the influence such instructions can cause.
His cousin invited him alright but can his cousin come to the school to force him to follow it? No, it was of his own will that made him follow such an instruction but little did he know also that , incase of any effect he has to bear it since following the instructions makes him the one responsible for anything that happens..
It is quite unfortunate that, peer pressure and media influence are rampant in the system but that is not an excuse. Anyone who allows it to have an influence on them making them pregnant (teenage pregnancy) , they got themselves to be blamed since no one will be taking care of their pregnancy for them . We experience the effects alone so should we not be influenced by someone .
Without much ado, I say in a case of being influenced by someone we got the chance to either make it our cause or refrain from it but who ever partners or follows the influence will have him or herself to be blamed since they suffer the consequences alone but who stands and rejects the influence leaves not to blame someone .
Thank you for your time and your efforts. It's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**
Consuming The Right Information ..
**19/09/20**
Two men went to church because their life was not going in as expected. They have learnt trade, carpentry and even resolved into selling petty things since all their capital was finished after trying several things but none was working for them.
They then decided to go to a church where they have heard the pastor was really good but not knowing he was really fake and knew nothing. The pastor blamed their failure in life on their mothers.
This caused them to think in ejecting their mothers but their mothers have been of very good help to them. They always help them to raise money to start a different work whenever they lose their capital.
**One** considered the words carefully and again seemked for further advice of which it was said unto him never to throw his mother out since she can't be the cause of his failure but rather he should change his style of working and even if he can he should do something he is really good at or render a scarce service in his locality.
As usual, his mom helped him raise some money and he started work again , this time he opened a book shop and it was gradually taking its heights and been successful.
**The** other man on the contrary threw his mom out of his house leaving her with no where to go. He never bothered himself to look into the information, consider the work of his mother or verify the information at a different source. And things didn't also change for it's betterment.
One day, as usual there was church service and a man who was known by all to be sick in society and has been sent to various hospitals for treatment but to no avail was brought to the pastor to heal .
As usual, he did some fake prayer and after sometime he started, Jesus has delivered you , if God shows it to us then he has spoilt it but not knowing he secretly collected the name of the mother of the sick man from one of his ushers who in turn asked from a church member.
As soon as he finished all these he mentioned the name and said it was that person who was disturbing the man. Everyone looked surprised at the pastor's words even after that he said they should go and bring her. There a loud sense of confusion set in and people who never believed in him leaving the church for the house already.
The pastor couldn't hold it any longer because the name he mentioned was that of a dead person, the sick man's mother who died in an accident years ago.
With such everyone noticed he was fake and couldn't sit down to be lied to any longer. The church eventually crushed but that wasn't the problem but for the man who threw his mother out of home, he was embarrassed and did know how to patch things up with his mother.
**End Of Story**
It is always of great significance to seek for information from people when things aren't right but that doesn't also mean we should believe Everything we are told without verification. Various informations should be verified to prevent mistake.
Consuming the right information , is of essence in our daily activities as it is what makes us do what we are supposed to do in the right manner. Imagine writing an exam with a wrong instruction, there is no way you can score but reading , understanding and reviewing will always give us the right idea to write the correct thing and make us avoid mistakes.
It is therefore advisable that, we consider the information we consume , reading over again is not a crime so as seeking for an advice from a different source after consulting one since relying on one source can be wrong or lead us astray.
Thank you all for your time, it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**
Why Focus On Power Users? ; Do Your Thing ..
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After a long and tedious time of revisiting some articles which might have been a month or more older just to reply some comments and if you noticed some hasn't been attended to yet of which I will do so **ASAP** .
I decide to give myself some break since some articles really needed a lot of work ; reply, give an advice to spammers , tip if necessary and also leave a like , I returned to my feed (notification) only to find or see that some people were wondering about the latest update about Read.Cash which was about giving all the powers to Power Users where our points can increase only if they like our content.
You can read about Power Users **here** if you don't know who or the things a power user can do . https://read.cash/@Read.Cash/power-users-10109226
Actually this update would be a good thing for others whereas bad for others . I felt the disappointment when my points were stuck at one place for over 8 hours thereby causing me to **message** Read.Cash but the response was exactly like what he said in the update.
But did that stop me ?
One thing is that, power users are just like regular users who do not even know if they are one and by that, it makes it difficult to identify one but as good as we all are , we must atleast suspect someone of being one . Such people do boost your points when they react to your posts. For me , I can't best tell who boosts my points but some people can really notice and predict someone as a power user.
That was just by the way though.
All this article about is just to tell us why it is not needful to put all our hopes in finding a power user but we should rather focus on creating contents since eventually a power user will come around.
A power user will surely drop by and read our content and might like it . You don't know so will it come as a surprise to you , a surprise that,
That friend of yours that you always make a prolonged conversation at the comment section is s power user.
You yourself is a power user
The moderator of the community you submit your articles to is a power user.
Or that writer that you mostly read his articles and comment.
With that been said , I say let's continue with our work for eventually our supposed points will come to us.
Thank you for your time, it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**
Strike While The Iron Is Hot...
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**Strike While The Iron Is Hot** is an indication that , we must always be ready to take a chance or make a move when an opportunity or the need arises.
It is indeed a great statement with such a great advice but for me , the statement has to be restructured . It is not always that this statement applies to humanity and "so-called" opportunities.
Well let's talk about the good side before the bad side.
Many are the times , opportunities , chances or whatever one will call it comes on our way but we become too "inquisitively" and let such chances disappear without grabbing them, be ause some might include fees , or sometimes hardwork so we allow them for them to disappear.
A friend of mine had the chance to attend an I.T classes, it was free but the classes intersected with a time he always went out to play with other friends .
Instead of cutting off that meetings and focusing on the classes, he took the classes for granted and went for the classes oy when he felt like going , giving funny excuses to the classes teacher each time he missed the class and is asked why he missed.
A time came where they needed to promote these I.T students to work as employees in a company in which they admitted almost every student who took part in the classes except this friend of mine and some others who didn't take the classes seriously.
If he had used his efforts wisely and striked while the iron was hot( **learnt while he had the chance to, attended the classes while he could**) , he would have been admitted and if even he won't get anything he would get a monthly tipping. But instead he wasted every bit of the opportunity and still depends on his mother for basic things.
It is of clear explanation here that, we should always take things seriously especially ones that gives as knowledge, tipping or what not but with such an advice it doesn't mean all chances or "so-called" opportunities are good.
A writer in our locality saw an advert on a social media app saying if you are a writer, you are at it to make it big since they create an available platform for all that makes it really easier for people to show their worth.
As sound and wilful as he was, he decided to seek further information from them. He was lied to professionally and was ripped of nearly $400 after they showed him fake sites, payouts and whatever evidence one could ask for .
This situation left me with a question that, if we are advised to strike while the iron is hot but sometimes end up getting ripped then is that statement worth it?
But I was of the view that if you use a faulty iron and it really gets hot using it can get your stuff burnt and so is such related to life.
If you going for faulty or ingenious opportunities it will rather lead you into losing than gaining thereby the need to always do our own research(DYOR) before we go into an opportunity.
WE make sure we take it a chance when we find one but look through it and ask for feedbacks before using or availing ourselves to them.
Thank you all for your time, it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**.
The Giveaway has recorded quite a reasonable number of users who have submitted their entries . Please.make sure you do so if you intend on taking part because the **PHASE I ** of the giveaway contest ends on 19th September, 2020 at 18:00 GMT
Thank you all for your submissions.
"We Depend On The Fund.."
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**This is an article based on my view of the current situation at Read.Cash and of why spammers were excessive on the site , also to make some identities public and expose some of their pranks.**
Although there us an update which can possibly stop spamming but fir now let's look at what I have here.
Few days ago , I read an article by a **user** here on Read.Cash titled , " **The two faces of read.cash and why isnt good for bch marketing promotion** **"** staying the fact and consent about the two types of "groups" on the site . https://read.cash/@alberdioni8406 https://read.cash/@alberdioni8406/the-two-faces-of-readcash-and-why-isnt-good-for-bch-marketing-promotion-892d1ea6
Those who write about BCH really well
The rest of us. Meaning the others who don't write about BCH "Technically"
It is quite obvious that those who write such great articles are the people who got into BCH quite earlier and know more about it . With such a claim they are those who are basically capable of tipping article with some great amounts, but in doing so they sometimes use it to tip themselves (BCH Enthusiasts) leaving the others( new/other users ) behind .
Some showed their agreement to his article of which I was a pert of but I was of the view that , even though that is not the best for BCH Mass Adoption, it's their incentive and they do what they want to do with it.
After sometime , I thought of this and a question popped out of my mind , "What will you feel when you see other's get up to $1000 in their articles and for you you get barely $0.05 "
It is kinda been jealous for someone's progress but for a fact that won't go well and besides that is the normal order until various people with the top donor being @MarcDeMesel decided to make points system an entitlement where we all get something for our efforts but what about not getting points?
We are all driven by the fact that, the site has experienced a lot of spam activities of which it is still going on but less seen but do we know why this is happening?
People who join the site are of the view of making more money as possible with only few people with the mindset of getting some knowledge of which I am not a part of .
And sometimes after several decent efforts, they feel their work is not appreciated because some really want to earn a lot more but sometimes it is because it i really difficult for then to get subscribers hence resolving in " subscribe me , I subscribe you".
You can read the article with such comment **here**. https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/proper-parenting-e3f859a2
Some also resolved into creating prank giveaways with the sole aim of getting more subscribers since some of these giveaways have no proper content. Some are just for people to create awareness for them and I made my views clear in this **article** . https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/boosting-of-articles-vs-giveaways-pranks-3c2f7bbc
Later on, there was a campaign that talked about such activities so causing people to create plagiarized comments and articles.
I was having difficulties determining which one was recent thereby causing me to scroll through my notifications to find out that this user has stolen the comment from it's rightful owner.
A lot more of such cases do happen in we people's articles just like mine. And if you want to see these comments for yourself, you can read them at **Proper Parenting** **and** **You won't always get what you want.** https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/proper-parenting-e3f859a2#comment-3fc9b4e0 https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/you-might-not-always-get-what-you-want-380aaae6
Read.Cash has resolved into various forms to curb those spamming activities of which I deem it great.
**SUMMARY**
PER my article, I hereby say that , the tips among BCH enthusiasts **can** be a cause of spamming on the site (but that is not a claim ) as others would have to solely depend on the fund and if they feel less privileged to have a lot of points they find other ways to make it of which they don't care about it's consequences.
It is quite unfortunate that , nothing can be done about the tips since the idea might remain the same but at least what we can do is fight the spammers and try correcting them unto the right path.
I will forever be grateful to @Telesfor @Koush @TomZ @georgedonnelly and a few others who give the other writers a chance to make their thoughts known to others. And their support.
Thank you all for taking some time off to read . Please avoid spamming if you do it since it only becomes a deduction to your points not points increase.
Thank you once again for your time , it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**.
A Journey Of Thousand Miles Begins With A very First Step...
We were so keen at travelling from our place to the ceremony where there was total enjoyment. We prepared for a very long time with each one appearing in his or her best dress since we were all trying to impress one another. But unfortunately , when we reached where the ceremony was supposed to take place,we had a notice that the ceremony has been postponed causing a sense of frustration as we travelled back home.
**That was just by the way.**
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A journey of thousand miles begins with a very first step is a representation of the start of everything. It simply suggest that in life, nothing is bound to happen if it is not initiated or started.
All aims, hopes, goals, wishes , aspirations or whatever one may call it, can never be fulfilled when it is not initiated . The kickoff is what causes everything to begin if we don't get ready to initiate the course of the aim , never will It be accomplished.
One will say I want to buy a car but that doesn't happen . Can you just be there for the car to come from where ever it is to where you are? No , it can't, perhaps a series of activities must take place before the car can end up at where you are of which with all these series of activities , there is the starting point or the start.
There can't be an accomplishment of one's wish If he or she doesn't start to make it come true.
There is no way one can harvest a crop on his / her farmland if he or she doesn't cultivate.
You can't also be able to catch fishes from the sea if you stay at home.
Neither can you get money from a store that hasn't been launched or opened
These are all illustrations to show or disprove the fact of people who always result to saying their wishes will come true and have hopes that they will make it but do not make any options to start.
I have seen a whole lot of people who have made it an anthem saying , **"for me I will make it in life no matter the cost"** but they never wake up from their slumber to go out and look for a job, take part in any work or what not but they are always seen smoking weed , drinking and doing all other things that are not of help to them but they still continue singing the same anthem when I keep asking them .
In all things we wish to accomplish, we should always make the beginning, start making efforts towards it and it shouldn't just end there it should be pushed . But the most important thing is it's initiation..
A Journey Of 1000 Miles begins with a very first simply suggests why the need to make yourself ready to take or walk through difficulties to make your aims come true and it represents that very first thing you do.
To become a doctor in the future , it represents you getting into school.
To become a businessman , it represents the set of business you start up
And none of our wishes can come through without it's initiation. I decide to also add this, how the first step is taken also guarantees success.
Remember wishes are not only for a person but for all and anyone who works hard for it no matter the cost seems to be always the one who makes it happen leaving those l who doesn't work hard for it only to waste their time as they might be recognized.
Imagine immediately after setting up a store , you don't go to open it in the morning, you only open it for a few hours and close or you open it only at night while it is supposed to be opened for a longer period. Such an attitude is always not a good one and can make the journey unsuccessful. .These attitudes leads us to a fall out in the race and that can't make you the winner while others open their store from morning till evening and sell almost the same thing as yours.
Right after the whistle was blown for you to start the race , you feel down . Such an occurrence can always be really bad and you might not be able to complete the race successfully so is this .
If you decide to cut of your work from how it was planned due to some influences or our personal reasons it is more likely to fail hence the need to do continue from there .
You really want to cultivate a crop
You work to secure the farmland.
You cleaf the land if it is weedy .
Wait for it rain or whatever , then you sow your seed .
Practice various farm practices until it becomes fully grown
**HARVEST IT**
It is so simple , one step leads to the next and the other leads to the other but to me the most important is the first step and also it is tyeist difficult for me because that is the period you weigh all the pros and cons of you want to achieve and put it into and mostly the most rare occurrence in all steps.
Without much ado, I say in all aims we want to accomplish, we have to always prepare ourselves, take the first step (initiate the process) and continue through series of activities to make it a success.
Thank you all for stopping by. It's Dangerous_Fly once again,**Bring It On!!!**
A Moment To Remember ($10 Giveaway) - UPDATE.
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It has been an honour to be the host of a **giveaway** **contest** announced a few days ago . I really appreciate you all for your interest and submissions. https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/a-moment-to-remember-10-giveaway-6cc8b0a4
It has been 3 days already leaving only two days to end the first phase of the contest. Please do well and submit your article if you really want to take part.
**Please note that all submissions will be reviewed soon** but one thing we all would have to notice is that if your submission doesn't complete all the checkpoints then you must try as much as possible to do so.
You can read about the contest **here** if you haven't already read about and it and you can also join if you intend on joining. https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/a-moment-to-remember-10-giveaway-6cc8b0a4
I hereby decide to give you a compilation of all entries as at now and also keep you updated on the contest as well as make writers notice what checkpoint they haven't fulfilled.
The important checkpoints include ;
Adding the link to the main contest in your article.https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/a-moment-to-remember-10-giveaway-6cc8b0a4
It should be submitted to the communty Life Experience with it's link being https://read.cash/c/life-experience-6ff0
And lastly there should be a tag of someone you would like him or her to take part in the comment section.
The entries are not arranged in any format please take note and they include;
An entry by @Njokuiyke
https://read.cash/@Njokuiyke/my-further-mathematics-teacher-dc70db8a
No link or reference to the give away article
An entry by @Mr.Trenzs
https://read.cash/@Mr.Trenzs/a-memorable-day-in-school-life-f5c85541
Checkpoint completed✅
Two entries by @Kaushik12
https://read.cash/@Kaushik12/photographybeautiful-sunset-views4-23ce571b
No link to contest
No submitted to said community
https://read.cash/@Kaushik12/mothers-letter-from-old-age-home-d1f3a9b4
No link to contest
An entry from @marieofhtemiah
https://read.cash/@marieofhtemiah/my-2020-before-covid-19-3a824ec2
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry from @annoftheroses
https://read.cash/@annoftheroses/what-2020-did-to-us-c0442ee7
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry from @ADEPRETTY
https://read.cash/@ADEPRETTY/the-day-i-will-never-forget-6241524c
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry from @Equator-2
https://read.cash/@Equator-2/dadpersonal-afbf3c0f
Not submitted to said community
No link to contest
An entry from @jakariya561
https://read.cash/@jakariya561/acid-throwing-a7d16091
Not submitted to said community
No link to giveaway.
An entry from @Humaira
https://read.cash/@Humaira/physiotherapy-b3f9bcb1
Not submitted to said community
No link to giveaway
An entry from @Annie10
https://read.cash/@Anne10/thank-u-readcash-you-are-legit-97663be4
Not submitted to community
No.link to giveaway
An entry from @wakeupkitty
https://read.cash/@wakeupkitty/those-good-days-45154d7c
Not submitted to said community
An entry from @Macronald
https://read.cash/@Macronald/moment-unforgettable-9bb564be
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry from @PASTOR001
https://read.cash/@PASTOR001/the-day-of-my-wedding-7de968cb
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry from @Shailaishrah
https://read.cash/@Shailaishrah/go-ahead-and-talk-to-yourself-86b94431
Not submitted to said community
No link to giveaway.
An entry from @jimjim
https://read.cash/@jimjim/the-moment-you-realize-that-god-is-not-done-teaching-you-important-lessons-entry-for-dangerous-fly-bfa4b264
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry from @Lou1e
https://read.cash/@Lou1e/an-authentic-friend-0568c7e2
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry from @heartbeat1515
https://read.cash/@heartbeat1515/unforgettable-aa2a518f
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry from @Xzeon
https://read.cash/@Xzeon/the-chocolate-aa0e8d8c
Checkpoint completed✅
An entry by @Snezana28
https://read.cash/@Snezana28/call-to-prayer-in-mosques-and-church-bells-f6f00003
Not submitted to said community
No link to giveaway
No tags
It is quite unfortunate that some of the articles do not qualify for the aim of the contest but I suppose they will see their mistakes and give to a second and third chance. Some are writing about something else which do not talky with the aim of the contests .
Please read **this** article carefully to know what you have to do. https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/a-moment-to-remember-10-giveaway-6cc8b0a4
Also please to those who have submitted make sure all checkpoints are fulfilled since failure to do so may decrease your chances to proceed to next stage.
**THANK YOU ALL FOR YOUR ENTRY, IT WILL HE REVIEWED SOON**.
Please tag more friends to make this contest a little bigger than this.
Thank you all for stopping by, it's Dangerous_Fly.
Let The Sleeping Dogs Lie!!!
Many are the times we sometimes decide or want to prove ourselves for a past argument , misunderstanding or what not of which sometimes , some lead to serious damages to us and even sometimes to the people around us.
In an event that we pass by a canine that is dozing on the wayside, it is in every case better to disregard it without awakening it. It is smarter to leave the difficulties or urge of awakening regardless of whether they look innocuous(not dangerous or harmful).
Rather than that in the event that we pointlessly attempt to deal with them, they may turn out to be amazingly risky. There the need to look at it and pass or avoid waking it up.
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**Let The Sleeping Dogs lie** is simply the act of avoiding the rekindle or restart of an old argument ,or misunderstanding.
As already said, we sometimes want to prove ourselves to people so in the course of doing so we restart and old argument which is not of any benefit.
**Two Friends** of mine were arguing over something that a teacher said at assembly. One said, he made a mistake in his speech and the other said he didn't.
Apparently, there was no one to confirm for them of which they decided to stop and wait for someone to be around to confirm or continue later.
Immediately they saw me , the one who was right in my perspective approached me and started to ask me about it . After looking at their faces , I decided to keep it to myself and advised them to forget about it and **Let The Sleeping Dogs Lie** but they wouldn't listen .
The continued to go over and ask a group of students who are in the same class with them meaning we were not in the same class.
They continued this argument since the group of students also had different views on the matter of which made them to make the argument for a long time even leading them to class.
They entered class but still continued generating a loud noise . Unfortunately, a teacher passed by and decided to punish to give out punishment for such disturbance . But not only did he put ish the offenders but all people in the class.
**The End.**
Per the scenario, the restart of the argument led to their punishment, as well as putting other people into trouble.
Why do we have to still talk about a situation that has passed ? Why do we have to proof ourselves in an attempt to say something to them. The way of waking matters up after they become inactive are not good ways of proving ourselves or ideas to people but rather a bad way which is mostly a way that leads to a lot of effects on us and sometimes the people around.
I don't say, we don't have to always price ourselves to people but in a way that , the argument doesn't lead to any achievement , it should be stopped .
Arguing that ,
Messi is better than Ronaldo or vice versa
This person is richer than the other
Someone is the best when it comes to music
Something is of essence or not and **a whole lot** of which we know is of no importance but continue to argue about.
I am always of the view that, in an argument no matter how hard you try , this person is not willing to accept this person's view neither is the other unless the subject can be proved through various methods . So I don't always make it my priority to engage in such useless arguments but rather stay at my yard.
It is unwise to always rekindle arguments or even start arguments that doesn't add any value to humanity since it would rather put you into trouble and effects.
Thank you for your time , it's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**
Latest Articles; Please Read..
Hello everyone, it's Dangerous_Fly and I purposely want to share with you a summary of my fifteen latest articles as at **16th September , 2020** with some summary as well as the most cherished among all.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/no-one-is-my-mate-i-am-my-own-mate-9242e5ac
This is the latest article which talks mostly about why it is not advisable to compare people because their are colleagues or mates. A must read.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/one-shouldnt-miss-forest-for-trees-c0bad0e8
This is the second article which was posted recently .
It talks about how people must look keenly at things or situations and avoid making decisions when there is a though call with little or no information. It sometimes also on the need to verify information and not following eye popping features and it has scenario you will love to read.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/you-might-not-always-get-what-you-want-380aaae6
This also emphasizes on the fact that , not all things we ever wish for can come to pass noatter how hard we try.
Sometimes somethings are made not for us and with that we can't get it of which we will have to realise it really early. Failure to realise sometimes make us go through a wicked path which is not good for us.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/be-appreciative-03852af5
This also emphasizes on the fact that we should show appreciation for anything we get as help from someone. No matter how small it is , it is really valuable.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/proper-parenting-e3f859a2
Are you a parent? Is your parent not treating you really that well?
I think this is for you. It gives specific guide to us all on how at least parenting should be like.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/a-moment-to-remember-10-giveaway-6cc8b0a4
This is a $10 giveaway which is still going on , it will be fun to join , just read the instructions there and take part.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/fear-ad46cba9
This emphasizes on the most growth regarding attitude on the part of people. We are all afraid at sometimes but that doesn't sound as an excuse to not being productive , read this. ..
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/the-act-of-giving-de4c1b00
The act of giving, giving and what it entails can be found here. Give it a shot.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/dont-always-follow-the-crowd-1a141d8e
This talks about the dangers of always following the crowd. The crowd as we all know can be dangerous but also productive .there is thereby the need to know which crowd to follow when and where.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/discrimination-1e28f552
The feeling of being better than someone leading to treating the person unfairly and been looked at carefully here. You can read it.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/the-bitter-truth-7ab06eea
It talks in why the need to tell people the truth always no matter what it takes, whether against our flesh or close relatives.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/social-media-0506e68e
The importance and dismerit if social media .
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/he-who-fights-and-run-lives-to-fight-another-day-412ae8b0
The need to always prepare against certain battles. It also talks about fighting troubles at it's early stage since if you don't you will still have to fight it in the near which can be more difficult than it's first stage.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/mark-as-spam-help-fight-spammers-91ab34a2
Dealing with spammers , as the site was more of spammers.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/what-you-are-not-looking-out-for-not-doing-in-the-platform-2b9817a6
What members of Read.Cash are not doing and there after talking about people stealing points From them while they are those who help them.
**Two most cherished**
These are the two most cherished articles of.my own and I actually love it really much . You can save sometimes to read them.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/the-golden-rule-588fadb6
It talks about the Golden Rule. I won't break it down here it has been written in simple English so that you can understand amu pretty well.
https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/shoot-your-shot-with-precision-924f8a7a
This also talks about the fact of taking actions with precision and not taking actions of which we will later regret.
Thsnk you all for reading this. I deem it a privilege giving to me if you can take time and read these articles if you haven't.
Thank you @Telesfor and @Her-bert for the recent upvote.
No One Is My Mate; I am My Own Mate...
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As children or growing people or adults we sometimes get into a period of failure and sometimes don't get things right but that doesn't mean we must be discouraged. We do take somethings for granted and also sometimes we work really hard to get somethings without anyone knowing exactly what we are going through.
This sometimes lead some people to say unto us, look at this or that person is your colleague, your mate, your age group or what not and he is way better than you. He does things accurately and is far better than you. He dresses with the newest assest but all you got is one way dressing.
Such statements are basically of the thought that when such words are said it will make the person sometimes have a feeling of being inferior and work hard to get into such places or have such entitlements but is that it?
This basically happens in the African communities where we see people laugh at others simply because they have got somethings, those laugh at don't have thereby giving them the authority to look down on them.
Instead of being rebuked, you see the adults in society also supporting them saying exactly the same words ,
your mates have made it in life but as for you , you are always walking around with nothing.
Your mates are having cars at their age but as for you , you don't own even a bicycle not talking of a motorcycle
And a whole lot of comparison but sometimes do you know they funny part , these adults have nothing also and some are really poor but won't keep quiet.
What points am I raising?
There are basically sometimes that people find it really hard in life to make ends meet. They go up and down in search for all opportunities of which we might not see but instead of giving the person that hope that things will change we sometimes tend to make things worse as we would rather compare him/her to someone who we know has something without even knowing the source of that person's wealth.
All fingers are the not same and we shouldn't be comparing people to others and disgracing them in public simply because they can't cater for themselves not talking about buying all those Fancy stuff .
I thereby stand up always and say no one is my mate. If you want to compare someone to me you are not welcomed especially on the basis of prosperity. If it comes to academics, sports or such activities that we can easily get a winner , for that I am cool with it since I can be the best of it but in a situation where you compare my life to that of others aside certain activities but prosperity you are not welcomed.
So will someone not also tolerate comparing academics or any . Mostly such comparing only lead into putting too much pressure on the person of which he or she doesn't need.
Such pressure sometimes lead people astray after he or she gets mocked right in the face ; where people spit out such embarrassing words out to him. It can cause some to go in for money rituals , join fraud or whatever simply because of the pressure around.
I say , it is not advisable to always compare people to others based on their life, wealth or claims as it might drive the one who gets embarrassed into doing something that wouldn't be of help.
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Be Appreciative..
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Be Appreciative is an article I intend to make to draw our attention on why there is the need to show a sense of appreciation to someone.
This article looks more unless like a compliment to my article "**The Act Of Giving**" which talks mostly about a proper way of giving out something to someone and what it means when we say giving. You can read that article **here** if you haven't. https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/the-act-of-giving-de4c1b00
Be Appreciative no matter who it is that helped you. At various times , we might be in need of something, a service or a good for just a particular time and at such times when a person makes Him or herself available you will have to atleast appreciate it .
No matter your rank , caliber, an appreciation for a service rendered should be upheld and seriously done . Appreciation can be in the form of money, clap , a "Thank you" , a service and a whole lot.
Saying "common Thank You " to a person for a device rendered or help in doing something valuable doesn't tarnish your image in society ; it doesn't make you poor if you were rich , neither does it make you a slave if you used to be a member of the Royal Palace but rather it shows a sense of maturity , it makes the person feel that his work is accepted and useful.
Being appreciative to someone makes the person have a sense of believe in you and will always do what it takes to help when ever you need something.
It makes a person feel welcomed for his great actions of helping not letting the person feel like throwing away his or her goods or service in water where he or she can't anything back from it.
It is therefore advisable to show appreciation to everyone no matter how little or small their help was, if it looks irrelevant it was still there to help you overcome your challenges at a time in place.
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Proper Parenting..
Most at times , what we grow up to become solely depends on our parents. They make choices for us, they tell us what they want us to be according to their wish but is it all all the choices that are good for us? Their choices may either be of help to us or rather lead us down the wrong path. So I suggest they go by this way.
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**Let's take a look at this then.**
Parenting as the word suggests is the way children are brought up right from the stage of birth till they become independent and even beyond.
It consists of series of guidelines a parent gives out to their children and this includes both the good and the bad ways of raising a child. The good ways are what we are going to talk about and as well use it counter the bad ones . Since the bad ways are not tolerated by people that much since all it does is lead the children towards the lazy part.
Basically what a child grows up to become sometimes depends on his or her parents who should in turn guide them not make decisions for them. Some parents think for their children, they select choices for them and sometimes say I want you to do this course not this because I want you to become this or that which is not a really nice one since it only leads the child to do what he or she has no interest in.
**Right after birth the parent is supposed to take care of the child not abandon him or her.** Some parents abandon their children and some even throw them away because they don't want them which is a bad practice. Nothing is a mistake , instead of throwing them away rather take them and take good care of them for you don't know what the future holds.
**At several stages the child needs to be catered for.** The parent has to take the responsibility of taking care of the child and make sure they grow in good shape and health. But it being the responsibility of parents to provide the needs of children does not mean they should pamper the children where they do nothing at home but rather , they should make them work and eat normally not doing it too much.
As the child starts growing, they plan on a brighter future for the child, put them in school, teach them good manners, start teaching them how to run errands and show them how to do some petty jobs but not give them very tedious works that they can't do. Through these they start getting familiar with household duties which will always be a part of them forever.
At school it is the responsibility of the parents to help their children do their assignments, have them to read their books at specific periods, give them possible guidance, cross check their reports ; celebrate them if they do well and encourage them if they don't but do not penalise or punish them because they didn't do well in an examination but rather encourage them put in more efforts, apply different strategies since everyone has a different way of learning and help them become who they want them to be.
As they grow and approach the adolescent stage, help them make the right choices of which some includes;
The school they will like to attend.
The partners they will choose if they want to be in a relationship.
The courses they will offer at school.
Personal hygiene
How to take care of their environment and their bodies and a whole lot.
Don't rebuke them if they bring their partners home( boyfriend or girlfriend) but rather educate them on how to leave a responsible life, show them the possible effects if they don't leave responsibly
Educate them and don't hide "sensitive" topics from them since some will say educating their children about this would rather lead them to become "stubborn" but no it will rather make them safe .
At independent stage or a state where they marry or start working, you will have to help them make some decisions if the come out for help. At sometimes they have to make some tough calls and at such times they will or might come looking for help from you of which it will be your responsibility as a parent to help them solve it. You can also help them raise their children and help them in so many ways even as they are adults.
Therefore it is the responsibility of parents to help guide their children and shape them to become whi the children want to be not what the parents want them to be. They will have to help them in their courses in various art of life but they don't have to decide for them.
I hereby bring my topic to a conclusion here saying parents should help their children make it in life but not dictate for them.
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A Moment To Remember ($10 Giveaway)..
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Life as made up of different activities has several ups and downs of which basically marks somethings in our lives. We basically love to remember some memories while we also don't want to even remember others at all.
This leaving us some more chances to talk about some times we really don't want to forget in our lives. Of which I deem it a very important message that I always find it a pleasure, entertaining and refreshing.
I hereby present to you a giveaways contest and it is basically going to be something we all will enjoy but before I tell you what it is about, I would like to run us through how the contest will be like.
**Please don't get me wrong on this thinking I want to use it to grow my subscribers count (Not necessary but I will have to make it clear) . I already have up to 435 subscribers so I don't make this an offer to grow my subscribers but I will be** ****happy**** **if you subscribe.**
If you also think , by this contest I just intend on getting more points then I suggest you change your mindset and let's have fun together because I do earn quite a good amount. I show my detest to giveaway pranks **here****.** https://read.cash/@Dangerous_Fly/boosting-of-articles-vs-giveaways-pranks-3c2f7bbc
Let's take this important message also.
**For us to all help make this contest a success , I have some check points for all** .
Please even if you won't take part of the contest help create the awareness for people to take part.
You can also get the honour to read it all since I will compile all entries and I bet you , you will love it . **Take part and you can get a promotion of your article in my article where you can get subscribers through that.**
**THE CHECKPOINT**
Please leave a comment on this article that contains a link to the article you wrote regarding this contest. **If you don't intend on** **taking part also you can still leave a comment**.
Please tag some friends in your comment for them to be aware of the giveaways . They should be active ones and also friends that haven't already been tagged. (For all people)
**You might not be willing to take part but you can give a friend a chance to do so.**
You are to submit your articles to **this community** for review and selection. https://read.cash/c/life-experience-6ff0
**NB: You can leave two comments if you want to join the contest one that tags some friends and one that contains the link to your entries. Please you can always edit your comments and add the links in case you decide to submit more than 1 article meaning no one should make more than two comments on this article.**
It is **never** compulsory to tag some friends. But you do so to give them also the chance to earn something for themselves and it also gives you a better chance at winning because it will all be checked. And remember also look through the comment section before you tag a friend; **Don't tag one who has already been tagged** . Don't create any short post about this.
Thank you.
**LET'S GET TO THE CONTEST**
The contest is going to have two phases. Phase I and Phase II.
**In Phase I everyone can take part.**
You take any moment of your life that you want to share with us. Every moment you wish to share with us and you can have up to 3 tries. Make sure you put the link of this contest in your article and also submit it to **Life Experience** https://read.cash/c/life-experience-6ff0
Note : With the comment section you get a token when you fulfill the checkpoints.
Now Phase I will take **5 days for the contest to end and 2 days** for me to finish up and **pick 10 contestants** who will proceed to the next phase. Don't feel bad because those who won't be picked will get an offer each.
**For Phase II ,** only ten people will be allowed to take part; that is those who were able to pass to the next stage from Phase I. This will take **just two days** to end with just an entry from each .
2 days for review and the announcement will be made.
The offers are not for just the winners but everyone included . So for the prizes include;
**The 2nd Runner Up(The 3rd position). : $1.00**
**The 1st Runner Up (The 2nd position) : $2.00**
**The Winner : $3.00**
**The other contestants who qualified : $0.30 each**
Totalling $9, then the comment section takes the tips it is supposed to hold. I have predicted just $1 but it will be decided based on the number of comments and that will decide if I would have to add more funds or not and I will update you on that if I do or not.
**At the comment section all comments will attract tokens.**
Note not only is this a contest but also a time of fun where we get to hear some funny moments, sad moments , some tourist sites and a whole lot.
You can decide to share
the wedding you attended
At the funeral grounds
A moment at school ( A teacher who you never loved at school, the one who care for you , and an excursion you went , the exam that took you by surprise , etc)
A story you were told and how it was told .
**AND A WHOLE LOT**
**Add some pictures if they are worth it.**
Thank you. Hope we all join this giveaway.
It's Dangerous_Fly once again, **Bring It On!!!**
Fear...
The fear that he might not be able to pass the exam because he didn't prepare well caused him to pass the wrong way by cheating at the exam Hall of which he was not fortunate . He was caught by the invigilator you in turn handed him over to the Disciplinary Committee (D.C) and charged him with Examination Malpractice after he sacked him from the exam Hall.
The fear that things won't go our way- we won't win the contest because someone we think is better than us is present discouraged us from even making an attempt at preparing which made us to perform terribly and even to our surprise that person was absent .
Fear is something that seeks to cause a whole lot of damages, troubles, problems, stress and a whole lot when not controlled carefully.
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Fear as it's meaning is an unpleasant feeling triggered by the perception of danger; real or imagined.
Per the definition , sometimes we feel afraid at things we see or things we imagine it is happening that looks or feel dangerous.
As children we sometimes get scared , afraid when our parents intentionally show or tell us something horrible.
They sometimes use that to escape from us when we want to follow us to where they want to go..
As adolescents, we sometimes feel afraid when we come back home very late after sneaking out of the house. We do not see anything but we sense danger towards us the next day or even that night.
As adults , we sometimes feel terrified and aftelaud at various stages like when we get into an accident, fall suck or something
All these are basically to tell us that, fear is not something for children alone but it occurs at various stages of life and when not dealt with , it goes ahead to cause destruction.
There is therefore the need to control fear if which the only way is courage. We have to stand up and face the situation that seeks to give as an unpleasant feeling. Stay strong and be brave to face it.
The company is about collapsing, don get afraid that you will lose your money. In fact, stand up , look at how you run the company, get new strategy, add more funds if you ha e to and fight it. Don't be overwhelmed by fear and leave the company to collapse.
The world was put in the total fear when the corona virus struck it. There was panic as various measures where taken to start controlling it. If we were afraid of it , I say it would have taken many more lifes.
Therefore no matter the danger, the feeling , always seek to make the best out of it , don't let your emotions lead and make a better chance for you own self by standing out to it and letting the fear of. Because with fear there is nothing one can do since you do all things terrified.
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The Act Of Giving.
Giving as we all know is one of the cherished values of an individual. It is mostly hailed and supported in society as well as recognized in the Holy Bible or one's sacred books . There are various reasons to which people give out something of we are going to talk so much about.
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Let's dive in.
Giving they is the ability to help, assist as well as influence people through incentives for their betterment. There are several situations or ways a person can hand over some help to a group of people or a person of which some includes :
Provision of portable water for the people.
Provision of public toilet and several others for the people in society.
Handing over cash or kind to the poor and needy(orphans, widows and others ) in the society.
Helping in the development of the church as well as other places .
These are somethings people give out to people or their community or society of which society cherishes most.
Giving out is a very good practice as it has several benefits to both the giver and receiver but the giver profits most..
****Importance Of Giving****
Some importance of Giving includes;
**Good image** : Basically a whole lot of people have a sense of respect to people who give. They don't always look out for the reason why the person is giving or the motive behind it.
**Society will be proud of you** : Society will always have a sense of belonging that is they will always see you as a start , they feel proud to have you in their community, society, or group . They always stand out and mention it loudly, feeling supreme to have you in their midst.
**Attracts blessings from ones object of worship** : While society(human) are praising you, you again attract blessings from God.
And several others ..
**But let's take a look at this ..**
People consider giving to be just giving out or handing over some incentives to a person or a group of people and that is all you have given or you have practice the act of giving , but no that is not it .
People give to show off
People give to fulfill a challenge or competition
Some people give expecting something in return
People give just to be hailed or praised ..
Giving to show off, fulfill a challenge, expect something in return, be praised is not a good thing. Giving should be a thing of integrity, it should be from your heart , it shouldn't be influenced by anyone or anything .
These acts of giving are seen pleasant in the eyes of men . But does that qualify your act of given?
Let's take note that giving out to someone is not mainly to please man but ones object of worship.
Thereby there is the need to give from a clean heart, give not under influences but under your own will.
Thank you.
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