Proper Parenting..

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4 years ago

Most at times , what we grow up to become solely depends on our parents. They make choices for us, they tell us what they want us to be according to their wish but is it all all the choices that are good for us? Their choices may either be of help to us or rather lead us down the wrong path. So I suggest they go by this way.

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Parenting as the word suggests is the way children are brought up right from the stage of birth till they become independent and even beyond.

It consists of series of guidelines a parent gives out to their children and this includes both the good and the bad ways of raising a child. The good ways are what we are going to talk about and as well use it counter the bad ones . Since the bad ways are not tolerated by people that much since all it does is lead the children towards the lazy part.

Basically what a child grows up to become sometimes depends on his or her parents who should in turn guide them not make decisions for them. Some parents think for their children, they select choices for them and sometimes say I want you to do this course not this because I want you to become this or that which is not a really nice one since it only leads the child to do what he or she has no interest in.

  • Right after birth the parent is supposed to take care of the child not abandon him or her. Some parents abandon their children and some even throw them away because they don't want them which is a bad practice. Nothing is a mistake , instead of throwing them away rather take them and take good care of them for you don't know what the future holds.

  • At several stages the child needs to be catered for. The parent has to take the responsibility of taking care of the child and make sure they grow in good shape and health. But it being the responsibility of parents to provide the needs of children does not mean they should pamper the children where they do nothing at home but rather , they should make them work and eat normally not doing it too much.

  • As the child starts growing, they plan on a brighter future for the child, put them in school, teach them good manners, start teaching them how to run errands and show them how to do some petty jobs but not give them very tedious works that they can't do. Through these they start getting familiar with household duties which will always be a part of them forever.

  • At school it is the responsibility of the parents to help their children do their assignments, have them to read their books at specific periods, give them possible guidance, cross check their reports ; celebrate them if they do well and encourage them if they don't but do not penalise or punish them because they didn't do well in an examination but rather encourage them put in more efforts, apply different strategies since everyone has a different way of learning and help them become who they want them to be.

  • As they grow and approach the adolescent stage, help them make the right choices of which some includes;

  1. The school they will like to attend.

  2. The partners they will choose if they want to be in a relationship.

  3. The courses they will offer at school.

  4. Personal hygiene

  5. How to take care of their environment and their bodies and a whole lot.

Don't rebuke them if they bring their partners home( boyfriend or girlfriend) but rather educate them on how to leave a responsible life, show them the possible effects if they don't leave responsibly

Educate them and don't hide "sensitive" topics from them since some will say educating their children about this would rather lead them to become "stubborn" but no it will rather make them safe .

  • At independent stage or a state where they marry or start working, you will have to help them make some decisions if the come out for help. At sometimes they have to make some tough calls and at such times they will or might come looking for help from you of which it will be your responsibility as a parent to help them solve it. You can also help them raise their children and help them in so many ways even as they are adults.

Therefore it is the responsibility of parents to help guide their children and shape them to become whi the children want to be not what the parents want them to be. They will have to help them in their courses in various art of life but they don't have to decide for them.

I hereby bring my topic to a conclusion here saying parents should help their children make it in life but not dictate for them.

Thank you for your time. It's Dangerous_Fly once again, Bring It On!!!

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I must say that my parents did a good job in taking care of me and my siblings, they teach us how to be well mannered in front of everyone and teach us how to be independent at a very young age because they believe that this is what we really need the most. And the result is they don't need to support us anymore financially because we grow as a working student and getting a scholarship helps us a lot. we are not rich so we really need to work hard to be successful in our own life.

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4 years ago

Great parenting. They really did well

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parents always take right decision for us. they never take any decision which is harmful for us. their decision always beneficial for us. that's why we have to trust on their decision and respect their decision.

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Not always does the decision of our parents benefit us. Some decisions are just imposed on is to observed which is really not great for us.

If our courses are chosen for us but not in our interest that is also not a great one.

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I'm one of the parents struggling in parenting right now. I have three children, all boys, and all of them needed to be disciplined. While they still young I want them to practice being a good man in the future. In this stage, proper and good parenting is needed.

Being a parent is not easy like what others are thinking about parents especially those moms who are staying at home full time. We do not just let the kids eat their food, give them clothes, play their favorites movies, and do what the like to.

And for me, I don't let them do what they like that I know it's not to be done. I have experienced many cases in not letting them do what they want and it's effective. And I believe this is not dictating, I'm just trying to make an experiment on how to discipline them without hurting their feelings. Not all kids are the same when it comes to thinking and following their parent advice. Sometimes the problem is the attitude itself. The parent must always do good parenting for it. Experimenting is good, I want to suggest that to all parents.

But if your kids are already in the stage of teens, that's the time you need to lessen dictating on them. At that stage, children are most likely rebellious if you keep on dictating them what to do especially if it is opposite to their desire. But you know, based on my experience in my childhood, that was what happened to me, being dictated but I never think of being rebellious to my parents.

When they are already in the stage of having a relationship like making friends with others, boyfriends and girlfriends, oh I have no idea and your article would definitely a big help. Thanks for the tips๐Ÿ™‚

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4 years ago

Really great comment with great facts .

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Parents should give their child's proper parenting and the necessary house and home teachings needed for their children to grow and later become independent in the future. Parents shouldn't abandoned their children because of work but always create time to play and have fun with them

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You are right.. Some parents do not have time for their children sply because they are consumed by work activities.

It is there advisable that they get time for them and make parenting looks like friendship

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4 years ago

Parents is our most closest person.We should never neglect them in their very age.We should love them like they were love them in our childhood

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Yes you are right as we stay with them we will also have to love them as our parents.

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yes dear๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’œ

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4 years ago

This is a good one, parenting is the most important duty of a father and mother to their children, the Bible says train up a child the way he should go , when he/she grow up he will not depart from it

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Yes , they are supposed to make an impact In The child's life and it must be done effectively.

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Subscrib back please

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4 years ago

Parenting is really something important and full responsibility is meted out to see to the proper upbringing of the child. Nice work bro.

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Our parents know what's better for us they also know what's rigth and wrong thing to do when we made mistakes just trust them because they love you as also they love themselves.

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Thank you for your comment.

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It always depends on the condition of a child. For example a special child way of parenting is way more different compared to those normal child.

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Yes that is also true but for such parenting should have similar qualities

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4 years ago

Exactly. I agree of what you have said my friend.

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4 years ago

thank you for this, sirPotato is hoping to be a good potato father to his babypotato one day.

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We are all Willing for that to happen but one thing is , it must be when we are prepared.

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Cute Baby . ello everyone it's dangerous fly once again. Please subscribe if you haven't and leave a like or a comment if you want to.

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4 years ago

informative article... parents are best teacher a man and woman and also best friend for boys and girls...Always loved parents

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Parents are the way to live out lives since they are the influencers if our lives

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Becoming a parent is little bit easier but behaving like a parents is more difficult Your children will do what you are doings They learn more from your acts

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Yes it is a fact, being a parent looks really easy but being one is theost difficult thing. Taking care if the child as well as the training is really one of a kind that is why it is advisable not to take part in sexual morality if you are not ready for it's consequences

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Yeah parents have need always choose something good for their childrens try to make their future brighter to guide them .. parents are the role models for children

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As they do so, the interest of the children should also be considered and they should help him make profitable choices..

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Yeah you are right

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Great parents make great childrens! It's to the parents to raise their children so well so that they can become a good people in this cruel world.

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Yes it is the sole responsibility of parents to raise their children well to become prosperous in this cruel world

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Of course, they need to be strong enough to face the outside world. Not every people are good so they need to know how to deal with them.

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