Who now owns the baby?
Midweek and all of a sudden I felt weak, maybe it was because of the all night rehearsal I went to last night and I haven’t had a long sleep since last night, going to be hard to fall asleep though, especially when one is not in the mood, the rain that fell today was something else and the wind was like that of an angry lady, haha, the reason I use lady is because ladies would use man if as an example too, lol. Well, let’s get right to the topic.
Why do some ladies sleep with multiple without protection and at the end of the day, if they become pregnant, they will just look for one of the men that they slept well and put the pregnancy in the person’s head, even if he isn’t the biological father of the child, she will say he’s the one because she don’t know which of the men got her pregnant, I have came across some people that faced such a situation and some of them won’t accept the pregnancy because they know how the lady is that she doesn’t seat one place, therefore they will require a DNA test to make sure they won’t accommodate someone’s child in their home.
Some of these ladies won't learnt their lessons even after giving birth to the first child and no of the men will accept it the parents that love their daughter will now take responsibility for the child and they will think that the lady has learned her lesson, only for her to go out again and come back with another pregnancy and the worst part is that she won't know who got her pregnant again.
There was a story my mother told me some time back, I guess what made her tell me the story was because of a movie we watched and it was similar to the story she told me, after watching the drama, I told her that such a thing can't happen in the real world that is only in the movies so they can put fear other people mind about it, that's when she told me about the story of a man in her village back then when she was a teen.
There was this lecturer who loved this school girl, the lecturer is not a member of the community, he was transferred to the community to teach, both of them started having an affair and from there the girl got pregnant, and the family of the girl drove her from the house to the man house that he should come and pay the bride price for her, the lady began to stay with the lecturer, the lecturer no longer think about his self any more, he now thinks about both the lady and the unborn child, months past and the lady's stomach was progressing, when it was time for her to give birth, she went into the labor room and the doctors were doing what they know how to do best, the lecturer has already spent a lot of money throughout the months the lady was staying with him.
When he heard the wife was in labor, he rushed to the market and bought some baby things, though he didn't know the gender of the child yet, he just bought unisex clothes for the baby, the lady was in the labor room and the doctors were doing their best but the baby refuse to come out, the doctors haven't seen anything like this before like the baby is not supposed to even stress them before coming out, some were saying that the doctor should use operation but the doctor saw it like a waste of time he knows that what is holding the baby is not operation though, a day past and the family were still worried because she's still in labor for over 24 hours.
The doctor now suggested that they should co spiritual which they all disapproved at first but the lady and the baby's life were at stake here, so they decide to do it, when the native doctor arrive the hospital, he told the man to call the child and if the child belong to him, the baby will come out, the call and call and call, he didn’t want to stop calling cause he was convince that the baby is his.
That’s when the ask the girl if she has another lover outside she said yes and they called him that he’s child and the lady life is at stake and so first was like what baby cause the lady didn’t tell her that she was pregnant, he rushed down to the hospital and the native doctor told him to call the name of the baby, immediately he mentioned the name of the baby, the baby started coming out, the doctor quickly went and support her while the baby was coming out.
The lecturer just so dump founded, he never knew that the the lady would do such a thing to her, he walked for hours as he was thinking about all the time and money he spent on the lady while she was pregnant.
Some of these ladies always look for a man with money so they can leave the life of a queen, the men might not bother to find out about the child.
We need to be very careful and not fall into their trap, cause some will do everything possible and others. Always use protection to avoid producing baby's when you are not ready. It
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18-05-2024
Oh Im sorry but for me I would not say to have protection but instead I would say don't have sex to anyone except to your spouse. Doing this will give you an assurance that the baby is yours. No offense friend, Im just saying my own opinion. Thanks for opening this topic as it is will open to the eyes of everyone.