Making Our Partner Feel Loved and Cared Makes The Relationship Happier

Blog #232

April 29, 2022

"I love him not because of his physical appearance but because of his character."

A few days ago, I read the article of @Yzza0625which was "Answering Some Love Questions". In that article, she shared how she and her partner started their relationship. As I was reading through, I can't help but reminisce the time when I and my partner had just started building our relationship and making it stronger each day. We may have started as both being broken from our past relationship but we did try out best to make our relationship work.

At first, it was very hard since we were too careful with our actions in order not to hurt each other. Guess being broken made us feel that way. But after several months, we learn so many things from each other, started to make adjustments, and later on, we were both comfortable with each other's presence.

For today's article, I want to answer some random relationship questions. I hope I won't make you feel bored reading this article of mine today.

(If you'd wish to answer those questions too, just choose it from here.)

When was the last time you said “I love you” to your partner?

Just an hour ago before we ended our conversations via phone call. Since we are in an LDR relationship this time, our way of showing our affection towards each other is via text messaging, phone calls, chatting on messenger and if he was not busy we would have our video call.

We are both very vocal when showing our love toward each other. Sometimes when the kids hear us saying I love you to each other, they would smile and have this teasing look.

Do you feel that your partner accepts the way you are?

Yes!!! Ever since the first day we met, he never failed to let me feel that he loves me the way I am. He accepted my flaws, shortcomings, and imperfections. That's why I am not afraid to show who and what I am to him because I know he won't judge me for those flaws and imperfections.

Have you ever thought about cheating on your partner? Why?

No, that thought never comes to my mind because I am already contented with him and I value our family most. When I am in a relationship, I am the kind of woman who valued it the most. I have been cheated on by my ex-boyfriend before and I know how it feels to be cheated so I would never do it with my partner.

Also, cheating doesn't do any good, it will only make someone question his/her value. It can only make someone feel that he/she isn't enough and they aren't worth loving for.

Are you in a relationship only because you enjoy the excitement or the feeling to be loved and cared about?

I am in a relationship because I like the feeling of being loved and cared for and I also like to let my special man feel that I also love and cared for him. There's nothing happier than making each other feel loved and cared about. Making each other very important and special is the best feeling that a couple would feel when in a relationship.

Does this partner make you forget the painful feeling of your previous relationships?

Yes, he did. By the time I met him, I was still not totally healed from the painful and dark past that I have gone through but each day my partner was there making me feel that I am worthy of love. He helped me in moving on and in him, I always felt secure. He let me feel that whatever painful experience I had in the past will not be experienced by me again.

As I have shared in my articles before, it is he who advised me to let go of the past and forgive those people who caused so much pain in me so I can move on fully and will be happy in the present times and I am glad that I am not a prisoner in my past anymore. I can now confidently say that I am totally happy with the life that I have together with my kids and partner.

That's all for my blog today. Thanks for dropping by.

Update with my token of appreciation:

There are still six users on my list who haven't received their share because I was not feeling okay this late afternoon so I had to stop reading articles. Now that I am a little bit okay already, I will upvote it after publishing this. To those six users, sorry for the delay.

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