Blog #56
November 3, 2021
"Everything change when I became a mother."
Every day I change not just from my physical appearance but with the way I see things around me.
Since I am a busy woman, time is so important to me and for that, I need to make use of it wisely. Though there were times that my laziness strike at me but I made sure that it won't defeat me. That laziness gives me an idea to think of ways on how to avoid it so I listed the important ABCDEF ways to avoid procrastination. This is a reminder to me to always focus on the things that matter most in my life.
There were times that I am facing some tough situations. Way back in the year 2018, we experience some financial problems. My partner gets sick and what makes me more problematic is that we don't have savings at that time. I am too worried about where I should get some money for our everyday expenses. While thinking about that problem, I wish I am a woman with lots of money. If I am blessed with a huge amount of money, I wouldn't be problematic with our everyday expenses.
With that experience, I realize the importance of saving money. Saving money saves us when emergencies come.
And because of facing lots of difficulties in life, I promised myself that I should work hard more for my family. Even if I am a full-time mom, I find ways on how to have extra income.
I know it's not easy, I have been put in a situation where I question myself "Should I give up?" because I am too tired already. Too tired to do all the things that I did every day and it seems nothing has improved. But I told to myself that if I give up now, will there be any changes or I just make things comes to the worst.
With it, I learned so many things. I set some reminders for me to wake up in reality, that life is not easy as I think it is. My ABC reminders in life are what keep me going up to now. Acknowledging my present without worrying about my past and future, being grateful every day, and choosing wisely are always what I remind myself every day.
Struggles, pains, and difficulties Are part of my life as a mother. Sometimes I feel so down and seems my heart is full of burden. I want to let go of it. I wanted to express it, can I...?
I wish my mother is here to give me some advice and to give me some motivation. I wanted to talk to her. I wanted her so bad in my life. Mama, can you hear me? Can you hear these bleeding words from my heart?
But I know she can't and so I need to be tough and stronger for my family. There may be fears inside me but I told myself "Let's Cast The Fears Away" so I can go on with my life without being hindered with this feAr. I have my family beside me, seeing their perfect smile makes me inspired more. They are my motivator every day.
Who am I today? I am a better version of myself already. I can say that as I get older my mind gets matured. My perspective in life changes too.
"Everything in me changes. From being an immature girl to a mature woman. I change because I am learning"
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As always you did great. I too wanted to participate this article but actually I have not my 10 articles yet😅. I believe that your mom is watching you and praying for you. She is with you, just pray for her too. I'm happy that now you're not facing that kind of financial problems, this is the thing we should count.