A Happy Spouse, A Happy House
They always say,
"A happy wife, A happy life".
Though it's true, we also do not forget that Happiness is not all about us wives.
Good relationships no matter what stage you are on consist of two happy people. Behind every happy wife is a husband who keeps putting a smile on that face. But is the husband getting the same attention? Is he happy as much as his wife is happy?
The thing about marriage is you have to keep it going not just love, sex, or money it's everything and in all aspects of life. It's hard work. You bet! But that's the way it is.
Equality
If we insist on equality then remember that the husband and wife have the same rights and responsibilities.
Marriage is 100/100 and not just 50/50, lovely people. It is not giving and taking, it's always giving while continuing to fill all the needs and both of you are celebrating such a relationship. Both of you should be happy and understood.
It takes two to tango never gets old
A single mother or father is amazing for doing everything to raise their family when it's supposed to be with a helping hand from their spouse. Salute to all single parents!
Now in marriage, you expect the couple to be teamwork. One is making the money by putting a roof and food for the family then the other makes use of that money efficiently. Meaning, if the husband works, the wife cooks food and cleans the house. If both of them are working, both of them help whatever and whenever they are needed.
It's never just a plain housewife. It never is. A man should appreciate a woman who can stay at home and keep a house for their family. And a woman should appreciate their man for working hard to provide for them. Everyone has a role. And everyone should be acknowledged.
I'm a happy wife and I take it as my job to keep my man happy. Because I know how to do that. Are you aware of each other's love language? Make use of that!
I'm a happy wife because I have a happy husband. I got treated like a queen and so I'm gonna treat him like a king. It is so important to be appreciated. Let me stress that.
Remember both should be happy! Not just you or him. BOTH!
Now if you're not happy there's something to talk about between the two of you. Not with the whole clan or social media. Guessing what's wrong and hoping for someone to get that hint sometimes don't work. A heart-to-heart talk does.
Be clear. Say what you want and hear each other side. Listening is as important as Talking. Communication is the key.
Not going to Tulfo. 🤣
yeah i agree what did you say when you are married you will be happy, because being a wife it takes a lot of responsibilities to make our family get better and doing what it takes