A Happy Spouse, A Happy House

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They always say,

"A happy wife, A happy life".

Though it's true, we also do not forget that Happiness is not all about us wives.

Good relationships no matter what stage you are on consist of two happy people. Behind every happy wife is a husband who keeps putting a smile on that face. But is the husband getting the same attention? Is he happy as much as his wife is happy?

The thing about marriage is you have to keep it going not just love, sex, or money it's everything and in all aspects of life. It's hard work. You bet! But that's the way it is.

Equality

If we insist on equality then remember that the husband and wife have the same rights and responsibilities.

Marriage is 100/100 and not just 50/50, lovely people. It is not giving and taking, it's always giving while continuing to fill all the needs and both of you are celebrating such a relationship. Both of you should be happy and understood.

It takes two to tango never gets old

A single mother or father is amazing for doing everything to raise their family when it's supposed to be with a helping hand from their spouse. Salute to all single parents!

Now in marriage, you expect the couple to be teamwork. One is making the money by putting a roof and food for the family then the other makes use of that money efficiently. Meaning, if the husband works, the wife cooks food and cleans the house. If both of them are working, both of them help whatever and whenever they are needed.

It's never just a plain housewife. It never is. A man should appreciate a woman who can stay at home and keep a house for their family. And a woman should appreciate their man for working hard to provide for them. Everyone has a role. And everyone should be acknowledged.

I'm a happy wife and I take it as my job to keep my man happy. Because I know how to do that. Are you aware of each other's love language? Make use of that!

I'm a happy wife because I have a happy husband. I got treated like a queen and so I'm gonna treat him like a king. It is so important to be appreciated. Let me stress that.

Remember both should be happy! Not just you or him. BOTH!

Now if you're not happy there's something to talk about between the two of you. Not with the whole clan or social media. Guessing what's wrong and hoping for someone to get that hint sometimes don't work. A heart-to-heart talk does.

Be clear. Say what you want and hear each other side. Listening is as important as Talking. Communication is the key.

Not going to Tulfo. 🤣

Thank you for reading.

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yeah i agree what did you say when you are married you will be happy, because being a wife it takes a lot of responsibilities to make our family get better and doing what it takes

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2 years ago

The concept of "Happy House" is explained in such a simple way! I love it.

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2 years ago

Tama nga po, dapat talaga nag mamahalan at nag uunawaan ang mag partner. Kung may problema po ang isat isa pwede naman po pag usapan ng maayos. At tsaka dapat e center talaga sa relationship si GOD para mas tumibay ang relasyon. Stay strong sa inyo po. More blessings to come po sa family niyo.

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2 years ago

Kung pwede pa namang ayusin na kayo lang dalawa, gawin na. Hindi naman na kailangan nga ipaalam sa ibang tao yun. Of course, pag mag-asawa, dapat magtutulungan talaga. Hindi dapat hayaan na maging one sided lang. I mean yung hahayaan lang yung partner na gumawa or umintindi sa mga bagay-bagay.

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2 years ago

Good one. Married to love, married to equality and happiness

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2 years ago

Yesss agree it takes two to tango never ggets old. Kahit na wala pa ko asawa, by observation, iba parin pag nagtutulungan both di lang isa ang nag eeffort hebe

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2 years ago

Haha I read your title and was thinking of the more common saying that you mentioned right away. Your points layout to a perfect life. It just seems here in the states a lot of focus is on the wife. Not always but sometimes. Maybe that's why the divorce rates are so high here. I like the catchy happy spouse happy house cause it applies to both.

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2 years ago

Natawa ako sa not going Tulfo bhe 🤣 ang dami kasi ngayon sa social media dinadaan ..kung pag usapan na lang nila diba? Wala pang mga marites na nakabantay hahahaha.

Indeed.. responsible din natin mga wife pasayahin mga asawa natin di lang tayo aba 🤣

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2 years ago

Kasi naman bhe makikiusyoso lang naman yung iba pagpipiyestahan ang buhay mo. Pupunta kay tulfo para maayos? E lalo lang magkakagulo diba? Yung ibang case oo pero yung sa mga magasawa e akoy naloka 🤣

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2 years ago

God bless you Momma...your type is rare. Thank you so much. Yes, marriage is not 50-50...it's giving 100%... We need to love and understand each other in the language that partner understands. It helps and make things easier.

Thank you for your kindness today, Momma... When I receive the items I would definitely let you know. I'm composing a poem for you already 😂🤣😂🤣

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2 years ago

My dear friend knows better! 😁 And lol, no you don't have to but I love your poems so I thank you in advance! 😁

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2 years ago

I have to, Momma... Gems like you should be appreciated and your works screamed through the roof's top. Thank you so much. Posting tomorrow 😍😍😍

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2 years ago

I appreciate all that you wrote especially we are equal 100/100. Yes it is. But many fail to understand particularly in our place. My husband is cooperative to a certain extent.

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2 years ago

It's everywhere. Have to have a heart and a good understanding to understand. God bless your happy family. ❤

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2 years ago

Thanks dear

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2 years ago

Nakakahiya yung simpleng bagay na pinag awayan ng mag-asawa, ipapatulfo kaagad, eh pwede lang naman pag-usapan privately. wahaha.

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2 years ago

Sino rin naman ang mapapahiya diba? Parang di ko kayang mapatulfo at magpatulfo 🤣

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2 years ago

Thank you for the greeting. I share the idea that dirty laundry is washed at home, no social networks to solve a family problem. I congratulate you on your happy home.

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2 years ago

Thank you Gertu! 😊

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2 years ago

Di man ako totally as a wife pero I am a happy hard working mom. Even if ako yung bread winner okay Lang for me. For now peace kami ni hubby kasi di na ngpa pasaway. Sana eh tuloy2x na talaga pagbabago niya my peace of mind na ako.

Anyway I am for you sis to be treated like a queen. Your husband was raise by a queen too I guess

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2 years ago

Salute sayo sis! Nagsimula rin kami ng ganyan at ako ang may work at napkapasaway din dumating na rin sa point na di ko na kayang patawarin pero nalagpasan lahat at yun siguro pag pinagsama sama, yun ang nakakapagpatibay sa relasyon.

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2 years ago

tayong mga mababae nature na sa atin ang madaling magpatawad at magbigay ng chances ..

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2 years ago

Louder. We're just embarassing ourselves if we go to Tulfo as all people will know and has really something to say about it. Biblically, wives must submit to their husbands as husbands must love his wife between life and death just how Christ loved and died for the Church.

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That's right it's really embarrassing and how can they face their family after I do not know. In the end, it didn't love the problem. It adds more.

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2 years ago

Ahmm....this can also be a good advice for us (singles)Lolll No doubt the happiness of both matters in this relationship.

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2 years ago

Haha, dear. I laugh! I pray that you will find a good man and he will find you. 🥰

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2 years ago

Npakabless mo sis sa hubby mo, sa family at sa lhat lahat. Sana tuloy tuloy lng ang pg unlad

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2 years ago

We started with nothing Sis ang hirap din namin non pero pag marunong magtrabaho, uunlad din ang buhay. Salamat sis

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2 years ago

I always believe that It takes two to tango :)

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2 years ago

The happiness of both parties is greatly required for the marriage to keep going, at least a stable mental state. It's all about communication and understanding really, not that difficult if boh parties are open minded enough. May our marriages be peaceful.

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2 years ago

amen to this sis! it's important that we work hard to make our spouses happy and we must get the same in return... else, we should talk about what's wrong and then adjust!

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2 years ago

Both should have the equality, a balance relationship is a harmonious life, a marriage life.

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2 years ago

I 100% agree! Tulfo is not the answer. Bet na bet ko talaga yung title nito eh hahaga

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2 years ago

yes having a good life partner is a great blessing in our life. I'm glad that you have that already. I wish you more happiness!

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2 years ago

Totoo maam dapat same both. Dapat kung masaya siya masaya ka din. Dapat kayong dalawa magkahawak kamay sa buhay.

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2 years ago

Ang serious at ganda ng explanations then last part natawa ako🤣

Haha, tulfo is lifr lately madam,

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2 years ago

'Yung hanggang dito naka-abot si Tulfo, hahaha. Pero mas natawa ako sa part na "Mapupunta sa kapitbahay", Ate ah. 😹

Pero sa true din naman kasi. It will not just revolve around love, financial & sexual aspects. Dapat kasama din palagi 'yung pagpa-practice on how to maintain it & get it more stronger ~ coz if not? Damay 'yung buong family sa effects. I know coz ramdam ko 'yan whenever our parents are quarreling or having a misunderstanding.

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2 years ago

Agreed madam! Both should work for the betterment of the relationship, and both should acknowledge each other. Kaso nowadays, madalang na ang may magandang relasyon dahil trending na ang Tulfo.

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2 years ago

You are very right about this. The two people in marriage should be happy with themselves. Communication is key!! Lack of communication kills marriage

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2 years ago

Worth reading. As I'm an unmarried guy, this will help me in my recent future when I'll get married. ❤️ the way you see things great, I hope every couples be like that.

Btw, your are invited to read my articles 🥶

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2 years ago

Oh my goodness your name sounds like a girl to me 🤣 Glad you say you're a man!

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2 years ago

😂😂😂😂 oh really! Thank god you understood that am a male 😂

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2 years ago

You are correct sis: in a merriage, both partners should be happy. If a husband is earning bread, then the wife should take responsibility for taking care of house and children. Similarly, if both partners are working, both partner's should help each other in every matter. That is how merriage works, and if you are having problems with your spouse, then a gentle conversation can solve your problems.

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2 years ago

People nowadays resort to social media when they have problems. How can other people solve your marital issues? Others would only gossip and embarrass the family. That's not good. Communication is the key.

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2 years ago

Awiehhhh, coming from experiences ano madams. Sana I am not immature para maging peaceful lang lagi kaso hahahaha nvm.

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2 years ago

Haha naku Ruffa, ako naman ay may pagkaimmature pa rin carry lang yan basta natotolerate ng the lucky one 🤣

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2 years ago

well said dear sis, both should always be helpful and ready to solve matters of their lives

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2 years ago

That's right its always teamwork, dear.

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2 years ago

Hahaha natawa ako sa last part yung Not going to Tulfo. 🤣

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2 years ago

Lagi na lang kasing kay Sir Tulfo gustong humingi ng tulong e

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2 years ago

Tama..dapat both equal.kc kapag hndi, ma out of balance yan haha

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2 years ago

Mapupunta sa kapitbahay 🤣

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2 years ago

We all have v

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2 years ago

I ealwa

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2 years ago

Bongga, momma! This is so true dpat both happy para everybody happy, hahaha. Pero natawa ako sa tulfo sa dulo, jusko yung iba konting problema atat magpatulfo eh, ako ayoko maranasan yan. 🤣

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2 years ago

Bhe yung iba naman ay naiintindihan ko bakit nagpapatulfo e pero talaga kung magkaproblema man ako sa asawa ko e hindi ko na rin ipapahiya sarili ko sa madlang pipol. Bawat may mangyari na lang, papatulfo kita! Di ganon 🤣

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2 years ago

Awwwww well said! It is do nice to read about a happy relationship rather than rants all the time. Truly a relationship is built on consideration of each other's happiness and love language.

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2 years ago

Thank you for appreciating it, Sis! ❤

How are you getting on with work? Everything okay?

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2 years ago

I finally got my visa sis. Will start work Thursday next week. :)

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