The moment we realize our own value, our own worth, our own self love, is the moment we become absolutely limitless. We can see now that reaching happiness does not mean obtaining the next new thing, job, success, friends, true love..... It is being ultimately happy with who we are in this moment.
This is where we find home, that ultimate place where gratefulness, joy and abundance and unconditional love flows within us, and out of us like liquid gold. We are our "home"
It is THEN the universe " knows we know" and truely can AMAZE US.
We are all going to leave this world one day and everything will stay behind, so while we are here, let's spread love, let's be kind and try our best not to torment others.
Let's make a positive impact on our communities.lets be humbled and treat others with respect. Because in the end, what will matter the most is how we lived and made others feel.
We only fail when we stop trying. Never stop trying. Rest and try again, don't quit.
We should never give up on what matters to us.
Everything great and valuable takes time.
It takes time to raise a child and grow a family. It takes time to build trust and grow business. It takes time to perfect any craft, to become the master of a trade
When we are persistent every day we a little bit better, a little bit closer than the day before. It all adds up.
A positive note to start your day with 🌻
People are often the reason why other people feel and react in certain way. Let us today he the reason for someone feeling:
A part of, included, valued
Welcome and noticed
Listened to, cared for and supported
Loved.
Just better than they perhaps felt yesterday
Make a list of the wonderful things you want to accomplish in your life. Write it all down from the most important to the least.
Then organize your life around that list. This will give you a sense of purpose and something to look forwards to.
You have alot of strength and courage within you. Even when you feel like you can't keep going anymore. The fact that you have made this far, is a proof that you still have some hope for a better life.!
Life is struggle and the potential for failure is ever present, but whose who live in fear of failure, or hardship, or embarrassment will never achieve their potential without pushing your limits, without occasionally sliding down the rope headfirst, without daring greatly, you will never know what is truely possible in your life.
A very good morning to all of you 🌞
Learn to be by yourself and enjoying your own company. Make it a habit to spend some quality time alone from time to time, to meditate and get to know yourself.
Many people have no idea of who they are. They have lost themselves throughout the years to their traumas, fears, insecurities, people's judgements and influences.
It's very important to be aware of who you are. When you know yourself, you won't seek external validation and won't be moved by people's wrong judgements of you. Self awareness will make you more confident
WHAT IF YES?
Overthinking can cloud your judgement and reinforce your fears. Overthinking can make everything seem worse than it actually is.
When your mind says what if not, tell it, what if yes?
Maybe if you stop listening to all these negetive voices in your head, you will suddenly know what to do?
DEAR YOUNG PEOPLE
There are so many ways you can have fun. Fun does not mean necessarily have to be immoral. Addictions are real. Save yourself from going down that road.
Live your best life. enjoy yourself but to set boundaries. Have standards. Don't follow the trend of this culture. it will empty you and leave you in regret.
It's okay to still have values. It does not make you better than anyone but it will save you from alot of turmoil.
Choose your friends wisely. Any negetive influence in your life does not need to be in your life. Remember,you will be the one stuck with concequences
Your impact on other people is bigger than you think. Someone still giggles when they think of that funny thing you said. Someone still smiles when they think of the compliments you gave them. Someone silently admires you. The advice you gave has made difference for people. The support and love you have offered others has made someone's day. Your input and opinions have made someone think twice. You are not insignificant and forgotten. Your existence makes a positive difference, whether you see it or not
I found peace when I stopped trying to control people and started accepting them for who, where, and what they were.
I found peace when I realized that not being for everyone is a blessing
I found peace when I let go of how things should have been and started trusting the path in front of me.
I found peace when I stopped allowing people to bring their drama and negetivity to my door.
I found peace when I realized that letting go was a gift not a burden.
I found peace when I started accepting the help I would been asking for.
I WISH YOU HAPPINESS
You know that feeling when you are finally happy again after going through a season of turmoil and intense pain?
I want to remind you that you can feel it again. I want you to see what will happen if you don't give up on yourself.
Your story can have a happy ending. Don't lose hope. Everything is going to be okay.
BE POSITIVE
Being positive is not only great for feeling happy more often, but also for cultivating grit.
Being positive improves your performance for the future and helps you accomplish your goals without worrying about the setback.
By Being optimistic, you are willing to learn from your mistakes, grow from your failures, and continue working towards being your best self.
With an optimistic attitude, nothing can hold you back, no matter how many challanges or setbacks you face.
Having optimism is definitely going to increase your grit, so try looking on the bright side more often!
QUALITY OVER QUANTITY
No human is worth stressing over. Don't run after people or try to prove your worth to them. It's not ego, it's self respect.
No matter how much you care and love someone, don't diminish yourself for them. Don't beg or force yourself in their lives especially when they have made it clear that they don't care for you.
Respect Yourself by walking away from anything low vibrational, one sided or toxic. It's not worth it. You already know this.
Some people will only notice your presence when you make yourself absent.
When they will feel like you no longer really care about them, it will rub their ego and make them realize that they are not as important as they thought they were.
People won't respect you if you diminish yourself for them. Don't let anyone play with your heart, mind and emotions. Don't let people feed you crumbs.
Worry about people who are worried about you. Distant yourself from people who are running away from you. Don't force yourself in anyone's life.
And you might end up not hearing from alot of people when you stop reaching out first, but that's the beauty of it; it will open your eyes to be more selective on who to keep in your circle.
This right here is what life looks like.
Sometimes it's beautiful sometimes it's not.
Sometimes it's colourful sometimes it's grey.
It's never perfect but it's worth living.
When you are tired, give yourself some rest.
Resting does not make you lazy, it makes you human. Sometimes you need to unplug yourself from the rest of the world to take care of your mental health that's okay.
At your lowest, remind yourself that it's only temporary and that the bad days are needed to appreciate the good ones. The sun will eventually shine again, it is as well.
Take care in whom you trust....
Take care to whom you tell....
Take care who you ask to hold in secret your sacred words.....
There's a well known saying " Before you share your secrets, be sure your listener is not a speaker, and definitely not a script writer.
And the brilliant author/ poet Khalil Gibran warns in his excuisite book, The wanderer,
" If you reveal your secrets to the wind,
You should not blame the wind for
Revealing them to the trees."
Make sure to guard your heart 💓 Dear friends!
GOOD MORNING 🌞💞
Inner peace starts with little seed of hope in your heart, watered by a sprinkle of faith and strengthened by the love within you for others.
This life changing journey is all about recreating yourself, because only on the other side of all your fears, anger, resentment, darkness, and denial, there you will find serenity, light, hope and inner peace, allow yourself to make the journey.
#MORNINGREMINDER
It's okay to no longer want to be here, it's okay if you feel tired, and have lost all hopes and patience for a better tomorrow.
Those feelings are absolutely valid because nobody knows the hell you have been through other than yourself.
But just a reminder that when you hear people preach that it gets better, they are not joking. They have been through their own hell and go out of it. They are speaking from experience. If it's not better right now, it will be someday. you have to believe it if you want to see it happen.
Do prayers really work? Someone asked me
"I would tell you one thing.
One day I was totally hopeless.
I kept praying for something that I thought it will never come. And it didn't come. I believed it was for a reason. After a while I had something better. More than I expected. And I knew why it didn't happen back then"- I replied with a grateful smile.
Sometimes prayers don't happen because Allah ( God) is preparing something more beautiful for you.
Keep praying
It will work one day.
LIMITING BELIEFS
The mind is powerful. You can't always control your thoughts but you can constantly keep reminding yourself that's there is always more than one way to experience life.
A limiting belief is a state of mind or belief about yourself that restricts you in some way. These beliefs are often false accusations you make About yourself that can cause a number of negetive results.
Don't get stuck in mental box. Don't limit yourself to your current reality; it's not your truth. Explore your options. To every end there's always a new beginning.
Find yours.
IT WONT RAIN FOREVER
There's nothing greater than seeing someone who has struggled for so long finally be happy again. That is literally the best thing that can happen to anyone.
To anyone who is going through a very tough time in their lives right now, I want to remind you that it won't rain forever.
You will get to a point where you will no longer care about people who made you sad. You will no longer be worried about the things that are causing you so much distress right now. You will heal from the things you are keeping to yourself.
You may still feel some hurt deep within, but in time you will manage to live with it and it won't be as bad as it is right now.
Life is not perfect, and it's very unfair but it's got its beauty and it's worth fighting. Stay strong, everything is going to be alright. 😊
Good Morning
Your story Matters and gives others Hope! Just know that someone else on this life changing journey needs to hear how you have overcame the pain and fears from your childhood past as the adult observer.
We need to remember that to the world we might be just one person, but to that one person who has finally found the courage to speak up, and walk away from the chain of his or her dysfunctional family we are the world.
If you have people in your life who are real, loyal, kind, caring and loving don't take them for granted because nowadays it's becoming very hard to find people with pure intentions.
So many people are driven by interest and ego; people are out there preying on kind hearted people. Trying to take as much as they can from those who are good at giving until they got nothing more to give.
No wonder why so many people have trust issues because people are so unpredictable and you can never know what's behind someone's mind even when they appear to be the kindest.
SURRENDER
When you can't control a situation; and there's absolutely nothing you can do to change something. Then let it be.
Let it be what it wants to be. Let it be what it needs to be.
Go with the flow of life.
Accept that you can't control everything no matter how wise and intelligent you are. There will always be things that will challange you. Things that will be out of your control.
Keep doing you best but if you get to the point where there's absolutely nothing you can do about something. Let things be.
This is life. Let life happen to you. Let life flow. Don't force or resist anything. Only time will tell. Let life be life.
Every chapter of your life will challange you. No matter who you are and where you go, you will face many obstacles but you will also learn and grow in many ways.
So remind yourself that the end of a chapter is not the end of your world, but the beginning of a new one. Give up on any sort of limiting beliefs you hold about yourself and your life:
Beliefs that make you feel stuck. Beliefs that are holding you back from living a meaningful, peaceful and happy life.
Every time you wake up in the morning, you always have two choices, either to be happy or to be sad, whichever choice you choose will determine how your day will go.
Whatever dominates your mind dominates your life. Think positive thoughts, and you will live a positive life.
You will only be as happy as you choose to be. Choose happiness and everything needed to make it so will fall in place. Even if it doesn't, there's no better way to live than to intentionally maintain a happy state of mind, for it draws to you the best things of life, much more than you can find.
GOOD MORNING DEAR LOVELY FELLOWS
HERE IS A REMINDER FOR YOU:
This is for those of you feeling alone, bearing a burden that feels too heavy to carry. Those that have been let down, disappointed or thrown a curve ball by life, by your circumstances, by people you love, or maybe even by your own choices.
For those who are in the middle of something and you don't know what to do or where to go or who to trust, For those who feel helpless, frustrated, anxious and isolated. Just remember you are worth more, you deserve better and you are just as important as anyone else....
You are gonna be okay.
I may not know what the future holds but I do know that you are not alone. You are not forgotten. This will not last forever. YOU WILL MAKE IT THROUGH.
Many of the people who have deeply hurt you probably don't deserve your forgiveness. And if you are holding a grudge against them, that's absolutely understandable because no one other than yourself knows the amount and level of pain they inflicted on you.
But if there's something I have learned throughout the years is that forgiveness is never about the other person. It's a decision one makes to take their power back and liberate themselves from the prison of bitterness.
Just remember that while you are so angry at them, they are out there living their lives, not worried about you. You have to find a way to move on in order to heal from that hurt. Holding onto anger is certain not the way out.
SELF LOVE
Think about someone you really love and care about, someone who means alot to you and everything you would do for them. if you could give them the world.
Just pause and think about that person if anyone comes in mind .
Now replace the image of that person with yourself. And Start giving all that love and kindness, to yourself. That's Self Love.
Love others but don't neglect or put yourself last, you owe yourself compassion, love, respect, patience, and kindness. Please give it to yourself. You need it.
@KatinessEverdeen
