@ZehraSky
Move, it's your path
As I have shared before, we were one of those families before that had enough money only for sustaining our daily needs. I can clearly remember how I felt like while I am seeing my cousins eating delicious food in one request from their parents. I can't count how many times I had wish to be in their place. That was when I was younger. I thought when I grow up, I will care less on other's plate but I was wrong. There were still times where I would wish that I was born wealthy who can get her own car, branded bags and her own house. I guess being insecure is what I'm best on doing, before. When I see people at my age being a lot advanced in life, I would think of "I wish" and "What ifs". But as I experienced life and reality, I came to realized that a simple achievement is still an achievement. And their success was not made overnight. We have to learn that those who are living comfortably are not always on top. There were also times in their lives where they have to struggle to reach wherever they are in life now. When you open your eyes to reality, you will start to focus on your own game. I always reminded my self to never compare a 30 years old achievement to my progress. For they have also encountered sleepless nights to achieve whereever they are at the moment. So let's be happy to those who post their success online, may it be through gadgets or promotion, for it is their way of being proud to the fruit of their hardwork. If we take our insecurities to challenge, then we will be more eager to win the game. I have been confinded by a colleague of my mine, wherein at his age he felt that he was left behind. I do felt that way before but I came to realize that someones success corresponds to their own failure and struggle. So when I got asked by this colleague of mine how am I not feeling envy with people who can travel and buy the things they want, just like what he felt, I told him to never compare his steps to other. May it be a individual his age or younger even older. All of us struggles to be where we at right now. At our own phase, we will get there. Keep moving forward. **Thank you for reading this article!** If you want to read some more articles of mine, I have monthly summaries here: ****October 2021 Articles Summary**** https://read.cash/@ZehraSky/october-2021-articles-summary-1293a999 ****September 2021 Articles Summary**** https://read.cash/@ZehraSky/september-2021-articles-summary-7febda16 ****August 2021 Articles Summary**** https://read.cash/@ZehraSky/august-2021-articles-summary-cb068f97 ****July 2021 Articles Summary**** https://read.cash/@ZehraSky/july-2021-articles-summary-fc106569 ****June 2021 Articles Summary**** https://read.cash/@ZehraSky/june-2021-articles-summary-baeb334f ****May 2021 Articles Summary**** https://read.cash/@ZehraSky/may-2021-articles-summary-5ba6d0c7 To show my appreciation for the support that I have been receiving, please accept a small gift I prepared for the first reader. https://branch.wallet.bitcoin.com/k1HKJHyrolb
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We wouldn't achieve anything if we're being insecure at someone's success. Well have to work for it to get what we want. And we don't know what they've been through just to achieve those things.
everyone is born with a purpose from God, when we are born simply in a family we understand more about how to struggle to survive, be grateful for what we have because God has planned the best for us, as long as we always try.
Exactly! You cannot be called a successful one if you don't struggle. If i will be question, i will answer that a success from my hardwork will last long over than the success that our family gave. This is our lives so we need to move individually. No matter how hard life was before, when we set our vision then we could grow and as you said we can be eager to win the game.
No pain, no gain. Elders say so. That's why I support your words dear. Well said.
True never compare yourself to others because it blocks you to be able to achieve what they had. For you to have that you should be a great thinker and not a envious one. It's common for us to be envious of someone but it's better to transform your envious into motivation so that you will be able to achieve what they had now.
Right up challenge to ourselves ~Manju
Maybe you are the sister ☺nice meeting you Manju.