Are you starting to doubt the journey you're taking? Almost in the verge of stopping? Are you regretting leaving? Do you still think about the what ifs? Dear, trust me, everything you're going through right now are worth it. From the pain to the struggle, everything has it's reason. Never think of going back again to place that used to be your hell. Be strong to stand with your choice. Never discredit your suffering to be where you at right now. You are almost there, almost to get better. Do not go back to a safe side that done nothing but breaks you.
I actually broke down days ago. I felt overwhelmed for an unknown reason. I am grateful that I have work, but I felt tired. I am happy but I think there's something missing. I started to miss what I am before but I am thankful to who I am right now. These contradicting thoughts bombarded my mind like grenade. I kept hearing those voices and kept fighting back, until crying is my only option. Maybe it is a late reaction for my red days syndrome.
I cried silently during work because I felt like quitting. I don't know why but this is the easiest work I had have but I don't feel that this is the right place that I'm looking at for growth. I am too scared to move forward because I felt that I might lose something I will never get back. I know I'm happy. I know I'm ok, I just don't know why do I missed the thought of being cared of. My vulnerability is starting to show its color again, but I can't be weak for I am the eldest on the family, I have to be strong.
Lately, we've encountered problems that might trigger these thoughts that I have. Adding to that is, I no longer have time to be alone because my sibling started to live with me. I just want peace and time to think for myself and settle whatever's bugging me. I will never disregard how hard I fought just to be here, I won a lot of battle. I guess I just got carried away by how fast changing my work is right now. From its metrics down to schedule changes, made me felt tired of being controlled and can't do anything about it because they are my bosses. I am slowly adjusting to the change and good thing is I started to have a clear mind.
I want to confide my problem to someone, but I don't think I'll ever grow if I still think of being dependent to someone whenever I faced a problem. I don't want to fall inlove out of vulnerability. So sorry to those I ghosted because I'm still trying to be the best version of myself. When I'm ready, I do not expect you to be there, but I want to tell you that I don't enter a relationship half assed, for the sake of both of us. You'll find the girl who can reciprocate the love you give. Not the person who still has issues on her own.
To whomever there that is overthinking the same way I do. Those who can't even say it clear, I am with you. It's ok, where gonna get through this just like how we never thought we were before. It's ok to cry, to be sad and missed the past, eveything will be worth it. The best is yet to come. Keep fighting, brave soul.
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I can relate to this article, and your true that sometimes we lose our courage. I experienced that kind of situation especially on this pandemic that many of us have a financial problem. And any kind of problem that you might think that there is no solution. And suddenly you will ask yourself. Did I deserve all of these?