Signs That Your Romantic Relationship Won't Last ….. (2)
" there is no perfect relationship, everyone is struggling with a demon, don't let the happy faces or couples holding hands at the mall confuse you…. Dr. Wrinkle.
This is a continuation of the series I started yesterday about being watchful for signs in your relationship which will make it not last. Everyone wants a happy relationship, as people are tired of moving from one unstable one to another.
Here are signs to watch out for, in a relationship that won't last;
6) Lack of Trust : Trust is like a padlock that opens other version of your partner. When this key is misplaced, getting into such a room is always difficult unless the lock is destroyed. Same is compared to a relationship when either of the partner is feeling insecured. Your partner begins to question your every move, reading your chats and receiving your calls. He/she becomes uncomfortable when the opposite gender calls you. Tries to check up on you whenever you arenot around, though this could be mistaken for love at the early stage, but with time you will get to know how serious this issue could be. Lack of trust breeds insecurity.
7) Constant Fights : The main ingredient in a relationship is misunderstanding but when it becomes too much and too draining, it becomes a thing you should worry about. I didn't say quarrels aren't part of a relationship, in fact worry more if your partner doesn't quarrel with you. It means they are not being sincere with you.
Even the happiest couples do fight, but what differentiates theirs is when they fix it that same day. Whereas in your own case, you do have long and endless fights, which saps and drain you constantly. It is not a good signal, its either your relationship will end or it has already ended.
8) Treats Others Rudely : How is this really a thing of concern right ? It is and it should be considered as one. Your partner's true character is displayed with his dealings with others. Especially people of low level like waiters, taxi drivers and gas attendants. If they constantly yells, treat others badly or a rude to them, then it is a signal when you are in the right phase, you won't like how he will treat you. Your partner can't be rude to others without doing same to you, then something isn't right, if it happens that way. They are hiding their true behavior from you.
9) Wrong Timing : This is another signal your relationship won't last, if your partner's goal and yours are conflicting, then worry about your relationship. When they are still too focus on their career, studies or business, then the timing of the relationship wasn't appropriate, especially when they see it as a waste of time or something done so they won't hurt you. Relationships were meant to be valued, though am not saying, valued above your self development.
10) Serial Cheaters : How do you intend to cope in such a relationship where your partner keeps on being a jerk. Cheating is a more serious factor in our world today, relationships are destroyed by it regularly. Having multiple partners is a sign of dishonesty, lack of respect and will reduce the trust level to a minimum.
Conclusion
Perfection is a myth and shouldn't be looked for in a relationship, but that doesn't mean things shouldn't be done the right way in our relationship. Always be on the lookout for constant red flags, if they are solvable you discuss it with your partner, if they are not, it's better to walk away while you could or stand to bear the pains of moving on.
Do have a lovely day.
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Hey, hope you are doing well.
This write-up is so accurate. Live in a society where once you fall in love then there is no way back up. It's the will to be continued till the last breath or end up in form of a breakup after making a thousand fake promises to never leave you alone in any situation but still, they went coz their peace is ruined when your partner cares for you or wants a little attention. Constant fights without any reason will make your life hell but still, it's hurt afterward.
I have one question mam. When we love someone and care for them and in return back, we want a little attention so how can we ruin someone's mental peace? Share your point of view on this.