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Signs That Your Romantic Relationship Won't Last ….. (2) 

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" there is no perfect relationship, everyone is struggling with a demon, don't let the happy faces or couples holding hands at the mall confuse you…. Dr. Wrinkle.

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This is a continuation of the series I started yesterday about being watchful for signs in your relationship which will make it not last. Everyone wants a happy relationship, as people are tired of moving from one unstable one to another.

Here are signs to watch out for, in a relationship that won't last; 

6) Lack of Trust : Trust is like a padlock that opens other version of your partner. When this key is misplaced, getting into such a room is always difficult unless the lock is destroyed. Same is compared to a relationship when either of the partner is feeling insecured. Your partner begins to question your every move, reading your chats and receiving your calls. He/she becomes uncomfortable when the opposite gender calls you. Tries to check up on you whenever you arenot around, though this could be mistaken for love at the early stage, but with time you will get to know how serious this issue could be. Lack of trust breeds insecurity. 

7) Constant Fights : The main ingredient in a relationship is misunderstanding but when it becomes too much and too draining, it becomes a thing you should worry about. I didn't say quarrels aren't part of a relationship, in fact worry more if your partner doesn't quarrel with you. It means they are not being sincere with you. 

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Even the happiest couples do fight, but what differentiates theirs is when they fix it that same day. Whereas in your own case, you do have long and endless fights, which saps and drain you constantly. It is not a good signal, its either your relationship will end or it has already ended.

8) Treats Others Rudely : How is this really a thing of concern right ? It is and it should be considered as one. Your partner's true character is displayed with his dealings with others. Especially people of low level like waiters, taxi drivers and gas attendants. If they constantly yells, treat others badly or a rude to them, then it is a signal when you are in the right phase, you won't like how he will treat you. Your partner can't be rude to others without doing same to you, then something isn't right, if it happens that way. They are hiding their true behavior from you.

9) Wrong Timing : This is another signal your relationship won't last,  if your partner's goal and yours are conflicting, then worry about your relationship. When they are still too focus on their career, studies or business, then the timing of the relationship wasn't appropriate, especially when they see it as a waste of time or something done so they won't hurt you. Relationships were meant to be valued, though am not saying, valued above your self development.

10) Serial Cheaters : How do you intend to cope in such a relationship where your partner keeps on being a jerk. Cheating is a more serious factor in our world today, relationships are destroyed by it regularly.  Having multiple partners is a sign of dishonesty, lack of respect and will reduce the trust level to a minimum.

Conclusion

Perfection is a myth and shouldn't be looked for in a relationship, but that doesn't mean things shouldn't be done the right way in our relationship. Always be on the lookout for constant red flags, if they are solvable you discuss it with your partner, if they are not, it's better to walk away while you could or stand to bear the pains of moving on.

Do have a lovely day.


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Hey, hope you are doing well.

This write-up is so accurate. Live in a society where once you fall in love then there is no way back up. It's the will to be continued till the last breath or end up in form of a breakup after making a thousand fake promises to never leave you alone in any situation but still, they went coz their peace is ruined when your partner cares for you or wants a little attention. Constant fights without any reason will make your life hell but still, it's hurt afterward.

I have one question mam. When we love someone and care for them and in return back, we want a little attention so how can we ruin someone's mental peace? Share your point of view on this.

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2 months ago

Really sorry I didn't see this, giving someone attention and care and wanting same treatment in return, isn't a form of greed or being after their mental peace for me..we are all humans and we also crave attention. If your partner complains of you disturbing their mental peace, you need to figure out what the problem is, could be they are going through emotional setback or having a difficult time. But if you later discover, they are fine and no issues with them. I think you also need to be cautious of your mental health too... Love is a two way thing..

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1 month ago

There is no perfect relationship, everything and everyone has flaws and make mistakes. I'm strongly agree with you! everything that you mentioned are truly signs that a relationship won't last. So see to it that these red flags should be addressed and solved by the two of you if want to work it all out, if not, better let go of that and move on.

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2 months ago

Well said dear, but it will shock you to know, a lot of people even after seeing all the glaring signs, still continue in the relationship with hope of their partner turning a new leaf

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1 month ago

Hehe , i can agree you're 101℅ correct

Says a guy who's romantic relationship ended because of lack of trust, constant fights.

It was not good for my mental health so i did what was necessary.

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2 months ago

Sorry for your past relationship, why not give love a chance again?

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2 months ago

It always end up badly but well hope so someone will fall in love with me and me as well.

For now, i found happiness being alone

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2 months ago

I understand that feelings sir..I wish you the best

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2 months ago

I really agree with you that having any of these red flags is definitely an announcement of an ending relationship soon

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2 months ago

And to avoid being hurt be watchful will save us a lot of heartaches

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2 months ago

Most Filipinas are martyrs, they still stay in relationships despite the red flags.

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2 months ago

Haha hahaha😂😂😂.. I pray they learn from their mistakes

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2 months ago

They will definitely my dear sis, after thousands of heartbreaks lol

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2 months ago

If we treat others rudely no matter even if we are treating nicely with our partner it will create gap between both partners

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2 months ago

Yes you are right, that is why it is necessary to check out how your partner treat others

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2 months ago

Whaoo.. I really enjoyed read this. But some times, girls usually just start up a fight to feel happy about their relationship partner, not that they fight constantly. But it kinda make them happy in a way.. Weird

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2 months ago

Sorry, I just wanna laugh because it is sometimes true. I think girls like that are immature.

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2 months ago

😊😊 Maybe. But I really dont like a nagging girlfriend

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2 months ago

That does suck lol.

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2 months ago

Really weird how someone will start a fight when they was nothing to fight about

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2 months ago

Well, it is believe it makes the relationship more interesting

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2 months ago

I doubt if it really does, it could send wrong signals to your partner that you are troublesome

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2 months ago

Yeah, that's true too

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2 months ago

I would even say that lack of trust would make every other negative traits to manifest like being spoken to rudely, constants fights and terrible timing in addressing issues. Trust should be the foundation and once it's missing, it would take a lot to make things right.

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2 months ago

Yes sir, you are very correct t when trust is gone in a relationship then every other negative traits follows. Am grateful you stopped by

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2 months ago

I'm happy to read this wonderful content. You nailed it and relationship talks always get me excited 😍😍😍😍🥰🤩

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2 months ago

🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

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2 months ago

🤗🤗🤗😘😘😘

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2 months ago

If a relationship is a Christ-centered one, there would be no reason that the relationship won't last. If Christ is in the center of a particular affiliation with girl or boy, things such as lack of trust, constant fights, treating each other rudely, wrong time and cheating will not exist. My grandmother, who passed away last month, reminded us to engage in a Christ-centered relationship to avoid conflicts. Nice context. Stay safe and see you around.

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2 months ago

In a world without faith, there is nothing that can work. The key to a healthy relationship, as you pointed out, is trust. When trust is lost, the relationship will collapse..

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2 months ago

Lack of trust and constant fighting are basic two things during my first break up. We should have to understand the situation and must trust to each other if we want our relationship get success. Your second part is best regarding guidance of young couple.

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2 months ago

I don't think there is perfection in a relationship either, in fact I question too much if there is an eternal love, because for a relationship to work there has to be work and not everyone is willing to work forever, many times it becomes a habit.

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2 months ago

When trust is gone, then nothing works again. Just like you said, trust is like a master key to a good relationship. Even the casual Relationship that's all about pleasure, when trust disappears, the relationship scatters

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2 months ago

In relationships it's really important to be kind on each other. If you don't treat each with love and trust the relationship will be ended

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2 months ago

I experienced everything you just listed there and my relationship didn't last, I wish I came across this article few months earlier..maybe I would have been more careful

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2 months ago

Cheating and lack of trust is my greatest turn off in relationship. Some things can be endured but that of cheating is something else to deal with. Nice one

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